To date the only anal experience I have had was all self administered using wife's vibrators or toys. Logically I would be sure to go to the bathroom (#2) to hopefully clean out so it doesn't get "messy". Seems as though no matter how much I try to clean out, playing tends to get messy. I have since resorted to taking an enema after trying to go #2 to get really clean. I hear of many people (male and female) telling of spontaneous anal sex and never mention a "messy" experience.
First question...Is this normal to expect some "mess" regardless of preparedness minus enemas?
Second question.... Are there any suggestions as to how to avoid a potentially embarrassing situation?
Thanks all in advance for any feedback.
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