Do you wish you started sucking cock earlier?

[bigcockluvr]

Hi,
I'm hoping to get some good opinions from some cocksuckers.
I am a married white male and have always fantasized about sucking cock.
I'm not attracted to men but cocks, big cocks, turn me on like crazy and when I watch porn I wish it was me on my knees with that big cock in my mouth. The last several years my craving for cock, watching cock sucking porn and especially big black cocks seems to grow every day.
Recently I posted on Craigslist and got a hit from a black guy with a gorgeous 8 inch cock. He lives alone, can host and is looking for a white guy that only wants to suck his cock. This seems like the ideal opportunity but for some reason I get nervous and don't move forward but then the next day I'm back to fantasizing about sucking.
I'm curious for those of you that suck cock...were you a bit hesitant at first but once you did wish you had started earlier? I've read some say once you have your first cock that you're hooked and you'll always want more cock and that it can be somewhat addicting. Have you found this to be true?
Please be as candid as possible. Let me know what it's like to suck cock and what you enjoy about it.
Thanks. Happy sucking.

[pole_smoker]

Hi,
I'm hoping to get some good opinions from some cocksuckers.
I am a married white male and have always fantasized about sucking cock.
I'm not attracted to men but cocks, big cocks, turn me on like crazy and when I watch porn I wish it was me on my knees with that big cock in my mouth. The last several years my craving for cock, watching cock sucking porn and especially big black cocks seems to grow every day.
Recently I posted on Craigslist and got a hit from a black guy with a gorgeous 8 inch cock. He lives alone, can host and is looking for a white guy that only wants to suck his cock. This seems like the ideal opportunity but for some reason I get nervous and don't move forward but then the next day I'm back to fantasizing about sucking.
I'm curious for those of you that suck cock...were you a bit hesitant at first but once you did wish you had started earlier? I've read some say once you have your first cock that you're hooked and you'll always want more cock and that it can be somewhat addicting. Have you found this to be true?
Please be as candid as possible. Let me know what it's like to suck cock and what you enjoy about it.
Thanks. Happy sucking.

Don't cheat on your wife, instead either tell her how you are bisexual, or get a divorce before you have sex with other people.

No I don't wish I got started having oral sex with men earlier. I was in my early 20s and that's pretty young.

No it's not 'adDICKting' at all.

[tommyswing]

I didn't start sucking cock until I got divorced. I had such a pent up desire that I went sort of wild. I'd visit glory holes on a daily basis, and couldn't get enough cock. At the time I wished I didn't wait so long and had started earlier. Looking back now I didn't wait to long, it happened when it was suppose to. To this day I love sucking cock, but I don't have that compulsive need, I know I can get it when I want. As far as being addicted that's purely an individual thing, some are and some aren't.

[cuttin2dachase]

It is a huge step for a married man to take. To make it happen, first you must find a suitable bi or gay man or even another bi-curious 1st timer or novice you'd feel comfortable with. That's the easy part because there are thousands of us married, divorced or single bi men (and gay men) out there seeking other bi married men such as yourself. Then it's a matter of getting up the nerve to try sex with a man of your choosing and take a calculated risk to satisfy your overwhelming curiosity. The biggest obstacle then will be having a safe, private place to meet. You will either like/love it very much and feel a sense of excitement and liberation or it will be something you can take or leave in the future. You rarely hear of men like you who have such a burning desire for mm sex who don't like/love it from then on and want as much as they can get. For 99% of bi or curious men, it doesn't develop into an addiction, but for most it does become an activity they enjoy very much and will always look forward to repeating. You'll find it gets easier and easier to do the more you do it. It's a guy thing and there's an unofficial fraternity among bi men, especially married ones who are looking for the same thing you are. It's really not much different than meeting a work friend for a beer after work or playing a round of golf or watching a ball game with a likeminded pal. If you have an otherwise loving and fulfilling homelife, it will not be a threat to your marriage if you are discreet and cautious.

I realize I didn't have the same marital/cheating issues as you are facing and it was much easier for me. I was lucky to have a swinging hotwife who coaxed me to try oral sex with men we shared in 4somes and 3somes. I was 32 at the time and had never had any prior sexual desire for men until she got me all excited about trying it. My mm fun was only in 4somes and 3somes with wife present. I was curious about 1 on 1 sex with men but never acted on it until wife and I split up for good. Still, even with mm experiences under my belt I had to get up the nerve to go for it. It was a calculated risk for me take that 1st step and am happy I did ! My 1st time arranging a 'date' for 1 on 1 sex on my own was with an experienced (and nice looking) bi married man I had gotten to know online. We met for a drink at the tavern near my apartment, we hit it off, went to my apartment and had a great time in bed. From then on I have been quite at ease meeting men for sex. As far as how it feels to suck a cock....well to me it feels exciting, liberating, taboo & naughty and is a deliciously different erotic experience than mf sex. And yes, I do wish I had discovered my bi desires when I was younger. I was hit on by numerous men in college and during my post college bachelor life. I knew I was being hit on, but always acted naive as if their male advances had gone completely over my head. I wasn't homophobic, but I wasn't interested in men either what with all the girls I dated. I have to admit I was flattered by male attention. Now I do think of all the pleasure I missed out on by not discovering my bi side in college. Good luck. My advice is to weigh the potential reward against the potential risk. For most men with true mm desire, not many consequences or regrets come from taking that big step, but there will eventually be regrets for not at least trying.

[NakedInSeattle]

Short answer...YES!

[pole_smoker]

It is a huge step for a married man to take. To make it happen, first you must find a suitable bi or gay man or even another bi-curious 1st timer or novice you'd feel comfortable with. That's the easy part because there are thousands of us married, divorced or single bi men (and gay men) out there seeking other bi married men such as yourself. Then it's a matter of getting up the nerve to try sex with a man of your choosing and take a calculated risk to satisfy your overwhelming curiosity. The biggest obstacle then will be having a safe, private place to meet. You will either like/love it very much and feel a sense of excitement and liberation or it will be something you can take or leave in the future. You rarely hear of men like you who have such a burning desire for mm sex who don't like/love it from then on and want as much as they can get. For 99% of bi or curious men, it doesn't develop into an addiction, but for most it does become an activity they enjoy very much and will always look forward to repeating. You'll find it gets easier and easier to do the more you do it. It's a guy thing and there's an unofficial fraternity among bi men, especially married ones who are looking for the same thing you are. It's really not much different than meeting a work friend for a beer after work or playing a round of golf or watching a ball game with a likeminded pal. If you have an otherwise loving and fulfilling homelife, it will not be a threat to your marriage if you are discreet and cautious.

I realize I didn't have the same marital/cheating issues as you are facing and it was much easier for me. I was lucky to have a swinging hotwife who coaxed me to try oral sex with men we shared in 4somes and 3somes. I was 32 at the time and had never had any prior sexual desire for men until she got me all excited about trying it. My mm fun was only in 4somes and 3somes with wife present. I was curious about 1 on 1 sex with men but never acted on it until wife and I split up for good. Still, even with mm experiences under my belt I had to get up the nerve to go for it. It was a calculated risk for me take that 1st step and am happy I did ! My 1st time arranging a 'date' for 1 on 1 sex on my own was with an experienced (and nice looking) bi married man I had gotten to know online. We met for a drink at the tavern near my apartment, we hit it off, went to my apartment and had a great time in bed. From then on I have been quite at ease meeting men for sex. As far as how it feels to suck a cock....well to me it feels exciting, liberating, taboo & naughty and is a deliciously different erotic experience than mf sex. And yes, I do wish I had discovered my bi desires when I was younger. I was hit on by numerous men in college and during my post college bachelor life. I knew I was being hit on, but always acted naive as if their male advances had gone completely over my head. I wasn't homophobic, but I wasn't interested in men either what with all the girls I dated. I have to admit I was flattered by male attention. Now I do think of all the pleasure I missed out on by not discovering my bi side in college. Good luck. My advice is to weigh the potential reward against the potential risk. For most men with true mm desire, not many consequences or regrets come from taking that big step, but there will eventually be regrets for not at least trying.

Why would you think or find sex with men to be a 'taboo'?

[Visexual]

My first experience with a cock, other than my own, was at age 10 or 11.A friend and I jacked each other off to see what it was like.He asked if we could also suck them and I said, “no way”.

I now wish that I’d said, “you first”.

I was 40 when I sucked my first one and, immediately, realized what I’d missed all those years.

[Masterslave]

I, the male half sucked my first cock at age 12. That was my first sexual experience. I proceded to suck as many of the neighbor boys as I could without being labeled a fag. Lol. The greatest day came along when the boy next door and I discovered we both loved sucking cock, tho I'm certain I loved it the most. For a year or so we sucked almost daily but as time went by and girls came on the scene, I began to mostly suck him. I had no problem with that. Actually I liked it. I still like to suck with no reciprocation expected. Since then, I have regularly sucked cock. My first wife was unaware and I went to glory holes as well as meeting guys thru magazines. When I met my second wife she was as big a whore as me and we often sucked together. I was the fluffer at some of her gang bangs and several of the guys preferred my cocksucking over hers. When that marriage ended, I became a serious cocksucker, lol like I wasn't already. I have done glory holes, gang sucks, pick ups, you name it anything to suck a cock and get some yummy cum. I'm married again and as our profile states we both love to suck cock. We rarely fuck, but we do suck lots of cock. Yes we are kinky too. I'm her Master and she is my masochist cocksucking pleasure whore slave. Life is good!

[fredtyg]

I sucked my first cock when still in elementary school. A friend and I used to suck each other regularly until I fell in with a different group of friends. Not sure if I could have started any earlier but know one of my big regrets in life is not doing a lot more of it with more guys later in life.

[olmizzou42]

I started at 13 so couldn't have started much earlier. What I wish is that I hadn't spent so many years, ages 22-30 and 31-58, away from it. Thinking back to those times, there were so many missed opportunities! I'll be 73 tomorrow and, at this age, I'm not passing up any chance to suck.

[charles-smythe]

Hi,
I'm hoping to get some good opinions from some cocksuckers.
I am a married white male and have always fantasized about sucking cock.
I'm not attracted to men but cocks, big cocks, turn me on like crazy and when I watch porn I wish it was me on my knees with that big cock in my mouth. The last several years my craving for cock, watching cock sucking porn and especially big black cocks seems to grow every day.
Recently I posted on Craigslist and got a hit from a black guy with a gorgeous 8 inch cock. He lives alone, can host and is looking for a white guy that only wants to suck his cock. This seems like the ideal opportunity but for some reason I get nervous and don't move forward but then the next day I'm back to fantasizing about sucking.
I'm curious for those of you that suck cock...were you a bit hesitant at first but once you did wish you had started earlier? I've read some say once you have your first cock that you're hooked and you'll always want more cock and that it can be somewhat addicting. Have you found this to be true?
Please be as candid as possible. Let me know what it's like to suck cock and what you enjoy about it.
Thanks. Happy sucking.

…I can tell you one thing…once the curisoty hits you it never goes away…it only grows…yes I wished I’d started earlier…so stop fighting your curisoty…& suck that first dick…you’ll be glad that you did…

[charles-smythe]

Don't cheat on your wife, instead either tell her how you are bisexual, or get a divorce before you have sex with other people.

No I don't wish I got started having oral sex with men earlier. I was in my early 20s and that's pretty young.

No it's not 'adDICKting' at all.

…I can’t say this enough…DO NOT TELL YOUR WIFE…despite what some people tell you…nothing good can come of it…if you want to suck dicks…do it on the down-low & keep your mouth shut…

[jem_is_bi]

…I can tell you one thing…once the curisoty hits you it never goes away…it only grows…yes I wished I’d started earlier…so stop fighting your curisoty…& suck that first dick…you’ll be glad that you did…

Charles, I tend to agree with that.I have always been attracted to sucking dick, even when I was younger and more attracted to women. I finally just had to do it for real.Probably, would have been better for me to start sooner.Since becoming a cocksucker for real, it has definitely added to my happiness and enjoyment of life. Addicting?I have always had other life goal that have been more important to me than sex.

[jem_is_bi]

…I can’t say this enough…DO NOT TELL YOUR WIFE…despite what some people tell you…nothing good can come of it…if you want to suck dicks…do it on the down-low & keep your mouth shut…

If I was married, I would definitely be following your advice.

[pole_smoker]

If I was married, I would definitely be following your advice.

So you support lying and cheating on a partner or spouse? That's nice, why not cheat on your own 'partner' then? Butt I would not be surprised if you already do this, and hook up with random men who you meet online or in all sort of places.

[jem_is_bi]

So you support lying and cheating on a partner or spouse? That's nice, why not cheat on your own 'partner' then? Butt I would not be surprised if you already do this, and hook up with random men who you meet online or in all sort of places.

Yes, especially if it is your partner.

[pole_smoker]

Yes, especially if it is your partner.

Nice try. My partner and I are monogamous, but I would not be surprised if you and your fuck buddy are not, and you cheat on him or he has cheated on you or does cheat on you.

[pepperjack]

I do have sort of one regret. Had a beer drinking buddy some years back, during the summer, just like now , my horniest dick sucking time. We were lounging, imbibing late one nite when he started to carry on about how his gf enjoyed sucking his cock. So, eventually I chimed in with an anecdote about a former gf cocksucker who really enjoyed it. At some point in the conversation, I suddenly came out..revealing I was bi & I liked it too. I'll never forget the look on his face after that. He suddenly left & returned moments later with an armload of more beer, shutting my front door & gesturing his head toward my bedroom while handing me another beer & saying " We need to go in there. " Well, I hesitated, because it caught me off guard & because he had just become engaged earlier that evening. Well, it never came to pass; I sent him home. But there were those extremely horny times , ( early in the morning ), years later, when that encounter would come into my mind and I would fantasize about sucking him, stroking furiously. After all, he did have a nice body & I can only imagine,a nice cock to match! So , he's out of my system now because reality has replaced fantasy. I've had much better since then.

[jem_is_bi]

Nice try. My partner and I are monogamous, but I would not be surprised if you and your fuck buddy are not, and you cheat on him or he has cheated on you or does cheat on you.

So, I don’t suppose you would tell him that I think he should consider an upgrade?

[pole_smoker]

So, I don’t suppose you would tell him that I think he should consider an upgrade?

He read your post and laughed, and said you should dream on. You're not his type, and we've been together for decades, and are happy with each other.

[pole_smoker]

I do have sort of one regret. Had a beer drinking buddy some years back, during the summer, just like now , my horniest dick sucking time. We were lounging, imbibing late one nite when he started to carry on about how his gf enjoyed sucking his cock. So, eventually I chimed in with an anecdote about a former gf cocksucker who really enjoyed it. At some point in the conversation, I suddenly came out..revealing I was bi & I liked it too. I'll never forget the look on his face after that. He suddenly left & returned moments later with an armload of more beer, shutting my front door & gesturing his head toward my bedroom while handing me another beer & saying " We need to go in there. " Well, I hesitated, because it caught me off guard & because he had just become engaged earlier that evening. Well, it never came to pass; I sent him home. But there were those extremely horny times , ( early in the morning ), years later, when that encounter would come into my mind and I would fantasize about sucking him, stroking furiously. After all, he did have a nice body & I can only imagine,a nice cock to match! So , he's out of my system now because reality has replaced fantasy. I've had much better since then.

He was probably hung like a field mouse like you are. Do you usually have sex with men while you, or they drink?

[pepperjack]

"dust in the wind..." pissant

[pole_smoker]

"dust in the wind..." pissant

You are a boring and one dimensional person when it comes to sex. No wonder you no longer have a wife. She moved on to better things.

[aLABiM75 & StrF51]

I grew up in New Orleans, but didn't really think about guys until a couple years before I moved away.
All those missed opportunities, especially in my HS Football days.... damn right I wish I had started way sooner.

[david2230]

We are kind of the same. I started sucking and jacking off my boy friend when I was 11. We did this together for 6 years. Felt so god to be naked together.

[pole_smoker]

We are kind of the same. I started sucking and jacking off my boy friend when I was 11. We did this together for 6 years. Felt so god to be naked together.

That's creepy you sexually abused him like that.

[Biboz49]

...Since becoming a cocksucker for real, it has definitely added to my happiness and enjoyment of life. ...

Same here. Since having sex with men, not just sucking cock, it's added happiness and enjoyment to my life. After the first time, literally the next day I noticed an increase in my self esteem. Go figure. I never would have imagined it would have affected me this way.


I can't say I became addicted but I very much enjoy it and look forward to it almost as much as licking pussy. But I'm a very oral person.


bigcockluvr I wouldn't be able to tell you to go for it or whether or not to tell your partner how you feel. Everyone's situation is different. I can only tell you I wish I started much earlier in life.

[pepperjack]

Same here. Since having sex with men, not just sucking cock, it's added happiness and enjoyment to my life. After the first time, literally the next day I noticed an increase in my self esteem. Go figure. I never would have imagined it would have affected me this way.


I can't say I became addicted but I very much enjoy it and look forward to it almost as much as licking pussy. But I'm a very oral person.


bigcockluvr I wouldn't be able to tell you to go for it or whether or not to tell your partner how you feel. Everyone's situation is different. I can only tell you I wish I started much earlier in life.

Damn, can I ever relate to this post!

[pole_smoker]

Same here. Since having sex with men, not just sucking cock, it's added happiness and enjoyment to my life. After the first time, literally the next day I noticed an increase in my self esteem. Go figure. I never would have imagined it would have affected me this way.


I can't say I became addicted but I very much enjoy it and look forward to it almost as much as licking pussy. But I'm a very oral person.


bigcockluvr I wouldn't be able to tell you to go for it or whether or not to tell your partner how you feel. Everyone's situation is different. I can only tell you I wish I started much earlier in life.

When did you first suck off a man?

[pole_smoker]

Damn, can I ever relate to this post!

I am not surprised you have extremely low self esteem, and are a beta male submissive cock sucker.