@LDD- Hanging around in LGBT/gay bars/clubs isn't the be all and end all of sexual visibility for many. Lots of gays, lesbians, transgendered and bi's wouldn't be found dead in those places. Why? Because it's not their thing. They don't want to.
I very rarely hang around in 'straight' clubs etc and neither do many straight m&f's. It doesn't interest everybody.
Doesn't mean that it's their fault when they here here BS about them, and they lose the right to complain about it though. That's ridiculous.
Those that are 'Non Scene' are not slacking off from 'doing stuff' for their particular sexuality. They are living as THEY see fit to as themselves, and not how some 'scene' Gestapo might dictate.
Most bi's have lifestyles of the 'heterosexual' variety with husbands/wives and children. Some partnered gays and lesbians and trans do to. It is their lifestyle no matter what sexuality they are. And many would ADD to that community instead of separating into another. Which I think does more for sexualities, integrating and not separating. After all, it's not a heterosexual world.
What needs to be visible is the existence of bisexuality and not necessarily the bisexual individual. We are what we are.
Oh there are PLENTY of promiscuous bi's around having sex with promiscuous gays and straights. Plenty of cheating going on with everybody too. It would be a VERY hard competition to find out who's the sluttiest.lol
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