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[BijohnPa]

I have the craving to wear panties and nylons and just love any male that wears, the problem is doing it and not getting caught as my GF has no clue I'm Bi or anything. I want to buy panties and nylons and wear and get off, but being with a CD or guy that wears makes me hot as hell. So what do I do

And any CD around like to chat and maybe meet.

[fredtyg]

If she doesn't have any idea you're bisexual and you don't plan on letting her know, you're in a tough spot.

The first thing I'd do is try to let her know you're either bi, a cd, or both. If she accepts one, it might not be too tough for her to accept the other.

Is she into porn? Maybe show her some videos or stills of guys wearing girls clothes. If she doesn't seem too put off, maybe tell her that sort of thing intrigues you. If she still doesn't seem that put off by it, maybe ask if she'd let you wear some of her stuff.

If she doesn't have a problem with letting you wear her clothes, she's probably cool with letting you cd. I know my wife seems to like the two of us enjoying some of the same clothes.

[fredtyg]

I still think he needs to work her into this. It might be too much of a shock for some people to hear about it all at once.

Still, I can't imagine being in my 50s and totally hiding my homosexuality, or my desire for cross dressing. I'm lucky that I'm mostly out to the wife.

[Committed bi guy]

I believe Fredtyg is right. I have been wearing panties for decades and have dated many women who have not only not had a problem with it but actually came to like the sensual aspects of it. Of course, not everyone is the same and the quality of your relationship will have a lot to do with the outcome. If you introduce the the idea/s gradually to your gf you may be pleasantly surprised by her acceptance.

[jamieknyc]

I think there is a lack of understanding in these forums for the fact that some people have spouses or significant others who are intolerant of their urges to do things like cross-dress, and who won't budge.

[fredtyg]

I think there is a lack of understanding in these forums for the fact that some people have spouses or significant others who are intolerant of their urges to do things like cross-dress, and who won't budge.

I don't know that that's the case. I understand there's a possibility his girl friend may find his bisexuality or desire to cd offensive. That's why I suggest testing the waters, so to speak, and don't dump it all on her at once.

As Committed bi guy agreed, many women might surprise you and actually enjoy being part of it. I know my wife- who was VERY vanilla sexually (not sexual at all now)- seems to like being part of my cross dressing fun.

Certainly some women may not like it at all and, while I know it's easy for me to say, if something like being bi/homo or a cd is a big part of you, maybe you're with the wrong person if he/she won't accept it.

Of course, once you're married and older, it's not so easy to just pack up and leave as some have suggested to me.

[tenni]

I think there is a lack of understanding in these forums for the fact that some people have spouses or significant others who are intolerant of their urges to do things like cross-dress, and who won't budge.

I agree completely with you.

Rather than those who have a spouse who accept their bisexuality or CD stating comments or condemning other bi guys about disclosure it might be better for this forum to discuss WHY do so many (?) hetero women not accept this in their male partners?

[luv2play8899]

I agree completely with you.

Rather than those who have a spouse who accept their bisexuality or CD stating comments or condemning other bi guys about disclosure it might be better for this forum to discuss WHY do so many (?) hetero women not accept this in their male partners?

Well said.

The fact is some people, both men and women, have very firm ideas on sexuality and thats that. Its very easy for one who has an accepting spouse to condemn those who dont.

[darkfire]

I agree completely with you.

Rather than those who have a spouse who accept their bisexuality or CD stating comments or condemning other bi guys about disclosure it might be better for this forum to discuss WHY do so many (?) hetero women not accept this in their male partners?

I believe that most women are intolerant to it because we are brought up to believe that it is wrong as a whole the so called a moral society would and do condem us for our choice of lifestyles this would include cross dressing most all of us have been brought up with such things being concidered wrong and taboo

[fredtyg]

Rather than those who have a spouse who accept their bisexuality or CD stating comments or condemning other bi guys about disclosure it might be better

To be clear, in case I'm being misunderstood, I'm not condemning anyone about disclosure. I'm only suggesting he might try and see how accepting his GF might be about his secret desires.

As I wrote earlier, I don't know how I could handle having such a big part of me being totally hidden in my own home, but I know of a lot of guys who do live that way and don't know any way out of it.

[TaylorMade]

The real question is why a woman would have a problem with it. . . let's put it in different terms... like buying a car. I would think , for someone unprepared...it's like you bought a lemon (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lemon_(automobile))... you can't take it back, and even if the "defect" was apparently from the manufacturer, it's YOUR FAULT. People will perceive you as not good enough of a shopper, or so desperate you'll take anything off the lot. You were told that a defect like that isn't good for you to have, it may end up ruining YOUR life and the lives of others in the end. And the defect ... ruins the car. Even if it's not a really noticable one. The car may actually run great. . .BETTER than your friends . . .but that ONE THING just leads to other things that just ruins the car for you.

And then...what if it refuses to run for you and prefers to work when someone else is at the wheel?

*Taylor*

[jj671]

well i have secretly played in my wifes nylons, nightys, teddys,pantys and slips a couple dozen times over the last 20 years or so and just went out and bought my own nylons today. i think that will be easier to not get caught wearing hers. i always have to be carefull to put them back just right. but the good news is i plan to come out to her by thanksgiving!!! so please wish me luck!!!

[DanniNeels]

biJohn check out my profile & posts... I get so horny by the look of myself in girls clothes, that I shoot 10 feet... I'm getting so hard just imagining teasing you until you eventually turn the tables & have your way with me! Mmmmm

[bikiniman]

I love wearing women's bikinis and lingerie, I buy my own online. My wife does not know and I am not sure I will ever tell her. I do not believe she would be very accepting.

It is a big secret to keep yourself and the longer you leave it the harder it is to come out, so I would recommend talking to your GF about your desires.

[jj671]

ok so as i posted the other day i did get to play in my new nylons and pantys... to bad i was alone, boo hoooo. feel free to check them out. i think i look hot! do you think so?