Hey guys and gals, give me your opinions of gloryholes....Ive never experienced one but have thought about it and the idea of it sounds great. Would you advise for or against them.....Private or book store? What are y'alls thoughts?
Hey guys and gals, give me your opinions of gloryholes....Ive never experienced one but have thought about it and the idea of it sounds great. Would you advise for or against them.....Private or book store? What are y'alls thoughts?
A previous thread had plenty of replies. Check out: http://www.bisexual.com/forum/showth...oles-Yes-or-No
got a lady friend who goes with me to the local "ABS" because alot of srt8 and or married dudes will let a woman suck them, but are more reluctant to let another man blow them unless they are used to a male mouth sucking their cock. We both sit on our knees sucking the hard prick at the same time. We like young men because their cocks are the hardest with tasty young man sperm, thick, white and tangy..so tasty..
I have never done the glory hole thing however I would like to try one sometime as the blow job giver.
As a fantasy, I love the thought of experiencing a glory hole (either as the sucker or the suckee). I'f often fantasized about sucking a strange cock pocking thru a hole in a public place. However, in reality I'd refrain, mainly because of the risk of disease.
If all STD's were curable, or had a vaccination to prevent infection, then yes, I'd seek out a location to experience it.
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had a 82year old blow buddy of mine who had suckedoff guys at our local ABS, for "years",(20,plus!).. hundreds of cocks and sperm loads down his gullet and he swore to me that he`d "never" had an STD.. He sucked me off regularly but passed away from kidney cancer just recently, had nothing to do with his BJing at the local ABS..."and" I`m thinking of replacing him there at the book store,.."cum" by sometime, eh?
What a lot of people don't realize is that if someone performs oral sex on you and they have oral herpes (which many people call cold sores) they can give you genital herpes.Originally Posted by nudistharry
I personally don't even like the idea of glory holes. I really find no appeal in sucking some random penis. So many people have poor hygiene and/or STIs. Not to mention for all I know it can be my grandfather, or one of my areas convicted sex offenders. I prefer to get to know the people I am going to perform sexual acts with and always use protection.
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Yikes! So true.
Ya, I know of three that live in my apartment complex alone. Two of those are multiple offenders.
Great fantasy, but a perfect place/way to pick up a nasty disease. The mere thought of herpes compels me to avoid ABS's, period!!!!
Would not do a glory hole either way - sound very risky
Someone recently told me that he picked up an STD infection in his throat from a single oral hook-up with a guy.
Needless to say he's stopped doing that. I can't imagine what the glory hole regulars are passing around.
Danger there! Unless u use a condom.Unless its urpartner on the other side...
I wonder if anyone else has noticed both the contradictions in this and the incorrect statements... interesting and rather silly post...
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I wasn't thinking of Anita Bryant at all.. more the contradictions in your statement and the misleading claims u make that I was thinking of...
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Who in the hell said I was saying it was any more prevalent in bi or gay communities? There are sex offenders in EVERY community be it gay, straight, bi, pan, whatever. You twisted our words. Neither am I saying other people shouldn't do it. The op asked peoples opinions on gloryholes and I gave mine. Give your opinion, but don't tell other people they are saying things that they totally aren't saying. I just think it is generally not the best idea to do unprotected sex acts with an anonymous strangers no matter your sexuality or the sexuality of the people you are hooking up with. I know too many people who have picked up sti's do to lack of caution. A couple of people I know have gotten genital herpes from unprotected oral sex. I like to get to know people a little more before I do sexual things with them be it a man or another woman and I use caution. Every sex act is a calculated risk. If you are willing to take the risk, then fine, but don't act like we are bigots because we aren't willing to take the risks.
Neither is he Jobe... least not any more...
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I know he isn't. I read the part about how he stopped in the 80's. He is just making it sound like we were directing these statements at the LGBT community, which we totally aren't. What I don't think he realizes is that there are plenty of people in the straight community who do glory holes. I know they had them at some of the college parties I used to go to.
I never said that people who go to glory holes are sex offenders, the thing I was getting at is you don't know. You don't know anything about this person, so for all you know they could be. I never said anything about the LGBT community at all and certainly nothing aimed at gay or bi men. Sometimes I think you just like to put words in others mouths. I don't know where you extrapolated that from. I know of two women, both straight who got genital herpes from guys who they had casual encounters with (one it was her first time ever having sex) who had oral herpes. I know of one guy who got it as well who happened to be gay. I don't always use condoms or dental dams (like I don't use a condom with my husband) I just like to know more about the person then what there genitals look like. lol. My husband and I swing and one of the things we talk about with our perspective partners is sti's, if they have been tested, ect. and we get tested regularly ourselves. I know that I got an sti my first time having sex, and from a boyfriend later on. Luckily both were treatable. I have paid the price for not being careful before and have learned from my prior experiences.
Last edited by Jobelorocks; May 3, 2012 at 5:19 PM.
Mmmmmmmm glory holes are hot! I love them and before I met my current partner and was single a few years ago I sucked off many a bloke and got sucked off at them. I never got any STDs just had lots of fun! I have even had men want me to piss in their mouth in one and it was great spunking down his throat and then using him as my urinal!I'd go for it if I were you mate, you'll love it!
I don't live in fear, I just like to make informed decisions about who I decide to have sex with and there is nothing wrong with that. You are putting lots of words in my mouth. I never said you would find sex offenders at all at glory holes, just that you have no way of knowing if they are that, a family member, or whatever. I also NEVER said anything about glory holes aimed at bi or gay men. I was speaking about glory holes in general. I also like to know about sex offenders in my area and look up the sex offenders in my neighborhood, just so I know what neighbors to be cautious of. As a rape victim, I like to be cautious. You are putting words in my mouth. I am pretty sure the op said nothing about glory holes that are specifically for gay or bi men, and neither did I. I am certainly not anti-sex. I am actually a hyper-sexual person and have sex atleast twice a day. I also have 5 sex partners at the moment 1 is my husband and the other four are two couples we meet up with. Don't rag on me for being more cautious than you are. Being more cautious doesn't make me anti-sex.I'm not putting words in anyone's mouth then again I'm not the one who claimed that you'd find or could meet sex offenders at a glory hole.If you and the anti-sex crowd people who post here who live in fear are that worried about HIV/STDs then don't have sex with anyone at all. Also if you're that worried about sex offenders don't go anywhere or even leave your residence since I guarantee you that you've seen sex offenders walking around in public and they're not at public sex spaces with glory holes for bisexual and gay men.
I've never used a glory hole but friends of mine have. I've read enough about them and seen them in porn and in men's rooms. You're not going to find a relative of yours at one. That only happens in porn movies, fictional stories, and is a myth. Along with the myth that someone at a glory hole is going to mutilate your genitals.
I assume that most glory holes are anonymous. So you really don't know who you are coming in contact with. I do acknowledge that it is unlikely that it will be a relative, but certainly not impossible especially if you live in the same area as your family. I am just trying to make a point is you don't know who these people are or even what they look like. The less you know about your sexual partners the greater the risk. That is how it is. If people want to participate in glory holes, cool, whatever. I just think people need to consider possible risks. If you decide that the risks are minimal enough for you, go for it.
This just comes down to you arguing pro-responsibility, and him arguing against that.
He's old. Ignore him.
Ya, it seems that he just wants to be contrary. I don't like him putting words in my mouth either. He keeps on saying I am targeting gay and bi men, which I don't even mention. I just think people should make informed decisions about sexual acts whether they be male, female, androgynous, or gender queer , whether they are gay, straight, bi, pan, or whatever. I think everyone should have the right to do what they want sexually as long as everyone is consenting adults. I just think it is wise to use caution.
Maybe, I'm tired and missing your point darkeyes? Would you expand on these contradictions and incorrect statements?
As far as paying attention to the name of "Anita Bryant" I must agree with drugstore. Some of you may be too young to know how that was and the hatred connecting G & B men with pedophiles and vile sub human creatures. Some of you are too young to know the repression in society whether gay or straight and the sexual revolution where there was no real fear of STD. Up until HIV there were few STD's that were rampant beyond one or two. They were curable. The advent of the pill made society much more liberal sexually than it had ever had been publicly. Bryant was a nasty "clean" appearing repressive backlash with a strong Fundamentalist Christian facade that her appear "right".
I have no interest in glory holes though. Somehow, it just seems different than the free expression of sex.
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I know about Anita Bryant, even though I didn't "experience" her. But saying what I was saying about glory holes was anywhere near what she said and did is in my opinion ridiculous. She was an extremist and a hateful human being. I just think it is wise to use caution when considering sex acts because sexual acts can be very risky, especially when done with strangers and without protection. I also didn't single out gay or bi men like he said I was. I didn't even mention gay or bi men, I don't care what points he is trying to make, but putting words in my mouth and comparing me to Anita Bryant is way out of line, WAY OUT OF LINE.
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I'm trying to figure out where your logic and my logic conflict with regard to glory holes and the reference to Anita Bryant. I am not interested in glory holes for the same reason that some are attracted. It is the anonymity (and uncertainty of disease of the act). I've never done it nor am I interested. I place it in the same category as bath houses but that is my prejudice since I've never done either.
However, I completely do not agree with connecting such behaviour with sex offenders? I do see a connection between same sex sexual act and sex offenders accusations (the odd woman may participate but primarily this is a guy thing imo) I do see the connection, all be it an old reference, to Bryant proclaiming that gays (never heard a reference to bi) are sin full (against God), evil deviant sex offenders etc. I think that she was stating or inferring pedophiles. What type of sex offenders in your apartment use glory holes? How do you know this if you do not use glory holes? Was it in your paper and you believe the paper? or ? Glory holes as illegal acts have never been connected to sex offenders in my country to my memory? I guess that it might fall under leud public behaviour if it is illegal?
Last edited by tenni; May 4, 2012 at 7:14 AM.
Why even read their nonsense? Do what I do now. Check out their profile, if they're over 50, click Add to Ignore List.
Jobe picked up on it, tenni... we know that there are men (and women for that matter) who are gay and bisexual who are paedophilic... we also know that many paedophiles do have sexual relations with adults.. that may or may not be their primary sexual interest but that they do is a fact of life.. neither can we say for certain that straight men have never frequented t-rooms (whatever they are) or bookstores with glory holes but I will grant that this would be relatively rare.... we do a disservice to gay and bisexual people if we land all the responsibility of paedophilia squarely and soley on the shoulders of the heterosexual male community...it is a denial of a reality just as bad as any who deny bisexuality exists...
..and to berate Jobe and Slip for not wishing to do something he will not do when their reasoning is not so far different from his own does seem to me to be an inconsistency bordering on hypocrisy..
Because we disagree does not mean people are biphobic or anti gay or anything else.. people think about things differently and have their own opinions.. because they do not agree with us does not of itself make them biphobic, homophobic or anything else... something u would do well to remember at times..
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