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  1. #331

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    A boy has a right to all of his healthy body-including and intact penis with a foreskin, and how he experiences it should be his choice--not the choice of a parent, a religious leader, a government, a medical board, surgeon/nurse, a philanthropist, or a doctor.
    Last edited by BiDaveDtown; Jun 24, 2011 at 2:20 AM.

  2. #332

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Let's see, we are ALL born with certain parts, but "medical society" has deemed certain parts to be better off REMOVED!

    Do you really need 8 fingers, two eyes? two nostrils, two ears, two testicles, two nipples, ALL that hair, after all you gotta cut it SO often,etc,etc,etc...?

    Wonder what physical part[s] the hierarchy of medical society will deem "better off DELETED" in the future?

    btw, personal choice anyone? it's not just for pregnant women any more!
    Last edited by bib4u; Jun 29, 2012 at 11:43 PM.
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  3. #333

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by bib4u View Post
    Let's see, we are ALL born with certain parts, but "medical society" has deemed certain parts to be better off REMOVED! Do you really need 8 fingers, two eyes? two nostrils, two ears, two testicles, two nipples, ALL that hair, after all you gotta cut it SO often,etc,etc,etc...? Wonder what physical part[s] the hierarchy of medical society will deem "better off DELETED" in the future? btw, personal choice anyone? it's not just for pregnant women any more!
    Right on!

  4. #334

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by Bluebiyou View Post
    Bizel, cool it. Please. You show compassion, yet misunderstanding. My father also was natural (uncut). In WWII the army required him to be cut. He refused. It didn't happen. He had no regrets (why should he? I'm sure he would have told them to also go to hell if they told him to get lobotomized or cut toes or fingers off). I could see if I was forced into doing something and was afraid to stand up to it, and allowed it to be done, I would look back on it with my male ego like 'it was probably the best thing', and find some incidental positives too. A clear form of 'adaptive preference formation' (subset of cognitive dissonance). We've already seen many examples of this on these threads. And despite modern rhetoric, FGM and MGM share much in common. Both are done on innocent children. Both are sexual mutilation/molestation. Both are intended and succeed to critically reduce sexual feeling/gratification hopefully without killing procreation ability. Both are for the cleanliness of the victim. Both are very painful. Except for Rizzababies male children. She assured us they escaped all pain when she did it to them/him. We can take her word for it. Both are customs. Both are farces. Both are wrong, doubly so when enforced by a member of the opposite sex. A man has no business endorsing FGM as a woman has no business endorsing MGM. If you're unable to see why that's wrong on two levels... take some time. As far as your references of 'cut guys'... Don't write any masters' thesis papers using your logic method, you'll never graduate. But keep with your empathy and you'll find the right path.
    Agree with you 1,000%

  5. #335

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by drugstore cowboy View Post
    The worst reasons by far for circumcision are that it's part of someone's religion and simply has to be done because Allah/Yaweh said so in an outdated religious text that's been translated so much for thousands of years that it no longer has the same meaning now as it did when it was first written and it does not apply to the modern world in 2011. Then you have parents who think that their kid is going to go neurotic if his penis does not look like his father's and that other boys/men in the school locker room or even men's room will notice him and tease him. Circumcision is nothing but genital mutilation and it does not make the penis somehow cleaner or less prone to STDs. It actually makes the penis less sensitive and removes a vital part of the penis the foreskin which has lots of nerve endings and the foreskin is designed to protect the glans or penis' head. It would be like going out into icy cold wearing and not wearing gloves and then wondering why your hands become chapped, bleeding, and rough. Doctors and nurses do frequently tell lies about circumcision to the parents such as "Oh he slept through the entire thing!" or "He didn't cry at all!" which is all total bullshit since infants are strapped down and even with anesthesia they do feel lots of pain since a very sensitive part of their penis is being cut off. They actually do pass out from the pain or stay awake and fully conscious and then go into shock from it. Then you have American parents like Twyla, Pasadena, and even Canadian parents believing these lies and trying to justify just why they had their sons' penises mutilated when it's a completely barbaric and useless operation that serves no medical benefits at all. Ontheside posted how doctors do happen to make a lot of money from circumcision and even a gay male German friend of mine who happens to be cut and in the minority in his country he claims it was done just so some doctor would make some money while his brothers are not cut. It's common sense people. You're cutting off a very sensitive part of someone's penis. How could the boy somehow not be in pain even if they were pumped full of anesthetics? Consequently lots of boys do die from being circumcised or they get their penises even more mutilated and damaged from "accidents" and some even do die from the anesthesia and none of this would have happened if the boy never had his genitals mutilated because his parents wanted it based on their selfish ideas or because of pointless outdated religious beliefs. There is even a case where a Rabbi gave a boy herpes when he was mutilating the boy's genitals. The idea that a penis that is cut is "normal" is totally an American concept that's false and most men in the world and most countries and cultures in the world do not practice male genital mutilation unlike in the United States. Even in the United States and Canada less and less parents are mutilating their boys' genitals which is a good thing. As far as teasing goes nobody gets teased for being intact with a foreskin and even if they do people get teased over everything from their hair style to the clothes they wear to their nose or they way that they talk. Premature ejaculation is significantly more common among circumcised men. The term intact is used since uncut states the false theory that being "cut" is normal when actually less men in the world are cut than are actually intact with a foreskin. The fact that male circumcision is performed on infants hides somewhat the barbarity of it in some American parents' minds like Twyla and Pasadena have shown here. Babies' only means of communicating distress verbally is through crying, so one more instance of crying brought on by the trauma of circumcision just disappears into the excuse of, well, that's what babies do - cry. It's much easier to dismiss the cries of anguish of a baby as normal than it is to dismiss the cries of anguish of pre-adolescent or adolescent girl. Male circumcision is directly related to the rediculous religious and cultural idea that Yahweh's Chosen People have a special mark. That is a barbaric idea. That cultural ideas about male circumcision have changed, using so-called medical or aesthetic reasons does not diminish the barbarity of the practice when it is performed on infants unable to grant consent. Male circumcision (as it is usually practised) is an elective procedure performed upon an individual that has not granted consent. It is either done for religious purposes, or aesthetic purposes. Any claim to sexual health benefit is dubious; condoms provide far better protection than what is claimed for circumcision. the fact that the child can't protest such a procedure, violates the right of the child to be free from physical intrusion. Why parents are so obsessed with the genitals of their children that they choose to remove a part of it, is beyond me? It's pretty offensive to say that women have a little bit more right to their complete genitalia than men. Of course the female mutilation is also grounded in misogyny-so that women will be faithful to their husbands. Some cultures even sew up the vagina after they mutilate the clitoris. This is disgusting and repulsive and it needs to stop. But we ALL equally deserve to be born without being mutilated, and without our permission. It's ludicrous to suggest otherwise. some of the more well known benefits of not being circumcised such as easier masturbation and being more in control of your orgasm (premature ejaculation) it apparently also has some benefits for the sexual partners of uncircumcised men. I've been told that it's somewhat nicer for women and men to have vaginal and anal intercourse with an uncircumcised male because the foreskin acts like a natural cockring. People say that circumcision doesn't not affect sexual function: it does. The foreskin helps the penis slide in and out during copulation, it contains sensitive nerve endings that enhance sexual pleasure, and it protects the head of the penis (as anyone knows how has worn pants with jeans in them without underwear-and I won't do that again). It is not just some flap of skin. Every body is under this misapprehension because of the propaganda from centuries ago that was scientifically unsound. Furthermore, the goal was to reduce sexual desire-because it's sinful. If circumcision were free of acute risks and perfectly painless it would still be a huge violation of human rights. It takes away about half a male's pleasure-receptive nerve endings, removes protection for the mucosal parts meant to keep them supple and sensitive, and changes intimacy for the worse by eliminating the frictionless rolling/gliding action of the slinky skin that makes sex more plush for a man and his partner. It also makes the penis THINNER, reducing the diameter by 4 skin thicknesses (the skin doubles under and enfolds over the glans upon a withdrawal phase so there are two layers on either side of the glans). In the only study to carefully measure the fine-touch sensitivity on various spots on the penis for over 150 men, of 17 spots they measured the 5 most sensitive were all on the foreskin. You might ask why they measured the foreskin more than once. That's because it comprises about 15 square inches in the adult. It includes some outer skin like the surviving shaft skin on a cut guy, the roll-over point which is very ticklish, the ridged band of highly concentrated sexual nerve endings, the frenular delta, and the frenulum (the neurological homologue to the clitoris). Involuntary penis reduction surgery? Bloody brilliant idea! It's no coincidence that circumcision has its greatest detrimental effect on sexuality. Maimonides (or Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, a twelfth-century philosopher, legal scholar, and physician often called "Judaism's Aristotle") said: "As regards circumcision, I think one of its objects is to limit sexual intercourse and to weaken the organ of generation as far as possible, and thus cause man to be moderate... The bodily injury caused to that organ is exactly that which is desired; it does not interrupt any vital function, nor does it destroy the power of generation. Circumcision simply counteracts excessive lust; for there is no doubt that circumcision weakens the power of sexual excitement, and sometimes lessens the natural enjoyment; the organ necessarily becomes weak when it loses blood and is deprived of its covering from the beginning." The "weakening" of sexuality was precisely the reason circumcision was introduced into medical practice in the United States as a "prophylactic" during the 19th century. Until that time, the practice was virtually nonexistent. Here in good ol' God-fearing, Puritanical America, masturbation was not only considered sinful, but was deemed a major health peril as well. Countless maladies were thought to accrue from this "degenerate" practice, and, in 1888, J. H. Kellogg--the All Bran laxative king--together with other Victorians of his ilk, began proselytizing for mass circumcision as a deterrent to "self abuse." Their purpose was to keep the male youth of America from masturbating, going blind and insane with hair growing on the palms of their hands. Kellogg said, "Tying the hands is also successful in some cases... Covering the organs with a cage has been practiced with entire success. A remedy which is almost always successful in small boys is circumcision... The operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anesthetic, as the brief pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind, especially if it be connected with the idea of punishment." These self-promoting defenders of public health and morality claimed that circumcision also cured a vast litany of masturbation-related ills and proselytized for its mass acceptance as an "immunizing inoculation." They claimed it cured everything from alcoholism to asthma, curvature of the spine, enuresis, epilepsy, elephantiasis, gout, headache, hernia, hydrocephalus, insanity, kidney disease, rectal prolapse and rheumatism. In the face of rationality and modern research, contemporary circumcisionists have abandoned most of these claims but have now updated their list to include cancer, urinary tract infections, sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV, and premature ejaculation. The cancer argument has been an especially effective scare tactic, prompting officials of the American Cancer Society to write a letter to the American Academy of Pediatrics condemning the promulgation of the myth that circumcision prevents penile cancer. "The American Cancer Society does not consider routine circumcision to be a valid or effective measure to prevent such cancers... Perpetuating the mistaken belief that circumcision prevents cancer is inappropriate." Of course it is. Penile cancer is an extremely rare condition, affecting only one in 100,000 men in the United States. Penile cancer rates in countries that do not practice circumcision are lower than those found in the United States. Fatalities caused by circumcision accidents may approximate the mortality rate from penile cancer, and, for circumcised men who do contract penile cancer, the lesion may occur at the site of the circumcision scar. Portraying routine circumcision as an effective means of prevention distracts the public from the task of avoiding the behaviors proven to contribute to penile and cervical cancer: especially cigarette smoking and unprotected sexual relations with multiple partners. The ACS has recently reiterated this position on their web site and also notes that "...circumcision is not medically necessary." On a recent BBC radio broadcast of "Case Notes", pediatric urologist Rowena Hitchcock pointed out that "Even using the figures of those who support circumcision one would have to perform 140 circumcisions a week for 25 years before you could prevent one case of cancer. Of those cancers, 80% are treatable and they are avoidable by simply pulling the foreskin back and washing it, which I would prefer to 140 circumcisions a week for 25 years." The "cancer prevention" argument would have greater persuasive appeal if applied to breast cancer in women. The American Cancer Society estimates that 44,000 women will die of breast cancer in 1998. This same year, by comparison, an estimated 200 men, most of them beyond 70 years of age with poor hygiene habits, will die of penile cancer. If amputating healthy tissue is an antidote to cancer, it would make far more "sense" to routinely perform radical mastectomies on adolescent girls and remove the breast buds of all newborn females than to amputate the foreskin of male infants to prevent such comparatively paltry numbers. But nobody in their right mind would suggest this as appropriate therapy... except when applied to infant boys, that is. Go figure. The HIV scare is another in the continuing effort of circumcision advocates to view their favorite "surgery" as a hedge against disease. Despite the fact that the United States is a "circumcising country," where the majority of sexually-active men are cut, we nevertheless have the highest HIV infection rate among advanced industrialized countries. In fact, the U.S. has an infection rate 3.5 times greater than the next leading country, or 16 cases per 100,000 population. None of the other advanced industrialized countries circumcise routinely. France, the Netherlands, the United Kingdom, Germany, Sweden, Norway, New Zealand, Finland and Japan all have near-zero infant circumcision rates, yet their AIDS infection rate goes from 3.5 cases per 100,000 down to 0.2, respectively. Consequently, not only is it clear that circumcision does not prevent HIV or AIDS, the infection rates suggest that circumcision may actually contribute to HIV infection by depriving the penis of the natural immunological protection of the foreskin. But rest assured, as soon as medical science debunks these latest "benefits" for mass mutilations, the pro-circumcision industry will invent new reasons and new diseases for continued use of their favorite treatment of nonexistent ills. The circumcision epidemic is a national scandal in this country and a crime against infant boys. Simply put, infant circumcision is child abuse. It is gratuitous genital mutilation and should be banned along with thumb screws, hot pincers and boiling in oil as nothing short of perverse. In a recent article appearing in ObGYN News, doctor Leo Sorger says, "Circumcision causes pain, trauma, and a permanent loss of protective and erogenous tissue. Removing normal, healthy, functioning tissue violates the United Nations Universal Declaration of Human Rights (Article 5) and the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (Article 13)." The foreskin is not a birth defect needing remedy by the A.M.A. Nobody in all of Europe, non-Muslim Asia, or Latin America is routinely circumcised. In fact, the only people who routinely cut off the most erogenous part of their boys' penis are Jews, Muslims, certain tribal groups in far-flung parts of the world and... the United States. Everybody else leaves their sons intact as nature made them." This is a fact. Indisputable. Most leave their girls intact, too. Roughly one million baby boys a year in this country are rudely welcomed into the world by the amputation, without anesthesia, of an integral, sexually important part of their anatomy. By definition, the removal of a normal, healthy, functional body part is mutilation. Pure and simple. These one million babies represent around 60% of all male infants born in this country, a figure that is down from a high reached in the 1970's and 1980's of around 90%. And what is truly astounding is that, while we become incensed over the female genital mutilations going on in Africa and other third-world countries far, far away, we ignore the routine mutilations perpetrated here against our own sons. The sexism of this perspective is stunning. In fact, in 1996 the U.S. Congress, eager to appease feminist groups and appear to be the Great White Protectors of American Girlhood, passed a law against female circumcision or any other form of genital modification of girls below the age of consent. This was pure political theater, baby kissing, butt patting. As a society, we simply do not cut the genitals of baby girls in this country... only the genitals of baby boys. Passing a law against female genital mutilation (FGM) was a slam dunk for the politicians. They could look big and strong and macho and foursquare in favor of protecting babies... as long as the babies were girls, that is. In our culture, unlike other more civilized societies, it is perfectly acceptable to amputate the male prepuce against the shrieking protests of the victims. Our national chauvinism has blinded us to our own human rights abuses and genital mutilation against our sons. in the United States there is a huge industry based on circumcision just like there is in certain parts of Africa and the middle east. forskins are not just flushed away,but they are used in a variety of ways,so someone is making money off this barbaric practice. ome are used in a facial cream (ironically enough) that is supposed to get rid of wrinkles. Costs US$130. for a six week supply. In fact FGM and MGM are THE SAME. Both can boast studies pointing to reduced HIV incidence (and the opposite). Both are done by coercion and force. Both are often loudly condoned by the victims. Both send hundreds to the morgue and thousands to the hospital annually. Both leave victims with an altered abililty to enjoy sex. I find it amazing that, in a culture where almost no one would support tattooing a baby girl or boy, so many people support amputation of a functional organ. I can just imagine what would happen if a parent said "My religion demands a cross or Star of David be tattooed on the child's forehead". It would be on the news, and the parents would be vilified. Yet, tattoo removal is reasonable to acheive. Expensive, yes, and painful, yes. But it's done all of the time. But circumcision reversal is not so easy, and does not fully replace what was taken. Even where circumcision is done for a therapeutic reason, the issue (usually phimosis) could usually be resolved without removal of the entire prepuce, and possibly without actual surgery. We (the USA) don't cry out against male circumcision because it's 'our' accepted brand of genital mutilation. We've only recently begun to examine it as a society, as far as I know. We’re still attached to it as a custom and don't see it as being aberrant yet. Here are my reasons it should fall by the wayside, in some sort of order: - It has never been shown to be necessary - The object of the procedure is generally not the one choosing it. - It’s permanent, barring restoration attempts. - It’s a very unpleasant procedure. - The advantages come mainly from societal conditioning. There's neither a reason nor any reasoning for circumcision. I've heard a fellow atheist assert that parents fundamentally have the right--because they're the parents--to do whatever they want to their kid, because apparently being able to have sex and yield an infant is magic. If the removal of the body parts of other people were to be discussed for any set of people and body parts other than children/infants and genitals, we would straightforwardly reject it: "No, you have no grounds upon which to have your fellow adults' bodies altered." "No, you may not have any of the toes of your baby removed." Apparently, genitals and babies are magic. Circumcision started being done routinely in the USA to stop boys from wanting to masturbate. It was encouraged by Kellogg (of Corn Flake fame), who also encouraged using acid on the female clitoris for the same reason. When the US medical industry realised they could make good money this way, but public opinion was starting to turn, they changed the story and said it was for 'health reasons'. Watch the Penn and Teller: Bullshit! episode on circumcision. It's horrific what they do to these poor kids, without consent. The kids are strapped down, and go into a catatonic state of fear and pain. Kellogg was beyond a loon. He bragged in his memoir that he had no sex on his honeymoon. Many doctors back then thought all sexual acts drained you of life-force. For all of the fools proclaiming that being cut somehow makes a penis "clean" a foreskin is easy to take care of and you just wash it with soap and water like you would any other body part. Circumcision is not some magic bullet that will prevent you from getting STDs or transmitting them if you have them. You get STDs including HIV by having unprotected sex with people who have them and from not using condoms or having safer sex. Like other people have written in this thread condoms and safer sex work far better than any genital mutilation does. 117 newborn boys die as a result of circumcisions each year. Hundreds of others survive botched jobs and are seriously deformed for life. It is abuse. It is mutilation. It should be an adult male's decision. And as elective surgery, it certainly should not be covered by health insurance.
    I agree with this post, and the facts it outlines.

  6. #336

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    A penis that's intact vs a penis that's cut are completely different. Male circumcision is akin to female circumcision and both are done for the exact same reasons. Men who have foreskins like us have far more sensitive penises and get more sexual pleasure than men who are cut do. They have done many studies about this that showed how intact men have more sexual pleasure, give more sexual pleasure to male/female partners during sex, and get more sexual and masturbatory pleasure. Synthetic lube is not the norm it's chemicals and it's not a naturally produced lubricant like a man's precum, saliva, or a woman's vaginal secretions are. All men who are cut (circumcised) have a gross unsightly scar where their foreskin used to be, and the frenulum or the skin that connects the head to the shaft is mutilated or in many cases completely torn off of a cut man's dick; but in men who have foreskin it's completely intact and left alone. I have also been with cut men who had completely dried out penises from being cut, and I felt really bad for them. Actually circumcision is pretty horrific both for the infant and for the adult man who owns the penis and is masturbating or sexually active. I have met a lot of cut men over the decades who have told me how if they had the choice instead of their parents or some doctor they would have kept their foreskin. I also have seen guys who had botched circumcisions-google pics or look on the site http://www.circumstitions.com/Botched.html at the pics there-and they had nasty deformities like skin bridges, and one guy I grew up with they actually had to graph skin from his scrotum onto his penis since they mutilated his penis even more when he was getting cut.

  7. #337

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by DiamondDog View Post
    All men who are cut (circumcised) have a gross unsightly scar where their foreskin used to be, and the frenulum or the skin that connects the head to the shaft is mutilated or in many cases completely torn off of a cut man's dick; but in men who have foreskin it's completely intact and left alone.
    dd that is simply not true.
    I am surprised that one so seemingly balanced as urself, would let personal feelings cloud their public judgement of issues.
    'All men'?
    are u that much of a slut that u can claim this? I doubt it.

    i am uncut but.... I have *never* seen a 'gross unsightly scar' in cut men who I have been with, including sexual partners I know intimately well.

    I *do not* support casual circumcision, and believe the foreskin should remain intact.
    But I also do not support casual condemnation of men who are cut, by using catch-all generalisations based on personal fear or horror.

    D
    Last edited by dafydd; Oct 28, 2013 at 8:50 PM. Reason: It was too long so I cut it.
    "I like the pole & the hole."

  8. #338

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by dafydd View Post
    dd that is simply not true. I am surprised that one so seemingly balanced as urself, would let personal feelings cloud their public judgement of issues. 'All men'? are u that much of a slut that u can claim this? I doubt it. i am uncut but.... I have *never* seen a 'gross unsightly scar' in cut men who I have been with, including sexual partners I know intimately well. I *do not* support casual circumcision, and believe the foreskin should remain intact. But I also do not support casual condemnation of men who are cut, by using catch-all generalisations based on personal fear or horror. D
    My comment isn't based on fear or horror. Where I'm describing on cut men is where the foreskin used to be before it was taken off of the person it belonged to without their consent. Circumcision of a penis is genital mutilation and it detracts or takes away the natural astheticism of a penis the way it is supposed to be, and when it's done on an infant or young boy it's done without consent and just as bad as female circumcision. Also there are health issues associated with circumcision such as how if a man is cut he is a lot more likely to have erectile dysfunction, not to mention how circumcision makes a man's penis dry, less sensitive, smaller in length and circumfrence, and a lot of nerve endings are removed. I guess the term I'd say that a cut penis is that it's lacking something major which is a completely whole foreskin. I have seen some men who had half of their foreskin taken off and the rest left on but it begs the question why do anything to it at all in the first place? I feel bad for cut men since they have a penis that's far less sensitive than those of us who are in the majority and have a foreskin. When I have been single I did not refuse men who were cut but I felt bad for them since they didn't have a choice and their genitals were mutilated. Men should make this decision on their own bodies themselves, not have it made for them when they're an infant. I have met a lot of men who are cut who have told me how they are not happy with being cut and how they wished they'd been left intact instead of getting their foreskin literally ripped off which is what happens during a circumcision. Yes you can see the scar from genital mutilation on all circumcised men, and you can tell that the penis is not supposed to be that way. You do not have to be promiscious, a "slut", or have had lots of male sexual partners in order to tell this. Or as I once wrote before, "Having sex with a guy that's cut is like having sex with a woman who is missing her clitoral hood and who has mutilated labia" as both female and male circumcision are equally as barbaric and are both mutilating someone's genitals. A circumcision scar represents conformity, abuse, genital mutilation, and in some cases pointless religious dogma. It's 2013 there's no need to mutilate anyone's genitals. Eventually the practice of mutilating a infant or boy's genitals will die off and become illegal, since worldwide most men are intact, have no issues with having an intact penis with a foreskin, and there are even Jews and Muslims who are not blinded by religious dogma who are against doing this to their sons. I found this image and it shows just what exactly is lost and just how majorly desensitized a penis is when it's cut or mutilated during a circumcision. This is a graphic that shows how severly less sensitive a cut penis is compared to an intact penis. It also references a study. This is an excellent article which has more reasons why genital mutilation of boys should be illegal and a thing of the past. http://www.theguardian.com/science/t...rt-of-comments

  9. #339

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    My partner and I are both very anti-circumcision and know that one day circumcision of boys will stop both in the United States and worldwide. It's sad that so many young boys have the best part of their penis taken away from them, and have mutilated penises instead that don't work nearly as well or give them nearly as much sexual pleasure!

  10. #340

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by NMCowboys View Post
    My partner and I are both very anti-circumcision and know that one day circumcision of boys will stop both in the United States and worldwide. It's sad that so many young boys have the best part of their penis taken away from them, and have mutilated penises instead that don't work nearly as well or give them nearly as much sexual pleasure!
    I trust u don't use with ur partner as many names as u use on .com babes.. God knos how he/she/it/them keeps track of ya.. do ya have a diff 1 for each ID? Hope not or u will soon b on here calling yasel summat else talking 'bout wot a cheating, 2 timing ratbag u r...we manage 2 keep track ofya cos we r clever.. hope he/she/it/them is half as much.. and I say that as 1 who agrees wiv ur stance on circumscision.. just don't think u do our side ne favours that's all.. but no matta.. u give us gud laff at times..
    Do not think so little of me as to grant me your tolerance. Allow me your acceptance and understanding of who and what I am with the love, respect and dignity with which I do you.

  11. #341

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    I hold that male genital mutilation, called circumcision, of children in the USA is indeed illegal, and unconstitutional.

    It is illegal to circumcise female minors, and it's even illegal to prick with a pin the genitals of female minors---------so where is "equal protection under the law" for male minors?

    If it's wrong to force genital mutilation on female minors, it should be equally illegal to do the same to male minors----it is sexist in the extreme, and unconstitutional as such to prohibit circumcision of minors of one sex while allowing it for the other.

    In addition, parents are NEVER given complete information about the adverse effects and complications resulting from male genital mutilation---the psychological effects of the mutilation are never discussed or even considered. Each year a lot of infant and young boys die from having their genitals mutilated, and they all get their genitals disfigured when they are mutilated by a Rabbi, surgeon, doctor, nurse, etc. The pain for an infant boy going through a mutilation is so bad that they go into complete shock over it. The right of the male child to genital integrity is never considered.

    Parents cannot choose to circumcise a female minor in the USA, as in almost all civilized countries, and they shouldn't be allowed to do it to males minors, either.

    In addition, there are no standards to male genital mutilation; the damage varies wildly, as clearly evidenced by the scarring from the wounds to the penis, which can appear anywhere from the base to the glans (head of penis) which disfigures the penis. Not only doctors circumcise male minors; nurses and inexperienced medical students can even indiscriminately hack away at the genitals of male babies and rip off the foreskin.


    Circumcision is a fraud, male genital mutilation that's involuntarily done to the owner of the penis, and a hoax.

    A foreskin is not a birth defect; it is a birthright.

    The newest (most advanced) medical thinking is there is never a need to amputate the parts of the penis called the foreskin (no more than any NEED to cut off the clitoral hood of a baby girl). But most societies and cultures around the world do not practice male or female genital mutilation and see no need for it, and those boys, girls, men, and women who have their genitals left fully intact are perfectly healthy and fine.

    The US so wants to justify what they have done to so many men that the push to pass it on to the next generation continues. There is a cycle of mutilation that needs to be broken. Until then boys and the men they become are being harmed. The parts cut off are the MOST innervated parts of the HUMAN MALE. When you cut the parts off you shut down a huge part of the kid’s/man’s sensory system. That can never be returned (it is shut down for good). Also, many cut men have sexual function issues from the start of sexual activity. However, most will get ED at a much younger age than they would otherwise (cut men are 4.5 TIMES as likely to get ED). Most cut guys reach middle age and then problems can and do occur (NUMB dick, and a penis that's totally dry and far less sensitive than a penis that's been left intact with a foreskin). Most guys don't talk about these issues, but it is a fact that most VIAGRA is consumed by cut men. Cut guys are missing out on natural sex and masturbation from the start of sexual activity. Male genital mutilation or circumcision has also been proven to decrease the circumference and length of a man's penis.

    MGM (male genital mutilation or circumcision) doesn't protect against HIV and other STDs. Many nations that don't mutilate their sons have lower rates of HIV and other STDs than nations that do mutilate their sons. Teaching PROPER sex education is the key to lowering HIV and STD rates. Amputating erogenous tissue, and mutilating an infant or young boy's penis doesn't teach safe sex.

    The only person that has the right to cut off erogenous tissue is from their penis is the owner of that penis. Any religion or society that allows otherwise is primitive and BARBARIC.

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    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by drugstore cowboy View Post
    The worst reasons by far for circumcision are that it's part of someone's religion and simply has to be done because Allah/Yaweh said so in an outdated religious text that's been translated so much for thousands of years that it no longer has the same meaning now as it did when it was first written and it does not apply to the modern world in 2011. Then you have parents who think that their kid is going to go neurotic if his penis does not look like his father's and that other boys/men in the school locker room or even men's room will notice him and tease him.

    Circumcision is nothing but genital mutilation and it does not make the penis somehow cleaner or less prone to STDs. It actually makes the penis less sensitive and removes a vital part of the penis the foreskin which has lots of nerve endings and the foreskin is designed to protect the glans or penis' head. It would be like going out into icy cold wearing and not wearing gloves and then wondering why your hands become chapped, bleeding, and rough.

    Doctors and nurses do frequently tell lies about circumcision to the parents such as "Oh he slept through the entire thing!" or "He didn't cry at all!" which is all total bullshit since infants are strapped down and even with anesthesia they do feel lots of pain since a very sensitive part of their penis is being cut off. They actually do pass out from the pain or stay awake and fully conscious and then go into shock from it.

    Then you have American parents like Twyla, Pasadena, and even Canadian parents believing these lies and trying to justify just why they had their sons' penises mutilated when it's a completely barbaric and useless operation that serves no medical benefits at all.

    Ontheside posted how doctors do happen to make a lot of money from circumcision and even a gay male German friend of mine who happens to be cut and in the minority in his country he claims it was done just so some doctor would make some money while his brothers are not cut.

    It's common sense people. You're cutting off a very sensitive part of someone's penis. How could the boy somehow not be in pain even if they were pumped full of anesthetics? Consequently lots of boys do die from being circumcised or they get their penises even more mutilated and damaged from "accidents" and some even do die from the anesthesia and none of this would have happened if the boy never had his genitals mutilated because his parents wanted it based on their selfish ideas or because of pointless outdated religious beliefs. There is even a case where a Rabbi gave a boy herpes when he was mutilating the boy's genitals.

    The idea that a penis that is cut is "normal" is totally an American concept that's false and most men in the world and most countries and cultures in the world do not practice male genital mutilation unlike in the United States.

    Even in the United States and Canada less and less parents are mutilating their boys' genitals which is a good thing. As far as teasing goes nobody gets teased for being intact with a foreskin and even if they do people get teased over everything from their hair style to the clothes they wear to their nose or they way that they talk.

    Premature ejaculation is significantly more common among circumcised men. The term intact is used since uncut states the false theory that being "cut" is normal when actually less men in the world are cut than are actually intact with a foreskin.

    The fact that male circumcision is performed on infants hides somewhat the barbarity of it in some American parents' minds like Twyla and Pasadena have shown here.

    Babies' only means of communicating distress verbally is through crying, so one more instance of crying brought on by the trauma of circumcision just disappears into the excuse of, well, that's what babies do - cry. It's much easier to dismiss the cries of anguish of a baby as normal than it is to dismiss the cries of anguish of pre-adolescent or adolescent girl.

    Male circumcision is directly related to the rediculous religious and cultural idea that Yahweh's Chosen People have a special mark. That is a barbaric idea. That cultural ideas about male circumcision have changed, using so-called medical or aesthetic reasons does not diminish the barbarity of the practice when it is performed on infants unable to grant consent.

    Male circumcision (as it is usually practised) is an elective procedure performed upon an individual that has not granted consent. It is either done for religious purposes, or aesthetic purposes. Any claim to sexual health benefit is dubious; condoms provide far better protection than what is claimed for circumcision.

    the fact that the child can't protest such a procedure, violates the right of the child to be free from physical intrusion.

    Why parents are so obsessed with the genitals of their children that they choose to remove a part of it, is beyond me?

    It's pretty offensive to say that women have a little bit more right to their complete genitalia than men. Of course the female mutilation is also grounded in misogyny-so that women will be faithful to their husbands. Some cultures even sew up the vagina after they mutilate the clitoris. This is disgusting and repulsive and it needs to stop.

    But we ALL equally deserve to be born without being mutilated, and without our permission. It's ludicrous to suggest otherwise.

    some of the more well known benefits of not being circumcised such as easier masturbation and being more in control of your orgasm (premature ejaculation) it apparently also has some benefits for the sexual partners of uncircumcised men. I've been told that it's somewhat nicer for women and men to have vaginal and anal intercourse with an uncircumcised male because the foreskin acts like a natural cockring.

    People say that circumcision doesn't not affect sexual function: it does. The foreskin helps the penis slide in and out during copulation, it contains sensitive nerve endings that enhance sexual pleasure, and it protects the head of the penis (as anyone knows how has worn pants with jeans in them without underwear-and I won't do that again). It is not just some flap of skin. Every body is under this misapprehension because of the propaganda from centuries ago that was scientifically unsound. Furthermore, the goal was to reduce sexual desire-because it's sinful.

    If circumcision were free of acute risks and perfectly painless it would still be a huge violation of human rights. It takes away about half a male's pleasure-receptive nerve endings, removes protection for the mucosal parts meant to keep them supple and sensitive, and changes intimacy for the worse by eliminating the frictionless rolling/gliding action of the slinky skin that makes sex more plush for a man and his partner. It also makes the penis THINNER, reducing the diameter by 4 skin thicknesses (the skin doubles under and enfolds over the glans upon a withdrawal phase so there are two layers on either side of the glans).

    In the only study to carefully measure the fine-touch sensitivity on various spots on the penis for over 150 men, of 17 spots they measured the 5 most sensitive were all on the foreskin. You might ask why they measured the foreskin more than once. That's because it comprises about 15 square inches in the adult. It includes some outer skin like the surviving shaft skin on a cut guy, the roll-over point which is very ticklish, the ridged band of highly concentrated sexual nerve endings, the frenular delta, and the frenulum (the neurological homologue to the clitoris).

    Involuntary penis reduction surgery? Bloody brilliant idea!


    It's no coincidence that circumcision has its greatest detrimental effect on sexuality. Maimonides (or Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon, a twelfth-century philosopher, legal scholar, and physician often called "Judaism's Aristotle") said: "As regards circumcision, I think one of its objects is to limit sexual intercourse and to weaken the organ of generation as far as possible, and thus cause man to be moderate... The bodily injury caused to that organ is exactly that which is desired; it does not interrupt any vital function, nor does it destroy the power of generation. Circumcision simply counteracts excessive lust; for there is no doubt that circumcision weakens the power of sexual excitement, and sometimes lessens the natural enjoyment; the organ necessarily becomes weak when it loses blood and is deprived of its covering from the beginning."

    The "weakening" of sexuality was precisely the reason circumcision was introduced into medical practice in the United States as a "prophylactic" during the 19th century. Until that time, the practice was virtually nonexistent. Here in good ol' God-fearing, Puritanical America, masturbation was not only considered sinful, but was deemed a major health peril as well. Countless maladies were thought to accrue from this "degenerate" practice, and, in 1888, J. H. Kellogg--the All Bran laxative king--together with other Victorians of his ilk, began proselytizing for mass circumcision as a deterrent to "self abuse." Their purpose was to keep the male youth of America from masturbating, going blind and insane with hair growing on the palms of their hands. Kellogg said, "Tying the hands is also successful in some cases... Covering the organs with a cage has been practiced with entire success. A remedy which is almost always successful in small boys is circumcision... The operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anesthetic, as the brief pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind, especially if it be connected with the idea of punishment."

    These self-promoting defenders of public health and morality claimed that circumcision also cured a vast litany of masturbation-related ills and proselytized for its mass acceptance as an "immunizing inoculation." They claimed it cured everything from alcoholism to asthma, curvature of the spine, enuresis, epilepsy, elephantiasis, gout, headache, hernia, hydrocephalus, insanity, kidney disease, rectal prolapse and rheumatism. In the face of rationality and modern research, contemporary circumcisionists have abandoned most of these claims but have now updated their list to include cancer, urinary tract infections, sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV, and premature ejaculation.

    The cancer argument has been an especially effective scare tactic, prompting officials of the American Cancer Society to write a letter to the American Academy of Pediatrics condemning the promulgation of the myth that circumcision prevents penile cancer. "The American Cancer Society does not consider routine circumcision to be a valid or effective measure to prevent such cancers... Perpetuating the mistaken belief that circumcision prevents cancer is inappropriate."

    Of course it is. Penile cancer is an extremely rare condition, affecting only one in 100,000 men in the United States. Penile cancer rates in countries that do not practice circumcision are lower than those found in the United States. Fatalities caused by circumcision accidents may approximate the mortality rate from penile cancer, and, for circumcised men who do contract penile cancer, the lesion may occur at the site of the circumcision scar. Portraying routine circumcision as an effective means of prevention distracts the public from the task of avoiding the behaviors proven to contribute to penile and cervical cancer: especially cigarette smoking and unprotected sexual relations with multiple partners. The ACS has recently reiterated this position on their web site and also notes that "...circumcision is not medically necessary."

    On a recent BBC radio broadcast of "Case Notes", pediatric urologist Rowena Hitchcock pointed out that "Even using the figures of those who support circumcision one would have to perform 140 circumcisions a week for 25 years before you could prevent one case of cancer. Of those cancers, 80% are treatable and they are avoidable by simply pulling the foreskin back and washing it, which I would prefer to 140 circumcisions a week for 25 years."

    The "cancer prevention" argument would have greater persuasive appeal if applied to breast cancer in women. The American Cancer Society estimates that 44,000 women will die of breast cancer in 1998. This same year, by comparison, an estimated 200 men, most of them beyond 70 years of age with poor hygiene habits, will die of penile cancer. If amputating healthy tissue is an antidote to cancer, it would make far more "sense" to routinely perform radical mastectomies on adolescent girls and remove the breast buds of all newborn females than to amputate the foreskin of male infants to prevent such comparatively paltry numbers. But nobody in their right mind would suggest this as appropriate therapy... except when applied to infant boys, that is. Go figure.

    The HIV scare is another in the continuing effort of circumcision advocates to view their favorite "surgery" as a hedge against disease. Despite the fact that the United States is a "circumcising country," where the majority of sexually-active men are cut, we nevertheless have the highest HIV infection rate among advanced industrialized countries. In fact, the U.S. has an infection rate 3.5 times greater than the next leading country, or 16 cases per 100,000 population. None of the other advanced industrialized countries circumcise routinely. France, the Netherlands, the United Kingdom, Germany, Sweden, Norway, New Zealand, Finland and Japan all have near-zero infant circumcision rates, yet their AIDS infection rate goes from 3.5 cases per 100,000 down to 0.2, respectively. Consequently, not only is it clear that circumcision does not prevent HIV or AIDS, the infection rates suggest that circumcision may actually contribute to HIV infection by depriving the penis of the natural immunological protection of the foreskin. But rest assured, as soon as medical science debunks these latest "benefits" for mass mutilations, the pro-circumcision industry will invent new reasons and new diseases for continued use of their favorite treatment of nonexistent ills.


    The circumcision epidemic is a national scandal in this country and a crime against infant boys. Simply put, infant circumcision is child abuse. It is gratuitous genital mutilation and should be banned along with thumb screws, hot pincers and boiling in oil as nothing short of perverse. In a recent article appearing in ObGYN News, doctor Leo Sorger says, "Circumcision causes pain, trauma, and a permanent loss of protective and erogenous tissue. Removing normal, healthy, functioning tissue violates the United Nations Universal Declaration of Human Rights (Article 5) and the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (Article 13)."

    The foreskin is not a birth defect needing remedy by the A.M.A. Nobody in all of Europe, non-Muslim Asia, or Latin America is routinely circumcised. In fact, the only people who routinely cut off the most erogenous part of their boys' penis are Jews, Muslims, certain tribal groups in far-flung parts of the world and... the United States. Everybody else leaves their sons intact as nature made them." This is a fact. Indisputable. Most leave their girls intact, too.

    Roughly one million baby boys a year in this country are rudely welcomed into the world by the amputation, without anesthesia, of an integral, sexually important part of their anatomy. By definition, the removal of a normal, healthy, functional body part is mutilation. Pure and simple. These one million babies represent around 60% of all male infants born in this country, a figure that is down from a high reached in the 1970's and 1980's of around 90%. And what is truly astounding is that, while we become incensed over the female genital mutilations going on in Africa and other third-world countries far, far away, we ignore the routine mutilations perpetrated here against our own sons.

    The sexism of this perspective is stunning. In fact, in 1996 the U.S. Congress, eager to appease feminist groups and appear to be the Great White Protectors of American Girlhood, passed a law against female circumcision or any other form of genital modification of girls below the age of consent. This was pure political theater, baby kissing, butt patting. As a society, we simply do not cut the genitals of baby girls in this country... only the genitals of baby boys. Passing a law against female genital mutilation (FGM) was a slam dunk for the politicians. They could look big and strong and macho and foursquare in favor of protecting babies... as long as the babies were girls, that is. In our culture, unlike other more civilized societies, it is perfectly acceptable to amputate the male prepuce against the shrieking protests of the victims. Our national chauvinism has blinded us to our own human rights abuses and genital mutilation against our sons.

    in the United States there is a huge industry based on circumcision just like there is in certain parts of Africa and the middle east.

    forskins are not just flushed away,but they are used in a variety of ways,so someone is making money off this barbaric practice. ome are used in a facial cream (ironically enough) that is supposed to get rid of wrinkles. Costs US$130. for a six week supply.

    In fact FGM and MGM are THE SAME. Both can boast studies pointing to reduced HIV incidence (and the opposite). Both are done by coercion and force. Both are often loudly condoned by the victims. Both send hundreds to the morgue and thousands to the hospital annually. Both leave victims with an altered abililty to enjoy sex.

    I find it amazing that, in a culture where almost no one would support tattooing a baby girl or boy, so many people support amputation of a functional organ.

    I can just imagine what would happen if a parent said "My religion demands a cross or Star of David be tattooed on the child's forehead". It would be on the news, and the parents would be vilified.

    Yet, tattoo removal is reasonable to acheive. Expensive, yes, and painful, yes. But it's done all of the time. But circumcision reversal is not so easy, and does not fully replace what was taken. Even where circumcision is done for a therapeutic reason, the issue (usually phimosis) could usually be resolved without removal of the entire prepuce, and possibly without actual surgery.


    We (the USA) don't cry out against male circumcision because it's 'our' accepted brand of genital mutilation. We've only recently begun to examine it as a society, as far as I know. We’re still attached to it as a custom and don't see it as being aberrant yet.

    Here are my reasons it should fall by the wayside, in some sort of order:

    - It has never been shown to be necessary
    - The object of the procedure is generally not the one choosing it.
    - It’s permanent, barring restoration attempts.
    - It’s a very unpleasant procedure.
    - The advantages come mainly from societal conditioning.

    There's neither a reason nor any reasoning for circumcision. I've heard a fellow atheist assert that parents fundamentally have the right--because they're the parents--to do whatever they want to their kid, because apparently being able to have sex and yield an infant is magic.

    If the removal of the body parts of other people were to be discussed for any set of people and body parts other than children/infants and genitals, we would straightforwardly reject it: "No, you have no grounds upon which to have your fellow adults' bodies altered." "No, you may not have any of the toes of your baby removed." Apparently, genitals and babies are magic.

    Circumcision started being done routinely in the USA to stop boys from wanting to masturbate. It was encouraged by Kellogg (of Corn Flake fame), who also encouraged using acid on the female clitoris for the same reason. When the US medical industry realised they could make good money this way, but public opinion was starting to turn, they changed the story and said it was for 'health reasons'. Watch the Penn and Teller: Bullshit! episode on circumcision. It's horrific what they do to these poor kids, without consent. The kids are strapped down, and go into a catatonic state of fear and pain.

    Kellogg was beyond a loon. He bragged in his memoir that he had no sex on his honeymoon. Many doctors back then thought all sexual acts drained you of life-force.

    For all of the fools proclaiming that being cut somehow makes a penis "clean" a foreskin is easy to take care of and you just wash it with soap and water like you would any other body part. Circumcision is not some magic bullet that will prevent you from getting STDs or transmitting them if you have them.

    You get STDs including HIV by having unprotected sex with people who have them and from not using condoms or having safer sex. Like other people have written in this thread condoms and safer sex work far better than any genital mutilation does.

    117 newborn boys die as a result of circumcisions each year. Hundreds of others survive botched jobs and are seriously deformed for life.

    It is abuse. It is mutilation. It should be an adult male's decision. And as elective surgery, it certainly should not be covered by health insurance.
    Well said. There's no need to mutilate anyone's genitals at all.

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    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by NMCowboys View Post
    Well said. There's no need to mutilate anyone's genitals at all.
    Huh. Not "too long, didn't read", eh?
    I hope my achievements in life shall be these: that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need...that I will have left the earth a better place for what I've done and who I've been. (C. Hoppe)

  14. #344

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    I just posted to another thread about my experience with circumcision as a consenting adult (19) and the social pressures to have it done.

    I don't blame anyone Except MYSELF for being a stupid whimp.

  15. #345

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Statisically, there is a high rate of people who bring this thread back as ending up being banned or cooling off. In memorial BiDave, Bluebiyou, Drugstore Cowboy, JP1986UM, NCCowboy, ExSailor, Young Pussy and Dope, Top Fucker. When will trolls ever learn?
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  16. #346

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by Jorge F View Post
    Well said. I'm not cut and there's no need to get cut as it's genital mutilation.
    Bollox... well said ur arse... it may be right and proper and I may agree with every word that is said.. but the last thing it is, is well said... and the last thing I am going to do is wade through that wall of words to find out...
    Do not think so little of me as to grant me your tolerance. Allow me your acceptance and understanding of who and what I am with the love, respect and dignity with which I do you.

  17. #347

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by tenni View Post
    Statisically, there is a high rate of people who bring this thread back as ending up being banned or cooling off. In memorial BiDave, Bluebiyou, Drugstore Cowboy, JP1986UM, NCCowboy, ExSailor, Young Pussy and Dope, Top Fucker. When will trolls ever learn?
    Statistically, there is a high rate of people who hate this discussion being brought back because they could very well end up with the logical conclusion that they've harmed someone they supposedly love... if you want to play Erik Cartman's "discredit your opponent" game.

    I'll admit, we abolitionists are strong willed. Our logic is solid; don't sexually mutilate healthy babies (how difficult is that?).
    I can't even read through all of DD's lengthy quotes, but from what I have read they are correct (not his own creation but a real quote). Wow! The extent of medical literature extolling this mutilation as merely a cultural tradition. Imagine the cognitive dissonance of those who did this to their children.
    Personal Aside:
    I was abused as a child. When I grew up I was a big fellow and abuse nearly disappeared (except from guys with little man syndrome, I ignored them as effectively as I could). But I remember what it was like to be smaller and have someone - larger/with more power - abuse you because they could. I see circumcision (male or female) as the same. But rather than sexual needs or greed, the motivating force was mostly conformity needs of the aggressor, or worse - passive indifferent compliance.

    While I'm almost entirely a very gentle man, I can lose my shit when I see a bigger person abuse a smaller person.

    When I see an adult publicly assert (s)he has the absolute right to sexually harm a child... and the right itself cannot be questioned... I have to restrain myself here because of the rules of this site.
    My problem just a few years ago on this board was that I also had a psychopath coworker who was trying to kill me over a 7 year period (my stress level was up), and sometimes I'd have a few too many drinks, then I'd log onto this board. I became abusive and would totally lose my shit when a woman would declare it was totally wrong to sexually harm a girl but totally right to sexually harm a boy (this brings back memories of my childhood abuse). I would write scathing stuff and then delete it and then start over. I bet I wrote a hundred posts as a "letter you never intend to send". On a couple occasions I accidentally or drunkenly hit 'send' or 'post' instead of deleting. Thus I was (rightfully) banned. Yes I was... to a social extent, a troll. And on st least 5 occasions I was just an an angry troll poster/personal emailer (I especially regret these).
    I've calmed down.

    However the logic of this subject in incontrovertible, except to those mired in denial.

    The most definitive/comprehensive work done on this subject was a book by a Jewish man: Circumcision: An American health fallacy by Edward Wallerstein in 1980.

    1980 was 34 years ago. It's one thing to claim ignorance withing a year or two or three, but a decade or two?
    This book is available in nearly every public library in the usa. If you are a parent within the last 30 years and you haven't read it, it is because you don't care.
    Do any of the pro mutilation people on this site have any real logical argument with any of the logic of that book?
    Has a single pro mutilation person read the book cover to cover?
    Not yet on this site.

    I suspect the pro factions will simply recycle the weak/false (already disproved) arguments:

    It looks better.
    It's venereal disease prevention.
    It'll just become diseased and have to be cut off later.
    My culture/family have done this for a long time.
    The doctor told me to do it.
    I want my son to look culturally "normal" in the locker room for a couple years in high school.
    (add additional wive's tales here -there are many)

    or worse:

    "I've already done this and I emotionally can't accept that I've harmed my child(ren), my ego can't accept that I've made such a horrible mistake, so therefore I shall cling to denial and endorse mutilation for eternity (but only my own localized culturally accepted form of mutilation - people who do different forms than 'us' are wrong)."

    Tenni, I think I've got this subject (and subsequent reactions) "statistically" down pat, wouldn't you?
    Blue

  18. #348

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Wow, had I been an efficient troll I would have already noticed the fact that:

    Quote Originally Posted by Long Duck Dong View Post
    nobody is playing any games, I have you on ignore tenni ...

    you got banned for that by drew...
    As it was I wasn't searching for it, I just stumbled into it, as a thread you started in close time to your posting in this thread.
    Tenni you are clearly opinionated. I sometimes agree with you.

    It is my stand that the horrible tradition (as it is nothing more and tragically nothing less than tradition) of sexual mutilation of girls and boys is wrong... and we must collectively stop it in recognition of the same. Just as we overcame as - somewhat - a world society, property status of women. "It's okay to beat your woman, just not too bad... How can you rape your wife? She gave sexual consent at the marriage!".
    Now, in 2014, we're just fighting "We have a God given right to sexually mutilate our children." Tradition is the toughest bitch of all. Look at the middle east Islamic "don't show your face woman, wear a burka, else you're a slut wanting to be raped!" common attitude (even for an ugly loving old grandma).
    So there will always be parents demanding to sexually mutilate their sons and/or daughters. Tradition, culture, and emotion frequently override logic.

    Tenni, it is also interesting that you use an argument tool (trolls, being banned, cooling off) that in retrospect condemns yourself as well, hoping no one remembers. My respect for... any of your arguments has just declined due to your use of argumentative technique over logic.

  19. #349

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by nakedheathen View Post
    I note the lack of comments regarding circumcision and STDs? How about some facts on the number of STDs that decrease as circumcision increases in non industrialized countries?

    I am cut and it works fine. Dont feel strongly one way or the other except that I really dont think that governments have the right to tell parents how to raise their children. But before all the "but what if you were beating your kids to death" arguements come running out, there is a difference between abhorent behavior, ie killing abusing children, and having a surgical procedure performed that doesnt threaten the life and is in keeping with that families religous traditions.

    Finally, is male circumcision illegal any where else in the world?
    You're totally incorrect that involuntary genital mutilation or circumcision reduces STDs.

    It's not nearly as effective as actually having safer sex, and using condoms. Plus there's no need to mutilate anyone's genitals and that includes women and men.

    There are even lots of cut/mutilated men who think that because they are cut/mutilated they do not need to use condoms or practise safer sex.

    You have a tiny penis and that's because you are cut/mutilated...as circumcision does reduce penis size/length, and circumference.

    Actually, a lot of boys do die from circumcision, and the ones that live have mutilated genitals.

    It's so painful that infant or young boys go into shock. It should be illegal the way female genital mutilation is in most countries, and eventually it will become illegal. Even in the United States a lot of people are choosing not to mutilate their sons' genitals.
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  20. #350

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by lizard-lix View Post
    As a cut male, I really can't understand the big deal...

    My cock works fine, it is easier to keep clean and I have never seen any valid medical data showing that male circumcision is harmful.

    Personally I do not waste my time on MALE circumcision, I DO think that outlawing FEMALE circumcision is a MUCH more worthy fight since the clitoris and hence the primary means to orgasm is removed.

    So I guess the Jewish folks in SF will have to cross the bridge... I wonder if they plan to have cock cops to check incoming...

    There are so many more important things to fight about, outlawing male circumcision seems insignificant in light of all the prejudicial things us dis-oriented folks have to deal with.

    Just my 2 cents...

    Liz
    …if you think your dick works just fine…consider how it would work if all those nerve endings hadn’t been destroyed & you felt 10 or 20% (I don’t really know how much feeling they predict you lost) more pleasure…you don’t miss what you never had…but that doesn’t mean it wasn’t there before it was cut off……

  21. #351

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by sammie19 View Post
    I have always been in two minds about male circumcision. On the one hand I do see the likes of Fran's argument that until such times as a child is old enough to be able to make up his own mind based on information available to him, it can be argued that to remove the foreskin is an assault on a helpless child. It has taken from him the the right to choose, and, arguably deprives him of much additional sexual pleasure he will now never know.

    I also see from the other point of view the concern parents have over the sexual health and hygeine of their child and the strong religious motivations and traditions which involve male circumcision. The argument that what he doesn't remember he will never miss is sound also and so I can see Lizard's point of view. Another issue is that I am told that circumcision is a more serious operation for an adult male than for a baby boy. Something which may create mental obstacles in the way of many men choosing circumcision or otherwise based on the principle of informed consent.

    From a strictly female point of view, living in a country where most men are uncircumcised it is what I have been most accustomed to, but have had sufficient experience of circumcised men to know I prefer the other kind. That is not to say I have not enjoyed sex with circumcised men it is merely to say that there are options available to a woman that a man without a foreskin cannot provide. Women of America for instance will probably have quite the opposite experience and preference to those in the UK and Western Europe. So from a purely sexual point of view it is a subjective judgement we will all have made or have to make.

    It is an issue which pours forth very strong emotions, and should I ever have a child, shall I have him circumcised? No I will not. Do I think it should be banned unless informed consent is given by the person upon whom the procedure is carried out? Instinctively I say yes, but there are far more serious issues in our world than something which divides two continents. Clitorectomy being one. Poverty, discrimination and prejudice being just a few others. I would argue for the principle of informed consent of the individual concerned except in cases of medical need, but I don't think I would go to the wall for it.
    …well said…thanks…

  22. #352

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by Briar Rose View Post
    It was a moot point for us. My son was born with a serious version of hypospadias. The surgeon used his foreskin to do the penile reconstruction. I think the number of boys born with hypospadias is about 1% in the US (and the numbers are apparently on the rise).

    We talked about it at the time, (two decades ago), before we knew about the hypospadias, and I remember that all the information we could find indicated that it was healthier to circumcise. The doctors all recommended it. We never saw anything to indicate otherwise. Now of course, with the growth of the internet, you can find both sides of the discussion.

    If I were having a boy now, I don't think I would do it. Though in the US, it would make him a minority and a potential target for bullying in middle and high school.
    …no he wouldn’t be a target for bullying…the bully would have to admit looking at your dick in the shower in gym class or whatever & no teenager is going to admit that…

  23. #353

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by Katja View Post
    Drew will deal with him how? By banning him? What has the man said to justify that? That you don't like the message or messenger? So much for the much lauded American ideal of freedom of speech. I don't like the pro-circumcision lobby's stance but the last thing I would do is to try and have its advocates gagged or banned however inflammatory they may be.
    …this was what I was asking myself too…what did he say to rate banning?....

  24. #354

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by BiDaveDtown View Post
    For those who believe male circumcision should be allowed for religious reasons; GET REAL.

    Do you know what the bible, what Orthodox Judaism and most of Islam says about us bisexual and gay men?!

    I guess it also means that you condone female circumcision for religious reasons and the fact that Christianity, Orthodox Judaism, and especially Islam put women in a subservient position to that of men.

    If you're arguing for male circumcision because of religion/culture, or freedom of religion then you are for female circumcision as well since there are various religions and cultures worldwide who do this to girls as a part of their religion or culture.

    No one chooses their religion when they are born. Boys are born Jewish through their Jewish mother or they are Moslem because of their Moslem mother or Moslem father, therefore they are Jewish or Moslem, therefore they DO NOT need their foreskins chopped off to become Jewish or Moslem. Also, let them decide if they want to be Jewish or Moslem when they are older.

    Religion is not a sufficient reason to mutilate a child's genitals. Actually there is not sufficient reason.

    If I know anything I know dick. Circumcision makes masturbation more difficult. It makes sex harder and less pleasurable for the receptive partner. And it desensitizes the penis, POTENTIALLY decreasing sensitivity and sexual pleasure.

    Now of all the things about life on Earth as a human male, sex is one of the best things to look forward to. What kind of sick fucks are you that would POTENTIALLY limit that for a child.

    There is nothing that can be gained by circumcision that can’t be gained by a little soap and water. And there is so much to lose.

    Everyone is born with foreskin, girls too.

    It's commonly referred to as the clitoral hood in females, it's totally analogous to the male foreskin. ALL FORMS of infant and non-adult female circumcision is illegal in America, ALL FORMS to include: pin prick, clitoral removal, clitoral hood removal, labioplasty, etc.

    Because ALL forms of female circumcision in America is illegal, ALL forms of male circumcision ought to be illegal in America as well! Was their an outcry from religious groups in America, who practice any and/or ALL forms of female circumcision, when female circumcision became illegal? I think not. It's time that ALL MALES are protected from ANY form of genital mutilation when they are born. PERIOD!

    Women should stick their noses out of boys' and mens' sex organs and leave them to us to do with as we chose. Mens' penises in Mens' own hands.

    When women foolishly claim "male circumcision makes no difference! It's just some useless skin!" I ask them when the last time they had an actual penis was? Since they'd like to falsely claim that the foreskin "makes no difference and that it's just skin" that they should be perfectly OK then with the removal of their clitoral hood, clitoris, or a reduction of their labia since this would make their vagina cleaner and more aesthetically beautiful than one that still has its clitoral hood and sloppy roast beef labia and all of that excess useless skin on their vagina. A cut vagina is cleaner since it does not produce any yeast or smegma. Why not remove the breasts or cervix too? She won't get breast cancer or cervical cancer if they're removed!

    Amputation of sexual tissue is a parental decision, and circumcision should be mandatory.

    There's nothing nastier than an uncircumcised clitoris or uncircumcised labia - yuck! All that smegma, and yeast! You can't get vulvar cancer if this icky nubbin of skin is cut off. There's no proof that circumcised women have any less sensation! Heck, if I had any more senstation it would drive me crazy, and I plan to circumicse my girls for health reasons. Clearly nature made a mistake, and all girls need to be cut.

    I'm being sarcastic here but it's a good thing that this is being done in San Francisco.

    Most people don't understand why circumcision is so widespread in the United States: it was promoted as a procedure to prevent sinful masturbation (didn't work out too well now did it?). I've met many men whose circumcisions were too extensive, leaving very heavy scarring they hated, nasty ugly skin bridges, or making their penile skin so tight that they felt pain when I lightly jerked them off. I have one friend that had his circumcision "botched" and they took skin from his balls and graphed it onto his cock and his balls do not hang at all and his penis is truly mutilated and deformed with heavy ugly scarring.

    I've seen other men both in person and in porn who had flat out ugly penises and it was because of circumcision.

    Also, allowing male circumcision diminishes our moral argument against female circumcision.

    I see ALL circumcision, both male and female done to infants to be genital mutilation.

    It's one thing to have it done elective as an adult but it's wrong to have it done to infants both boys and girls who have no consent over their bodies or genitals even though they should.

    Male circumcision reduces the amount of nerve endings in the penis and that decreases the lack of sexual pleasure, sensitivity, and control over the penis. Premature ejaculation is in the mind so don't give me that "If I was more sensitive I wouldn't be able to stand it!" BS.

    I know TONS of men bisexual, gay, and hetero who are very mad that they were cut and wish that they were left intact with a foreskin.

    The idea that a cut cock is somehow "cleaner" is a joke, it's called washing with soap and water like you should be doing anyway.

    Foreskin is the essence of man! It adds SO MUCH pleasure to sex and it's fun to have the inside licked and gently chewed on, and it's fun to fill it with piss or cum.

    Women's vaginas produce pungent smegma-it's seriously way worse than a man's, and a vagina produces yeast but nobody is saying how we should cut a baby girl's labia or her clitoral hood.

    Let's just stop cutting infants' and boys' and girls' genitals completely and be done with this barbaric and outdated practice that should have been outlawed thousands of years ago.
    …these are the people who only quote the bible if it fits their agenda…

  25. #355

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by Bluebiyou View Post
    Bizel, cool it.
    Please.
    You show compassion, yet misunderstanding.
    My father also was natural (uncut). In WWII the army required him to be cut. He refused. It didn't happen. He had no regrets (why should he? I'm sure he would have told them to also go to hell if they told him to get lobotomized or cut toes or fingers off).
    I could see if I was forced into doing something and was afraid to stand up to it, and allowed it to be done, I would look back on it with my male ego like 'it was probably the best thing', and find some incidental positives too. A clear form of 'adaptive preference formation' (subset of cognitive dissonance). We've already seen many examples of this on these threads.

    And despite modern rhetoric, FGM and MGM share much in common.
    Both are done on innocent children.
    Both are sexual mutilation/molestation.
    Both are intended and succeed to critically reduce sexual feeling/gratification hopefully without killing procreation ability.
    Both are for the cleanliness of the victim.
    Both are very painful. Except for Rizzababies male children. She assured us they escaped all pain when she did it to them/him. We can take her word for it.
    Both are customs.
    Both are farces.
    Both are wrong, doubly so when enforced by a member of the opposite sex. A man has no business endorsing FGM as a woman has no business endorsing MGM. If you're unable to see why that's wrong on two levels... take some time.

    As far as your references of 'cut guys'...
    Don't write any masters' thesis papers using your logic method, you'll never graduate.

    But keep with your empathy and you'll find the right path.
    …Three cheers for your dad for having the balls to say no…

  26. #356

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    Then I can't wait for the ban on breast implants. We'll see how that goes over.

    Why is it that the strongest resentment against circumcision comes from the homosexual front? That is the one thing I've learned within these stupid threads. I like my cut cock. I don't care if you do or not. If you don't then don't suck it. Very easy. It is nothing but pure politics and a certain group pushing their agenda for their own good.

    For fuck's sake!!! Get over yourselves already!!!
    …because straight guys are afraid to discuss the subject for fear they’ll be called gay…

  27. #357

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by littlerayofsunshine View Post
    Tenni, Please.. have an on topic opinion or move on. You are like the old fart still combatin the cowboys and the indians that only live in your mind, but try to make us all relive your delusions. You are the second most mysoginystic, xenophobic, and damn near racist bloke on the block. So many people are too scared to get involved in your pettiness, But damn man, At your age, and how you try to show yourself as an "artistic" man. You should be able to rise above all this childishness that you relay. You offer less insight and ramble on, spending 40 minutes to edit and re edit thoughts to make yourself feel better, diluting any point you might have potentially made. In fact I never understood why you never have a full opinion. But normally end on a question or a smirk. BTW The story of the little girl you wrote twice in two different post, Made me shutter.


    Back to the topic of circ. I wish molestation would stop being used as a term in reference of. Honestly as a child victim of it. Its an insult to us. The thousands year old practice of removing a piece of flesh that doesn't inhibit growth, function, or remove all sensitivity is not molestation. Molestation involves sexual gratification and deviancy or a way to gain power and control over an individual. Circ is a preference, a preference granted the infant doesn't have choice in. But neither does an infant that gets her ears pierced, or a tribal child that gets forced tattooed to show status or tribe.

    Male circ shouldn't be banned, If it was you would see so many religious followers leave, their technology leave, their tax dollars, money... Leave.. There are still grown men that go and have it done, there are grown men that wish that it hadn't been done to them. Some boys need it, due to the fact that their foreskin didn't develop normally and it is too tight around the head of an erect penis, that friction from movement, sex, masturbation, causes intense pain and sometimes tearing, the scars remaining can cause even more pain and lessen retraction of the foreskin. They split the scars and hope it works, so for some circ may be what helps them lead a normal healthy sexual life.

    FEMALE CIRC is not comparable to male circ and to even be able to compare. the removal of the glans would have to take place. So lets back off that argument. Female circ is done in pubescent times, male circ at newborn stage, where chemicals are flooding through the body and even a action such as suckling a nipple, dummy, or bottle will cause pain relieving hormones to ease the discomfort.. Male circ is done to this day for esthetic reasons and health reasons *Where proven or not* Based on religious values. Female circ is done to make a woman less sexual, to make a girl less responsive, to make them not get pregnant at a young age, to make them less likely to cheat on their husband to whom they were most likely promised to by the time the child was school age. To gain power over the girl and to control her.. That is the true molestation.

    Shout out to Ninny ******Hugs girl**** You gave me a lady boner when I saw your post. LTNS!
    …damn…I couldn’t have said it any better…

  28. #358

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by Darkside2009 View Post
    I don't believe that immunisation and circumcision are valid comparisons. One has proven medical benefits without pain or personal injury and the other except in certain rare cases, doesn't.

    I think the point that is being made again and again, is that modification of the body, whether it be by tattoos, piercings, augmentation or reduction should be made by the individual concerned, and not by any other person.

    It is not as though we are talking about life threatening conditions that require immediate surgery, we are discussing an elective operation in which the patient concerned is not given a say in the matter.

    I seem to recall that there was a recent outcry in the US about some mother giving her child botox injections.

    If the child on reaching adulthood decides for themselves that they wish to be circumcised, tattooed or pierced, that is entirely their decision. As a society we quite rightly place restrictions on minors buying alcohol or firearms or driving a vehicle. In the UK at least it is illegal for a minor to be tattooed in a tattoo parlour, and yet it is somehow deemed acceptable to cut bits from the penis of infants that are unable to defend themselves.

    To my mind, we abrogate the trust reposed in us when we allow such procedures to happen. As I see it, our duty is to nurture and care for our offspring, until such time as they are able to fend for themselves.

    I only hope debate on this matter leads more parents to question the validity of the advice they are receiving from doctors. The Chinese once bound the feet of their women, causing deformity and damage in the process. This practice has died out, one can only hope, that circumcision in time, will also be consigned to the dustbin of history.

    I would refer everyone to this article regarding circumcision in the US, it makes for interesting reading. I would also suggest they watch the link to the video posted by Sammie, above, showing an actual circumcision being performed on an infant.

    It is graphic and disturbing, but perhaps that will help clarify in people's minds what we are actually debating, something that no amount of words could convey.

    The article I refer to :-

    http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=l...0Union&f=false
    …Goog point…

  29. #359

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by Bluebiyou View Post
    No. Mikey, it's a gross oversimplification (and clear manipulation on your part) to state that circumcision is just "the appearance". I could rip apart just "the appearance" if that were your true motivation; but it's not, it's just an argumentative/distractive ploy on your part.

    No Mikey, I believe you're trying to belittle, in every manipulative way *sigh*
    1 molesting/mutilating innocent children is not petty, not even by custom.
    2 "possible performance", possible Mikey, possible??? WTF? there is no question of circumcision damage, it is intentional, the damage and loss of feeling is the substantiation... the reason for circumcision! Possible performance?!?! Really Mikey?!? Please immediately present this argument if you want to use it again... present it prominently as a principle argument.
    3 "of another's body part", same evasive moral angle as "why do those abolitionists cause trouble? They're not the ones being enslaved."
    By the way I thought you claimed the center of this matter (in your first sentence) was only about the appearance of a dick...


    Forgive me Mikey, I disliked you before, but I quickly get over it. I'd much rather be friends with you, Pasa, Duck, Twyla, ...
    My opposition to you is entirely because you're maintaining a stance where harsh language required here.

    Bullshit 101

    How can deliberate destruction of 1/4 to 1/3 (complete destruction by complete removal of nerve paths and nerve endings) and incidental destruction of 1/4 shaft feeling (formerly transmitted via electrical signals through nerves now simply gone), desensitization due to direct glans continuous exposure and kerotinatization of penis glans.
    And all of this destruction does NOT reduce feeling of penis? ... Really Mikey? Are you going to tell us "day is night" next?
    I expect no less of neurosis.

    Everyone would have to be a willful idiot... to wish this (circumcision) destruction into non destruction.


    Fertile ground for bias.
    Isn't homosexualty illeagal in Uganda (death penalty), and isn't the USA pathetically (via cultural tradition) pro-circumcision? (violation of medical standards)
    Why is HIV mentioned here, if this is an unbiased article?
    These people set out to prove circumcision is okay for HIV prevention... they unashamedly announce it for God's sake!
    Double blind medical standards gone (in addition to ethical abandonment)??????????

    Yeah, "problematic" inasfar as not solidly supporting circumcision...


    HELLO! openly declared medical bias!Red flag!!!

    Wait... WHAT?!?!?!?!?

    Please note the careful selection and wording of the statistics. This isn't a legitimate medical study with anything to do with the thesis or conclusions (for anyone familiar with the medical ethical standards).

    Nice vague reference and generalization.

    Reannouncement of bias.

    Uganda... Right... The sexually unbiased capital of the world with no other agenda.


    Mikey, I wish I didn't have to rag you; anger/rebuke takes so much energy from me...
    But your position, even your proof is very full of holes, bias, and manipulation, all towards sustaining an evil.

    Please do not harm any more children than you already have.
    I beg you.
    This insanity (of harming children) must be resisted and countered by all morally cognizant human beings.
    If you simply uttered doubts to your children, they might pick up the torch from there and end family 'tradition/logic' in harming little ones. It might not have to be inflicted on the next generation. It might be stopped.
    This is the entire point of personal growth affecting social progression; to stop the stupid crap, the harm, to allow children to grow up and exceed the parents.

    I steadily maintain that since circumcision has not, cannot grab medical or ethical high ground in any logical argument that it is doomed by it's very discussion... I am ecstatic San Francisco has taken the initiative. Even if they lose, the question is brought publicly up... and thus will eventually die by logic, reason, and ethics.

    To quote the last 20 year stand by the American Pediatric (Association?)...
    There is no medical indication for routine circumcision of newborns.
    …thank you…

  30. #360

    Re: The good news, when some of us are too tired to stand the good fight

    Quote Originally Posted by charles-smythe View Post
    …damn…I couldn’t have said it any better…
    What that person wrote about tenni is correct; but the rest is not. Female circumcision and male circumcision are both just as bad as each other.

    All female circumcisions are different and they are not all as extreme as removing the clit or sewing up the vagina.

    In most countries where it's practiced they do it in a hospital and just remove the clitoral hood, and it's done because it's supposed to make a woman's vagina more aesthetic and "clean"...which are false reasons why male genital mutilation is practiced.

 

 

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