What's funny is that society has yet to catch on to the animalistic tendencies that are characteristic of us humans. Men (and some Women) have not only been desiring (and going after) other sexual partners since the beginning of time, they have also been seeking out male partners.
Please, stop judging ladies and gentlemen.
We've all have our own decisions to make and lord knows they dont ever seem to be getting easier. Many of us got married as (near) children for approval or convenience and weren't experienced (or mature) enough to understand how it would deprive us of natural wants and desires that would manifest later in life.
The troubling part is that Men have to sneak around to fulfill their urges, just as many homo/bisexuals feel like they have to sneak around to get what their bodies tell them they want. Societal ideas of human interaction and "the way things are supposed to be" are becoming very obsolete.
Modern day Marriage is presenting itself as a pathetic way to trap people into unhappy bounds, another means to control humans in nature (like religion) . A successful marriage should be nothing more than an extension of a viable support system in which partners are there to promote well being.
No offense, but the whole "love and intimacy has to be apart of sex" idea is more of a women thing (by nature). Men and women are very different; Us men could get an erection and place it in almost any hole without a drip of emotion, a primal urge to procreate. Women on the other hand are designed to find the most suitable partner to produce viable offspring.
Excuse my rant
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