Guys: Do U Like Effeminate Guys?

[Kink-in-LA]

Not for me. I like them straight acting and jocks! Gimme muscles, a firm grip, and less emotion, more animal attraction!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol Hello to another Bi Leo. I kinda like your discription too...nummmm(Of the jocks)
Silly Cat

[kinsey4]

I generally rougher guys with a bit of hair on them, but that can include 'bears' - you know, hairy gay guys, some of which are a bit camp, it's all good. I also like trans guys and butch lesbians, so the boundaries are a bit blurry

[MrBisex]

I prefer women to be feminine and men to be more masculine, without them having to be macho's.

Men that tries to be like women is a turn off for me.

[Sonak]

I'm pretty picky with guys but in general the ones I like are quite effeminate

[donnchristie]

I dont mind fem guys at all, I am closer to that than some..........

[heartodaybitomorrow]

masculin men, and feminine woman do it for be but trannys/cds are the exception. Very attracted to them. But dont like super fem guys that dont do the tranny thing if it makes sense.

[neverthough]

As always, on this site, the more i read the more i come to hate it. There seems to be a general undercurrent that exists here of bullS**T. All those people happily announcing their Bi-Sexuality and how they are so glad to have found a site such as this but, on the same note, denouncing others (as the the quote above) and still others that use terms like "flamers" and " "queens", hurtful terms.
I don't ask that anyone understands who, or what i am or how i came to be the way i am, all i ask for is a little tolerance as we try to understand one-another. Every time i pop on here i see a little more ignorance and others promoting the way THEY are as somewhat "supreme" or "more acceptable" while denouncing the rest of us. If you are Bisexual, then, by the "societal norms" there is something wrong with you. That's not me saying that, but society in general. Anyone who is "different" by mainstream standards has had to fight tooth and nail to press their rights and, every time i see a faint light at the end of the tunnel, the tunnel seems to grow longer.

Getting back to the question at hand.....i really don't care what the person is, all i really look for is an attraction, simple as that. Now, if you feel incensed and want to attack me personally after this, go ahead. Try and make a case out of what i have written by saying i wouldn't date someone who is different in other ways or not up to my standards.

I think i may remove my profile sooner than later.......

Well as in every message board that exists there are those who will just blurt out whatever comes first, good sense human decency and courtesy having nothing to do with it. I tend to ignore most posts and say little unless a desire arises to "blurt" my own rhetoric. I quit trying to change anyone and when people ask a question I try to give "my" thoughts and not challenge others. I believe there would be "peace in the middle east" as well as the rest of the world, if there was a tolerance to let people be just who they are. I have effeminate male friends who cannot express the desires of their lives for fear of bending the "norm", and know men who in their masculinity are atrocius human beings. Not everyone is painted with the same same brush so perhaps if I just say, when the lights are out and we like what we touch and taste and feel then it matters not whether they are the local female wrestler or the local male florist, lets turrn the lights on and enjoy life.

I would miss your profile Dani..

[TheBisexualProfessor]

Nope. I enjoy masculine men with some hair on their chest. They can have a "soft" side, but I just prefer that they not be effeminate (if you're asking what type of guys I find attractive). As for friendship, I have friends who are effeminate and friends who are more masculine. They should be themselves.

[Thomas_The_Rhymer]

I prefer men to be more effeminate I suppose. I prefer women to be feminine and my male lovers to be more feminine than average male in looks and behavior.

[TheBisexualProfessor]

Oh, and in reply to Dani -- my goodness, you are SO right. It's fine to say what attracts you, folks, but stop condemning one another. YOU want to be accepted, but then you want to tell everyone else how they are wrong!

[caldura]

Yes I do very much, cute and in good shape, shaved...ummmm more so than the all masculiney type.

[Realist]

Sure, if they share mutual interests, are fun to be with, safe and sensuous, why not?

[abstruse_ric]

You know, I have to say this is an interesting question. I don't mind if a guy is effeminate. What I do mind is if he is bitchy or acts like a jerk, qualities that are found equally among effeminate and masculine guys.

[69luvr]

Each to their own, but I prefer efeminine men. I find them more compassionate, but by sayng this i usually have sex with other cd's or cd admirers. I love foreplay more than anything else, alot of touching and kissing.

I am with you concerning CDs and effeminate guys. I can not resist them.

[bi_curiousgeorge]

Absolutely!! I really like guys who have feminine qualities. A good looking guy with a feminine voice and mannerisms is a real turn on for me. I am not at all feminine, but cannot take my eyes off the guys I see who are. I've never had the pleasure of getting close to an effeminate man, but would sure love to some day. So if your out there......I'd love to meet you!

[xxxbody44]

Some times I do, when I get real wild. I like a man with smooth legs who CD.

I like to play the whole game with him, kiss his legs all the way to the top, lift his dress and take care of him very slowly

[void()]

As always, on this site, the more i read the more i come to hate it. There seems to be a general undercurrent that exists here of bullS**T. All those people happily announcing their Bi-Sexuality and how they are so glad to have found a site such as this but, on the same note, denouncing others (as the the quote above) and still others that use terms like "flamers" and " "queens", hurtful terms.
I don't ask that anyone understands who, or what i am or how i came to be the way i am, all i ask for is a little tolerance as we try to understand one-another. Every time i pop on here i see a little more ignorance and others promoting the way THEY are as somewhat "supreme" or "more acceptable" while denouncing the rest of us. If you are Bisexual, then, by the "societal norms" there is something wrong with you. That's not me saying that, but society in general. Anyone who is "different" by mainstream standards has had to fight tooth and nail to press their rights and, every time i see a faint light at the end of the tunnel, the tunnel seems to grow longer.

Getting back to the question at hand.....i really don't care what the person is, all i really look for is an attraction, simple as that. Now, if you feel incensed and want to attack me personally after this, go ahead. Try and make a case out of what i have written by saying i wouldn't date someone who is different in other ways or not up to my standards.

I think i may remove my profile sooner than later.......

I apologize. No real excuse but I have homosexual friends that don't mind being called such. Should have followed mixed company rule here, though. Again my apologies.

[nbboy1123]

Personally I love guys that are effeminate. The more they are the bigger of a turn on it is for me! Sadly every guy I meet is like totally masculine and I can never find a cute effeminate guy.

[mdcannoli]

I'm going to apologize for not reading every post but, jeez, I'll just answer the question. I like gentle somewhat effeminate men but not flamers They offer a different outlook on life than macho guys - often more sophisticated and less blunt, more laughter and less chest beating. As to physical attraction it could be anyone or any type of person. There's other layers of interaction. It's been said that an effeminate "Dandy" is a classic seducer type (of men and women).
(http://www.amazon.com/Art-Seduction-.../dp/0142001198)
I'm actually looking for an effeminate dancer type.

[pantytimbmd]

I have a little bit of an effeminate side and have been exploring it more and more lately. I have always loved feminine undergarments and am also getting into skirts, blouses, and more. I sometimes want to be treated like a woman when being intimate with another guy.

[elian]

I used to think that I would like to be more submissive and look for a more dominant partner but I'm not so sure anymore - I think it really depends on the person..

[locotom]

i don't see why there has to be a label for everything and everyone, we are who we are, and who we like is personal choice

[sexyone4u]

Sure, if they share mutual interests, are fun to be with, safe and sensuous, why not?

i couldnt agree more....

[sexyone4u]

i don't see why there has to be a label for everything and everyone, we are who we are, and who we like is personal choice

ditto !!!

[Dead Account]

I guess it would depend on their personality. I'm attracted to that more than anything else. If we click, then that's about all I need.

[Reprob8]

I don't care for CAMP, but I do like someone who is sensitive and sweet. I don't like a guy who tries to push my teeth through the back of my head when we kiss.

Does that make sense?

[myschyfnmayhem]

I prefer Masculine but not Macho. If I did want Femme it would be a cute Tranny with nice tits and cock.

[biste]

Kind of a silly question, it seems to me a lot of the time, but I know some guys don't.

I actually like guys that, if not actually effeminate, have the more "softer"- less masculine- looks and personality. Of course, being a Viagra guy, I'd also like the queen to be good with his weenie, too.

So, show of hands: How many of you guys like other guys that are stereotypical queer looking and acting (I've raised my hand)?

No I cannot stand effeminate guys to be perfectly honest. I like a guy that acts like a guy.

[lizard-lix]

Mostly I just like people..

Very effeminate guys can tip it over the top a bit though. Then again I am not attracted to super feminine helpless-damsel-in-distress women either.

Nor am I attracted to the super macho guys. or super butch women

I like 'normal' men and women (ok that IS vague lol) who span the 'normal' range of masculine to feminine for both (i.e slightly fem guys and slightly butch girls are both fine as long as the rest of their personality works)

I do have a very soft spot for androgynous folks of both sexes. If I look at someone and can't tell if they are male or female, I am instantly attracted.