Originally Posted by
JordanCD
I agree. Most guys are fluid sexually (it's widely accepted in the scientific community) but when it comes to partnering 'for life' most of us want a woman - for procreation, family, intimacy, domestic life, emotional balance, support, etc. Not to mention women are more pleasant to look at than 99% of guys. Most of us are wired this way. Survival of the species and all that.
But another aspect of this is how much attention and sexual satisfaction & physical connection do you get from your female partner (if you even have one). If you have a woman who takes care of you sexually and makes you feel wanted, you won't be as likely to dab into men. When I was in my early 20's I had this 18 yo. girlfriend who was very much into me and literally couldn't keep her hands off me. She couldn't wait to fuck me every time we met. She had such a crush on me that she would be dripping wet as soon as her panties came off. We fucked in cars, the library, public bathrooms, anywhere she could get it. She couldn't get enough of me and would do anything I wanted. During that time I didn't even look at porn, much less gay/bi porn. I had all the attendion needed from her.
So another part of this is, we all want to feel wanted. When our wives lose interest or there are no women around, we look for where we can get attention: other men who are just as horny as us. We want to suck cock because we want to feel desired and appreciated. Look at guys in jail.
So I bet a lot of us guys on this website also don't have a great sex life at home.
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