I am an African american bisexual female. Single, 31 years old. Although I am bisexual, I'm still somewhat conservative. (Not just talking about politically but being conservative on somewhat of a public level). Inwardly I have a somewhat liberal view of sex, but outwardly conservative, if that makes sense.
I was replying back to a member on here, we were talking about first time experiences and I was telling him that I have lots of fantasies! Lots!
But in reality I am still very conservative, which is crazy because I am atheist. I love chatting and PM a lot of the same sex seeking men and women on this website. Back in the early 2000's I used to think that men were either straight or gay, that there was no in-between. Even though I am atheist, if I was in a relationship with a man (or even a woman) I would probably still go to church with him or her. I believe that no matter what a person believes in, they should stick together and have a united front. I think its all about compromise.
But I believe that people, when they seriously date and marry, should stick with their own kind racially and culturally. I don't think its good to intermix. I have friends who are biracial and they have major issues. I think people of different races, culture and languages should be able and allowed to enjoy eachother without permanently and biologically crossing culture and racial lines.
I like chatting with bisexual (and same sex seeking) men, and having deep discussions, but I don't know if I could be in a serious relationship or marriage with one. I feel that in my case, its best for me to be with a man who is 100% straight.
Does this make me prejudice? I know a lot of people would say that I am a hypocrite because I go both ways.
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