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bisexual Bill
Oct 6, 2010, 8:16 PM
In another thread we're discussing a penis during anal sex and comparing it to a dildo.

If you're a guy and you like anal sex getting fucked, fucking, or both which do you prefer a man with an actual penis fucking you or a woman with a strapon?

I made a poll so either answer it or reply here.

Long Duck Dong
Oct 6, 2010, 8:43 PM
choice 5..... I perfer the whole package..... the rest of the person that the penis or strapon is connected to....... it makes the cock or strapon, more enjoyable.....

colobicouple
Oct 6, 2010, 8:57 PM
Personally my preference is to take a man's penis although I admit I enjoy the attention of my wife or another woman with a strap-on. I have enjoyed both over the years and am always ready to enjoy either!

Volley
Oct 6, 2010, 11:39 PM
I like both. The real thing is best, hard pulsating, exploding inside me.
But a strapon is fun too!

indycpl4men
Oct 7, 2010, 12:22 AM
Both have there advantages

jackbirdjay
Oct 8, 2010, 8:43 AM
both are very enjoyable. But a hard throbbing cock fucking me hearing his moans feeling him tense up shooting a hot load in me feeling his cum running down my leg is hot

foreverbi
Oct 8, 2010, 2:11 PM
both are very enjoyable. But a hard throbbing cock fucking me hearing his moans feeling him tense up shooting a hot load in me feeling his cum running down my leg is hot

All I can say is AMEN.:tongue:

mtdew34
Oct 8, 2010, 2:21 PM
I perfer a male fucking me with his penis

Magic Couple
Oct 8, 2010, 2:37 PM
I prefer the real thing. I love a dildo and my wife is not comfortable witha strap-on. but I prefer the real thing. Nothng like the feeling of a man shooting his load deep inside you.:bipride:

xanderdavis
Oct 8, 2010, 9:09 PM
I like both and I must say that in my experience the female was a more tender lover.

Teach_N_Dragons
Oct 8, 2010, 10:10 PM
I have to agree with Long Duck Dong -- I prefer the whole package. A penis on a prick is a real turn off. I do have to admit that it is tough finding a good strap-on harness for a "real" woman & a dildo that doesn't get hard enough {insert ED joke here:tongue:}.

Michigan_cpl
Oct 9, 2010, 9:34 AM
I love both.
there is northing that feels better then a real cock up your ass. as you feel the warmth.

jimisbi
Oct 9, 2010, 11:02 AM
I prefer a real cock in me. It has a warmth and a flexibility that no dildo can ever match, plus there is the bonus of feeling a guy cumming deep inside me.

The only time I ever use a dildo is when I'm alone.

welickit
Oct 9, 2010, 11:24 AM
I enjoy both and each has it's pro's and con's. The real thing first followed by the strap on is always fun. The strap on doesn't go soft. :2cents:

hazelcd
Oct 9, 2010, 2:20 PM
Its just got to be a penis for me, Its more intimate

justcurious4me
Oct 10, 2010, 10:10 AM
Well... I have found one flaw in this poll... The choices don't completely cover the topic... As I feel that I am bisexual, but have not had the pleasure of my first experience yet, I can't accurately answer this poll... So I picked the closest applicable answer... I said I prefer both because 1.) I do have toys for both me and my wife that we thoroughly enjoy and 2.) I would love to try the real thing... The only thing I ask of the forum author, is that if you make a poll, please ensure that you cover all possibilities...:bigrin: But very valid topic!!! I love it!!! :)

BiBedBud
Oct 11, 2010, 10:45 AM
Yes Please!:tong:


:bigrin:



;)



:rolleyes:



:tongue:

artl68
Oct 11, 2010, 10:47 AM
I like both,but i would prefer a hard cock up my ass.love the feeling when my partner cums,and the closeness of being able to to feel it when he cums.

69luvr
Oct 11, 2010, 2:36 PM
both are very enjoyable. But a hard throbbing cock fucking me hearing his moans feeling him tense up shooting a hot load in me feeling his cum running down my leg is hot

right on! :bipride:

yesmaam69
Oct 11, 2010, 2:37 PM
Wow tough choice!
Nothing beats the real thing!
But there's nothing like a Womans touch!
:bigrin:

alanall
Oct 11, 2010, 5:43 PM
My last wife like lots women have a thing about fingering your ass , & shoving vibrators up it. Great, but caused a problem for me.She was keen on anal sex too. She at that time was unaware of some of my past , where had had sex with Men in my early 20s . Her doing all this got me back into Men.....she found out . Divorced me, as I started again, seeing men. Having sex with them...boy forgot what I was missing. , I had not cleared history on my computer. That's how she found out...hey ho !

Still every cloud has silver lining as having great time these days. Bi is so good. Best both worlds...just love it.

p7va60
Oct 11, 2010, 6:22 PM
well both are great ...as long as you start small an work up i like to have my prostate messaged while haveing nipple pumps on ..then a vib but not to long becaause they get hot.....rimming is also great if done right going from a cock to a dildo back to a cock an so on...getting my cock sucked at the same time an with me or others playing ..i also belive DP for a lady is prob one of the best organsisms ..a female can have ..i think the pole should also refleck what a F might in joy to ..why not cover both bases ;)

SexualBoigamer2012
Oct 12, 2010, 8:19 PM
It would probably be lots easier to have a man's meat in there than just a dildo. Because men usually dont cost money to have sex with you. You buy dildos. But I said I dont know because I DO NOT KNOW.

NjbiGuy01
Oct 13, 2010, 9:52 AM
I like both, but prefer the real deal...Something special about a real penis that the finest quality rubber substitutes don't quite capture.

mrmetx35
Oct 13, 2010, 2:38 PM
I haven't had much experience but the real deal is a REAL turnon!!

However my circumstances pretty leave me with the plastic version..

However... WOW they can feel pretty darn good too!!!

Plus, for me, they are readily available :)

12voltman59
Oct 15, 2010, 10:08 PM
I voted that I prefer a real penis for anal sex---I just cannot seem to get used to artificial ones no matter how much lube is used!!! :tongue:

BiGuy97015
Oct 18, 2010, 12:05 PM
It depends entirely on the situation.....

macombicpl
Oct 19, 2010, 7:35 AM
i love both! i have the most incredible orgasms while my ass is being ate, played with, teased and especially fucked.. finger fucked, being fucked with a dildo, or a man fucking me.. i do love feeling a man grabbing my hips, or grabbing on to his hips (if on my back), and pulling my ass to him.. i love hearing his breathing getting heavier and heavier and his moans getting louder and louder.. once i get used to him being inside of me. i love working his dick with my tight hole.. being new to getting fucked i am extremely tight as is. been fucked twice by one guy.. anyways i love clamping down and squeezing his dick as hard as i can with my hole. i was only able to do this once, and not for long.. the first time he came almost as soon as he was all the way in me. he said i was too tight, and felt to good.. he couldn`t hold back.. the second time.. i loosened myself up the night before and a few hours before.. with a dildo. it made him last a little longer, but not long enough :-( but i was able to milk his dick with my hole. first i started i just clamped down and squeezed as he slid in and out. i could tell i was gonna make him cum, so i loosened back up.. then i started squeezing him only when he was shoving it in.. he was really feeling good, and the longer i did it the better it made my dick and ass feel.. if he would have lasted longer he would have made me cum without even touching my dick.. i wanted to cum with him and timed it perfect.. watching his face. i could tell he was fighting it, but knew he was going to explode any second... so i grabbed my dick which was so hard i could hardly lift it off my belly.. i didn`t know it but sometime while he was fucking me. gobs of cum came out.. my dick was covered in cum.. as soon as i grabbed my dick and squeezed it and stroked it once or twice already lubed with my cum.. i felt my hole grab his dick so hard.. he instantly started moaning and said oh my god.. i came so hard.. my first shot of cum flew over my head somewhere and the next two or three got me right in the face(which was a surprise and hotter than hell). i felt him trying to fuck me, but while i was cumming.. he could not move his dick which made him cum instantly.. he was moaning very loud and his body was convulsing in pure pleasure.. that was the last time my ass was touched.. he moved away with his family due to work :-( i hate looking for someone to give my ass up to.. i don`t wanna sleep around.. and i want to find one guy to get to know and trust. someone who is clean and disease free as i am.. because i have this major cum fetish that i have not gotten to explore yet. any guys, or possibly a guy/guy couple looking for a friend/lover in or near macomb Michigan? I SO NEED TO HEAR FROM YOU! any comments? would love to hear.. good or bad.. lol

seatraveler
Oct 19, 2010, 6:02 PM
Plastic is for water bottles and not to be use for sex. But its good to practice now and then. :eek:

seatraveler

jdsd71
Oct 19, 2010, 6:19 PM
I do like both but do prefer have a penis during anal sex. I like the way it feeling and love feeling skin on skin and him pulling me it close when he shots his cum into me and feel it running down my leg.

BfloBiFun
Oct 19, 2010, 6:35 PM
I like both . . . butt . . the real thing is better, love having a warm body on top of me while "getting it" . . . . of course I do set on it sometimes :cutelaugh

sdnaustin
Oct 19, 2010, 8:00 PM
both are fun, but nothing is better than a real penis

hungbitexan
Oct 20, 2010, 2:08 PM
i love a nice hard cock.however having a women dildo my ass with a strap on or just handheld is also very satisfying.i think the thrill of a lady doing me is greater than being fucked bi a man,but it feels better from a man.maybe because men have the natural rythym down.

tommyswing
Oct 20, 2010, 2:48 PM
I perfer the ral thing, I can feel the heat and feel it throb. I also like being fingered and have had a dildo used by a woman, that was hot.

DanniNeels
Oct 20, 2010, 4:19 PM
The real thing of course... Besides feeling better, it also adds so much to the experience knowing how great it feels for the guy fucking you! Girls only have inies, but guys... We have an inie & an outie, so we know exactly how it feels to fuck & be fucked. I do also enjoy getting fucked by a strap-on too, but other than the kinkiness, the girls can't feel anything. And they aren't used to the thrusting guy movement, so they tire easy.

torpedoman
Oct 25, 2010, 3:55 PM
My wife has fucked me with a dildo and it is good. But it is also hard and does not conform to my body. Although I do like it when she puts the vibe up there and turns it on as she is giving me a BJ.
But the better pleasure for me is when I have had the real thing. A penis in me while bigger then the vibe conformed to my body better. The sensation of the in and out motion along with a hand around my cock is shear pleasure. I also play safe so when he cums he pulls out and pulls off the condom and I finish him with my mouth.

Biguyll
Oct 25, 2010, 4:22 PM
I do like both but do prefer have a penis during anal sex. I like the way it feeling and love feeling skin on skin and him pulling me it close when he shots his cum into me and feel it running down my leg.

Hmmmmm...there could be another survey, because I have always used condoms but the idea of a guy cumming IN me is suuuuch a turn on! :bigrin:

slotts
Oct 26, 2010, 1:27 AM
Never been lucky enough to have a real cock! (wanting to) cause i love my 8 inch dildo! but I`ll bet the real thing feels fucking great!

top gear
Oct 27, 2010, 12:54 AM
i dnt knw,i hvnt been fucked before in my ass,im ready 2 experience

cabooseme2
Oct 27, 2010, 10:34 AM
Well it has happened I had my first truly gay sex after years of using toys in me I loved the feel of a real cock in me(safe of course). the real thing has a different feeling than a toy granted he was not the size of my toys it was more enjoyable to feel him thrusting the body contact between us, much more personable than toys.

boca.openminded
Oct 27, 2010, 5:28 PM
Yrs ago I had a gf's dildo which made me looking for the real thing. Well, yrs later and I am still looking for the real thing. I never thought it be so difficult finding someone around my own age & in shape...

In the meantime, I use butt plugs... Depending on my mood its either the large vibrating one or the med non-vibrating one. Its easier being outside with the non-vibrating one - no wires..

BluegrassBi
Oct 27, 2010, 9:47 PM
The real deal is first choice. But a woman with a strap-on who likes what she's doing and good at it is enjoyable too

bi4asplay
Feb 26, 2013, 2:02 PM
You got that right LDD. What is conected to the toy or the cock makes all of the differance. now for the question. The best I have ever had was my late wife and her strap-on.I have also had a couple of fabtastic feeling with a cock in me as well.So my answer would have to be YES

VZR1800
Feb 26, 2013, 2:03 PM
I enjoy dildos very much, just not large ones. I suspect I would like the real thing much more, just have never had the opportunity, nor have I actively sought it out. I joined this site today and have an ad up though, so that may change. I did not vote in the poll because there is no answer that fits my circumstances.

gabriel_knight
Feb 26, 2013, 9:30 PM
I prefer the real deal but if there's not one available at the moment I sure enjoy a dildo massaging my prostate

dickhand
Feb 27, 2013, 12:17 PM
Much prefer a nice real cock up my ass to any type of anything artificial .

VZR1800
Feb 27, 2013, 12:26 PM
Never been lucky enough to have a real cock! (wanting to) cause i love my 8 inch dildo! but I`ll bet the real thing feels fucking great!

Same here. Dildo is my only experience. Hopefully I'll get an opportunity to enjoy the real thing in the not-too-distant future. Until then, dildos FTW.

OOPS, see I already posted to this one. Hmmmm.

upones
Feb 27, 2013, 1:52 PM
unmatched feel of hard cock,warm up period,full body contact,entrance then pounding beats a dildo all to hell for me

Neils
Feb 27, 2013, 1:58 PM
I couldn't take the survey because I haven't had a real cock (yet). I can only imagine that the Real Thing (TM) feels better than even the highest quality dildo given the other posts here. That said, dildos are a great substitute and let me get my rocks off in private, until the right circumstances arise for a real encounter. Plus they don't get limp, sore or tired.

firebird19
Feb 28, 2013, 10:57 AM
The same problem she was not comfortable with it ! But it was HOT to see her with a strap-on !

sailorashore
Mar 1, 2013, 6:33 PM
Like the song says, "Ain't nothin' like the real thing, ba-a-aby..." I had a girlfriend with a strap-on do me once, and it felt really, really good--but it left me wondering about, and very much wanting to try, the real McCoy. My first man-fuck was a younger fellow, and he came without making any sound just as I was starting to enjoy it. It was over before it began, almost. The next guy was just too well hung--too big around--and I couldn't relax enough to make it stop hurting. It's only in recent years that I've met one or two guys of reasonable penile dimensions who were patient and considerate enough, and demonstrative. I agree with all the guys above--it's not the appendage, but the person attached. The moans, the slaps on my ass, the hands gripping my hips, the grunts and gasps and thrusts, the body language, and above all the orgasm are what makes it all just crazy hot and special. No dildo will ever jerk, jump, throb in, or shoot a load up my hole. Give me the genuine article.

stonebow
Mar 1, 2013, 6:51 PM
Like the song says, "Ain't nothin' like the real thing, ba-a-aby..." I had a girlfriend with a strap-on do me once, and it felt really, really good--but it left me wondering about, and very much wanting to try, the real McCoy. My first man-fuck was a younger fellow, and he came without making any sound just as I was starting to enjoy it. It was over before it began, almost. The next guy was just too well hung--too big around--and I couldn't relax enough to make it stop hurting. It's only in recent years that I've met one or two guys of reasonable penile dimensions who were patient and considerate enough, and demonstrative. I agree with all the guys above--it's not the appendage, but the person attached. The moans, the slaps on my ass, the hands gripping my hips, the grunts and gasps and thrusts, the body language, and above all the orgasm are what makes it all just crazy hot and special. No dildo will ever jerk, jump, throb in, or shoot a load up my hole. Give me the genuine article.

Took the words right out of my mouth.

newporter4u
Mar 1, 2013, 7:35 PM
I want to try both, so far have only had a toy but looking forward to feeling a pulsating cock or a woman pounding me to really enjoy things.

Lake_Bi_Guy
Mar 1, 2013, 8:59 PM
I have had anal problems and actually.... best with what some may call a "pencil dick". Get enjoyment without pain.

ErosUrge
Mar 2, 2013, 12:23 PM
both are fun, but nothing is better than a real penis

YEP..exactly! I can certainly get into it with a woman using a dildo or strapon with me...but the intensity level goes way up when a guy fucks me. In my opinion and for me, it has to be because of the fact that it's an actual cock and he is responding to the sensations too that he feels from fucking....and for those of you wondering, of course with protection. Only those guys I have known for many years do I trust otherwise...and I mean, really know.

Newly_Bi
Oct 23, 2013, 6:08 AM
while it is somewhat enjoyable to get fucked with my wives strap on, she doesn't have the control a man would therefore I prefer a mans dick.

mikeyd270
Oct 24, 2013, 2:06 AM
I prefer a nice warm hard cock fucking my ass but I do enjoy a woman pumping me with her strapon.

ErosUrge
Oct 25, 2013, 3:56 AM
I prefer a nice warm hard cock fucking my ass but I do enjoy a woman pumping me with her strapon.

yep; me too~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

seven2share
Oct 25, 2013, 10:13 AM
Have yet to experience a woman with a strap on, sure would like to try that. Had a buddy with 10" of hardness, he could make me cum without ever touching my cock.... need to find another buddy like that!

craiger
Oct 26, 2013, 12:23 AM
I like the real thing better. Warmer and softer. Just feels so much better.

NJBIC
Oct 26, 2013, 7:46 PM
I've only recently discovered the full joy of anal sex and looking forward to more experiences. I would like to get a little more experience with a dildo 1st then maybe move on from there.

GirlyBoi4U
Oct 26, 2013, 9:32 PM
While both was my choice, I would choose a real cock over a dildo any day...there's nothing like the feeling of the real thing throbbing inside me!

straponwilly
Nov 9, 2013, 11:17 PM
In this order: A transgender fucking me with a real cock, a man fucking me, a dildo.
I know this from experience. I love cock both to suck and to get fucked by however I don't find men attractive. I adore women but I need cock and I need to be fucked. That led me to glory holes and spa's and eventually when visiting Asia to transgenders. Nothing I have experienced sexually can compete with seeing beautiful women fucking you with a real cock.A dildo just doesn't feel the same. And to have a transgender pull out and spunk all over your body is fucking mindblowing.

bi4asplay
Apr 7, 2015, 1:05 PM
It is a tough choice. I love the feel of the real thing. I love the way that it changes when he is getting ready to cum. I love the way that it starts to get hotter. The head swells a bit more. It starts to pulse. Even though I( 0only play safe these days, it feels so fucking good when he cums. All of which are great. How ever the strap on strapped to the right lady, is amazing. If she is really into it she can make it even better than the real thing. Got to face it guys, ladies are more attuned to their partners than we cam be. The best I have ever had was a lady. She would climax 15 times or more pegging me and every time she did me she would have my precum hanging in long strings and the towel soaked. She could make me cum two or three times without being touched. Though she normally touched me while pegging me.

bi4asplay
Apr 7, 2015, 1:12 PM
In this order: A transgender fucking me with a real cock, a man fucking me, a dildo.
I know this from experience. I love cock both to suck and to get fucked by however I don't find men attractive. I adore women but I need cock and I need to be fucked. That led me to glory holes and spa's and eventually when visiting Asia to transgenders. Nothing I have experienced sexually can compete with seeing beautiful women fucking you with a real cock.A dildo just doesn't feel the same. And to have a transgender pull out and spunk all over your body is fucking mindblowing.


Do I ever agree with the Transgender fucking me being mind blowing. I will try and attach a pic of one that rented a room from my late wife and I for several years.34370

bi4asplay
Apr 7, 2015, 1:24 PM
Have yet to experience a woman with a strap on, sure would like to try that. Had a buddy with 10" of hardness, he could make me cum without ever touching my cock.... need to find another buddy like that!

Do you have his number? grin