Is it wrong to want to watch my husband fuck another guy?

[fantasy_couple-uk]

For as long as I can remember I have had a rather strange fantasy of seeing another guy suck my husband off and see him fuck another guy. Obviously, I couldn't keep this as a fantasy any longer and made it reality some time ago.

So my question is, am I the only girl on the planet that loves watching their husband do this? Are you a girlfriend/wife that shares the same fantasy or am I just a bit strange? Let me know what you think please am interested.

J

[chapear]

No its not wrong and you're not the only one. My gf likes to watch. There are quite a few others that like to watch also.

[FredinSJ]

You could buy a famous T SHIRT:
"It's not cheating if my wife watches!"
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Actually some people get turned ON by various stimuli, visual, aural, tactile and brainy. As long as it's not illegal, harmful or fattening, why not catch up with your female peers and enjoy the SHOW?

I'll bet the 2 guys enjoy SHOWING OFF to you!
........ Prepare all the players so there's no surprise and you'll be amazed.... it's better than a porn movie when you know and love the players!

........ Finally, if it makes you feel better, you the wife or gf could playfully INSIST that your 2 guys play, man 2 man.... and their reward is, they both get to fuck you at once! Enjoy...
.......FredInSJ

[bigbadmax]

my wife loves to watch me suck cock...espesh if i swallow his load and then kiss her with spunk in my mouth.

wife often encourages gay blokes to be sucked off bi me and watched by her!

so in essence this is a good thing!

p

[rochester69ny]

No it's not wrong... I wish my wife were like you.

[NEPHX]

For as long as I can remember I have had a rather strange fantasy of seeing another guy suck my husband off and see him fuck another guy. Obviously, I couldn't keep this as a fantasy any longer and made it reality some time ago.

So my question is, am I the only girl on the planet that loves watching their husband do this? Are you a girlfriend/wife that shares the same fantasy or am I just a bit strange? Let me know what you think please am interested.

J
My current (male) and my x ( female) (we were a triad) and a number of women in couples I have dated always want to watch and/or participate. That's one of the best parts of it all for many in a couple (me included) :tong:

Often called compersion: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compersion

[Michigan_cpl]

no you are not wrong for wanting what you want to come true.
my wife loves to see me suck other men's cock's and also for me to take anal.
she offten watches and take photos of me doing what i do best.
yes my wife is always included.:bipride:

[welickit]

My wife not only watches but she takes pictures. Enjoying being bi together is really a fun life.:bipride:

[cornholejoe]

the people i have sex with are married and the wifes love to watch the men do one another

[xxxbicuriouswoman]

just wanted to say I certainly hope it's not wrong to want to watch your husband get fucked. My husband and I have had some fantastic nights using this particular fantasy. :bigrin: and we would like to make it a reality.

[stungun]

Nothing wrong about sharing the best of both worlds.
Glad it turns you on so much! He's a very lucky husband!!

[innaminka]

Nothing wrong at all.
Many married men have a fanatasy of seeing their wife with another woman (whether she wants to or not) - so why shouldn't a female fantasise about the same thing?

At least you haven't kept it a secret and acted upon it.

remember, nothing consensual and legal that gives the particapnts happiness is really bad

[sdnaustin]

I keep hoping my wife will rediscover that desire...when we first dated she said she wanted to see me get fucked by a man, but we didn't act before becoming parents...now she says that was just fantasy and should be dropped...damn.

[softfruit]

Absolutely what I was going to say, innaminka!

In many of the countries represented on here, society has a peculiar double-standard about this with it being OK for men to have as a fantasy but not OK for women.

[PassionatePhD]

Hey, baby, I think it's wonderful if a couple wants to share this together. My wife supports me in so many ways but has never consented to us having a fun time together with another guy. Nothing would be more fun, though, and I still hope for it one day! :cool:

[raistkit]

as others have said absolutely not. there are lots of us ladies out there who find mm play arousing, trouble is we don't get together to talk about it . can't exactly do lunch with the girls, and say " i love watching two guys get it on" :)

kit

p.s.: wish we could:2cents:

[NEPHX]

..... can't exactly do lunch with the girls, and say " i love watching two guys get it on" :) ....
p.s.: wish we could:2cents:

Why not?? Maybe you're having lunch with the wrong "girrls" or maybe they're saying the same thing you are (above) :tong:

[nyman70]

My wife loves to watch me give another man a blow job. We have also both given a guy a blow job together. She said it was an amazing turn on. :tongue:

[etncple]

My wife wasn't sure how she would feel seeing me with another male but was open minded about it, and after watching for about 5 minutes she was so turned on she jumped in to help...lol. If you both enjoy it, go for it :tongue:

[Magic Couple]

:bipride:My wife and I have had a couple of threesomes and loved it. She has loved watching me suck other guys. We have not had the pleasure of me fucking another guy for her or getting fuckd by another guy yet. but we can not wait. We did have one foursome but the couple we where with was not very much fun. I say go for it if your into it.:bibounce:

[open2both]

WRONG???
HELL no!
My gf is a little on the "don't-wanna-share-you-with-TOO-many-others" but she's a trooper and will go-with-the flow.

[yubaspirit]

No, it's fucking HOT!

[ejmichaels]

There are already plenty of answers to support loving this hot scene, but in case anyone is counting, I'll add my vote.

[Feast]

It's so NOT wrong !!! I can only marry a lady like you ! Thanks for giving me hope !!!

[ghw132]

For as long as I can remember I have had a rather strange fantasy of seeing another guy suck my husband off and see him fuck another guy. Obviously, I couldn't keep this as a fantasy any longer and made it reality some time ago.

So my question is, am I the only girl on the planet that loves watching their husband do this? Are you a girlfriend/wife that shares the same fantasy or am I just a bit strange? Let me know what you think please am interested.

J

My wife and I had sex with one of her old boyfriends from college, nothing bi-sexual, just we two guys taking turns with her. We guys enjoyed watching each other. The next time we got together she told us that she would like to watch us have oral and anal sex and we both admitted we had the same fantasy and we performed for her. It turned her on so much, that she orgasmed while watching us, and then with each of us. After that we started each session with her watching. Watching, whether it is her or him is fantastic, enjoy it. I believe it to be very normal

[redbadger99]

I'm sitting here on my computer reading all of your posts to my wife.
I would love to have her watch me and another guy suck and fuck each other.
She says that would take pictures, but would not join in. I told her that was fine. And if she felt the desire after watching us, she could particapate in any way she wanted.

Her question is where did you find the other guy ?

[drwilsontx]

For as long as I can remember I have had a rather strange fantasy of seeing another guy suck my husband off and see him fuck another guy. Obviously, I couldn't keep this as a fantasy any longer and made it reality some time ago.

So my question is, am I the only girl on the planet that loves watching their husband do this? Are you a girlfriend/wife that shares the same fantasy or am I just a bit strange? Let me know what you think please am interested.

J
uh, no.

[dutchmale]

For as long as I can remember I have had a rather strange fantasy of seeing another guy suck my husband off and see him fuck another guy. Obviously, I couldn't keep this as a fantasy any longer and made it reality some time ago.

So my question is, am I the only girl on the planet that loves watching their husband do this? Are you a girlfriend/wife that shares the same fantasy or am I just a bit strange? Let me know what you think please am interested.

J

i wish my wife thought like that ;)

seriously its only weird or wrong if you think so

and then again fantasies are great right :cool:

i mean if some people would hounestly tell their fantasies their partners would go like >> :eek:

:bigrin:

conclusion i think its great you think like that and its not wrong

[crazy_cat_lady]

hell no your not the only one with this fantasy. I want to see my bf fuck another guy or visa versa very badly. I also wanted to see of listen too my bf fuck another woman which I got to expereince which was sooo hot. must be the voyerist in me.:bigrin:

[luv2play8899]

I wish my wife was into watching, or being watched.
We did some swap stuff with another couple once, she couldnt deal with
the feelings it gave her. She has jealousy issues, which are a waste of emotion but not something one can 'fix' for someone else.
I would be happy to have just another guy play with her and not have any interaction with him or any other woman...I'd enjoy watching her be pleasured...but even that is a definite no go.

[MidMichCouple]

Hell no it's not wrong. Nothing makes me hotter than watching my husband with another guy, OMG!!!!!!!! :bigrin:

[mutt&jeff]

Well, I would have to say you are a bit strange!!! I am just kidding! Although we are rare, there are a few of us who enjoy watching our men be pleasured and giving pleasure. It's like giving a gift, so to speak. When my husband makes love to me and make me feel good I want him to feel the same pleasures as I do, I want to share the gift that we were given. To me it is erotic, sensual and just beautiful. I feel there is nothing like it in the world when two people so in love can share them selves with another person no matter if they are male or female. I would also like to congratulate you on not keeping this a fantasy, and sharing this with your husband. We welcome you into a new sexual realm - that of the bi sexual world. Have fun and be safe. Mutt&Jeff

[Zamaria]

You aren't alone! I would love to watch my husband with another man.

[elian]

No - if you and your husband both agree and everyone is disease free then I don't see a problem with it.

[NEPHX]

No - if you and your husband both agree and everyone is disease free then I don't see a problem with it.

It's not alright for this person to want to watch her husband if someone involved is not disease-free? (I suppose "they" must have labels now?) :eek:

[nudistharry]

I keep hoping my wife will rediscover that desire...when we first dated she said she wanted to see me get fucked by a man, but we didn't act before becoming parents...now she says that was just fantasy and should be dropped...damn.

Same thing here. My wife wanted to watch me & another man. But now it's just "an old fantasy" that she doesn't want to see happen.

[Paragon]

Hell no it's not wrong. Nothing makes me hotter than watching my husband with another guy, OMG!!!!!!!! :bigrin:

This smacks of trolling. To ask on a bi site if its wrong to want to watch something most members would probably support is trollish.

Does no one else get this sense?

[weskain77]

No, it's not wrong at all.... as long as you share the delicious pictures. ;)

[anubis]

For as long as I can remember I have had a rather strange fantasy of seeing another guy suck my husband off and see him fuck another guy. Obviously, I couldn't keep this as a fantasy any longer and made it reality some time ago.

So my question is, am I the only girl on the planet that loves watching their husband do this? Are you a girlfriend/wife that shares the same fantasy or am I just a bit strange? Let me know what you think please am interested.

J

my wife also wants to watch me fuck and get fucked by another man or a shemale. and to tell the truth until i met her i alway wondered what it would be like but never really acted on it

[AmberNMike2010]

I believe it is okay to watch your husband fuck another guy. In fact it turns me on. yes I still want to join in but there is nothing wrong with watching your husband!!

[bizel]

can't get this out of my head, you bad bunny! you've given me my latest fantasy. my hubby on all fours being screwed by another man, and me watching sitting in sexy lingerie with a camera, taking photos and a little video. getting so hot, i may even let my hubby chew on my boob or pash me deeply while he's building up to a massive orgasm. HOT, HOT, HOT!

Nothing wrong with that!

[kutag]

What a great woman you are,I wish my wife was like you.I would love to be the guy!!!!

[ironwood]

I do not think it is wrong either.I wish my wife felt the same way.She has known i am bi for 2 years now.She is very confused by the whole thing.We just started talking again about it for her to understand it more.I am trying to get her to come her and talk with others who are in or have been in the same situation.I would never push her to do anything she doesn't want to but want to keep our relationship open and honest.You are a wonderful women and i applaud you.I know my marriage is very strong and we will work through this.

[roz009]

i wish my gf was into it. I would love her to watch me sucking another guys cock and him fucking me.
i would love to lick her pussy at the same time!
Though I have to be honest, I would love two penises at once!
:tongue:

[kcatthegreat]

Nah. I fantasize about this too, but my husband is very straight and has no interest in men.

[kcatthegreat]

Nah doesn't really seem trollish to me.

[ccbicpl]

GO FOR IT BABY!!!! There is nothing wrong with it...in fact I think most couples would love to do lot of their fantasies but they never act on them. As long as the two of you are comfortable and there isn't any jealousy I say...Enjoy, lifes is way too short.
My husband and I love to share another man. I gets me sooooo wet watching my husband and another man suck and fuck each other. We have an awesome friend that we are sharing right now and he is incredible. Now if we can just find a bi girl from me too lol. Good luck.

[bluebay]

GO FOR IT BABY!!!! There is nothing wrong with it...in fact I think most couples would love to do lot of their fantasies but they never act on them. As long as the two of you are comfortable and there isn't any jealousy I say...Enjoy, lifes is way too short.
My husband and I love to share another man. I gets me sooooo wet watching my husband and another man suck and fuck each other. We have an awesome friend that we are sharing right now and he is incredible. Now if we can just find a bi girl from me too lol. Good luck.

Me too :tongue:

[nervana]

For as long as I can remember I have had a rather strange fantasy of seeing another guy suck my husband off and see him fuck another guy. Obviously, I couldn't keep this as a fantasy any longer and made it reality some time ago.

So my question is, am I the only girl on the planet that loves watching their husband do this? Are you a girlfriend/wife that shares the same fantasy or am I just a bit strange? Let me know what you think please am interested.

J
i think its normale if u and he want that . some time i do that with my wife and some time i play with her BDSM and every day chang my still with her to enjoy. u can sent to me in my email ( coprasnakshark@yahoo.com)

[Jade Li]

Wrong, maybe, but more common than you think!

[like2bepegged]

I am sitting here with my wife, and she says its fine. if it feels good ,do it. Later she will be fantisizing that while she is banging me with her strap on.

[member4u]

I've never been pegged before but dying to try it. You are one lucky guy who can have the best of both worlds, I hope you enjoyed your session with the wife...

[member4u]

different strokes for different folks is all I can say but if it gives you pleasure wheres the harm in it. I'd luv you to watch him fucking me then when he is done he can watch you peg me while I blow him.... Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm that would be heaven for me...
have fun guys... X

[wilbert]

I think a lot about meeting a coulpe laying naked on a bed letting her ,hubby fuck me till he explose in my ass. or doing him as she watches.;)

[Meliss]

It is one thing to say she has jealousy issues and think you have the emotion understood. I read somewhere that Jealousy can have four causes of which one is fear. Fear of being abandoned perhaps. Some women say they can compete with another woman, but not with another man.

[matutum]

no it is not>would u mind if he watched u fuck with another woman?

[twoforone16]

My wife takes pictures of me with other guys. Some times she joins in and some times she doesn't it is always up to her. She does NOT like me with other women whick I canlive with as keeping her happpy is a joyfull full job. I do get hard watching her with other guys

[bi4asplay]

I love ladies with this fantasy. I was very lucky that my late wife made it happen for me the first time. We played often over the next 10 years. Most of those times with the same 3 other couples that were with us the first time.Most of the ladies that I have been with for any length of time since, also got into it. It is something I need in a relationship. It is a beautiful thing to share. I also love a lady that enjoys using a strap on. I am not into guys alone, but am very turned on when both are playing.

[centillini]

God know, I think a lady watching as I am with a guy would be so hot, one of my ultimate fantasies, actually, keep it up, wink.

[Bishyguy1958]

I know of at least one female who confessed to me that she masturbates to gay porn, and one even wants to watch ME with another guy! Sadly, my wife is NOT one of them!

Like a few others here, I REALLY wish my wife would get interested enough to let me have gay sex in front of her!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol Hell no its not wrong. Especially if both of you like/love it. And Especially if you can get pulled into the mix at some time or another. Then its Wonderful!:three:
Cat

[BICURIOUSONE69]

just wanted to say I certainly hope it's not wrong to want to watch your husband get fucked. My husband and I have had some fantastic nights using this particular fantasy. :bigrin: and we would like to make it a reality.I'm willing to make that a reality for you.

[Apleasureseeker]

So many women i know desperately want to see their guy with another guy, but they don't admit it, and it's sad because so many guys would be so relieved to be able to do it and protect their masculinity by saying "I only did it for her."

A lot of women fear that if their guy does suck a cock and likes it, he'll become less masculine in her eyes. This is like the guy who talks his girl into eating a pussy and then thinks she's a slut because he feels inadequate.

[*pan*]

no your not the only one , i know guys who like to watch their wives with woman or men, this is called voyeurism.. you enjoy watching someone having sex. there are even groups that chat about such things i would think. it seems there are groups for everything on the net now a days lol. i have seen advertisements before where a guy wanted to watch his wife have sex with someone else. and if you check the profiles on here you will probibly find some one wanting the same thing. so i assure you your not alone. i had a wife who like to have sex with me and another bisexual man who was interested in both.

[bi4asplay]

Magic
If the two of you ever decide for her to see you fuck another guy give me a yell.

[hikerinthebuff]

That's a thought I have a lot as I am playing on bed with my wife. But I have to restrain and keep it to myself, for she want not even to talk about trying a threesome at all.
I wonder what is the way a straight couple have to change their habits from traditional boredom to another kind of love within marriage's boundaries.
The fist time I asked her let me her asshole she showed me such a fierce frown that my dick went suddenly down. Can you imagine how harsh it could be if I mention what a wonderful it'd be, having someone else into our big brass bed ?.

I personally think there's nothing wrong if several souls wanna get love, games and sex in between...just only we must obey the golden rule and let our bodies and feeling get some fun, thrill, and be over the moon.

[willscox]

My wife would kill me if she knew I sucked cock but I would definitely like for her to loosen up and give it a try. Sex is a definite turn-off for her.

[BareProf]

As former swingers, I thrilled watching my then Hot Wife getting fucked by different guys, loved watching her glow as a gal went down on her. In one encounter another guy briefly sucked me. She saw and said it excited her. For a long time when we fucked she'd raise the level of my excitement by telling me how another guy in our bed for me to suck and be sucked by would be hot. Now at 56 she says no to all sex whether between us or with swinger couples and guys. Terribly depressing. I'm looking for a bi guy here for my fun with him. Oh, the question! No it's not wrong. Millions of guys want to see their wife have sex with another woman. Why can't women have the reverse desire?

[Realist]

It's sad to see lovers, who began their journey on such a positive note, later veer off their original course.

They often then go their separate ways....the old electricity is no longer there. What are they to do, when their passions are no longer the same?

I've been married 3 times, but still don't know how that happens!

[bi4asplay]

Why can I not find a lady like you? I would be in love forever!

[mr.beaver]

Hell no. I think your an amazing person to let him have sex with a man. Still loving him and wanting him regardless of his sexual wants. I love you. Watch him fuck me in the asshole please

[stonebow]

I wish my wife was into watching, or being watched.
We did some swap stuff with another couple once, she couldnt deal with
the feelings it gave her. She has jealousy issues, which are a waste of emotion but not something one can 'fix' for someone else.
I would be happy to have just another guy play with her and not have any interaction with him or any other woman...I'd enjoy watching her be pleasured...but even that is a definite no go.
Why do you think she'd not be receptive to the idea of you watching her with another man?

[madwolf]

no your not wrong i just wish i had a wife or G/F that wanted to see me pound a boy butt or get pounded its happened before just not in a long time. the one i have now will have no part of it

[hamster1941]

now i really enjoyed reading all the postthat was always my biggest thing to see and my girlfriend wont have anything to do with it . wish i could find people in wisconsin willing i love sucking on a nice hard cock

[csreef]

lol Hell no its not wrong. Especially if both of you like/love it. And Especially if you can get pulled into the mix at some time or another. Then its Wonderful!:three:
Cat

^^^ ​What the Cat said!

[redngoldpride]

Wrong , no I know more than a few married couples where the wife loves watching us guys first taking pictures while I feed him my big hard cock or just letting him feast all he wants by the time I am fucking him deep sroking his tight warm hole I love it to see her touching herself , seeing her so wet for three of these couples she will not take her turn at all until he has sucked my load and has one in his butt ......... Couples who play together are so much fun

[Stinger78]

Absolutely not!

Hello and good day, fantasy_couple-uk! The answer to your question is a firm, 'No.'. No, your feeling and your fantasy are not 'wrong' in any way, shape, or form. In fact, my opinion on the matter is to push it. Try n' see about bringing this up to your husband. I understand that bringing up the topic might prove to be a bit difficult, or awkward. I would suggest starting off by telling him that what you're about to ask of him is something he might be opposed to, and very well may make him feel a bit uncomfortable. I say this because, (you don't have to use my words verbatim....) before you bring up the core topic, I'd advise saying something to him that acknowledge his feelings and how he might react to what you've got to say.

Tell him that this is something that has been on your mind for quite some time now. Re-enforce the fact that this isn't just some fleeting thought. I think if you're able to find a way to mention your fantasy to him, tell him that this is something that really turns you on, that maybe, just maybe,....it'll becomem more rthan just fantasy, Take care& good luck to you!

Darren Pierazek
Albuquerque, NM

[MissRina]

Nope not wrong at all, I'm like that too.

[George51]

My wife has said that the thought of another man fucking me excites her. She has suggested a couple of gay men she has known. I do rather like the idea, but I would prefer someone a bit more anonymous perhaps. I don't know if the idea will get anywhere. But it is a good one.

[bityme]

My wife has said that the thought of another man fucking me excites her. She has suggested a couple of gay men she has known. I do rather like the idea, but I would prefer someone a bit more anonymous perhaps. I don't know if the idea will get anywhere. But it is a good one.

This is your wife's fantasy. You will need someone you are both comfortable with. Her picking the man means she already places trust in that person, Take another look at her candidates. Additionally, using her friend may reduce the possibilities of jealousy she might experience if you really enjoy it and want a return performance.

[Annika L]

Bityme, you’re back as well? Something serious must have changed around here. Somebody fill me in! *bites tongue, and tries to remember not to say such things on this site*

[bityme]

Bityme, you’re back as well? Something serious must have changed around here. Somebody fill me in! *bites tongue, and tries to remember not to say such things on this site*

Hi Annika, yes, I was out for an extended period due to some medical problems. Don't really know what happened, but the site is certainly different than it was a few years ago.

[void()]

Bityme, you’re back as well? Something serious must have changed around here. Somebody fill me in! *bites tongue, and tries to remember not to say such things on this site*

Rather clean you out. :tong::bigrin: Either way, could be a bit fun.

Ah, I better hush too. Cannot even get to a cup of coffee. That I would like more so than running and hoping in bed. Lots more to life than sex. Of course, yes, I can still enjoy sex. Wise enough to know there's more and know that more can indeed be so much more precious. :)

[Sundazzled]

Oh, good heavens, no, you're hardly alone in in wanting to witness your husband performing intimate acts with another man. In fact, you'd be surprised to learn that what you describe in a fairly common fantasy.

Some years ago, I fell in with a younger couple, who invited me to join them in threesome play. A big part of Colleen's fantasy turned out to be watching me pleasure her boyfriend, Bruce.

While neither he nor I had any particular interest in performing or receiving anal intercourse, Colleen found intense pleasure in watching us bring one another to orgasm orally. As our threesome play progressed, Bruce eventually began inviting me to fuck his girlfriend while he watched from close-up. I can say with some certainly that the found the experience similarly erotic.

[Ashct22]

I agree with most everyone here that many women are turned on by this..and the thought of a woman watching me with another man is always so erotic

[MAcpl69]

I'm hoping my wife gets to watch me get fucked. I would gladly reciprocate, and would like both of us to fuck her

[iamcontent]

As long as you both consent have fun