Do older men turn bi???

[RoadWarrior942]

I'd always fantasized about being dominated in a M/F group scene, but never to the point of pursuing it.Had it happened while my wife and I were swinging, I probably would have rolled with it. My turning point was that I was divorced, lonely, started reading a wider variety of porn, including gay & bi. I also approached the question with a little logic: "Have I been missing out on a different variety of sex because I'm straight?". I also decided that women suck cock all the time, so what's the big deal if a guy does. I tried it and I liked it.

[Birobertb]

I think it is. Although I think more that everyone has the possibility to be bi, it just has to be activated or something like that.

[zbi73]

I think it is. Although I think more that everyone has the possibility to be bi, it just has to be activated or something like that.

There are some who subscribe to the notion that everyone is bisexual and all it takes are a certain set of conditions to be met... I do believe that there are many, many more bisexual men and women out there who identify at either end of the spectrum. I see it's quite common for straight people, men and women to sleep with the same sex off and on who still identify as 100% straight. I guess frequency and their own acceptance plays a part, but at the end of the day, it's just a label and I can totally understand why the do given how society reacts and treats bisexual people, in particular men. That's a discussion for a different day.

[ChiefH]

I was reading a post on another site the other day and this very same subject came up! I explored my bi side many, many years ago in my early teens and found I enjoyed sucking my friends cock and letting him fuck me! But time went on and we went our own ways! I got married and had a family and stuck my bi feelings deep in the back of my mind, oh I still had my fantasies of watching my wife being fucked and me licking his cum and her juice from his cock!! We had a really good sex life until the dreaded change hit her! I know some women it doesn't faze them and they continue with the great sex life! But the men answering the post were all in their 60's and 70's that menopause caused them to look in another direction for sexual relief!! My wife could care less if my cock ever entered her pussy again, that is so sad because my wife is still a very nice looking lady and she still turns me on wanting to fuck her!

[TouchHere]

Interesting thread! I've been Bimale all my life but limited myself in my youth as I felt alot of shame and inhibitions. As I've gotten older, that shame slowly evaporated and now I'm (finally) comfortable with my inclinations. I think this is true for many who develop Bi leanings later in life.

[softail99]

ChiefH......I can relate to your response. I am 60 yo, been married many years to a wife that was very active in bed, but her sex drive is now pretty much gone. My desire for sex is strong and she still turns me on, but it is to the point that we would never have sex if it was left up to her. So that leaves me in a predicament; I do not want another woman, having an affair does not interest me, I don't want my marriage to end, so, I look at porn when I have alone time and fantasize. My fantasies involve watching my wife with a well hung lover, his large cock unleashes her dormant desires and she has a renewed hunger to fuck again, but not for me since I am average in size. She lusts for his large cock, after he fills her with his load, she allows me sloppy seconds. I fantasize about cleaning her and him as well and those thoughts turn me on. It turns me on to think about helping her please lover, to play a part in her renewed passion for sex. I have always been a masculine, dominant type of man, and never had many bi thoughts until the last few years. I must admit that I am turned on by looking at nice hard cocks, thinking about how they would look sliding into my wife's 62 yo pussy and making her orgasm like she used too with me. I have an appreciation of virile men and their cocks that was not there when I was younger, probably because I too was once virile and could satisfy my wife. I love sex, I wish my wife loved it too, but it is what it is. With all that being said, at my age and with things the way they are with my wife, I may not be bi in real life, but bi fantasies have found a home in my mind.

[Sidsmith]

I can only speak for myself buy I think so. In my mid 50s and I think of cock nonstop now.

[SlowNEZ]

I would have to say “yes” to this question. As I am getting older, I am becoming more obsessed with the desire to get intimate with a man. Several years ago, a fellow in a locker room slyly showed me his (beautiful) cock ... my knees went weak, and I became flushed. I knew, then, that I wanted to fondle and suck that piece of anatomy. I dId not get the opportunity, because in an effort to get close, he became a patient, and therefore he became ‘hands-off’. Nowadays, that is nearly all I think about. Even when I masturbate, I get my best orgasms while I suck on a realistic dildo. I am getting very hungry for some male cream.

[poetofdarkness]

I can only speak for myself buy I think so. In my mid 50s and I think of cock nonstop now.

do you think about women still?

[Sidsmith]

Occasionally but still there is cock involved. A 60 old couple would be heavily.

[Flypaper]

I can only speak for myself buy I think so. In my mid 50s and I think of cock nonstop now.

I subscribe to the fluid sexuality theory. I came to it in my 50s, after a healthy hetero sexual life and zero thoughts about cock. Then it happened. I’m not thinking of cock nonstop, but when I do it feels natural.

I think we are just more secure when we reach a certain age.

[fredward]

I subscribe to the fluid sexuality theory. I came to it in my 50s, after a healthy hetero sexual life and zero thoughts about cock. Then it happened. I’m not thinking of cock nonstop, but when I do it feels natural.

I think we are just more secure when we reach a certain age.

I couldn't agree more. That sounds exactly like me too!

[hung4you]

Without a doubt in my mind I think most men are open to man to man private time, no matter the age it starts at a very young age. For me it all started with my group of friends stealing our dads playboys and hustler magazines and circle jerking our brains out. Tasted my 1st cock at 15, swallowed my 1st load at 16. Now after 34 years of marriage not only myself but my wife are actively engaged in lots of same sex fun. We share a lot of our fantasies with each other as well as others. Our partners are all older around our age and just enjoy the fun of it. No commitments, no jealousy just sexual fun for all involved. I love cock as much as I love pussy, on any given day I don’t care which one as long as we both are satisfied.

With regard to do older men turn bi, I think we are all in one way or another open to bisexual thought, only the bravest of souls actually persue their desires or fantasies. Think about it, every man I ask in general conversation is damn dogs are lucky they can lick their own dicks and they laugh and say yea I wish I could, and when we watch porn, for me my favorite part of porn is watching a hung bastard sliding his dick in and out of a well lubed pussy and I get all hard when I see him cum on her or watching his throbbing cock unloaded in her. If you are older then think about it, I’m right which is why I get to play as much as I do.

[Fred_Brice]

In my opinion, I do believe that, most men can/or open, to be with another man, no matter their age, with some it can start at a very young age. For me, it all started with a much older man, that had seduced me, back in my early teens, many years ago.
He had asked me, to help him help move a few things, and he would pay me for my time, so I agreed to help him. It was a warm summer night and we both were wearing shorts and tee shirts and after a while, we both started, to sweat a bit, as we moved things around. Soon both, of our tee shirts, were drench with sweat and he then suggested that we remove our shirts, cool down a bit. He then asked me, if I wanted a drink and that he had some wine. I did liked wine, since I had tasted it, at few family functions, so I said yes. We both sat down on his bed, as we drank our wine, we both did cooled off, a little. I was starting cool down a bit, but I did get a bit warm feeling, as I continued drinking, my glass of wine, as we started talking about each other. He told me about the death of his wife, many years and about how he missed her.

Soon he started asking me, about my own love life. I cannot remember, exactly how it had gotten around to that, and he did seem, to be more concern, about my own sexual life and soon, it was really more, about my own, sexual experiences. At some point, he had placed his hand, on my thigh and after a while, his hand, slowly moved up, and in between my thighs and his hand was getting closer to my crotch, as I was talking about my own life, or lack of a sex life. My boy cock was now starting to get hard and he soon placed his hand on the bulge, in my shorts and he had, then started massaging my hard boy cock, and I started breathing hard, in no time. He asked, if he could see my young boy cock and before knew it, he made me stand and he undid my shorts, the he pulled them down along with my tight-whites and I stood there completely naked, with my hard boy cock pointed, at his face. He wrapped his rough hand around my boy cock and started stroking me and making me moan, with pure pleasure. He then asked me, if I wanted to feel, how it felt to have another person suck, my boy cock. I was now in, a wine induced trance and all I could do was, nod my head yes. He wrapped warm moist lips around my boy cock and his tongue danced all over my boy cock head while his hands squeezed my ass cheeks. It did not take long and I soon, started to cum hard and fast, into his mouth and he swallowed every drop of my tasty cum load.

After a while, and after I caught my breath, he stood up and undid his own shorts. His man cock was so much bigger than mine and it was rock hard and much thicker than mine, maybe about 7” or so. He took my hand and put it on his cock. He asked if I wanted to try to suck his man cock and I told him, that I never sucked a cock before, so after a while, I leaned over and instinctively I then, wrap my hand aroynd his man cock and started stroke him and I was amazed, at how warm his cock was and the texture, it was all very appealing.

I then, took his man cock, in my mouth and I was amazed, with his big mushroom shaped head and it was soon hitting the back of my throat, as I slid my mouth up and down instinctively. He was soon moaning in ecstasy and after awhile he started bucking his hips up and down, so I took his swallow and sucked his man cock faster and deeper into my throat, as much as I could, as I moved from the top, to deep inside, my own throat. After what seemed awhile, I could fell his thick cock throbbing a bit, as he shot his warm load of man cum, I had tried to swallow, as much as, I could and some of his man juices, began to leak from my mouth, all over my face and soon onto the floor. So, I had experience my first man cock! Now, I did understand, at lease at that time, that, in my life that, it was not considered normal, so I then focused on what I believe, was normal, a male and female lifestyle. Now after 40 years, of marriage to a wonderful woman, and after we both, had raised four wonderful and normal children, while living a very normal relationship. then we discovered that my wife had Cancer, which we fought for almost 3 years, until she passed.


I now often find myself, reflecting on my own, vivid memories, of my very brief, Bisexual experience and I think we are, in one way or another, mostly open to having Bisexual thought, not all men are brave enough to peruse, and/or act on our Bisexual fantasies.

I was very blessed, with having a great woman and very lucky, being married, to the love of my life and I am not interest in seeking out another woman. So now, I find myself, seeking a new Bisexual relationship. Meaning now, I can enjoy a nice male cock. as much as, I once love the female pussy, on any given day, as long as, we both are satisfied.

If you are older then, maybe you should consider or at lease think about Bisexual relationship, it is the best of both worlds!

[ncbymail]

I've always been over sexed and had a more that ordinary interest in cock. So when my wife lost interest in sex to the point I had to beg for it I looked for other ways to get off and satisfy my needs. I fucked around with a couple of women but was always more about it just being sex than they were. It seemed like it could get ugly if I said the wrong thing. So I went to ABS glory holes and got my cock sucked for years. Then I finally tried sucking one and really liked it. Now, I'd probably rather suck one than get mine sucked.
I don't want to put the blame on my wife but the changes in her brought out a dormant side of me. I don't fuck her but a few times a year. The most common way for me to get off now is by jacking my cock or sucking some dick. I pretty happy with that but if I could get more cock I'd be even happier!

[Jsmitty077]

Not sure if I qualify as ‘older’, but I’m 36 and just discovering I may have some interest in other men. I too am a bit confused by it, because I’m not attracted to men at all. Wouldn’t wanna make out with one or cuddle etc, but for some reason I’m very turned on at the idea of engaging in sexual acts with another guy, most specifically a threesome with my wife and a bisexual guy. For me, I guess it’s mostly that it’s something new. After being married for 14 years my wife and I have dabbled in just about all that sex can offer between one guy and one gal. It started for me when my wife (who was a virgin when we got married), told me that she was kind of curious about what it would be like to have sex with another guy. I had had sex with maybe a half dozen girls before I met her, so as she pointed out, I got to experience sex with someone other than her whereas she never had that experience. She had fooled around with guys before we met but only touching and oral, nothing penetrative sex wise. But she said she would be apprehensive about having sex with another guy off by herself so expressed that maybe having a threesome with me and another guy would be a more comfortable way for her to experience it. So that led me to start thinking about that and if I would want to do anything with another guy if we had a threesome together. I started watching bisexual threesome (mmf) porn to see if it struck my fancy and boy did it ever. The idea of fucking another guy, just me and him is somewhat less appealing than a bisexual threesome with another guy and my wife, but I’m still very curious about it. As mentioned before, I always like trying new and different things in regards to sex, and fooling around with another guy isn’t something I had ever even really considered before my wife revealed that she was curious about sex with someone other than me. So I’m somewhat hesitant to call myself bisexual, not because I’m hung up on labels or anything but more so because I’m not sure it quite fits as I’m not attracted to both sexes per se, but am very interested in sex with both, preferably simultaneously, but even just me and another guy I think could be fun. Part of it for me is I just very much enjoy physical pleasure/sensations and I enjoy providing others with the same. So for me whether I lick pussy or suck a cock to pleasure my partner makes no real difference to me, so long as we are exchanging pleasure with one another, that’s what it’s about for me and not that I find a guy or find dicks appealing per se. I guess it’s also in part that I’ve more or less mastered the pussy so to speak, I know it’s ins and outs etc and am just sort of yearning for something new and different. Not sure that helps answer your inquiry at all, but that’s how it is for me.

[EveningWood]

I never gave men a thought or look until I was in my mid-40s and had just gotten divorced. I was on the internet and, being horny of course, went to various porn sites. And I stumbled across some videos of guys jacking each other and found the thought to be absolutely erotic as hell. That led to some online chat with some guys and then to some phone sex, which was amazing. Hearing a guy getting off with me was a huge turnon, knowing our conversation had us both hot and hard and needing to cum so badly. And wishing he were on the bed with me so I could feel his hard cock and his warm sperm splashing all over me or into my hot mouth.
I'm married and she's not the type who would understand so I'm closeted but I still think and dream about it fairly often. And maybe someday I'll get lucky and experience it in person.

[Beacon1]

Yeah man I know what you mean. I think watching two guys jack together is hot as hell. Sometimes I enjoy watching gay porn. I consider myself straight but definitely have a bi side I want to explore. Sometimes when I watch straight porn I check out the guys cocks more than the lady parts. I guess I don’t know where to find a guy and get something started.

[EveningWood]

Yeah man I know what you mean. I think watching two guys jack together is hot as hell. Sometimes I enjoy watching gay porn. I consider myself straight but definitely have a bi side I want to explore. Sometimes when I watch straight porn I check out the guys cocks more than the lady parts. I guess I don’t know where to find a guy and get something started.

I hear ya. Watching a guy cum is really hot. And I do think cocks are very attractive.

[Geoff Gregg]

When you get older you don't care as much about what other people think.

[KDaddy23]

When you get older you don't care as much about what other people think.

Yeah, pretty much.

[GalaxyMan]

When you get older you don't care as much about what other people think.

That is so true. I was in my 50s when I discovered swinging, something I never would have considered earlier in my life, which my wife and I decided to do to expand our sexual horizons. One thing led to another and I am only frustrated that I didn't open my mind earlier, as sex with a man can be every bit as much fun as that with a woman, just different 'toy's to play with and different flavors as a reward for doing a good job.

[SilkyHoseLover]

That is so true. I was in my 50s when I discovered swinging, something I never would have considered earlier in my life, which my wife and I decided to do to expand our sexual horizons. One thing led to another and I am only frustrated that I didn't open my mind earlier, as sex with a man can be every bit as much fun as that with a woman, just different 'toy's to play with and different flavors as a reward for doing a good job.

Could've written these words, myself! (Probably have at one time or another... ) This pretty much mirrors my experience.