Has anyone here ever done sex for pay?

[Mr. Suck]

Has anyone here both women and men ever been a prostitute? If so what was it like? Did your johns or clients ever ask you to do anything weird? Do you still do it? My husband and I have never been prostitutes or hustlers; but we have seen the ads for them in newspapers, in guides and publications while traveling, and we have been approached by male and female whores while traveling to places and in certain bars but we'd tell them no thanks. Sometimes my partner and I will look at Craigslist for a laugh, and there are lots of whores on there including men and women who want a sugar daddy, or to be kept which is being a whore/prostitute.

[fredtyg]

No, but it's something I now wish I would have considered when I was younger. The problem is, I didn't mind at all just giving sex away.

[Plumhead2]

Yes, I worked my way through college getting paid for sex at a woman's college. I was paid by women whose boyfriends were at a distant college and needed release between visits or for women who wanted to try something that they couldn't ask their boyfriends to do or for women who wanted to lose their virginity before having sex with a boyfriend. I did it for maybe seven or eight months. I stopped when I found that I didn't like myself for doing it. I felt used. degraded. unemotional. It took me a while (and the love of a patient woman) before I could have sex with a woman again that I had any feelings towards. Now years later, I am still ashamed of what I did. I only post this because I am relatively anonymous. Only a very small handful of people know this about me. It may seem like a male dream cum true, but it was not the best experience of my life. I don't recommend it.

[tenni]

I have not but I just recalled that I know someone who did. He was a gigilo. He told me his story and it was quite different than you might think. I believe that it started when a woman asked him if he would attend a social event with her. I don't recall the exact detail as to why but she paid him for his time. There was no sex that time. By word of mouth, he found himself being asked to go with women for different events and he was paid. He said that in at least half the times there was no sex. He is very sociable and friendly with all people. He said that it was his ability to listen and be empathetic with the women that brought more clients. Eventually, there came a time when he was approached by a escort service company. After thinking it over, he decided that he didn't want to take that next step. He stopped doing it after that approach. This went on for several years before he quit when he met his present wife.

[cornholejoe]

once i did it but did not ask for money he just handed to me and said good job

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I've done Phone Sex for pay..lol When I left the Ex Boyfriend, a lady told me about it, and I did it for a few months. Was great pay when I had the house phone. But now that I just have the cell, I cant do it. Was fun, and it helped pay the bills there for a while..:}
Cat

[darkeyes]

..I was married to a man once and was a mere house frau and plaything.. my husband paid me a very good allowance... and more... does that count?

[Realist]

Back in the early '60s, I Knew a young fellow who began, just like Tenni's friend. He had to drop out of college for lack of funds; his family was poor, so they were no help. But, he was a handsome, personable, guy, with a gift of gab. Using only the references from previous women (and some men) he had a very busy life. He actually interviewed his prospective clients and, if he didn't like something about them, he'd decline a "date".

He went on vacations to exotic places like the Greek islands, The Bahamas, Paris, etc, etc, with mostly older ladies, but also with a few men, too. The Porsche was a Christmas gift from one of his regulars! They must've felt they got their money's worth, because he was certainly in demand.

[cherry88]

hehe i dont know what my 1st bf told his friends but for some reason, every one of them was -really- interested in getting in my pants... several persisted over the course of decades. one just wanted a blow job.... somehow he got it in his head i was good at them. (honestly dont know how) finally about about 25 years of pestering i gave in and told him id give him a blow job for $800. it was his birthday. he agreed and i got $800 for a single blow job. wish i could put that somewhere on my resume.

[Prince of Thieves]

Cracking up at the plumhead story. Yeah, right. lol

[jamieknyc]

..I was married to a man once and was a mere house frau and plaything.. my husband paid me a very good allowance... and more... does that count?

Can't speak for British law, but in America, prostitution has to be offered to the general public. American courts quickly got tired of husbands trying to have wives charged with prostitution when they refused to give sex unless the husband bought them jewelry and furs.

[silkyheels]

When I was a boy, other boys would give me money or share their ice cream or candy with me if I touched them and let them put it in my mouth

[darkeyes]

Can't speak for British law, but in America, prostitution has to be offered to the general public. American courts quickly got tired of husbands trying to have wives charged with prostitution when they refused to give sex unless the husband bought them jewelry and furs.

Is ok, Jamie.. wos just being smart arse...

[centillini]

Yep few times when I was younger, few couples and few ladies.

[Dead Account]

I've always wondered what it would be like, but it does seem like a pretty empty existence.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Pssst, hey Plum? I'd still respect ya in the morning...and even take ya ta breakfast.
Hugs and kisses my Friend..:}
Yer Silly Cat

[andyinboxers]

Yes my bf in high school and I used to do shows for pay also lessons lol... Good times...

[Plumhead2]

Cracking up at the plumhead story. Yeah, right. lol

Hmmm, you bare yourself here and all you get is flamed at. I thought this place was supposed to be supportive. OK, now I know better. Oh, Cat, thanks for the hugs and kisses. You might respect me in the morning, but it doesn't help when I was feeling so empty. I didn't respect myself back then. I remember getting back into my car after the last paid session. The snow was falling gently. I felt so empty. So used. That was 30 something years ago. Even though life is so much better now, when I think back about it, I can still remember the emptiness. Glad I could give some of you a laugh at my expense.

[tenni]

Hmmm, you bare yourself here and all you get is flamed at. I thought this place was supposed to be supportive. OK, now I know better. Oh, Cat, thanks for the hugs and kisses. You might respect me in the morning, but it doesn't help when I was feeling so empty. I didn't respect myself back then. I remember getting back into my car after the last paid session. The snow was falling gently. I felt so empty. So used. That was 30 something years ago. Even though life is so much better now, when I think back about it, I can still remember the emptiness. Glad I could give some of you a laugh at my expense.

I have noticed a tendency for certain posters to ask potentially embarrassing disclosure questions and when someone dares to confide on this site, there are a certain brand fake flamer waiting to condemn, judge the person. i.e. (have you ever done sex for pay...paid a whore...comment on the complexity of biguys' lives,....I was outed..etc.) It is a shame that this troll like behaviour happens. Ask potentially delicate questions and then slame them with a fake profile as if it is not you.

I have to wonder why we don't ask them why they want to know as a first response? There is never any background given to suggest that this question has an issue that is bothering them?

[tenni]

I have noticed that there are certain people on here who just love to argue and prove that they are "right" all the time.

You are quite correct It is called debating issues when not directed as a fake flamer attacking someone for asking/saying /being themselves via disclosure etc. That is what rule 2 is for. Attack the idea/issue/concept and not the person.

Discussing and debating bisexual/political etc. issues is a significant role of this site for many. People post for many reasons and it is not all about salicious questions as to what is the biggest cock that you have sucked. not that there is anything wrong with that up to a point.

[Bi2Talk]

No, other than to pay rent.

[goodsonformom]

When I was a boy, other boys would give me money or share their ice cream or candy with me if I touched them and let them put it in my mouth

OMG I wish I grew up in your neighborhood silkyheels.......we would have been dangerous......*grins*

[pole_smoker]

OMG I wish I grew up in your neighborhood silkyheels.......we would have been dangerous......*grins*

ewwwwww that's just plain creepy but let's consider the sources.

[ohbimale]

Yes I have worked for escort services almost 20 years ago. I told the owner I am bisexual and open for either gender. My clientele was all guys. I did not mind because I honestly because I liked cock a lot more than pussy. The guys almost always wanted head. I had repeat clients who would ask for me. I left it because I wanted to. I was never abused by anyone so I count myself fortunate. I needed to make money and I liked sex so it was a win for me.

[pole_smoker]

Yes, I worked my way through college getting paid for sex at a woman's college. I was paid by women whose boyfriends were at a distant college and needed release between visits or for women who wanted to try something that they couldn't ask their boyfriends to do or for women who wanted to lose their virginity before having sex with a boyfriend. I did it for maybe seven or eight months. I stopped when I found that I didn't like myself for doing it. I felt used. degraded. unemotional. It took me a while (and the love of a patient woman) before I could have sex with a woman again that I had any feelings towards. Now years later, I am still ashamed of what I did. I only post this because I am relatively anonymous. Only a very small handful of people know this about me. It may seem like a male dream cum true, but it was not the best experience of my life. I don't recommend it.

^^^
THIS NEVER HAPPENED.

You've read one too many adult novels, fictional stories on the internet, you make up stories, and love to talk out of your ass about stuff you have no clue about. You're also a really bad liar and everyone can tell you made up that story, and that it's BS; but let's consider the source.

You were never a male whore or male prostitute, or anything like that.

Women even if they're older, fat or obese, or ugly do not have a need to pay for sex.

College aged women especially do not need to resort to paying for a male whore, or even older women who work at a college or university do not really need to do this either. If they want to hook up with a man then they simply will and they won't pay for cock.

Butt, I can see you having to resort to pay for pussy, and paying for a female whore.

[pole_smoker]

Real actual whores. Unlike the poseur LOL "Plumhead".

[ALMOE]

I sexually harassed myself once, and it had no effect on me. LOL

[charles-smythe]

^^^
THIS NEVER HAPPENED.

You've read one too many adult novels, fictional stories on the internet, you make up stories, and love to talk out of your ass about stuff you have no clue about. You're also a really bad liar and everyone can tell you made up that story, and that it's BS; but let's consider the source.

You were never a male whore or male prostitute, or anything like that.

Women even if they're older, fat or obese, or ugly do not have a need to pay for sex.

College aged women especially do not need to resort to paying for a male whore, or even older women who work at a college or university do not really need to do this either. If they want to hook up with a man then they simply will and they won't pay for cock.

Butt, I can see you having to resort to pay for pussy, and paying for a female whore.

…truth is stranger than fiction…so I think he could be telling the truth…in the early 70s when I was working at Texas Instruments word got around that I ate pussy…BUT didn’t kiss & tell…this was a time when birth control pills was just invented & girls were getting their sexual freedom…it was a time when the girls in my age bracket (20s) had dated the same guy all through high school…lost their virginity on prom night…& in a month or 2 was married…their husband being the only guy they ever went to bed with……it was a time when these girls were wondering what they’d missed….when word got around that I didn’t kiss & tell these married girls started coming on to me to find out what sex with someone other than their husband was like…it was a time when oral sex even with your spouse was socially unacceptable, even a felony…most were interested in oral…I had about 10 or 12 of these married women that I fuck for almost a year…they all weren’t available all the time but 2 maybe 3 times a week I’d stop @ the Como motel & get a little before going home…the common thread was the husbands all were only into missionary style sex…no foreplay (wham-bam-thank you ma’am)…no oral…no dog style…no 69…no nothing…most of the wives took what I taught them home & taught it to their husbands…I kept this up for about a year & only stopped because I got a divorce…the wives I was fucking didn’t want divorces so as long as I was married I had as much to lose as they did so I was safe…when I got a divorce I was no longer safe so they dumped me…

[pole_smoker]

…truth is stranger than fiction…so I think he could be telling the truth…in the early 70s when I was working at Texas Instruments word got around that I ate pussy…BUT didn’t kiss & tell…this was a time when birth control pills was just invented & girls were getting their sexual freedom…it was a time when the girls in my age bracket (20s) had dated the same guy all through high school…lost their virginity on prom night…& in a month or 2 was married…their husband being the only guy they ever went to bed with……it was a time when these girls were wondering what they’d missed….when word got around that I didn’t kiss & tell these married girls started coming on to me to find out what sex with someone other than their husband was like…it was a time when oral sex even with your spouse was socially unacceptable, even a felony…most were interested in oral…I had about 10 or 12 of these married women that I fuck for almost a year…they all weren’t available all the time but 2 maybe 3 times a week I’d stop @ the Como motel & get a little before going home…the common thread was the husbands all were only into missionary style sex…no foreplay (wham-bam-thank you ma’am)…no oral…no dog style…no 69…no nothing…most of the wives took what I taught them home & taught it to their husbands…I kept this up for about a year & only stopped because I got a divorce…the wives I was fucking didn’t want divorces so as long as I was married I had as much to lose as they did so I was safe…when I got a divorce I was no longer safe so they dumped me…

With what happened to you, you did it for free and those women didn't pay for sex as there's no need for a woman to pay for sex.

[Cum1st]

No and haven't paid, but there have been female customers that I wish they had offered to pay for repair services with their bodies.