But here's something I've noticed.
On this particular site, and even on something called "backpages.com" in my area, there are TONS of men over the age of 50 who are trying to find "sweet young things" aka young men to either "fill" their "holes" or "drink your jizz"...there are PLENTY of men who are married, who are also between 45 and 65 who are trying to cheat on their wives with bi couples, "please be discreet--my wife doesnt know so sorry i cannot host" type of thing, or there's a lot of "60 y.o. bi curious MWM not being satisified at home wife doesnt know" type of stuff.
Now granted, I understand there are urges that need to be fulfilled one way or another. And yes, older people need love too. However, why wait so long? Why try to put someone ELSE at risk of being the person whose phone number the wife finds and the subject of entire evenings of fights? I mean granted, there are PLENTY of 20 something or 30 something men with a daddy complex out here ( or there, if you will) who will be more than happy to divulge some senior interests, but dammit jim, why does it smack of that dOOd Larry Craig?(the American politician who was 'FIRMLY' against gays and lesbians who looked for a little bit on the side in the airport bathroom a la the song "The Humpty Dance")
Do these people really give a sh*t about their marriages, their wives, ther loved ones, their children---that is, the married ones who insist on discretion? They say that discretion is the better part of valor, but what valour is there in cheating on one's wife of double digit years???
Everyone has feelings, but its just an observation... theres a great influx of these kinds of ads, and as 'they' say...
"I'm just curious."