Originally Posted by
bw299
I am 61 and never thought I would ever be in this position. In my younger years I was a sexual dynamo. I loved everything to do with sex. My cock was average but nice; 6" and cut with a nice, mushroom head. I've always been a grower; my cock would shrink to 2" until called to action, then grow to a full-length, rock hard erection. I could get off multiple times a day and could control my orgasms. I would give up nice loads of cum and could do it repeatedly. In the past two years I have had medical problems and now find myself having difficulty performing sexually. Now my cock shrinks back into my pelvis and I'm lucky if I can get a 2", mediocre, firm erection out of it. Orgasms come with a great deal of work and difficulty, if at all, based on my ability to achieve a firm enough erection. If I can climax, my cum load won't amount to a 1/2 teaspoon. I have tried all kinds of stimulation; Viagra, Cialis, pornography...nothing seems to help. I feel doomed to being a sexual misfit and the thought of it is having a seriously detrimental effect on my male psyche.
My wife and I have had to find alternate ways to stimulate and satisfy her sexually. But she is also feeling the adverse effects of my sexual dysfunction. She loves to suck my cock, but my cock no longer responds to her stimulus. She loves to fuck, but I haven't been able to get a substantial enough erection to penetrate her in almost a year. We are both frustrated.
I love sucking cock, and most of my regular male partners would like to reciprocate. But I can't perform for them, either. Some are starting to lose interest in me because they can't fulfill their need to satisfy a man when they're with me.
I am starting to get depressed over this. I am considering going to my Urologist and discussing penile implant surgery.
I'm wondering if any other members have had or are having similar experiences and can relate to my situation. And, of course, I am open to any suggestions that any of you may have.
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