There is no happy median, as you well recognize. If you want an honest, above-board life where you are not being cheated out of your own life, however, then the only way is to carefully and skillfully persuade your wife to accept who you are... all of you. Some wives can't and won't... but as you will read on here and other places, such as
LitErotica Forum, there are many wives who do, in fact, happily and eagerly accept their husband's bisexuality. Do
not make it a sudden surprise, though.
Many do go that route... but the sneaking, hiding, tension and guilt will do more damage to you -- and potentially to your marriage, in addition -- than even the loss of half your material possessions along with your marriage... if your own integrity is something that you cherish, that is. If you are an honest man now, you will not be any more once you become a sneak and a cheat. It
will change you.
Do you have a relationship with your wife... or just a peaceful marriage?
Many are happy to take the peaceful marriage, the happy homelife, et cetera and run... that ain't so bad, after all.
These tricky waters are not for the faint-of-heart... navigate carefully, and best of luck.
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