My Strange Bisexual Predicament

[jarmc22]

I honestly can not figure my situation out. I am a male and one thing that I know for a fact is that I am attracted to everything there is about a woman. I love the way they look, act, smell and I love having sex with females. On the other hand, there is not much about men that turn me on in any way. I can honestly say that I've never looked at a single man and felt any hint of physical attraction. With all of that being said, I have to embarrassingly admit that I have a very strange and overpowering attraction to certain male penises. The sight of a well-shaped, stiff large cock has the ability to drive me crazy. I slowly developed an increasing desire to want to find a cock that I could perform oral sex on.

I also found that I have become pretty obsessed not only with cocks, but with well endowed cocks. I would watch porno movies where the woman would be on her knees sucking on a thick, 9 inch cock, and I would watch with desire wishing that it was me who was sucking on that cock. To this day I still have not acted on any of these desires but they seem to get stronger by the day.

Does this make sense to anybody? How is it possible that I could be attracted to nothing about a man except for his cock? The thought of me kissing a man or having anal sex with a man makes me feel sick to my stomach; but yet I have this overwhelming desire to take a big cock into my mouth for my own enjoyment. I would love to hear any opinions or comments you may have. Thanks.

[fredtyg]

I've heard from a number of guys who are only interested in cocks. People's tastes and sexual interests are as varied as the people themselves.

[TML1991]

I am the same way.

[kyjelly80]

Jar. I'm the same way and from what I've experienced so are a lot of guys. We are all different of course, but I know how you feel. It certainly demonstrates how complex sexuality is. I love women's bodies so much more then men's, but the sexual encounters with other men have been some of the most pleasurable experiences I have ever had. Keep exploring and see what works for you. That's all that matters.

[smokey]

I love women. No man has ever turned my head like a woman does... ok a few men have, but not many. I am not as intensely attracted to them like women but the same man I would shrug at, if he shows me his cock I will be like bring that bad boy closer. I will suck him, swallow every drop and rim him out and should he have a large cock (if its a 5 inch or larger) I will eagerly bend over and spread em for him. I LOVE sex with men... men themselves, meh.

[brewer45]

I'm the same. No attraction to men whatsoever, just the cocks. I guess that is why I'm still "curious".

[curmwm57]

I honestly can not figure my situation out. I am a male and one thing that I know for a fact is that I am attracted to everything there is about a woman. I love the way they look, act, smell and I love having sex with females. On the other hand, there is not much about men that turn me on in any way. I can honestly say that I've never looked at a single man and felt any hint of physical attraction. With all of that being said, I have to embarrassingly admit that I have a very strange and overpowering attraction to certain male penises. The sight of a well-shaped, stiff large cock has the ability to drive me crazy. I slowly developed an increasing desire to want to find a cock that I could perform oral sex on.

I also found that I have become pretty obsessed not only with cocks, but with well endowed cocks. I would watch porno movies where the woman would be on her knees sucking on a thick, 9 inch cock, and I would watch with desire wishing that it was me who was sucking on that cock. To this day I still have not acted on any of these desires but they seem to get stronger by the day.

Does this make sense to anybody? How is it possible that I could be attracted to nothing about a man except for his cock? The thought of me kissing a man or having anal sex with a man makes me feel sick to my stomach; but yet I have this overwhelming desire to take a big cock into my mouth for my own enjoyment. I would love to hear any opinions or comments you may have. Thanks.

I am the same as you. Although I have never been with a guy I have an overwhelming urge to suck a cock. I may try anal (giving and receiving) at some point, I don't think I could ever handle kissing and hugging...Maybe one day I can satisfy my urge but time appears to be running out. I am not getting any younger and feel I should have started my quest much sooner in life

[SilkyHoseLover]

I don't usually do "Me, too..." posts, but in an effort to ease your concerns that your thoughts along these lines are strange, add me to the list of others who have responded that your post pretty well sums the way they feel.

I'm not at all attracted to men, but put me in a room with one who is naked, and I want to play! No hugging/kissing. Anything else -- OK, except I can't see myself fucking another man's ass. Taking a cock in mine? Sure!

[j4u42]

Interesting isn't it? But tastes can change of course. I look at women often with desire. Love their form and feminine ways. Men are just guys as always and my unsatisfied to date curiosity deals only with the genitalia. Playing with and orally attending to another 's cock and balls and taint. However lately I have been wondering what exchanging nude, male to male massaging would be like. I have given thought to what full nude body contact including intense frotage while in full embrace with a toned masculine man. Making out? Standing face to face,naked, hands having roamed over each others body, bare shoulders, chest, and back. Muscular thighs sliding and trembling against the other guys legs. In this exchange, maybe a leg is intertwining into the other man's stance as hands slide from grinding hips to the round cheeks of the other man's full firm ass. Pulling each other closer. Then you loosen up and start your slow drop to your knees. Tongue slips out of each other's mouths you continue using your tongue and lips down his chin, neck shoulders and your knees begin to bend as you move down the center of the neck down to his chest, your tongue licking and lips in constant contact and steadily down. You and he know your destination and ultimate goal. At this point, your both enjoying the trip. There you reach his flat stomach your nibbling and licking a thin stream of male body hair to his belly button. You might at this time feel a slightly moist poking sensation at your throat as you have fully landed on your knees. Your head bends down to greet with a kiss his penis. Your hands are on his ass so you can direct the rhythm. His hands are on his hips allowing you to "all the work". Perhaps this is where you come in. But if one thinks about it, you just might be missing out of a whole lot more. I have to admit, I like the thoughts. What do you "think"?

[mikeyd270]

I am also really only interested in a man from the waist down. I have only been oral and love a hard throbbing cock in my mouth. Love everything about a cock. I too at one time thought I wasn't interested in anal but recently took it up the ass. Now I am not only a cocksucker but also a bottom guy. Can't wait for the next guy that wants to fuck me.

[NjbiGuy01]

Honestly, I was no different than the first poster, but I did eventually meet men in the course of life that I actually felt an attraction to man to man. Initially for me it was purely sexual. While I always felt I had to like the guy (or gal) but not necessarily love them, playing with a man in the bed was an expansion of my sexual menu (usually with a woman). It was something new and exciting to enjoy in addition to playing with the woman. I did eventually have some MM and MMM experiences, but later in life I met a few guys that caused me to get a little engorgement and make me think I could enjoy an actual relationship with them. I still see guys and think that. My current male FWB and i met through a women who wanted to bi men to pleasure her. She got turned on by watching and directing the action. She wanted to see us kiss, and we did eventually. I liked it more than I thought....go figure....

[notmacbi]

Score me in this group as well. Nothing more pleasing as eye candy then women... Everything about them is total turn on for me. How ever the thought or visual of a large cock sends me. I'd be on my knees worshiping that cock in a flash. I wouldn't go for the whole kissing thing... Just would want to empty a large set of nuts in my hot mouth! I will admit that I have a few friends that I would like to suck off... Geez what would happen if they found out!?

[mas8092]

Wish you guys lived near me! I also love to suck cock and women's boobs. Never been interested in kissing or touching a guy. Well, other than his penis. And scrotum. I have bottomed. Liked that too. I got curious 20 years before I acted on it. Don't make my mistake. If you are curious, do it.

[cuttin2dachase]

It's not really a predicament, except in your mind ! It takes some courage to take the 1st step, but the rewards are unlimited. There are so many other bi guys out there who crave and worship cock. Seek someone who makes you feel comfortable who is patient and encouraging. He will help you realize your desires and more than likely, you'll get oral pleasure from him too !

[Bishy37]

Interesting isn't it? But tastes can change of course. I look at women often with desire. Love their form and feminine ways. Men are just guys as always and my unsatisfied to date curiosity deals only with the genitalia. Playing with and orally attending to another 's cock and balls and taint. However lately I have been wondering what exchanging nude, male to male massaging would be like. I have given thought to what full nude body contact including intense frotage while in full embrace with a toned masculine man. Making out? Standing face to face,naked, hands having roamed over each others body, bare shoulders, chest, and back. Muscular thighs sliding and trembling against the other guys legs. In this exchange, maybe a leg is intertwining into the other man's stance as hands slide from grinding hips to the round cheeks of the other man's full firm ass. Pulling each other closer. Then you loosen up and start your slow drop to your knees. Tongue slips out of each other's mouths you continue using your tongue and lips down his chin, neck shoulders and your knees begin to bend as you move down the center of the neck down to his chest, your tongue licking and lips in constant contact and steadily down. You and he know your destination and ultimate goal. At this point, your both enjoying the trip. There you reach his flat stomach your nibbling and licking a thin stream of male body hair to his belly button. You might at this time feel a slightly moist poking sensation at your throat as you have fully landed on your knees. Your head bends down to greet with a kiss his penis. Your hands are on his ass so you can direct the rhythm. His hands are on his hips allowing you to "all the work". Perhaps this is where you come in. But if one thinks about it, you just might be missing out of a whole lot more. I have to admit, I like the thoughts. What do you "think"?

Well this is interesting. As I read this chain it was like watching my progression. I started off like many of you, cock curious. I find myself now identifying with j4u42. i'm not out but i know who i am. Full disclosure, my current state of progression is just like above but I have to have a woman involved that loves the situation as discribed above. It's been very hard to find.

Here's to you gentlemen and ladies that accept us.

[centillini]

Same way here

[welder153]

its the same for me , I love women , and usually end up falling for one , later to get hurt . with men its the physical sex with there dick . my 1st contract with a man other than stroking him was taking him in my ads , omg I loved it . but since most men want oral , I soon started sucking , then swallowing , that's almost as fun . but my favorite is to get pounded by a hung man . like the others the thought of kissing a guy does nothing for me m I did try once , might again some day , if we click . lol but I am looking for a discrete fuck/ suck buddy . maybe some day .

[Tatalvr]

I honestly can not figure my situation out. I am a male and one thing that I know for a fact is that I am attracted to everything there is about a woman. I love the way they look, act, smell and I love having sex with females. On the other hand, there is not much about men that turn me on in any way. I can honestly say that I've never looked at a single man and felt any hint of physical attraction. With all of that being said, I have to embarrassingly admit that I have a very strange and overpowering attraction to certain male penises. The sight of a well-shaped, stiff large cock has the ability to drive me crazy. I slowly developed an increasing desire to want to find a cock that I could perform oral sex on.

I also found that I have become pretty obsessed not only with cocks, but with well endowed cocks. I would watch porno movies where the woman would be on her knees sucking on a thick, 9 inch cock, and I would watch with desire wishing that it was me who was sucking on that cock. To this day I still have not acted on any of these desires but they seem to get stronger by the day.

Does this make sense to anybody? How is it possible that I could be attracted to nothing about a man except for his cock? The thought of me kissing a man or having anal sex with a man makes me feel sick to my stomach; but yet I have this overwhelming desire to take a big cock into my mouth for my own enjoyment. I would love to hear any opinions or comments you may have. Thanks.

I can totally relate to your predicament. Although I’m not so much attracted to large, everything else you wrote describes my feelings exactly. Based on my limited experiences and the responses here – you are far from alone.

[curcpl88]

I was going to post a thread of my own on this subject, but I will just add to the list here. I too, have been in a loving relationship with my wife for over 30 years, but like most aging couples, my wifes desire for sex has all but disappeared. I, on the other hand, have been acting on my long pent up desires for sex with other men. I get very aroused at the sight or thought of a nice cock. I constantly think about sucking cock and being fed a nice load of semen. I have been enjoying both for several years. I have no desire to cuddle, kiss, or have any other part of a "relationship" with another man. I have found there are many men like me out there I do go through bouts of guilt from time to time, but my lust for cock is overwhelming.

[nomorenomore]

Have to agree with OP. Though I have to add anal attraction too. Never really thought about kissing a guy. Though I suppose with the right guy. Who knows. Never been in the situation so can't really say one way or another.

[Tuzz2014]

Me too. But I do find the bi feeling goes and comes depending on how much porn I am seeing. The dopamine release requires more and more variety and kink. I find myself eventually watching guys with guys. Watching no porn reels in the bi side and I focus on my loving wife. Hard to resist the dopamine though.

[gerry5856]

I also don't look at a man and think wow I want to blow him or I want him to fucked me raw. But I do get strong desires to suck certain cocks when looking at or watching gay porn. Then there are the large cocks with huge heads that I would love to be fucked senseless by. I have a large didlo that I strap to my weight bench and fantasize that I'm riding a guy.After 10 to 15 minutes I get a feeling of total submission and have a desire to kiss my fantasy guy. Don't know if I would or not if he were real. Now something that puzzles me about myself is my desire to eat my own cum or that of another man before I cum but after I do I lose that desire. Sorry not trying to change the subject, guess I should start a separate thread on that one.

[sunshinmeet]

I'm like that, too. I love women from head to toe, but with men, it's just their cocks. Well, asses are okay if they resemble a woman's, and I don't me voluptuous, but smooth. Have you seen a man's hairy ass? Good lord, it's horrible.

[Wynlvr1]

I've been giving and receiving BJs with guys since I was 14 ( I'm 45) but for the most part I had been just like you, i.e. about the cock or the sex. Last 3 or so years though I am slowly feeling a lot more comfortable with men. I kissed a guy for the first time 18 months ago and now when I have sex with guys I love to touch their strong arms, asses , legs etc and have gotten into making out. Living in a gay neighborhood where this is very much accepted and having a bi girlfriend who accepts and even encourages me has helped me a lot and I have become very comfortable with accepting my bi side. I think we men are conditioned to want sex and wanting a hard cock is about sex but unlike completely gay men, we bi men feel weird about wanting another guy's body sometimes, as it evokes feelings of "being dominated" or feeling weak (which is a no-no for the traditional American male), so we block it out. Once we accept that we are no more "subservient" if we hug a guy while we are jacking his hard cock, I think most bi men can learn to enjoy the total body experience of gay sex just as we enjoy sex with a woman. In My Humble Opinion ( p.s. I think not even women really like a hairy guy butt.. Just sayin') :-)

[stonebow]

So the consensus seems to be that you're fairly typical, jar. I could add my own tale of evolving desires and attractions but I think you get the picture. Only question remaining is for you to decide how you will act on what you've learned. If you embark on the journey of exploring your desires don't be surprised if they eventually change. Not saying you'll end up falling in love with a man and living happily ever, just be open to new experiences and changing feelings.

[clswad]

Totally the same way. Which is why shemales are so awesome. The femininity, the curves, the tits, the hair, the smell...and a nice cock.

[willdoyou]

I have the exact same feelings. I am now questioning whether I am truly bisexual or this is actually a fetish. Either way I plan on enjoying it.

[hockeysew]

I am in the exact same boat. Women are the most Sexy and sensous creatures known and I love nothing more than the taste, smell and ways of a woman.
But I do have an urge for something they can't provide.
I have only done the guy thing a couple of times and that was with the wife present. But all that did was kindle the fire even more. I have yet to make a man cum, either by oral or me bottoming, and this I want to do.
I don't get the full time gay lifestyle, I just don't see love etc in a man but an occasional wild time I am down with.

[sterculius]

I honestly can not figure my situation out. I am a male and one thing that I know for a fact is that I am attracted to everything there is about a woman. I love the way they look, act, smell and I love having sex with females. On the other hand, there is not much about men that turn me on in any way. I can honestly say that I've never looked at a single man and felt any hint of physical attraction. With all of that being said, I have to embarrassingly admit that I have a very strange and overpowering attraction to certain male penises. The sight of a well-shaped, stiff large cock has the ability to drive me crazy. I slowly developed an increasing desire to want to find a cock that I could perform oral sex on.

I also found that I have become pretty obsessed not only with cocks, but with well endowed cocks. I would watch porno movies where the woman would be on her knees sucking on a thick, 9 inch cock, and I would watch with desire wishing that it was me who was sucking on that cock. To this day I still have not acted on any of these desires but they seem to get stronger by the day.

Does this make sense to anybody? How is it possible that I could be attracted to nothing about a man except for his cock? The thought of me kissing a man or having anal sex with a man makes me feel sick to my stomach; but yet I have this overwhelming desire to take a big cock into my mouth for my own enjoyment. I would love to hear any opinions or comments you may have. Thanks.

Have you been copying my profile again??? Seriously, this is also exactly how I feel. I don't consider myself to be gay, or even bisexual! I'm a COCKSUCKER!

[mrfrisky]

Thank you so much for this thread! Very nice to hear so many guys are in the same boat. I love women – the total woman from head to foot – but I am cock (and ball) crazy. While it’s been years since I’ve acted on my oral fantasies with another guy, pleasing cock is topmost in my sexual fantasies. For me, women are sensual, but cock IS raw sex! I like ‘em small or big, soft or hard. Mmm. Count me enthusiastically in amongst those who love women but lust for cock!