Interracial desires

[titeabs]

Out of curiousity, I was wondering if anyone else has a strong desire to be with another race. I am a white all american from the north who, when wanting to be with a male, desires to be with the man of color. I have been with a couple men in my life, both black. Have I been smitten by the old adage "once you go black, you won't go back?" Or is it strictly , "It was an awesome experience, so why change"?
Thanks in advance for your thoughts............and if you're black, pm me.

[open2both]

I've had fantastic asian men and wonderful black women and it's great we live in a time when we can enjoy so many of life's offerings. I thrive on variety and see no need to be locked into just one culture or gender.
Enjoy yourself, baby!

[arana]

Good for you titeabs! I hope that as a bi-community people are open minded enough not to let race interfere with getting to know someone and being able to love them in any fashion.

[WillowTree]

I have often dated interracially in my past. I see race as about as much of a barrier as gender, and we all know how much gender gets in the way of bisexuality.

[jwboi]

i have had several interracial experiences with men and women. i do like black and hispanic men very much. that's not to say i dont' like sexy white men, too. but to be on my knees between the legs of a black man sucking his large black cock is an extreme turnon for me. and as far as women go, i love them all. white, latina, black, asian... all are beautiful.

[codybear3]

My eyes have a very acute ability to distinguish colors....But my heart and the emotions it feels are color-blind...-Cody


P.S. - Where has my SweetBlackAngel gone??? I am looking and hoping that she will pop back into my life...

[smokey]

my late wife was chinese/porteuguese/english/dutch/black...ie. afro/euroasian ie a mutt and a very pretty mutt. May she rest in peace. And she was and remains the best lover/sexual partner I ever had. I have had a few black men and aas a rule they were hot...but have never become "addicted" to one race over the other....though I kinda have a thing for small brown skinned women.

[tazlovecock]

i WAS 18 WHEN i FIST SUCKED MY FIRST BLACK COCK AND LOVED IT i AM 56 NOW AND WILL NEVER TURN DOWN THE CHANCE TO SUCK SOME BLACK COCK IN THE CHICAGO AREA. I LOVE IT

[YOUNG_CURIOUS_MALE]

I would really like to try some Big Black Cock Also.... i think that is my fetish, the idea that most black guys have big cock.. I would Really Love To Have A Black Cock in My Holes..

[BitheLakeman]

My first experience with another male was with a black man....I was seduced into sucking him by the sexy female I was making love to in an outdoor hot tub....(we were in the bahamas) He stopped by and asked if he could watch...she wanted to see if we excited him and unzipped his fly....she made me watch as she blew him....made me kiss her cheeks to feel his cock as she sucked him....made me llick her lips to keep them slippery as he pumped her mouth....then told me to taste him as she kissed me and to french her while his cock was in her mouth....did I like it she asked, and told me to blow him because she liked that....make him come....I did and loved every inch of his black cock and all the cum from it as she milked it into my mouth..

[Cherisher1]

I have been searching for two years for a nice cream colored cock to suck and booty cheeks to stroke into. However, it seems that everyone that either I contact or contacts me, are hours away, or have something to hide, or because they have something to hide only want a short-term experience with no lasting friendship. What's up with that? A friendship can still exist even if later you decide to end the sex. Sometimes I wonder if people even know what the word means anymore. Yet, I am still looking, maybe for that one in a million man or couple. Never-the-less, I want to applaud all those that have found what it means to be unbiased in life and love. Well Done!!!

[lonelygirlintx]

When it comes to guys, I love black and hispanic men! Damn, they just got it, but unfortunately I have never had the pleasure to be with a black man. But I love everything about those two races. But when it comes to women, I'm very attracted to white and hispanic girls. They are so hot. But again, I have never had the pleasure to be with any girls at all. Sucks.

[diB4u]

I tend to be predispositioned towards Caucasian men and very very light brown mixed race men.

I've had many admirers who were darker skin, but I'm very picky when it comes to a person ESPECIALLY sexualy.

Just call me a freak lol- i dont really care...

[Delilah]

I like variety. Doesn't matter what race. Just the chemistry is very important. Hmmmm I think I'll have a buffet. All variety on one plate

PS..
I had fantasy of my tight ass being tag team between Denziel Washington and Bruce Wills. mmmmmm damn, back in the cold shower

[stelly3740]

My (the male) first time was with a black male about ten years younger than me. He was exceptional at giving head and I loved the taste of his beautiful cock. Poor guy didn't last long but it was still great!

[vittoria]

LOL!

People are people, people.

No matter the amount of those little tiny things called melanin in the skin. And if you're in lust with melanin.... then that's your business. I kinda lust after brain cells myself

Now, if someone was to come in here saying they met a person from Alpha Centauri 7, then THAT would be something

Personally, I believe the term "interracial" is a misnomer... theres only one race on this planet..and that's human.

No wait... let's not forget the rats.

The only reasons why race is such an issue is because of society. If it wasnt for the incessant desire to separate humans from other humans with titles and "subcultures" or what have you, then it really wouldnt be a big deal.

And as for that "Once you go black, you never go back" thing... I dont think that's really true (even though I think it is for David Bowie ) I think that phrase caught on because it rhymes.

That "All black men are well endowed" thing.... I believe it was a jealous slave owner pissed cause his wife was messing around with the help and was jealous, so he started banging the maid. Theres PLENTY of well endowed men from ALL melanin enhanced ( there's a phrase for ya!) groups... watch any porn lately?

[void()]

Vitt pretty well hits the nail on the head for me.

I've had experiences with white and black men, but only with white women. Just not gotten to enjoy a black woman, or Asian. To me it doesn't matter if the person is black or purple. If there is love and attraction, enjoy.

"Alright then, come on all you purple folks from Pluto. Let's get together and stimulate your aural receptors! Woot!"

[fairchild]

i lived with a person that was asian for 4 years , had a really messy break up but have been f*** buddies off and on (no pun intended) for the last 16 years. Because we live in a really redneck area the relationship was difficult because people up here slam on the brakes in their rusty old pick up trucks , damn near swallow their wad of chew and reach for their shotguns that are hanging in the back window of their truck (ok maybe it wasn't that extreme but it was very uncomfortable at times.
the worst prejudice i faced was actually from his family , who i worked for also . I was accused of trying to "ruin their blood line" the name his mother gave me was bac gai which pretty much translates into white whore.
i obviously have no problem with inter racial relationships but just beware that there are ignorant people out there and you need to very committed to each other to survive this

[TaylorMade]

When it comes to guys, I love black and hispanic men! Damn, they just got it, but unfortunately I have never had the pleasure to be with a black man. But I love everything about those two races. But when it comes to women, I'm very attracted to white and hispanic girls. They are so hot. But again, I have never had the pleasure to be with any girls at all. Sucks.

Can I ask why you're attracted to black men?

*Taylor*

[CHOCOLATECITY32]

i am very much attracted to white and black women mainly but as far as males i gotta say black and white males because they are well endowed and freaky and the sweat and hard fucking of two ppl having non-stop sexx it's a nice rush...but as far as hisapanic women never had one ...i have had one hispanic male it was his first....but i gotta say white and black

[cogregg]

my first sexual experience with another person was with a black guy aobut 10 years older than me, so I have a special place in my heart for black guys. However, the rest of the special places in my body are open to all comers! I don't prefer one race, color or sex over another - it's all about who you are, not what you are.

[alisbi]

I have had several black male lovers, and always found them to be so sensual. It seems that no matter how BIG they are( and those I had where), they are gentle, patient and make love making (or fucking) so pleasurable.

Now to fullfill my desire for a hot black female....

[vittoria]

Taboos are taboos cause your parents and society told you so...

Its such a pain in the ass when one likes someone and the only thing they can say is: " I've never been with a (color of choice) girl/woman/man before."

How tedious.

Or how do you think it feels to find out that someone has sex with you just to "see what its like with a (color of choice) girl/woman/man"?

A tad bit diminishing. Like one's worth is only based on what other's see---not on who the person is.

Martin Luther King would be proud.

Doesnt all of this take us back 300 years to all black people were was only "breeding stock"? Slave owners screwing slave women, not because they liked them, but because "dey's good in bed"? What mentality am I seeing here?

Damn planet Earth. So superficial.


Do who you want... but dont base it on mere skin color, cultural distinction or what have you. The only thing that makes certain groups of people "more kinky" for some reason is the fact that it will piss off parents or the neighborhood... either that or people are told not to do something long enough that the "taboo" will be so much more exciting. And what makes it exciting? The fact that people are trained to believe its so "wrong". Makes me second guess the people who say they like me... Do you like me for ME... or to fulfill some "taboo"? If it was the latter-- I would be PISSED. For some strange reason, that would be a form of racism... wouldnt it? A race used as sexual objects? Hmm... those plantation owners would be proud of you

[DannyCapricorn]

My First Time, I Was Really Young And I Didn't Know What It Was, But Me And My Friend(African American) Would Play Around With Each Other And Sometimes After That We Would But Not To Often.

[biwmtrucker44]

I have had a Black cock a few times but would Luve to eat some Black pussy

[wanderingrichard]

Good for you titeabs! I hope that as a bi-community people are open minded enough not to let race interfere with getting to know someone and being able to love them in any fashion.

you got that right hon, fact is, i've been accused by many whites of being a practitioner of reverse discrimination..

i don't date as many caucasians as i do other ethnicities..guess it comes from being raised not to discriminate but to look inside the person in front of you,,, what those small minded accusers don't realize is, i only care about what's inside the wrapper, not the wrapper itself. but that's me and the way i am..

and, hey, "mixing " is healthy for both you and your partner, not to mention the entire human race.

[lashalane]

Vittoria.. no matter how many times you jump up on that soapbox and start your rant about color being a non-issue, "people are people", and how those of us that have preferences for certain races are shallow and superficial, the discussion is going to keep going the way that it is. The topic is race and people have preferences.. GET OVER IT!

I'm a predominantly Black Woman that will not date or fuck black men. I dont feel bad about it or ashamed of myself because I know most of my male black friends are being taken care of by all my white girlfriends. Everyone is getting laid and no one is bitter about it. Stop trying to beat people over the head with the hippy stick.

[DiamondDog]

Vittoria.. no matter how many times you jump up on that soapbox and start your rant about color being a non-issue, "people are people", and how those of us that have preferences for certain races are shallow and superficial, the discussion is going to keep going the way that it is. The topic is race and people have preferences.. GET OVER IT!

I'm a predominantly Black Woman that will not date or fuck black men. I dont feel bad about it or ashamed of myself because I know most of my male black friends are being taken care of by all my white girlfriends. Everyone is getting laid and no one is bitter about it. Stop trying to beat people over the head with the hippy stick.

Agreed and quoted for truth.

People have their own preferences and it does not make them narrow minded, racist, prejudiced, bigoted, or a bad person if they're not attracted to a certain race and therefore don't sleep/date that race since there's no attraction there.

Why feign attraction, lie, and waste your time and their time when attraction simply is not there?

It's like calling a gay man a misogynist since he doesn't date/sleep with women at all since the attraction isn't there.

I'm a white male and I'm not sexually attracted to black men, and that's fine.

Don't ask me why it isn't there because I don't know. It's just like I'm not attracted to smooth boyish/femme men or twinks that are in 90% of gay porn that's made, and how I'm not attracted to men who don't have or keep any facial hair at all.

I don't go around and beat myself up and feel bad for myself because I'm not attracted to black men or twinks and because I'm not always attracted to women or the feminine aspects that men/women have.

I have some attraction to latin men, indian men, some asian men, some asian women, and latin women but I don't fetishize those races and feel a burning need or desire to date/sleep with them all.

I don't think that I'm more evolved/on a higher level of human existence because I'm attracted to people who don't happen to be white, and I'd be perfectly content to have romantic relationships and sex with white masculine hairy men and maybe very casually date or just sleep with some women once in a rare while for the rest of my life.

Let's not forget about how people can be racist with their attractions towards people who are or even aren't white. Bisexual photographer/artist Robert Mapplethorpe was clearly attracted to black men but these attractions were rooted in racism and he was blatantly honest about it.

I know other bi men who fetishize black men and tell me how they themselves are size queens and are predominantly attracted to black men because they buy into the myth and stereotype that black men have big cocks and are hung like horses. Some have told me how they prefer black men who dress/act like thugs since in their mind this is what a hot "real" black man is, and some have told me how they'd gladly go to Africa and have sex with black men there.

[TaylorMade]

Vittoria.. no matter how many times you jump up on that soapbox and start your rant about color being a non-issue, "people are people", and how those of us that have preferences for certain races are shallow and superficial, the discussion is going to keep going the way that it is. The topic is race and people have preferences.. GET OVER IT!

I'm a predominantly Black Woman that will not date or fuck black men. I dont feel bad about it or ashamed of myself because I know most of my male black friends are being taken care of by all my white girlfriends. Everyone is getting laid and no one is bitter about it. Stop trying to beat people over the head with the hippy stick.

Lash... it's great to see you again

But... I admit I do want to discuss race too. . .I guess I want to know WHY some whites have preferences for black men. . .

I don't want to be someones sexual experiment, but if my color is PART of the attraction (and not the primary reason) . . .we're cool.

*Taylor*

[diB4u]

Discussing is fine and to the part its healthy.

For the ones that don’t know, I’m a big woman- not all men nor women like big women or big men- but that’s life.

WE all don’t like the same things in our husbands, wifes, boyfriends, girlfriends lovers- or our bed mates.

That’s called LIFE.

I agree with Diamond Dog when he states, -Why feign attraction, lie, and waste your time and their time when attraction simply is not there-

That is good advice to be listened to.

Our choices of lovers, may stem from childhood- it might not.

When I tell people that I really don’t go for dark skinned men- my friends look at me as if I’ve said something blasphemous. One friend of mine doesn’t find Asian men attractive. That’s fine. That’s her. So I say well you don’t like fat men now do you- and one of my friends said well that’s not the same.

Ah but it is. We have our own preferences. Simple as that.

Yet for me- they’ve never said this- but I’ve picked it up. I must fall for black men because they like big women. I know not all black men do… but most do. I have had experiences with darker men and well its left me feeling as if well I’d rather had done it myself - bad me eh?

Friendships are a totally different scenario altogether. I can make friends with most people- there are some who I simply cant.

Diamond Dog also states - People have their own preferences and it does not make them narrow minded, racist, prejudiced, bigoted, or a bad person if they're not attracted to a certain race and therefore don't sleep/date that race since there's no attraction there.-


As Vittoria stated- Now, if someone was to come in here saying they met a person from Alpha Centauri 7, then THAT would be something-

Trust me I’m waiting for my celestial meeting. Sadly though, I think I might have a long time to wait- plus well I’m not a rocket man or woman lol..


Titeabs- fair enough, you go for it!