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    shared wife/girlfriend?

    anyone ever shared there wife or girlfriend with another guy? I tried un successfully to talk my ex-wife into it , although she confessed after e divorced to having 2 different affairs when married , my sometimes girlfriend now has shown some interest. and we both know of a guy that's more than willing . im no sure if she's aware of this or not. anyone have any pointers advice?

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    Re: shared wife/girlfriend?

    I have been swinging with my wife, which I guess equates to sharing.

    Open honest discussion first. Does she know you are bi? DOes she know you are talking about this with other men already? Don't open with "Bob wants to sleep with you tomorrow"... You may want to look at some pointers from swinging sites. Life on the swingset (.com) is a good discussion board. Learn together if this is what you really want. Decide what are interests and what are not, then and only then, go together to find your 3rd, additional couple, group, etc...


    There are plenty of bad swing sites to create profiles... as with anything sex related you can easily get into a pay-site that seems costly for the product. Look for free trials and at least one that is free for a level that has limitations but allows ongoing contacts. Just be sure she is onboard first, and please do not create an account as a couple figuring you will break it to her after... actually have seen some guys surprise their wive/partner when at a dinner meet! That never goes well.

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    My 3 pretend-boyfriends shared themselves with the rest of the world, one of them would swallow to at least 1o guys a day. Maybe even more. And I'm sure he also did more.
    Another one - got a girl pregnant.

    But when I'll FINALLY get married I won't share her with no-one.
    She'll have to go behind my back.

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    I've shared a girlfriend with other guys (she was early 40's and I was late 40's). One time, I just thew it out there to her and she said YES. I remember I dressed her up like a school girl, braided hair and a lollypop. I've always been there watching, but not participated, and we preferred 2 or 3 guys at the same time with her. She loved the attention and I loved watching her being played with, sucking and fucking a couple of guys all at once. After me offering her up to friends, we always had GREAT sex afterwards alone.

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    My wife was against it for a long time. After she learned I was bi, she better understood why I wanted to do that. Before, she felt I was asking her if she wanted another guy to join us as a test, to see if I was still enough man for her. Games. Like a guy would do that. That's more of a woman thing. Anyway, once she knew I wanted to do this for the fun of it, she was all for it and even found us our first couple guys. We both have had great sex and met some great guys along the way.

    There are a lot of hurdles to cross on this road. It seems like it would be easy to find a guy but if you are picky in the least, it's pretty hard. Knowing a guy that you both trust is a good start. Communication is the next huge step. Seems so easy for some people to just bring up uncomfortable subjects. Hopefully it is for you. Being on the same page will only happen if you talk about what you are looking for out of this and why you are looking for it.

    Let us know how it went please. Always curious how these things work out.

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    I agree with previous advice that you must be very honest to your girlfriend about all this, otherwise she might not forgive you. Make sure she knows your intensions.

    I & my husband are talking about sharing a woman for a while now. Haven't done sharing before, but want to experience it.

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    My ex and I had several mff and mmf threesomes throughout several years. It was always fun.....and it was her idea

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    I just know my whole story- details I won't say here- and I know therese no way I'll meet a gilr who will be ok with us having sex with a third person, probably nor wil she with me and another man. I hope to find a sweet girl who will satisfy me and burn the part of myself that likes men

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    I agree with Hyper and Zigzig. Open, honest, communication is extremely important .......as is not being jealous.

    Jealousy and not getting a consensus on rules, before you begin, is a sure sign that your efforts will fail. Don't assume you know what your partner will like, because more than likely, if they agree to explore sharing, they may want to try something you'd never suspect!

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    My 1st wife and I were very adventurous and got into swinging early in our marriage. We both enjoyed swapping with other couples, but wife really would rather have had 2 or more men to herself and not share them with another woman. She coaxed me to try oral sex with men and I told her I'd try it, but only if another guy initiated it. It happened during a 4some with a bi couple. After he sucked me and I sucked him, I was hooked on men as 3some partners ! Henceforth we met many many more men than we did couples. But as much as I came to enjoy oral sex and makeout with men, the biggest turn on for me was sharing my hot manpleasing slutwife with other men and watching her do what she did best ! Of course I was lucky...I never had to talk my wife into trying anything. All you can do is not pressure her. Keep the subject open and get her to open up to you about her fantasies too.

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    My wife knew of my BI-NESS since we were first married 40 years ago. I never acted on it in the last 40 years , then here in my old age I got a playmate.
    The wife was home when my buddy came over for a play date. She was walking past the bed room when she saw my Bud's huge beautiful cock.
    I heard her say "Wow, I could use some of that!" Uninvited she showered and came in the room. Then she proceeded to suck him off, pulling his dick right out of my mouth. My Bud asked her if she wanted to fuck. Well she was on her back with her legs spread in a jiffy. He ate her, then fucked her. When he pulled out I got to lick the pussy juice from his dick. The only disappointment was NO CUM. I was hoping for a cunt full of cum to lick out.

    Later on that day I saw she was quiet. Asked what the problem was. She said she was afraid that I thought she was a slut. I have no idea where that came from since we swung with a hetro couple for a few years. I assured her that all was OK.

    Since that time our private sex has been fantastic. She is starting to tell me her fantasies, and what and how she wants to have sex.

    My Buddy had his fantasy come true. He will be here again tomorrow and so will she. Looks like another great day in the sack. He told me that either in her snatch, or in my mouth, there is going to be a big load of cum.

    I may jackoff in a bit just thinking about it.

    If your wife knows about your bi side then by all means try to get her to join in on your fun.

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    Lucky you! It appear you have what many of us married bi or strictly straight guys an only dream of... a wife willing to play and expand her sexual horizons, and t bring others into your play. I look forward to hearing more of your joint or even solo exploits. I hop you continue to enjoy, and as a sidelight, feed our collective erotic thoughts. I' love to buy you a beer next time I'm heading through PA.

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    A while ago, I let my wife know that I would like to do a 3some and also to share her with another guy. I was 100% that those words wouldn't bein her head. A day she came back to me and asked me if I found a guy, my answer was no because I beleived that was just in my dream no more. So she went in internet and few weeks latter she found a guy. No longer than a week latter he was at our place then in my wife! wow such a good geeling to see her being fucked by another guy mmmm. After few 3somes, she asked me if she can get fuck by him while I would be working.

    My best time was to come back home and fuck her pussy full of his cum. We did it for almost a year But due to a family problem, wehad to stop it...!

    But, ya but, now she is back into this mmmmmm so she is presently in vacation and once he is back we are supposed to do it again. I just can't wait

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    had a smoking hot little married slut for friend with benefits for many years and every time my best friend would visit she would come and spend the weekend. At that time he and I had not started our journey into bisex. She is bi and might have enjoyed it.

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    The danger is like not being able to put the toothpaste back in the tube....if you do it and it fails, you may end up worse off from the scars of someone not being happy with what happened. Not to say it doesn't offer intense possibilities for pleasure amongst consenting adults. I've had some great times. I've also seen situations where a partner (usually the woman) basically had a melt-down because she suddenly felt used, or like a sex object, did it to please her mate more than herself....it's a territory to be navigated carefully for sure.

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    I'm on my second marriage and have shared both of my wives. The first wife was the one who got me into enjoying dick. Of course I would encourage her to try other females, so she started asking other males to go down on me in threesomes. Well, one thing led to another and it wasnt long until I started to enjoy sucking dick, and I have never looked back. Fortunately wife number two is open enough go along with me in playing with other dudes. She even lets me play with men on my own. Which is the way it is most of the time.

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    Re: shared wife/girlfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by atxbi View Post
    I'm on my second marriage and have shared both of my wives. The first wife was the one who got me into enjoying dick. Of course I would encourage her to try other females, so she started asking other males to go down on me in threesomes. Well, one thing led to another and it wasnt long until I started to enjoy sucking dick, and I have never looked back. Fortunately wife number two is open enough go along with me in playing with other dudes. She even lets me play with men on my own. Which is the way it is most of the time.
    Man, finding one woman that open is awesome. Finding two is unreal !! You are one lucky dude.....

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    I love sharing, nothings hotter than watching two guys suck each other off. Just always be open and honest and it should go well. I find it loads of fun everytime I get to play.

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    I find it incredibly sexy to see my wife sucking my buddy's cock while I fuck her, and visa versa. When it comes to me and Bobs cock, her legs and mouth are always open.

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    I've done it, and it's great. I've shared her with women and men both, and we've sucked cock together. Hell, I donated sperm to a girl and got her pregnant under guidance of my gf. VERY hot

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    My wife and I love sharing. We both agree its hot to watch each other getting so much pleasure. Fortunately neither one of us feels any jealousy. It would not be possible if we did.
    BiBoz49 Live in the moment

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    I love sharing my wifewith other men! Even better when the men are into me too!
    Last edited by newlynymphos; Mar 16, 2014 at 9:43 PM.

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    Back in the late eighties, wifey and I would get together with one of her girlfriends and her husband on occasions and after a few drinks etc. we always seemed to talk a bit about our respective sex lives. Her friend enjoyed anal sex from her husband and he called her his "hoover girl" due to her oral talents. Wifey was never into anal but was very talented in the oral department. One night, we decided to watch a porn movie together, the four of us. After a while, the girls asked us to put it on hold while whey went to the ladies room. While whey were gone, her husband and I talked about how much fun it is to watch porn and get blown and we figured it would be fun if we swapped wives for the bjs while we were sitting on the couch. Well, either the ladies heard us or came up with the same idea and when they came back into the living room, they both proceeded to take off their blouses and bras and each knelt down in fromt of us, wifey with him and her friend with me. Needless to say, it was a huge turn on to be getting blown by this hot cocksucker and watching my wife sucking his big dick. He was bigger than me but wifey's talents were good enough to fully deep-throat him until he came in her mouth. I shot my load into the waiting mouth of my wife's girlfriend right after. Once the ice was broken, we got together several times after that, always for swapping cocksucking wives until they had to move away.

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    Re: shared wife/girlfriend?

    I have never shared my girlfriend with any guy, but when single, many times I would share some guy's wife or gf.

    Am I selfish?

    Do any others feel this way?

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    Wife and I have talked about this. Need to be done having kids first but she isn't against me with a man and/or her with a female or possibly a 4some if we find the right couple at that time. One more kid and we are done. No need to possibly get the genes mixed up so we both plan on getting fixed after that to be safe about it. Don't know if it will happen as talk is cheap. Neither of us has acted before-but we aren't judging by any means.

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    MFM is our favorite thing. Me being Bi doesn't even have to be addressed. And yes she knows, always has. Communication and honesty come first or it's a timebomb.
    A nympho is a terrible thing to waste

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    As mesh wrote, "Communication and honesty come first or it's a time bomb."

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    Re: shared wife/girlfriend?

    Shared my 1st wife with a couple of other ladies, but never joined in myself.

    Was not invited, but I knew it'd be that way when we married.

 

 

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