Any married guys like me who started sex with men late in life?
As with many of us, I did it in my teens and continued in college. Got married at 24 and never thought about it until my 60's.
On a business trip, I met a married guy and after talking some, went to my hotel room. I gave him a BJ. My interest was rekindled and I continue to be active into my 70's. Would like to know if others started late and if you're still doing it. Send PM if desired. Thanks
I "officially" became Bisexual in my early 30's....The last 20 years of my life has been a lot better then the first 30
I never gave this a second thought early in life. Now, I am in my 60's also and began to play with guys occasionally when I reached the age of 64. I still prefer sex with my wife, but I think I and a lot of guys my age develop a desire to experiment a little bit. I'll bet there are many more of us than you think. There was a period a year or so ago when I got away from it; my encounters with men were rather unsatisfactory to me. But that gnawing desire never went away and here I am playing with guys again. No penetration, but I do enjoy body contact, j/o, mutual oral.
in my 40's havent yet though i have been curious since my 20's
In my early teens a friend and I would play with each other but that stopped after we quit hanging out. I've always fantasized but never played again until I was 40 which was 3 years ago. I met a guy online and we would chat until we were so horny we would blow our loads. Finally we met in person and I got to feel that hard cock in my hand again. I bottomed for the first time that night. I've never came so hard. We still meet up about once a year for a reunion. I think about it all the time the older I get. I think you realize life is short and with a little curiosity you just go for it.
Had a couple of experiences in high school and college but stayed strictly hetero until my mid 50's. Got the urge to give some head and once I did, it's been part of my lifestyle ever since.
Too chicken to actually do anything but definitely curious about sucking a cock!
u know, it's gotta be that wisdom that comes with age lol. as i said before in this thread & in others i began getting curious since my 20's. at that time the feelings came & went. I'd start to think about being with guys, slowly start to get horny by it. turned on but still kinda uncomfortable. then i couldn't take it anymore & i'd have to j/o. then i felt embarassed even a little ashamed & guilty & the thought wouldn't come to mind for months. each time i thought it would be the last time. boy was i wrong lol. the thing is, i was in college most college age are pretty open about sex. my friends would at least be tolerant so no worries there. if anything i'd be incouraged to go for it. it's that i was conditioned all my life to think it's so bad. i couldn't deny the thought was turning me on but once i "calmed down" it's like i couldn't bring myself into accepting it's ok to let myself enjoy a homosexual encounter. as i've gotton older i've come closer to accepting, & understanding myself sexually. i'm still working on it but i've come a longwaythe internet has definately helped. sites like this believe it or not, & others have gotton me in touch with others who are going through the same things, who have been there & understand, & just people who are supportive. just wish the internet would help me in actually getting laid lol. but i'm still hopefull & im trying.
Originally Posted by NakedFun38
I was never consciously curious at all, especially when I was younger. I've always enjoyed porn, and liked to watch women suck and take hard cocks into their pussies & asses, but still mostly thought about fucking the girls. But with my lifelong nylon fetish, the thought of playing the feminine role has always been just underneath the surface. Even at that, it didn't translate into interest to experience sexual activities with other men.
We started to experiment with swinging about 10 years ago, and had some experiences where there were 3 or 4 people in the room. I always loved seeing my wife (and the other women) sucking cock. On one occasion, a guy who was eating her pussy as I stood beside the bed, turned to me and quickly took me into his mouth. I was surprised, but not disgusted -- it felt good! Only lasted for a few short seconds, but I knew I had to try that, too. Didn't do it that night, but next time we played, I fluffed him for a while before he fucked my wife. I loved everything about having a cock in my mouth, and have craved it since that day.
Since I've actively begun to look for a regular guy/gurl to play with, I've noticed just how common we are -- older guys who have taken an interest in sucking and enjoying other men rather late in life. (I'm 66 at the moment...)
i was conscience about my 'curiousness' in my mid 30's, but i didn't actually act on it until my early 40's. first lurking in gay chatrooms, then participating in the chats. then i finally agreed to meet someone and it was weird just how easy it was for me to drop to my knees and take a guys cock in my hands and then into my mouth. it still puzzles me that i had no qualms with doing that at all. And once I started, I couldn't stop. tried stopping 'cold turkey' (but the cavity in the bird was too big, and the only thing to suck on it was the stub of it's neck j/k) but that only lasted, i think 6-7 months. I've since tried anal (been a top and a bottom) and i have to say, that it is the BEST!
Yes I just started a cvoulle of years who I'm 59
I too had a friend in high school who we would jjerk each other off. Loved watching him cum all over his stomach and my hand I waned to suck his cock so much but only put the tip in.
That ended when he started dating and evenually moved away. Never forgotten abot it.
Now 12 yrs ago my ex and I ended our marriage of 22 yrs. I am now 64
The feelings for being wih a man started to come out. Took me till 4 yrs ago to actually get up the nerve and answered an Ad on CL. I tell you tthe first time I held another mans cock and took it in my mouth It felt so natural. I knew I had found myself. I sucked him like a Pro. When he came I sucked until I swallowed the whole load. OMG I was in heaven. LOved everything about sucking cocks. Now I suck whenever I can and love the taste of Cum. I eat my own Cum off my hand everytime I jerk off. Yummy delicious.
Dont deny yourself this unique pleasure. Its not just for women to enjoy
Just found this site and getting settled in. I'm 60 and extremely curious about sharing an experience so I guess I qualify as someone beginning late in life. Just keep thinking if I don't I will regret never trying it.
This is connected to late life bi. I was attracted to a male friend in my teens, and we ended up jerking off - never got beyond that. Now at 50 + I am attracted to cocks and balls and have a deep urge to bottom for one guy. I am still closeted and want to keep it that way. I love the idea of sucking a dick (I did that once a few years back, with a condom on). I want to find one guy to suck and fuck whenever both of us have the urge. As for sucking cock, there are different views - I hear that one rarely gets STD's with oral sex, whereas I hear that one can easily catch herpes.
I would love to suck cock, but I am confused, and a bit scared. Any thoughts?
I became aware of my bisexuality in my late 40s, but did not act on it until I turned 50. Found out I was missing a lot in my early years. I cannot tell my rather old-fashioned wife so I keep this secret from her. I do feel a little guilty about keeping it from her, but she would not understand my changing after all these years.
mid 40's for me buddy. and my wife is just as str8 laced that she would NEVER understand. but the urge is strong. so so strong...
I've had a few encounters along the way but nothing to speak of. Having just turned 60 my urge to suck cock is as strong as it's ever been. Still looking for a friend to meet on a regular basis and act the way I want to, secretly away from my wonderful wife. I keep telling myself it's gonna happen and patiently wait for the opportunity to suck (and swallow) my brains out...
What are you waiting for? Come on in...the water is fine!...lol
i'm sure the water is fine just haven't found a guy yet. once i do......
Had one or two experiences as a teen, just rubbing cocks together really but as I got older got more curious. Then when in my late 40s I decided I should try exploring before I got too old, it took a while to fine someone that wasn't all talk but eventually I got to participate in a MWM 3some. She knew I was curious so while we were all playing she asked the guy if he would mind if I sucked on him. I didn't do it for long but sucking on him felt so natural, couldn't wait to do it again. I've enjoyed giving and getting head from guys since. Still fining a top seems to be tougher than it should be so I'm still looking for that but someday......
Always wanted to find a man to have fun with. But being married and committed to the relationship has been a priority. And now that I am nearing retirement the feelings have come back. I would really like to actually experience being sucked, and the feeling of a real dick instead of a toy. My wife would never understand what a bi person feels, so she does not know how I feel. And I think about doing it with an older man within five -ten years either side of my age. I guess this is the meaning of having a fantasy. But oh what a feeling to know the reality.
tr1024 I hope your pursue your fantasy. Otherwise, you will never know.
I am in a similar situation. I am committed to my wife and she is a great lover. But she is also very conservative and doesn't understand what being bi is all about. I have attempted to broach the subject with her without outing myself, but she always shuts the conversation down. I have been with men off and on since I was 15. I still crave m2m and do what I can to satisfy my cravings. But I would much rather prefer to have her knowledge and blessing.
Thanks, bw299. "someday my prince will come." In more ways than one. lol
I always considered myself "straight" until I had a girl introduce a dildo vibrator .to my butt hole. Eventually I found.courage to suck cock...and discovered how much I loved it, all after I was well over 50!
tr1024, keep looking. There are several of us married men king for the exact same thing. I'm in Milton, Fl
I knew I was bi when I was a teen but never did anything with a guy. Got married and lived the "straight" life. In my late 40's my wife started giving up on sex and by 53 I had decided to find a guy for sex. Have been doing that ever since.
I have always been interested in cocks. As I young man I loved porn where the woman was sucking on a nice hard one. My buddies would be loving the woman doing it but I wanted to do what she was doing. My experiences with guys then was basically jerking off together as I was too inhibited to touch them.it wasn't til later in life when I was able to finally suck a cock at gay theater. I quickly realized that it was what I always wanted. I loved having a mans penis in my mouth. I regret not doing it earlier. Like others my wife would never understand the joy of sucking cock so I must be careful. I wish I could do it on a regular basis.
I must have fantasized for most of my adult like and never had the courage to make the move.
One day when in my 60's someone who read one of my stories contacted me and we connected so that a week later i was in his bed with his cock in my mouth.
I loved it immediately and we had a fun afternoon. I moved soon after and have had a few hooks up in my new home.
Some good, a couple real good, enough for me to consider myself sexual. No labels, just sexual.
How did I miss this? Loving the fact that some good conversations are coming back to life here.
I never really considered sexuality beyond straight until my late 30's. We had tried swinging as a couple, and I started to desire cock for myself. I started really watching that part of all porn - whether it was male of female interacting with it was a turn on... took another 10 years or so to try anything at all with a guy, and I was hooked! I also started doing more introspection on this around age 50. Looking back in my life I saw huge flashing signs, billboards with flags flying high about my bisexuality - where the hell was my head?!?!?!
So now I'm mid 50's, out as Bi to my wife. She struggles with supporting more than just the idea and the orientation. I want to explore this new found part of me, and she doesn't want to share. It's tough on her, but she knew as soon as I did that I was bi, I'm among a group where she has had as much time to cope as I have. I have met a lot of other spouses that have not had that same time to consider and make long term plans.
To the OP - I have started to be a little more open on my business trips. Spending time in sauna's and steam rooms in hope of a glimpse of someone else, and even had a couple of occasions to share some JO help with my fellow travelers.... Even have a conference next week in LA I am looking forward to, picked the hotel that listed a spa off the gym :}
i think i had some signs earlier in my life that i might enjoy guys too. but apparently they weren't too strong & i was perfectly happy to think about just girls. which i think are very nice thoughts
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