Bicurious or Bisexual?

**ms_bicurious** · Apr 24, 2013, 9:51 PM

I'm a 19 year old female and I've recently realized that I'm not just looking at girls and comparing myself to them but actually checking them out. I have experimented with a girl before [just kissing and fingering] and liked it. I haven't gone really far. But I'm not sure if I'm bicurious or bisexual; or if there's even a difference!

I couldn't be in a relationship with girl but I could be friends with benefits. How can I tell if I'm bicurious or bisexual?

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**Young pussy and dope** · Apr 24, 2013, 10:00 PM

They both mean the exact same thing.

**goldenfinger** · Apr 24, 2013, 11:31 PM

Your heart will tell you if you are bisexual, and your mind will tell you if you are bi-curious.

**zigzig** · Apr 25, 2013, 2:23 PM

You are bisexual, because being bi curious is a sign about your true sexuality. I started to be bi curious, when I was a teenager. I thought that it's just a phase, but later realized I'm alway gonna be attracted to both genders.

**BiOlyMale** · Apr 25, 2013, 3:06 PM

You can claim to be "bi-curious" until the first time you Act on it...if you Still have those feelings of wanting to do sexual things with same gender, you're bisexual.

**fredtyg** · Apr 25, 2013, 6:16 PM

Originally Posted by BiOlyMale

You can claim to be "bi-curious" until the first time you Act on it...if you Still have those feelings of wanting to do sexual things with same gender, you're bisexual.

Agreed. Bi- curious is just a preliminary stage that continues through the first same- sex encounter. If you enjoy it, want to continue doing it and are sexually interested in both men and women- to whatever degree- you're bisexual.

Another way of saying that is bi- curious just means you think you might be interested. Once you've had your first experience and know you're interested, you're bisexual.

**aLABiM75 & StrF51** · Apr 25, 2013, 6:57 PM

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You're asking the Question..... so that makes you Bicurious.

If you can achieve pleasure with the same sex and want to do it again.... you're Bisexual.

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**Sirramm** · Apr 26, 2013, 11:57 AM

Don't get hung-up on labeling yourself! Just enjoy each moment and event.

**cupcakes** · Apr 29, 2013, 5:42 PM

Originally Posted by BiOlyMale

You can claim to be "bi-curious" until the first time you Act on it...if you Still have those feelings of wanting to do sexual things with same gender, you're bisexual.

agree! thats how i figured it out! I started out kissing girls, then went to touching, then being naked with them and rubbing and fingering and then sex. when i couldnt stop, It kinda smacked me in the face....Im bisexual!

**dick_pumper** · Apr 29, 2013, 8:40 PM

I had very similar experiences in high school and nothing for a long time after, but I would always have it in my mind about what we did and if I would do it again if given the chance. To that extent, I would say I was Bi-Curious. I had no real experience to know if I would want it after I tried it. Now, I will say I am Bisexual because I met a person and we fooled around and I liked it a lot.

**marius2846** · Apr 29, 2013, 10:37 PM

you are bicurious when you have thoughts of having sex with both men and women and bisexual when you actually have sex about those same thoughts

**Mr. Suck** · Apr 29, 2013, 11:15 PM

Why are people claiming that you are really only bisexual when you've actually had sex with both genders? This is not true and a person can be bisexual and have only had sex with one or even no genders since bisexuality is based on the fact that you are sexually attracted to both genders and you don't have to have had sex with one or both of them in order to be bisexual.

**dick_pumper** · Apr 30, 2013, 11:46 AM

Originally Posted by Mr. Suck

Why are people claiming that you are really only bisexual when you've actually had sex with both genders? This is not true and a person can be bisexual and have only had sex with one or even no genders since bisexuality is based on the fact that you are sexually attracted to both genders and you don't have to have had sex with one or both of them in order to be bisexual.

I disagree. I mean I have found guys attractive for a loooong time, since high school. And the same goes for women as well. But I only had sex with females. So I was curious as to what would it be like to lay with another male. I didn't know if I had the chance and did it if I would like it at all or maybe hate it and then never do it again. Now I have recently had that experience with another male and loved it and want to repeat it. So I am comfortable saying I am Bisexual.
You can't be a welder if you never picked up an electrode, but you may have thought that you would like to become a welder (Weld-Curious)

**Asspussy302** · May 21, 2013, 6:24 PM

As far as I know curious means never done it, but thought about it.

**Mr. Suck** · May 21, 2013, 7:01 PM

Originally Posted by wats302

As far as I know curious means never done it, but thought about it.

Even if you've just thought about it and therefore fantasized about it then you're still bisexual. It does not matter if you are sexually active or not with one or both genders. It's like how if someone is gay or hetero and a virgin they're not "Gay curious" or "hetero curious".