Shemales

[bicuriousman2]

As a bisexual male, I always fantasize about sex with a male and a female.

Last week i saw a movie with a shemale in it, who was so hot, i almost lost it.
she had beautiful breasts, firm ass, and a thick sexy cock.

Now, as a bi male, how many would think that it would be hot to be able to have sex with someone that you can do anal sex too, but who can turn you over and do anal sex to you, and has firm breasts and a great ass!

Someone you can kiss, with beautiful lips and sexy stomach, and a hot cock between the legs, can it be any better?

[Long Duck Dong]

what you can be talking about, can be a inter sex person.... a lady born with a working penis or a trans natured person that has not transitioned fully.... ( they are more accepted terms rather than shemale....)

either way, yes, it would be very nice.... even I have admitted in the site as that would be pretty much a ideal partner for me....but I am the type of person that is more into long term relationships, so for me it would need to be a intersex person or a trans that is not gonna fully transition.....

its like the complete partner in one for me..... and no need to go outside of the relationship.... so woo hoo life long monogamy with all the trimmings.......
( wonders if twyla wants add ons ??? )

[olebear]

[QUOTE=Long Duck Dong;164017]what you can be talking about, can be a inter sex person.... a lady born with a working penis or a trans natured person that has not transitioned fully.... ( they are more accepted terms rather than shemale....)



I have to agree with LDD on that one, shemale is a bad word. The most common place I see the word used is in porn and that makes it seem kind of whorish.
Most of these lady’s going through transition are just that “Lady‘s” and deserve the greatest amount of respect and support we can give them.

[darkeyes]

It is an awful word.. akin to calling a black person "nigger", a chinese "chink" or an Italian an "Eytie".. or to bring it closer to home.. a gay man "poof", woman "dyke" or a bi-person simply "bent".. it is a word of contempt nothing less, and hardly descriptive of the reality of being transgendered and I wish we could get away from using such contemtuous descriptors for other human beings.

Want them and fancy them thats fine.. but show them respect while you lust.. they are human beings who are unique just like any other..

[Doggie_Wood]

Thank you Fran - I couldn't have said it better myself (this early in the morning before having my 5 cups of coffee).
As a lover of trans-women, they are in spirit and essence very much "Ladies".
Some T-Ladies are pre-op, some are non-op and yet others are post-op.
Just because some do not choose to have SRS (Sexual Reassignment Surgery) does't make them any less a lady. They are beautiful, and alluring at the same time.
Gotta love 'em!

Doggie

[19biman61]

Whatever you call them, A male to female transgendered person would be the perfect girl for me! I would only hope that she doesn't want to fully transition. I've been hoping to meet one to start a relationship with.

[DareMe]

what you can be talking about, can be a inter sex person.... a lady born with a working penis or a trans natured person that has not transitioned fully.... ( they are more accepted terms rather than shemale....)

either way, yes, it would be very nice.... even I have admitted in the site as that would be pretty much a ideal partner for me....but I am the type of person that is more into long term relationships, so for me it would need to be a intersex person or a trans that is not gonna fully transition.....

its like the complete partner in one for me..... and no need to go outside of the relationship.... so woo hoo life long monogamy with all the trimmings.......
( wonders if twyla wants add ons ??? )

Let me start by saying that I agree that the word SheMale can be taken with a certain negative connotation. I disagree that it is a bad word, the usage of it over the years has draped over it a voile of pornographic undertones.

Having said that, that word also captures something that is not fully understood with the other more acceptable term of TransGendered or transsexual or just Trans.

You are considered Transsexual either a Male in the process of becoming a woman or the other way around, a woman taking hormones to become more masculine.

If this is confusing, you don't want to hear what I have to say about the word "Gay". Another one of my favorite words whose meaning has suffer some usurpation over the years. Mind you, I prefer it to the other pejoratives used to describe that community!

DM

[fredtyg]

I don't see anything offensive in the word shemale and I consider them to offer the best of both worlds.

[bemyonlyone]

Hi.

I just want to tell you that the word "shemale" is a word that I personally find very offensive. It's like "he-she" or some other similarly offensive term.

[Long Duck Dong]

Let me start by saying that I agree that the word SheMale can be taken with a certain negative connotation. I disagree that it is a bad word, the usage of it over the years has draped over it a voile of pornographic undertones.

Having said that, that word also captures something that is not fully understood with the other more acceptable term of TransGendered or transsexual or just Trans.

You are considered Transsexual either a Male in the process of becoming a woman or the other way around, a woman taking hormones to become more masculine.

If this is confusing, you don't want to hear what I have to say about the word "Gay". Another one of my favorite words whose meaning has suffer some usurpation over the years. Mind you, I prefer it to the other pejoratives used to describe that community!

DM

thats why I added the intersex part..... they are not trans people per se, but born uniquely and * gifted *.... the * old * term is hermaphrodite.....
but we tend to forget about them a lot.... cos trans sexual and trans gender are more widely spoken about

[MarieDelta]

It is an awful word.. akin to calling a black person "nigger", a chinese "chink" or an Italian an "Eytie".. or to bring it closer to home.. a gay man "poof", woman "dyke" or a bi-person simply "bent".. it is a word of contempt nothing less, and hardly descriptive of the reality of being transgendered and I wish we could get away from using such contemtuous descriptors for other human beings.

Want them and fancy them thats fine.. but show them respect while you lust.. they are human beings who are unique just like any other..

Thank you Fran - I couldn't have said it better myself (this early in the morning before having my 5 cups of coffee).
As a lover of trans-women, they are in spirit and essence very much "Ladies".
Some T-Ladies are pre-op, some are non-op and yet others are post-op.
Just because some do not choose to have SRS (Sexual Reassignment Surgery) does't make them any less a lady. They are beautiful, and alluring at the same time.
Gotta love 'em!

Doggie

Couldn't have said it better myself, thanks guys.

"She-male", "chick with a dick" these are constructions of the pornography industry. Used to sell their particular bran d of merchandise. While there may be some people who identify as such, the rest of the transsexual/ transgendered communtity considers them to be slurs.

If you wish to get close enough to one of us to find out what we are like, I highly suggest that you do not use these terms.

[bemyonlyone]

Couldn't have said it better myself, thanks guys.

"She-male", "chick with a dick" these are constructions of the pornography industry. Used to sell their particular bran d of merchandise. While there may be some people who identify as such, the rest of the transsexual/ transgendered communtity considers them to be slurs.

If you wish to get close enough to one of us to find out what we are like, I highly suggest that you do not use these terms.

Absolutely is a slur, and I think the OP should apologize. I would think he'd know better than to use that word, being a member of the lgbt community.

[MarieDelta]

thats why I added the intersex part..... they are not trans people per se, but born uniquely and * gifted *.... the * old * term is hermaphrodite.....
but we tend to forget about them a lot.... cos trans sexual and trans gender are more widely spoken about

Hermaphrodite was dropped because it was innacurate. there a very few "true" hermaphrodites.

Intersex conditions are very diverse.
( https://health.google.com/health/ref/Intersex )

[Long Duck Dong]

nods, marie...

based around my knowledge of things, I am more inclined to think its a M2F trans.... as they are generally more common in porn vids.....

from memory, there is about 7 pornos in total with true hermaphrodites.... and one is bi and beyond 3? switch hitters... but they are pretty old vids....

[rissababynta]

Absolutely is a slur, and I think the OP should apologize. I would think he'd know better than to use that word, being a member of the lgbt community.

Just because you are a member of the lgbt community does not mean that you automatically know everything. Last time I checked, when I joined the club I didn't receive a pamphlet and a membership card with all the information I need to know. So yes, I think that he should apologize too, but calm down a tad. It was a mistake...

[MarieDelta]

None of us are born knowing this stuff. I'm ok with mistakes...

I've made my share of mistakes in my time.

*makes note to send LGBTTIQQ2SA packet w/agenda to Rissa*

[rissababynta]

None of us are born knowing this stuff. I'm ok with mistakes...

I've made my share of mistakes in my time.

*makes note to send LGBTTIQQ2SA packet w/agenda to Rissa*

Damn it! I had a feeling that it existed! I'll give you my address later

[MarieDelta]

I'd PDF it to ya , but it also has *rainbow stickers*

[bemyonlyone]

Just because you are a member of the lgbt community does not mean that you automatically know everything. Last time I checked, when I joined the club I didn't receive a pamphlet and a membership card with all the information I need to know. So yes, I think that he should apologize too, but calm down a tad. It was a mistake...

I am calm.

And yeah, it was definitely a mistake.

And being a member of the lgbt means you should be educated about these things, imo.

[darkeyes]

I am calm.

And yeah, it was definitely a mistake.

And being a member of the lgbt means you should be educated about these things, imo.

I'm not quite sure you meant it this way but to be exact it is being part of lgbt it is a prerequisite that you get educated about these things... we don't know everything when we realise what and who we are and our responsibilities to others...

[bemyonlyone]

Maybe I don't understand because in the first few years I simply immersed myself in everything lgbt. I guess I don't understand others who don't have that natural desire to know, and curiosity. I guess for some it's about sex a lot more, obviously for me it's can't be about that, I just had a desire to learn all I could.

[csrakate]

I am calm.

And yeah, it was definitely a mistake.

And being a member of the lgbt means you should be educated about these things, imo.

And part of that education is the learning process where you make a mistake and you learn from it....doesn't mean it was intentional..doesn't mean it was meant to hurt feelings....doesn't always require punishment. Hopefully the OP has learned from his mistake and will not repeat it. Enough said.

[darkeyes]

Maybe I don't understand because in the first few years I simply immersed myself in everything lgbt. I guess I don't understand others who don't have that natural desire to know, and curiosity. I guess for some it's about sex a lot more, obviously for me it's can't be about that, I just had a desire to learn all I could.

... and learning all you can about something is never a bad thing... We should learn till the day we die, because failure to do so means we are brain dead whether or not we still breathe and walk the streets... and it serves us right..

[bwitme]

are there any shemales on here from mass achusetts? get back to me!

[csrakate]

are there any shemales on here from mass achusetts? get back to me!

So much for the learning experience. After 23 posts, someone hasn't learned a thing.

[tenni]

Ok...Ladies...Are you going to permit the man's question to be dealt with? He made a mistake in his use of words but he was referring to male porn as some have pointed out.

Are female bisexuals attracted to transexual m2f part way through their transition? I know that some male bisexuals are attracted to m2f in porn. As the OP points out, he sees the benefit of female sexual parts and yet he may be a bottom for the m2f transexual. I personally suspect that in real life a lot of m2f transexuals would not want to penetrate a man but I may be wrong? None of the women who have posted have stated that they are sexually attracted to m2f transexuals. Would any of these women appreciate a m2f transexual who may have some female parts but be able to penetrate them sexually?

As a biguy, I personally am not sexually attracted to m2f transexuals. I prefer the complete package but separate packages in any porn images. I'm also not interested in being a bottom for anyone and that may impact my perspective.

[csrakate]

Ok...Ladies...Are you going to permit the man's question to be dealt with? He made a mistake in his use of words but he was referring to male porn as some have pointed out.

Are female bisexuals attracted to transexual m2f part way through their transition? I know that some male bisexuals are attracted to m2f in porn. None of the women who have posted have stated that they are sexually attracted to m2f transexuals.

As a biguy, I personally am not sexually attracted to m2f transexuals. I prefer the complete package but separate package in any porn images.

Come on Tenni...men replied to this "mistake" as well...don't make it about gender....it's offensive to both male and females...and in the OP's best interest, he was told. I for one think he made an honest mistake....but don't chastise just the women for pointing it out.

[MarieDelta]

Maybe I don't understand because in the first few years I simply immersed myself in everything lgbt. I guess I don't understand others who don't have that natural desire to know, and curiosity. I guess for some it's about sex a lot more, obviously for me it's can't be about that, I just had a desire to learn all I could.

Me too, but not everyone thinks like us dear. Some folks operate more on *hormones*.

Oh for those of you interested in finding partners who are transsexual/ transgendered check out

http://urnotalone.com/

http://www.transqueernation.com/

[MarieDelta]

Ok...Ladies...Are you going to permit the man's question to be dealt with? He made a mistake in his use of words but he was referring to male porn as some have pointed out.

Are female bisexuals attracted to transexual m2f part way through their transition? I know that some male bisexuals are attracted to m2f in porn. As the OP points out, he sees the benefit of female sexual parts and yet he may be a bottom for the m2f transexual. I personally suspect that in real life a lot of m2f transexuals would not want to penetrate a man but I may be wrong? None of the women who have posted have stated that they are sexually attracted to m2f transexuals. Would any of these women appreciate a m2f transexual who may have some female parts but be able to penetrate them sexually?

As a biguy, I personally am not sexually attracted to m2f transexuals. I prefer the complete package but separate packages in any porn images. I'm also not interested in being a bottom for anyone and that may impact my perspective.

For what its worth I have lovers who are male and female...

Some men arent turned on by Mtf's & some women are. It's like anything else.

If you want to know what I get up to *in my bed*. That's a whole different disscusion. One I'd prefer to keep private.

I dont think you can generalize about transwomen wanting to top (or not) some like it, some dont. Depends on he person. And no, you dont have to use "it" to top...

[tenni]

Kate
I take so long editing my posts sometimes that I actually didn't read the guy's post nor your response. Still, I screw up my posts sometimes....

Thanks Marie. I know that you are bisexual. From your discussions with other m2f transexuals, do you have any idea how many of them would or would not want to penetrate a biguy? I've read statements where some m2f transexuals do not want their male genetals even seen and I can not imagine them wanting to penetrate a biguy. LOL..ok Marie ..I see that we are both editors of our thoughts.