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  1. #211

    Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI

    Quote Originally Posted by pole_smoker View Post
    You both cheated on your ex partners, so eventually you will lie and cheat on each other.

    The way I interpreted the details of their relationship is they both very much want to continue their cheating behavior. However, together they are even happier knowing and even participating in their spouses cheating on them. So, I believe they will continue cheating on each other but they are unlikely to lie, because knowing and telling makes it much more enjoyable for both of them.
    JEM

  2. #212

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    Quote Originally Posted by jem_is_bi View Post
    The way I interpreted the details of their relationship is they both very much want to continue their cheating behavior. However, together they are even happier knowing and even participating in their spouses cheating on them. So, I believe they will continue cheating on each other but they are unlikely to lie, because knowing and telling makes it much more enjoyable for both of them.
    Exactly. Or this guy has such low self-esteem that he knows his wife is getting boned by other men, or having her cunt eaten by other chicks but he does not kick her cheating ass to the curb and leave her since he is a beta male and is getting fucked by men on the side but keeps it a secret from her.

  3. #213

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    Quote Originally Posted by pole_smoker View Post
    Exactly. Or this guy has such low self-esteem that he knows his wife is getting boned by other men, or having her cunt eaten by other chicks but he does not kick her cheating ass to the curb and leave her since he is a beta male and is getting fucked by men on the side but keeps it a secret from her.
    I doubt that he is keeping it a secret from her. I think she likes him doing the same with other men and women as she does and likely enjoys knowing about it. That relationship does not work for you or me, but seems to be working for them.
    JEM

  4. #214

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    Since you are so sure of your ability to predict the future, who's gonna win the republican nomination? I'd love to have the early take on this! (Let me guess... You're all for The Donald? Your self-righteousness is right up his ally!)

  5. #215

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nauti Rogue View Post
    Since you are so sure of your ability to predict the future, who's gonna win the republican nomination? I'd love to have the early take on this! (Let me guess... You're all for The Donald? Your self-righteousness is right up his ally!)
    Since you did ask. I am independent and do not like either major party, or like any President we have ever had in my lifetime, and have never liked or supported any potential candidates for president in the United States.

  6. #216

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    I am married and bi and my wife knows,but she does not know guys are screwing my ass and we suck each other.I do this in my alone time,when she is not around.

  7. #217

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    i am and she will never know

  8. #218

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    Me too. Close to Blowing Rock, NC? I vacation there in the summer

  9. #219

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    I've been out to my wife since we got engaged (37+ years ago), for 28 years I did as we agreed and was straight and vanilla. Then when I was about 50, my bi and kinky side just rose back up and was not going away again, so I talked to her about trying it my way, she was willing to give it a go.

    For several years we tried a little of everything: Swinging (we went to clubs for years, but only got with another couple once), fetish clubs (we both liked them, but she only likes to observe, not participate, even at home), BDSM (we tried it at home, me as the bottom, I always loved it, she didn't) and finally we talked about me going out alone to fulfill my bi and kinky desires.

    But in all that time, I never cheated. (but as folks who know me know, I was already looking for play pals with her permission once before and it fell through).

    A few months ago, she finally decided that kink and playing with others was just not her thing but this time, she really decided that, 'I needed to go out and get fucked by other kinky people. It's my life and it's only fair that if I did it her way for so long that I should get my chance.' She really is amazing!

    So we embark on consensual non-monogamy. We came up with rules (safe sex, I put a tracking ap on my phone - for safety - and I tell her if I am going out to meet someone(s), but no additional details). I've been meeting folks and getting up to the point where I'll break the ice (with a guy I've known for almost 2 years who I met on FetLife and a few times in person, or a couple I've known as long, also from Fet who I have not mnet in person, but we trade notes and phone calls). We decided that this is NOT going to hurt our relationship and we keep the communications going (we're strong enough that this declaration means something, that we decided to make this work, means it will or we'll stop, but it won't damage us).

    Strangely, our sex life has improved a LOT. The elephant has left the room! As part of the agreement, our sex is now 100% vanilla (plain vaginal intercourse with just a bit of oral both ways) and I stopped trying to bring in anything new, I also pretty much leave it up to her to initiate. She loves that and we're now having more and better sex than at anytime since we were young (several times a week, at least). Whoda thought?

    The first time I come home afterward will be interesting, but since the one time we did swing, we both fucked someone else with the other right there, so it won't really be a first.

    It's not been easy, but it is working!

    Best of luck to anyone else trying!

    I have to say that it was one of the scariest moments of my life (right after coming out to her), when I came back out to her and asked her to indulge my desires. It lead to some difficult moments, but it has been a very good thing, our honesty remains intact and is stronger and our love and trust are still growing.

    And, I am going to get to suck cock, get fucked and do kinky things that would probably make her ill to consider! Yippee!
    Last edited by lizard-lix; Nov 26, 2015 at 9:03 AM.

  10. #220

    Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI

    so glad things are working out on so many levels. you have got quite an understanding & special wife!!!!

  11. #221

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    Quote Originally Posted by sysper View Post
    so glad things are working out on so many levels. you have got quite an understanding & special wife!!!!
    Thanks, yes I do... She is awesome!

    She is so open, especially for others, but tends to hold herself and us to a higher standard. So she has had to stretch a lot for this, because to a degree, she feels she has fallen short, since I need outside fulfillment for sex. While we are normally of the school that one person can't be anyone's everything, this one has been harder for her.

    Of course she doesn't feel the same about my love of sailing in practically dangerous weather and similar things. It's fine if I go 'play with others' (as long as I come home safely). But the rules for sex are different for her. She is finally understanding that for me, they aren't. Sex with her is for love, with my play pals it is for simple, perverted enjoyment (like bad weather sailing). Now that she gets this, it has a lot easier... She slept around as much as I did as a kid, but she was always serially monogamous, I was never monogamous and kept a lot of my relationships for a longer time than she did, but I slept around with them all, rather than one at a time.

    Of course she is entitled to the same freedom she gives me, I keep suggesting that she looks for a guy of her type to try with, just for the adventure. She has gone so far as to look up a guy she came close to cheating on me with 20 years ago (we both had almosts and of course told each other). I told her I'd book the ticket and hotel if she wants to go see him.

  12. #222

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    Married 46 years and she doesn't know I like to suck cocks. I will take my secret to my grave. We have a very loving relationship, but I know it would be the end of it if I told her I was bisexual.

  13. #223

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    I've been bi-curious for most of my life. Three years ago just prior to getting married I tried anal with a guy I met online. It was amazing! I wanted to try it before I got married for obvious reasons. Two and a half years later I met another guy and we did it. She has no idea and I of course play it safe. I know it's wrong and I don't want to disrespect her. But I guess I do. I just love having my ass played with and she's not equipped for that...

  14. #224

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    The older I get the more bi-curious I get. 57 and married 26 years. No way I will ever let my wife know.

  15. #225

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    Quote Originally Posted by NakedFun38 View Post
    I've been bi-curious for most of my life. Three years ago just prior to getting married I tried anal with a guy I met online. It was amazing! I wanted to try it before I got married for obvious reasons. Two and a half years later I met another guy and we did it. She has no idea and I of course play it safe. I know it's wrong and I don't want to disrespect her. But I guess I do. I just love having my ass played with and she's not equipped for that...
    Strap ons are awesome! So, she may not be naturally equipped, but you can fix that in a bunch of fun and creative ways if she is willing to try. Some strap ons fit back up inside the woman and/or rub her clit, so she can get stimulated and even cum while she fucks you, that can make it good for her even if she is not as much into the assfucking hubby part.

  16. #226

    Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI

    Quote Originally Posted by BobbyBiMarried View Post
    The older I get the more bi-curious I get. 57 and married 26 years. No way I will ever let my wife know.
    Maybe I'm just lucky, but I am totally out to my wife (59 and married 36 years), she is not into it at all, but after talking it out, experimenting for several years and giving it a good try (see the post above for one example), she decided to let me out to get the bi and kinky stuff I want/need.

    It took, communication, openness and a ton of patience (and yeah it was scary as hell!), but it is so worth it!

  17. #227

    Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI

    Quote Originally Posted by lizard-lix View Post
    Strap ons are awesome! So, she may not be naturally equipped, but you can fix that in a bunch of fun and creative ways if she is willing to try. Some strap ons fit back up inside the woman and/or rub her clit, so she can get stimulated and even cum while she fucks you, that can make it good for her even if she is not as much into the assfucking hubby part.
    I guess part of it too is a need for man on man contact. I want to feel him and get him off.

  18. #228

    Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI

    I am married and have been a closet Bi Male since I was about 30 when I finally let myself explore with another man. I do explore on the side and had a Side BF for about a year. Good luck never easy when the wife finds out your biggest secret.

  19. #229

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    Damn, that sucks! You have to be more careful. Make sure you are browsing in private mode if she checks your history often. I know how it feels to get caught, got busted years ago before I learned about privacy on the computer. Luckily it was emails to a couple, not just a guy. I tried to tell myself for years I could quit the BI stuff but I was just lying to myself. I like women, but something about a nice cock that gets me worked up also. Good luck!

  20. #230

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    I am out to my wife but in the closet to everyone else. It's so hard to be bi.

  21. #231

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    I am a married man who is secretly Bi

  22. #232

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    Same here

  23. #233

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    I admire your courage

  24. #234

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    I am married and my wife knows about my past but thinks it was a passing fancy.

  25. #235

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    I am b i curious and married and wife has no idea, if she did I wouldn't be married.

  26. #236

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    I outed myself to wife when she opened the door to mmf bisex to me, and the new feelings about mm bisex took over my mind. I am very fourtunate that she has given me her 100% blessings to try sex with a man and woman same time. he wants to make sure I really want this before she watches the 2nd or 3rd time.

    Below is some recent history of events that has led me to my current state of almost always compulsively horny thoughts of fucking women, and about sucking cock and possibly more, some religious hang-ups have caused me recently much serious soul searching about finding out who I am. And feel bisexual too gay now to be straight, too straight to be gay, still love pussy but also love the look of cocks now too -- thus bisexual.




    This is what turned me bi-curious its nagging me cant get it out of my mind.


    In May 2014. I had lost a bet to my wife and she got to choose the porn we were going to watch every few weeks we have this to help spice things up a little after 24-25 years married, the 4 kids, our jobs, and life all can take a toll on our sex life. So we have to make time to do this to keep sex alive, I do not know how long you 2 have been together but this has helped us. I love my wife but her sex drive has dropped way off, down to 1-3 times a month. She is wild when she gets turned on, but it takes awhile at times. I am not the type of guys that will force anyone. But without porn night I would get no sex She wanted to watch 2 guys have sex with each other and then both of them fuck a woman like DP anal/reg or reg/oral anyways 2 cocks gets her turned on too. I hesitated and tried twice just couldn't hit play. But the third time I finally relented so we selected a mmf-bi porn film on the internet, a little while back. I was sure it would be boring never would have looked at it myself; since pussy, threesome mff wife with another woman, lesbian, and anal porn was more than enough for me. Never thought possibly playing with a guy or sucking and fucking a guy had no interest for me at all until this occurred.
    But within 2 minutes into the movie a door opened to a new bi world, and my wife is the one who opened it for me. This mmf-bi threesome movie got me more excited than any other thing in my life other than the first time I saw and ate & fucked my first woman. The film was about a white man getting topped by a bigger man who forced the guy to suck his cock, while the guy sucking had his girlfriend watch him with the other man, she was so wet and playing with herself telling him how hot it was seeing him turn bi to keep doing it. Then things progressed and the man sucking cock was now on is hands and knees with the big guy getting ready to fuck his virgin ass. When the guy put his big cock in the guys tight ass, and the guy started moaning getting fucked like a girl. Watching him get fucked was almost too much, but what put me over the top was when he was getting fucked the girl made him eat her pussy and was still encouraging him on about taking a dick up his ass, then I came.

    I told her she opened a door that may be too hard to close now. But I am so fucking glad that she knows and I do not have to hide it from her like so many guys on here seem to have to do. But we have been together 25 years, and these bisexual thoughts didn't start until about 2 years ago when 45 yo.

  27. #237

    Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI

    Without telling my life's story...I'm married 30 years and bisexual. I have had affairs with men, women and couples. My wife knows only of those that happened during an unrelated separation. I am looking, too.

  28. #238

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    I have been married over 40 years and have always been attracted to woman as well as guys but have never acted on the gay side of things (well once I jacked off a guy in a sex club - it wasn't very exciting for me but that is another story) except by watching bi and gay porn and buying sex toys (like a dildo). My wife found out I was Bi about a year ago when she found a couple of my dick pics on the computer (stupid!!!) so we went through a rough time but she is OK now as long as I don't act out my fantasies with another guy. I do love her and my family so I don't want to give that up. But it is difficult so I just jack off a lot.

  29. #239

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    I'm married and bi. I'm not out to the world but I don't hide my sexuality either, the folks whose business it is to know knows.

  30. #240

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    I know I am lucky too. My wife of 25 years loves to strap-on and fuck me well. She usually cums while she is fucking me, which is pretty hot and it definitely keeps things lubed up down there. She has always been forthright about her own (inactive) bisexuality, so she is supportive of my own private tendencies. She satisfies my ass and is a great partner, and yet still I get the occasional craving and drive to find another guy for some quick sordid fun. Regrets? Sure, but at some point you just have to be who you are.

    Quote Originally Posted by lizard-lix View Post
    Maybe I'm just lucky, but I am totally out to my wife (59 and married 36 years), she is not into it at all, but after talking it out, experimenting for several years and giving it a good try (see the post above for one example), she decided to let me out to get the bi and kinky stuff I want/need.

    It took, communication, openness and a ton of patience (and yeah it was scary as hell!), but it is so worth it!

 

 

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