Anal Masturbation

[Thomas_The_Rhymer]

Since I have only admitted my attraction to men and let myself look at bi/gay porn recently I am still exploring. One thing I really wanted to have a go at was anal masturbation. To say that "sodomy" was discouraged while I was Catholic is an understatement. It was the "peccatum illud horribile, inter christianos non nominandum" (that horrible sin that among Christians is not to be named).
I was told of the horrible physical damage it did and how you caught diseases etc. But I tried to masturbate anally the other night anyway. I didn't get anywhere near the prostate because I kept on thinking of the "terrible physical damage" I could be doing to myself but I did get a finger inside and it felt rather good. I gave up eventually and pleasured myself normally. But I did rather enjoy the experience, what little I was able to do felt good. Any tips on how to do it properly or how to reach the prostate?
Thank you


I remain,
Your Brother in Buggery,
Thomas the Rhymer

[bisexual Bill]

I was raised Roman Catholic too and they never mentioned anal sex or that type of sodomy.

As for your question about prostate stimulation do a search for it. There are lots of good websites about it and even if you DIY it's not that hard to find the prostate. You will begin to feel warm and make leak some precum. If you're concentrating mainly on your ass and the feelings of stimulating it you can lose an erection and that's normal.

It's a few inches inside your anus and make sure you use lube and trim and file your nails before you put your fingers up there.

Not every man gets off on internal stimulation of the prostate so do not feel bad if it does nothing for you.

Yes people can damage their anus by putting things up there. The anus is very sensitive and thin.

Always make sure that your ass is lubed before you put anything up there and you have to go very slowly. It is not like in gay porn where they have done all of the foreplay and prepwork for anal sex off camera and just show a cock going very fast into someone's ass.

Use sex toys designed for anal sex and not stuff you find lying around the house. You can still damage and hurt yourself with toys but they are not liable to get stuck like household items are.

The high risk of disease is true.

You are always going to be more at risk for diseases with receptive anal intercourse.

Not just HIV but other diseases too. You can easily get anal warts or HPV just from skin to skin contact and getting fucked even if the other guy is using a condom.

It is like how women can get HPV on or in their vagina from men.

The anus is basically like a sponge and combined with how easy the anus can get damaged or torn that's why anal sex even with condoms involves some risk.

Condoms can break or slip off too and that also puts you at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Avoid using enemas or douching before anal sex. They up your risk for diseases by . They take out all of the good bacteria in your lower digestive tract.

Enemas can rinse away the natural secretions and lubrication produced by the mucous membranes inside the rectum. Those secretions are there to protect the anal lining and provide natural lubrication. Of course, anal sex always requires additional lubrication, but the natural layer provides a buffer between the chemical lube and your delicate membranes.

Enemas or douching with water is not needed as long as you eat lots of fiber, your body works fine, and you're drinking lots of water. Some people space out meals or avoid them until after anal sex.

If you're going to take a toy that's not yours or one that is used by other people, or a cock in your ass use condoms. Some people use gloves when they take fingers in their ass.

Make sure the lube you are using when you are getting fucked is compatible with latex or whatever material the condom is made out of. Do not use lambskin condoms and don't bareback.

If you are going to engage in rimming just wash on the outside with soap and hot water and use dental dams unless you really know that whoever is rimming you or who you are rimming does not have HIV and other STDs.

[slipnslide]

I believe I read at some point that the protective mucus layer in the rectum is one cell thick. You can imagine how easily that protective layer could be damaged if you're not well lubed.