If you want to be in a relationship only with the opposite sex but want to have sex with both, is that considered bisexual. Why does there have to be a label. I hear of the liberty among the bi-sexual community but I experience quite the opposite. What ever world you claim to be a part of I find pressure to be one thing or another. Why is it such a crime to want to keep your sex life a secret, especially if you have alot to protect? I call that being responsible. I know that I have a lot of question? Believe me, I haven't listed them all. Help?