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hi my wife doesn't have a clue well I don't fink she does .I don't get much chance to meet many guys for fun when I do its mind blowing I make the most as I don't no how long be I get it again
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It has always been a mystery to me as to why men are so afraid to be who they truly are for fear of rejection yet, marry anyway just to live their lives in misery? Why do you settle? Have you ever thought that the woman you eventually do tell are just as upset about being lied to as they are to learn the man they thought they knew, isn't that person at all? There is so much stigma attached to the idea of bisexual men, that men don't speak up. In the end though, what are they complaining about or questioning if it was themselves that got them in the situation in the first place? You cannot even pose the opposite question, how would a man feel if their wife confessed to the same secret? Just so happens, men for the most part are ok with that but, what if she came to you with something else? Would you just accept it and move on or would you feel lied to and betrayed? Be honest with yourself and those whom you claim to love, honesty is one of the biggest parts of a relationship, once shattered, hard to glue back together.
I am married and not secretly bi. I came out to my wife about 6 months after we got married although I told her that i had fooled around with guys before when I was younger long before we got married and she was ok with that. Then I came out telling her that I was still bi and had sexual feelings toward guys and she was hesitant at first and a little upset but eventually we came to an agreement that I could find a partner to fool around with as long as he was also married and out to his wife. She has no interests in bringing it in to our bedroom in the form of a threesome and she is not bi at all. So it was hard for her to understand at first. She knows that I have a dildo collection that I play with on occasion too and doesn't really have any interest with that either. So she lets me explore as long as I'm safe and she is informed if I go out of our marriage sexually.
Mark Bentley Cohen wrote a pretty good book about his own coming out in Confessions of A Bisexual Husband. I have been hooking up with guys for 7 years now. I am very careful and disciplined about not being discovered. I have been crossdressing for 40 years and never got caught so that experience helps.
i am married and bi. i dont do it on the side, she has no clue and is homophobic. i get my pleasure drom sites like thisOriginally Posted by my-00-stang
I am married, have kids, am in my 40s and bi but haven’t been with a guy since I got married.I come to websites like this and masturbate to gay and bi porn as an outlet.By all appearances we are a conservative church going family so my wife would flip if she ever found out about my bi desires and some of the experiences I have had.I have never cheated on my wife and figure it is best just to keep this side of me a secret.This goes along with the fact that I am very attracted to and want to have sex with several of my wife’s female friends.With all of this I figure sometimes it is better to keep my desires buried inside.
dude, are you married to my wife?
Wow - good to know I am not alone. My situation exactly!
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Keep no secrets especially on being bi. She has the right to know.
I told my wife and she is okay with it. She allows me to have a m/m get together once a month without any questions.
I have recently admitted to my wife that I have had several bisexual experiences. We have always been open about sex and while it tookme awhile to admit it to her, I finally did and she didn't go berserk like I thought she would. She has even admitted that she might like an MMF. Nothing like that has happened yet but I am much relieved that I told her.
Been married and bi now for last 14 yrs. Love my wife and family but the bi side of me is something that needs to be unleashed now and then. I keep it on the down low as much as possible and make the most of the man on man sessions I get. Not worth the ensuing chaos that admitting my bi side would create.
Something that I can´t understand. You marries a person, who supposed to be the person you trust the most, and she even can´t stand your sexuality. That´s is so fucked up and I don´t even know how difficult is to live with a huge lie like this.
She has the right to know, maybe she don´t want to live with a bisexual guy, maybe she enjoy a mmf, or maybe she just want some time to do her things while you yours.
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Yes thats the problem,we have a desiser to do what we do,and can't explaine , because they don't understand
I have the exact same reasoning and in the same boat. She has mentioned that it would be "humiliating" to discover being married to someone who has sex with men.
Really wish I could discuss with my wife Tried to tell her about an experience I had in high school but she won't have it. Knows I have an interest in exploring MM sex but thinks its a passing phase - its not.
The problem is finding a discrete and totally safe (no STD) friend to play with during the daytime.
I know that people are free to make comments. I get that. But why anyone would make judgmental comments about someone else's life or situation is beyond my comprehension.
Are they this judgmental with their actual flesh and blood friends, or is it because of the anonymity of the Internet that they feel free to give expert testimony on every subject that comes up. [getting off of my soapbox]
Almost everyone judges cheaters. Of any stripe, any sexual persuasion. But hey. Its only the internet after all right? Oh yeah, I would totally judge you in real life too. To your face. And tell your wife too.
ja&ve sounds like a total douche bag and has his head up his own ass. Chill the hell out and live your own life....
Meh, if you're cheating, you're the douche. If you have a spouse, it's not just "your own life." It's theirs too. But hey, I'm not the one who will get the divorce when my wife finds out.
so anyway I found a park where guys went to hook up after a year of getting sucked by guys met a guy I really liked I began to suck him now I love sucking guys too
I enjoy how a penis feels in my mouth like to feel them cum
I a bi married oral male. I occasionally enjoy crossdressing at home. I love sucking cock, wearing panties, and my bra with my breast forms. My wife knows about the panties and bra. She wouldn't understand the bi side of me and would leave me if she knew. I sucked a friend's penis as teenager. Only one. About 12 years later, my desire to suck a cock came back. I enjoyed about three cocks and just thought it was a phase and got married. Well, like many guys, the wife doesn't put out often enough and I know that is no excuse. What the underlying dilemma/problem is that when you have the first penis brush over you lips and into your mouth you're hooked. I do believe that. I have been married for almost twenty years and swear I will stop. I am hoping for a nice one as my final I really enjoy giving a blowjob more than receiving one. I am sorry and will try and stop by one or two bi escapes ever year, but I will just try and do my best.
^^@jwaage1986I tried that one or two per year too. I meet my married FWB and suck him off once or twice per year. But as time goes on I have the desire for more than that. My wife would not understand either. I have found a local married buddy about my age who just wants a blowjob now and then. Anyway we hook up once or twice a week now. I service him for about 20 minutes and that's it.
Tough situation we are in; fight it, hide it or come out and risk certain divorce.
I've commented about this within other posts, but it's been awhile. So I'll say it again! LOL Been married 5 times, out of those all knew except the first and last. The 3 that did know we're "OK" with it? Yea right! It was the cause of the divorces. But at least i was honest and fessed up, right? Guess that depends on what you want out of life. For me it would be to find a woman that is accepting of my bisexual desires and love me for the man or person that I am.
All I can say is good luck for the ones that want to disclose that part of your life to your spouse, you're gonna need it!
Same here I love sucking at gloryholes , and my wife knows and is also bi so she gets it , sex is sex pure and simple
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