Do you fancy guys on a whole?

**PrettyFlowingGown** · Jul 4, 2009, 9:33 PM

I'm bi, but a different kind of bi. I'm a crossdresser, and live mostly as a woman. I work by day a man, go to shops as a man, but when I'm home, I wear ladies clothes all the time.
I see men from a womans point of view. I dont fancy men on a whole. Some men I find very nice, but the other 75 percent does'nt do anything for me at all. When I have sex, I see myself as the woman, and like men to treat me as one, even though I have a penis. Intimacy is very important for me, and like touching, caressing and kissing. When theres persistance I draw the line. Even though this is my thing, what do other think, do you fancy guys on a whole, or do you just like them now and then, or when the moment comes up?

**DiamondDog** · Jul 4, 2009, 9:49 PM

Yes I do really like men and I'm probably mainly sexually and romantically attracted to them; but I wouldn't say no to a MFM/MMF 3 way with a male partner/husband. Read my profile.

**Realist** · Jul 5, 2009, 6:58 AM

I'm not a cross-dresser, don't wanna wear ladies' undies, do not want to act as a female, but I do like to care about anyone I make love with. Although, I'm an old-timer and have been bisexual all my life, I've only found 8 males attractive and compatible enough to want a relationship with. I have actually been in love with two fellows, but the rest were varying degrees of deeply caring to just sex. I think loving anyone enhances the relationship. I could never have sex with a stranger, or anyone I didn't trust completely. I need to know them well, care about them, and feel comfortable that we both can gain something positive from the experience.

**Jackal** · Jul 5, 2009, 9:47 PM

Not really, even just sexually most men do nothing for me. Then again, most women don't either. I'm kind of picky; someone needs to have that 'something' for me to like them and they have to be nice to me other wise it doesn't' matter how attractive I may have found them. That leads me to the part about caring.

I do need to care at least a little about someone to have sex with them and would prefer greatly if they cared about me. I don't want to be used or thought of as disposable by any one. I have a bit of a problem because I like tough and outgoing personalities in both genders but I HATE macho men and the machismo mind set. They kind of go together a lot. I too enjoy some touching during sex but I get impatient about fore play. I think that people forget that the genitals aren't the only part of the body to attend to during sex.

**cpadmitchell** · Jul 6, 2009, 4:49 PM

Fancy guys on a hole?

**FalconAngel** · Jul 7, 2009, 12:23 AM

Some of it depends on the guy. If a guy is into the sex only, then no. But, if the guy is into actually making love in bed as a whole package, then it is normal for me to do the whole route with cuddling and all.

I find that to be really sexy when I am with a man or a woman and it gives me even more desires for my partner than "just sex" in bed.

**diB4u** · Jul 7, 2009, 8:23 AM

Originally Posted by PrettyFlowingGown

I'm bi, but a different kind of bi. I'm a crossdresser, and live mostly as a woman. I work by day a man, go to shops as a man, but when I'm home, I wear ladies clothes all the time.
I see men from a womans point of view. I dont fancy men on a whole. Some men I find very nice, but the other 75 percent does'nt do anything for me at all. When I have sex, I see myself as the woman, and like men to treat me as one, even though I have a penis. Intimacy is very important for me, and like touching, caressing and kissing. When theres persistance I draw the line. Even though this is my thing, what do other think, do you fancy guys on a whole, or do you just like them now and then, or when the moment comes up?

Hey Prettyflowinggown,

Join the club hon, seriously, cause i love cross dressers, and non conformity genders as well.. but generally i find gay men more attractive, and many of my lusts have been towards gay men. Sometimes i think like a woman and sometimes i think like a man.

Maybe your question has two answers one of gender and one of sexuality? Sometimes its hard to split the two and see them seperately because for some its a joined issue.
So to answer one question, yes i like gaymen, bimen, transmen and sometimes straight men...

**robbie09** · Jul 8, 2009, 12:00 AM

I enjoy cross dressing but don't do it very often.

I am not attracted to guys on a whole, whereas I am attracted to women on a whole. Hence I consider myself predominantly hetrosexual.

I am much pickier when it comes to men I am attracted to men. I am attracted to men with very stereo typical masculine characteristics.