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  1. #241

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Quote Originally Posted by whispering View Post

    Congradulations, you just made my "IGNORE" list.
    Try following your own advice troll. LMAO
    Last edited by pole_smoker; Oct 13, 2015 at 11:16 AM.

  2. #242

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    I think that the answer is kind of all of the above. Add to that spouses that are post menopause and have lost any and all interest in sex, and the reality that it is a lot easier for a guy to meet up with another guy for some simple, non committal sex than it is to find the elusive woman that is willing to just meet up, give you a blow job and call it a night. You get to a point where it doesn't matter whether it is a guy or a woman, you just need that intimacy - and you also realize that you will need to reciprocate and find out that the fears you had for the first 50 years were bullshit - sucking cock really is great!

  3. #243

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Quote Originally Posted by ray-connecticut View Post
    I think that the answer is kind of all of the above. Add to that spouses that are post menopause and have lost any and all interest in sex, and the reality that it is a lot easier for a guy to meet up with another guy for some simple, non committal sex than it is to find the elusive woman that is willing to just meet up, give you a blow job and call it a night. You get to a point where it doesn't matter whether it is a guy or a woman, you just need that intimacy - and you also realize that you will need to reciprocate and find out that the fears you had for the first 50 years were bullshit - sucking cock really is great!
    You're the typical misogynistic closet queen coward here and on other sites that puts all the blame for being a liar and cheat on a "wife" he never loved or cared about. Anyone who actually had balls and was a real man for once would have just came out to their wife or gotten a divorce, instead of being a lying cheating bottom feeder.

  4. #244

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    And may I ask what gives you the impression that I have NOT discussed this with my wife (to whom I have been married for 41 years yesterday)? Your "cut and paste" reply to just about every response to this thread makes me wonder about your own sexuality (and acceptance of same). My wife has explained that she has no desire for sexual intimacy and is not offended if I seek it elsewhere. We are still very much in love, have a fantastic 19 year old daughter and share our intimacies TOGETHER in a non sexual manner. I await your apology.

  5. #245

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Quote Originally Posted by ray-connecticut View Post
    And may I ask what gives you the impression that I have NOT discussed this with my wife (to whom I have been married for 41 years yesterday)? Your "cut and paste" reply to just about every response to this thread makes me wonder about your own sexuality (and acceptance of same). My wife has explained that she has no desire for sexual intimacy and is not offended if I seek it elsewhere. We are still very much in love, have a fantastic 19 year old daughter and share our intimacies TOGETHER in a non sexual manner. I await your apology.
    LMAO, I'm not going to apologize as you are a misogynistic closet queen, who does not love his wife and who has cheated on her before, and a coward. As for my husband and I, we are both bisexual. Don't people actually read profiles on here? Or are they unable to read?
    Last edited by pole_smoker; Oct 13, 2015 at 7:09 PM.

  6. #246

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Have you not read my profile? I am also bisexual. I don't understand how my wife's asexuality toward men or women makes me either a misogynist, a liar,a cheater or a closet queen.
    Last edited by ray-connecticut; Oct 13, 2015 at 7:16 PM.

  7. #247

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Quote Originally Posted by ray-connecticut View Post
    And may I ask what gives you the impression that I have NOT discussed this with my wife (to whom I have been married for 41 years yesterday)? Your "cut and paste" reply to just about every response to this thread makes me wonder about your own sexuality (and acceptance of same). My wife has explained that she has no desire for sexual intimacy and is not offended if I seek it elsewhere. We are still very much in love, have a fantastic 19 year old daughter and share our intimacies TOGETHER in a non sexual manner. I await your apology.
    What a wonderful response, Ray. This site exists because people want to share their personal, intimate thoughts and feelings, and the joys and sorrows of being bisexual in today's world. Your story is inspiring.

  8. #248

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Quote Originally Posted by ray-connecticut View Post
    Have you not read my profile? I am also bisexual. I don't understand how my wife's asexuality toward men or women makes me either a misogynist, a liar,a cheater or a closet queen.
    Because in your first post you "blamed" women for not having sex with men, and claimed that this is causing men to cheat on their wives or have sex with men or be bisexual. When in reality if someone's going to cheat they will do this even if they have sex every night with their wife since they made the personal choice to do so, and the excuse of staying closeted for decades does not work either.

  9. #249

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Quote Originally Posted by whispering View Post
    What a wonderful response, Ray. This site exists because people want to share their personal, intimate thoughts and feelings, and the joys and sorrows of being bisexual in today's world. Your story is inspiring.
    What sorrows? Only people who are deeply closeted like you would claim that there are 'sorrows' associated with being bisexual or coming out as bisexual. Bisexual people, and LGBT people in North America and in reality today have it extremely easy compared to 50+ years ago like you're completely revising history and reality about claiming that nothing much has changed; but hey you're a closet queen and a coward. But, even in the states that you listed it's still very easy and acceptable to be bisexual, gay, lesbian, or trans and out.
    Last edited by pole_smoker; Oct 13, 2015 at 7:44 PM.

  10. #250

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    I believe that , yes certain men and women become more curious and more interested in trying things they only thought about, I know I am more interested in oral with men, very interested.

  11. #251

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    I am in my mid-40s and I just accepted the fact that I am bisexual. I have fantasized about men since I was an early teen but also had interest in girls. I ended up marrying young and that was it. I guess I just assumed that I liked to fantasize but in no way was I gay. I believe that I am bisexual because women still turn me on but as I get older my desire to engage in gay sex is getting stonger. For me the first step was accepting who I am. The next step will be to have my first experience with a man. Regardless, I have been this way my whole life. I am just now embracing it.

  12. #252

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Quote Originally Posted by Don44 View Post
    An internet search brought me to this site and I just joined. This is my first post. I'm in my early 70's, lifelong marriage and became interested in sex with men at about 65. For me, the interest just hit me and can't explain why. My first encounter was with a married man about my age who I met on a business trip. Talked about women and he asked if I ever did anything with a man. In my youth, some typical experimenting. Went to my hotel room for what I thought would be to JO and I rather quickly performed oral sex on him. He did it to me and we did it again. After, I felt guilty and couldn't believe what I did. My wife was still quite oral so I wondered why that same act with a guy seemed so erotic. Had several other similar encounters, retired and continued my interest locally, but now very discreetly. I was initially surprised that so many other married men were seeking MM sex. It seems quite normal these days. Are there other guys out there who are still active in their 70's? I find it easy to connect with other normal, rational men. In my case, I engage in conversation first and then meet in a public place for reality check. Thereafter, we know what we're willing to do and do it.
    I'm also a "late-in-life" guy, except my bisexuality first showed up when I was in my teens. Never acted on it. These days I see plenty of guys my age (60's+) who engage in MSM.

    While I'm not in my 70's, two guys I have met up with were. One looked like he was 50 (really surprised me when he said he was 70) and another guy who is 72. Granted many guys in this age category don't perform like they used to but there is still fun to be had.

  13. #253

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    According to a Dr. on the website below it is due to a copper/zink imbalance
    in both men and women. Scroll down the web page to find the appropriate
    topic. Hope this helps. Makes men desire homosexual relations and kills the
    sex drive in women according to Dr. Wilson. I don't know if it is true but it
    is a possibility as there is little nutrition in the food we get these days and
    far to many chemicals in everything that can and do cause issues in health.
    One thing that is missing in any person that becomes ill is a mineral of some
    kind. This is proven science. 4 things make a person sick with cancers and
    other disease. Heavy metals, chemicals, lack of ENOUGH vitamins and
    minerals, and parasites (bacteria,virus, micoplasma,macroplasma). Learn how
    to chelate heavy metals and chemicals and when to take vitamins and minerals
    together. Vitamins and minerals should be taken 3 times a day in certain groups
    due to the fact that when taken all at once some will cause others to not be
    absorbed into the body. Learn what kills parasites in the body to stay healthy.

    Vitamin D3 is important to take daily for those of you that do not get a lot of sun
    on the majority of your body. 5000mg daily for adults minimum. Do research side
    effects from getting too much vitamin D3 as it can build up in the body. The latest
    science research says many people should be taking 8000mg a day. You can have
    your Dr. test for levels to be sure you are not getting too much if you want.
    Look into Bentonite clay and Diatomaceous earth. Also, look into herbs that kill
    parasites in the body such as Garlic, Cayenne Pepper, MSM, Hot Peppers, Oil of
    Oregano and many more. Not a Dr. but have studied medicine for years and never
    get sick or see Doctors. Always consult your Dr. before beginning any protocol
    especially if you take ANY Pharmaceutical drugs. Hope this info helps.

    http://drlwilson.com/Articles/copper...y_syndrome.htm

  14. #254

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    A big reason why men of age 50 and older "turn" bisexual is because their wives had lost interest in sex. When I was fifty and sixty I was fucking young women of 20 and 30 when my wife just quit sex completely. After a while I began to want to know what they liked about men and decided to experiment. I liked what I found. I can be totally "fem" in bed with the right man!

  15. #255

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Actually, I have to challenge the 'because their wives had lost interest in sex" [bwlis] theory. I don't doubt that it may be a factor for many but it's only one among several. For myself, my wife actually seemed to develop more interest in sex--it was me that changed. If it was just bwlis reason, Don Lee comment about 'fucking young women' would be likely response and I would expect to be more common although the sense of guilt in an non-open relationship could twist that some.

  16. #256

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Yes! And if you do hook up, meet an older man, keep him! They are the best lovers ever! They have the experience of pounding a sweet hole, but are also intimate and gentle. Any man aged 40+ are my go-to tops. Major bonuses if they're bald, chubby/stocky, and have a goatee. But, that's just my preferred reference.

  17. #257

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Quote Originally Posted by DownBoy View Post
    Yes! And if you do hook up, meet an older man, keep him! They are the best lovers ever! They have the experience of pounding a sweet hole, but are also intimate and gentle. Any man aged 40+ are my go-to tops. Major bonuses if they're bald, chubby/stocky, and have a goatee. But, that's just my preferred reference.
    Not bald, but a little chubby, or paunchy although mostly wiry, got a goatee during Spring & Summer that grows out to full neck and face beard during Autumn & Winter, be 44 come the 29th of this month. I'm a rather fuzzy bear what has no intent to do all the 'fashionable' twaddle of hair removal or what is dubbed 'manscaping'. See no great need of out, I'm straight act bi guy that gets musky when he dives into work or certain aspects of play. I keep a general attitude of what you see, you get, like it or leave it.

    But I'm not altogether writing this to express interest in you. Merely stating some observations, and a view.

  18. #258

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    I have been bisexual since I was in my late teens. I had LOTS of "jackoff buddies" when I was very, very young and really enjoyed mutual jackoff with them, as well as anal and oral sex. When I was almost 18, I had my first sexual intercourse with a girl. She was about 23 and had been married. We had been dancing and drinking a few beers. I told her that I was getting ready to have my 18th birthday, she flipped ! ! ! She asked me if she could bum a ride home and naturally I agreed. When we got to her apartment, she had moved over next to me and started kissing my neck and feeling my crotch, and told me that she wanted to give me a "special" birthday present. I had a hardon that you could drive nails with, and we went into her apartment. She had me naked in a nano-second and herself too. She pushed me down on the bed and told me to get between her legs and start fucking......When I told her that I had never fucked a girl before, she said, "Honey, you are going to get the fucking of your youth".........That was about 50 years ago, and I still remember fucking her SEVEN times that night. My cock never got soft the first 5 times we fucked. As I continued to date girls, I kept in touch with my jackoff buddies and continued to have sex with them almost as often as I got fucked by a girl. I did not think I was "strange" at that time, but did not want to be labeled as a "queer" (guys that were gay were referred to as being queer back then). I continued this lifestyle even after meeting the girl I later married (and still married to the same girl). The last time I had sex with a buddy was two weeks before I got married. He came by my apartment and we went to his apartment and stripped and sucked and fucked for 4 hours. It was fabulous. Two weeks later I got married and we immediately moved 750 miles away from my jackoff/fuckbuddies and I gave up my contacts with my male friends, and....since I had just married, I had all the sex I could handle. I stayed str8 for many years but when landed a job with a company that required me to travel quite a bit, I started having sex with girls AND guys again.....very discretely.
    I must say that I enjoy the guy sex as much or MORE that sex with my sweetie......

  19. #259

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    I'm 57 and had my first taste of another man at 55. It wasn't because my wife let herself go, goodness knows none of us look like 20 year olds anymore.
    I think it is a combination of social rules becoming more relaxed and my own maturity allowing me to explore my own desires as I near the end of my physical peak.
    Life is a journey and sexual expression is part of life's journey. The sexual experience and expression I share with my wife is wonderful and unique. So is the sexual expression and experience I share with another man on occasion. The love I have for my wife is true and everlasting, I'm not abandoning her for another, be it a manager or a woman.
    Some people don't drink, some don't smoke, some don't suck dicks...
    to each his own. All is well.

  20. #260

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Always have loved having a guy go down on me, but sucked only 4. As I get older I do find myself wanting to go down more. For me the best is when a wife watches and joins in.

  21. #261

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    I sucked my first cock at 11 (didn't even start with girls till 15 when they started to play), loved it since, but it took 36 years before my wife let me back out to play with guys. So while it looks like I am just coming out in my late 50's, I've been bi all my life.

  22. #262

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Good Question and some interesting answers.

    I have talked to some members and acquaintances of both genders, who had their first experiences later in life. Each of them seem to have different opinions why they developed that desire.

    One lady swore she never considered being with another female, until after her husband died. She sold her home and moved in with a life-long friend, who seduced her. She loved her husband and they had a great life, but her relationship with her female friend was here most rewarding experience, ever! When she revealed her secret to me, she was in her 70s!

    There's been many more men, though, who have admitted they became conscious of their newfound MM urges after 50.

    My very first sexually, but non-orgasmic, contact with another male, was at 5! I got a spanking for kissing both boys and girls at a birthday party. It never changed my interest in both genders, though.

  23. #263

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    I am 62 and have been having thoughts of being with a man for the last couple of years. I love my wife and we have sex. That has nothing to do with it. Frankly, I'm not sure where these feelings came from. If I had to pick something, it would be pornography. Suddenly I find myself watching gay porn, especially where the theme is straight guys having sex with straight guys. I've not done anything about these impulses, but they are definitely there. When I check sites, like this one, that cater to men finding men to have sex with, there seems to be a lot of guys that are like me. I'm not sure why it's happening. My moral compass says it would be wrong to cheat on my wife, but the desire is there to try sucking a cock. One of the mysteries of life, I guess.

  24. #264

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    Don't believe that people "turn," we all make choices. Possibly, when we were younger and experimented more openly, there were ample opportunities for either a more gay type experience or for an unexpected bi-experience. Seems like during the very busy middle-years, work, commitments, family, etc. impose social restrictions that make "road blocks" for having Bi experiences. Then after a certain age, or with the "right" spouse/life partner, the kids are gone, one can again experience the pleasures of S E X just for the sure joy of it (no matter how each of us chooses to want it).

    My spouse supports and likes to watch me with another man...... we both like to have new experiences. It is, was not, and never will be, just a matter of 'turning" (choosing) to be anything. More like having the strength of character to accept that one likes to have "same-sex" experiences periodically and enjoy them to the MAX.............

  25. #265

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    My desires have just strengthened over the years. No sudden change. I realised that that there was no point fighting my desires when I was in my late twenties. A colleague exposed his very large erection to me, as a joke. I laughed of course, as expected, then went off somewhere quiet to masturbate. The sight excited me so much. I like being bi. I can have it all.

  26. #266

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    [QUOTE=Likesboth;304727]I'm 57 and had my first taste of another man at 55. It wasn't because my wife let herself go, goodness knows none of us look like 20 year olds anymore. I think it is a combination of social rules becoming more relaxed and my own maturity allowing me to explore my own desires as I near the end of my physical peak.'

    An excellent post.

    I don't think age is a big factor. I find women of a similar age to mine quite sexy. No pretence with older women either. Femininity is also a big factor. And to me at least, far more important than looks. But, having said that, I also find that a lot of older women are cranky, and maybe bitter. Perhaps part of the reason why I also enjoy cock.

    Having said that, there really are so many reasons why I do.

  27. #267

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    As for myself I don't really remember any strong bisexual feelings until my late 50s. I came to realize that I was increasingly seeking out gay porn on the internet to masturbate. I am now 68 and the need to be sexually submissive to another is an almost constant desire. Both my wife and I were virgins when we married and she has no idea of my desires or that I secretly wear her panties. While viewing gay porn I always get an erection. When I was younger seeing my wife naked would of course elicit a erection but now I really struggle to get an erection when she agrees to permit me sex. If I do get an erection I often ejaculate before entering or shortly after entering her pussy. She's commented that she thinks I am becoming impotent and that sex leaves her feeling frustrated. I do wonder if my bisexual desires are a result of my submissiveness and sissy tendencies. Just the thought of sucking a cock or imagining a pair of strong hands gripping my hips while urgently thrusting in me never fails to excite me.

  28. #268

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    The older I get the strong it gets or the older I get the more I let it out. My wife doesn't know and even though she has changed as I have, she is more beautiful to me now than ever. We've been getting it on and she loves the anal.
    Last edited by NakedFun38; Aug 3, 2016 at 3:09 PM.

  29. #269

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    I'm of the opinion that some people are born to be homosexual....they have the physical attributes of the gender they're born as, but their genes predispose them to feel and act consciously or subconsciously like their opposite genders and thus desire their same gender sexually. They are essentially taught at a young age that boys and girls are supposed to prefer their opposite gender. It is not a birth defect or abnormality or sickness as some homophobes would have us believe. Many other homophobic things they are taught by their parents, teachers, clergy, and peers influence them and it causes them so much guilt and shame about their same gender preferences. Luckily things have changed for the better over the last several generations and now only the most unenlightened parents, teachers, clergy and peers still consider homosexuality to be unnatural.

    I also believe that people who are not predisposed to be homosexual are born with a blank slate with the capacity to later make the choice to be heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual. It becomes a product of what they are taught to believe and what they actually experience when they become sexually inquisitive and begin exploring sex in their own. Since I'm male I can only speak for my own gender. Some boys are sexually abused at a young age by adult men, raped or otherwise forced to have oral and/or anal sex...that is sick and perverted. It both physically and emotionally affects their sexual behavior their whole lives. In some cases that is what "turns" them to be gay or bisexual...either early in life or later on when they are adult men of any age. Other adolescent and teen boys are curious and explore same gender sex on their own with no coercion, either prior to or after their first sexual exploration with girls. They may or may not ever "turn" bisexual or gay. But it seems from most threads I've read on this and other mm sites that having a homoerotic experience as an adolescent or teen male prior to settling down with a wife or gf makes it a hell of a lot more likely that they will sooner or later in life re-"turn" to desiring mm sex. In my case, I had one homoerotic experience when I was 15 with a 17 yr old neighborhood pal. I had already had sex with an older girl twice and was pussy crazy. I pretty much forgot about and blew off my one homosexual encounter (no pun intended). It didn't seem like a big deal to me. I played sports in high school I was often naked in the shower with lots of sweaty teammates after practice and I never got a hard on or desired cock. In college I had 3 male apartment mates and never did the thought of mm sex cross my mind. Then 17 years later, being adventurous and swinging with an adventurous hotwife, I tried mm oral sex at her coaxing and that was it...I instantly "turned" bisexual. It was only then that I remembered my teen buddy and I jerking each other off and waking up to him surreptitiously sucking me off later that night as I faked sleep. Again it was no big deal to suck my 1st cock at age 32 other than the fact that it excited me greatly and I knew I'd always desire sex with men and women after that night. Still I think it was my adventurous nature and my desire to fulfill my wife's fantasy that "turned" me bi. As much as I love sex with men, I do believe that even if I hadn't tried it at ages 15 and 32, I would have still "turned" bi later in life in my middle age just out of my natural curiosity about sex and always wanting to try new things sexually.
    Last edited by cuttin2dachase; Aug 4, 2016 at 7:11 PM.

  30. #270

    Re: Do older men turn bi???

    I think we ALL have a Bi tendency at any given point in our life. I think that as we get older we’re less inhibited.


 

 

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