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  1. #31

    Red face Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    Quote Originally Posted by TorontoGuy2007
    this is pure speculation, but i think most people come here for same-sex experiences.. people don't have a problem attracting the opposite sex, but they do attracting the same, perhaps?
    Don't talk so fast... If I could attract the opposite sex, I might still be married.

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  2. #32

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    I am in a relationship with a bi male to that I am very comfortable.
    Have looked for bi males in the past for friends but seemed to be elusive as bi females are.
    Just be yourself.

  3. #33

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    I don't know generally how bi-women phrase their ads, but on a personal basis I've probably talked with more women than men on this site. The women I've met here often want to talk about varied topics they are interested in, and are more apt to speak about personal subjects. The men I've met here pretty much want to trade pictures, cyber, or talk sex.

    I can pretty much see why bi women/couples might specify: "Not looking for men." The whole emphasis on cock-shots and sex-talk is kinda rude and boring most times, and the underlying sense of fear around being discovered if he talks about anything personal makes getting to know a guy sort of a forlorn hope...

    Of course this isn't meant as a condemnation of anonymous sex, nor am I saying it applies to 100% of the bi folks on this site. More often than not however it seems to apply. Look at the photos: Not a whole lot of straight-on vagina or tit-shots here, eh? But what do you see with most of the men? LOL.

  4. #34

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    Just felt like throwing my 2cents in on this one. I greatly prefer dating other bisexuals (male and female). Largely because I like to be with people who are very open sexually and these folks tend to be bi more often than not. There are of course exceptions to that.

    I don't explicitly state in personal ads that I'm only looking for bi partners, becuase I don't want to rule anyone out based on a label. Bi, gay or straight you have to have a certain level of intelligence, humor, and compassion to attract and hold my attention. Sexual preferences are something I tend to address pretty directly if I'm interested in someone. While I prefer a partner that is bi, I'm not gonna turn away a lesbian or a straight guy if we're compatible in other important ways (intelligence, humor, etc).

    As to the "who has it easier" point that folks have brought up...I agree that bi women seem to get more attention. We are hypersexualized by our society at this point in time. However, quantity does not equal quality. I get hit on a lot, but it means I have to filter through more crap to find people worth getting to know. People that are genuinely interested in me for me and not simply holding out the hope that if they are nice enough they'll get to take part in some sexual encounter straight out of porn.
    M

    The important work of moving the world forward does not wait to be done by perfect men. ~ George Elliot

  5. #35

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    Quote Originally Posted by mistymockingbird
    We are hypersexualized by our society at this point in time. However, quantity does not equal quality. I get hit on a lot, but it means I have to filter through more crap to find people worth getting to know. People that are genuinely interested in me for me and not simply holding out the hope that if they are nice enough they'll get to take part in some sexual encounter straight out of porn.
    It's just like that when it comes to bisexual men being hit on by gay men. I get hit on constantly online, and in bars/clubs, and I have to weed through the sex pigs, tweakers, and people who bareback.

    I have nothing against people who are poz and sero-sort and bareback with other poz guys, or use condoms to have sex with hiv- men; but there are people that lie about it.
    Last edited by DiamondDog; Jan 28, 2007 at 11:25 PM.

  6. #36

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    that is my dream and how to find a bi woman looking for a bi guy. most women i felt i could come out to rejected me. i had one friend with benifits who accepted me and we had fun. but it wasn't lasting. looking for the ltr.

    i hear and see ad's of bisexual females lookin 4 females and some lookin 4 males.if a female is married or in a relationship she would mostly want a female or a guy 4 nsa period i also think that some ppl feel intimated 4 bisexual males b/c of representation and i am a bisexual male searchin for a bisexual female ,as far as wanting a str8 girl i would not want a ltr b/c some str8 girls have a hard time understanding a bisexual male
    I AM TASTY SWEET AND ADDICTIVE AND MANY PPL CRAVE ME DAY AND NIGHT AND CAN'T GET ENOUGH OF ME I AM A SWEET MOIST AND A SMOOTH PART OF TOWN CALLED CHOCOLATE CITY

  7. #37

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    I've read a number of posts, and seen more ask in chat as how to identify and / or meet someone of the same sex (bi) by both men and women. Logically it could be assumed folks readily know how to encounter and persue those of the opposite sex, thus I personally can understand a bi man or woman not looking for the opposite sex (bi or not).
    Though I am not a profile reader I can also understand a woman 'asking' no men reply as the vast majority of IM's receieved either start out with 'are you horny' or ' u bi?
    SOG, yes indeed I am fickle, I want to be treated like a person first and foremost.

    Lisa

    hugs n kisses

  8. #38

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    I'm a lot better at attracting men than I am women.

  9. #39

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    all women are bisexual... the more you buy them the more sexual they become.

  10. #40

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    Quote Originally Posted by FerociousFeline
    After years of putting myself through the negative experience of attempting to connect with bi women, I actually finally just gave up. It was easier to find a straight woman who might have bicurious tendencies and help her grow than it was to tolerate the princess attitudes of a woman who is too used to having her way completely, as a direct result of being able to do that very thing. Now before some of you freak out about what I'm going to say next......bear in mind that I realize that it's likely that some women out there have experienced the equal opposite side of my experience. Whatever. There has been an unavoidably large number of potential women I've rejected because one major aspect of their bisexuality was in point of fact, pure narcissism. The incidence of this in more mature women was drastically less. When combined with the point about more mature women also being far more open to bisexual men........well, I think you can see what I'm driving at. Now this is by no means conclusive, it's just a bunch of woolgathering that I've been doing but it seems to me that the simple truth is, the biggest homophobes are NOT men. They are women. It's a complete double standard which younger women perpetuate. Whether this is about who is the queen bee, or what I don't know. Maybe it's about, oh hell, what did they call it? .......well they called it "reproductive strategy" in reference to het connections, and this would be the same except it's about getting partners and not getting partners for the purpose of reproducing. So whatever the hell you'd call THAT. I've known a few women who were bi who wanted to tell me that I somehow "wasn't a REAL man" and were selectively blind to their own double standard. Ok I just read all this back and it didn't come out as clear as I'd hoped, but does any of this ring true for any of you?

    FF
    Yeah FF eventually I decided that HBB actually stands for "hot bi bitch" Then I made some T-shirts:

    http://www.cafepress.com/hotbibabe
    http://www.cafepress.com/hotbibitch
    http://www.cafepress.com/hbbdog

    Hope you like them.
    "You know how Thomas Kuhn died? He heard 'paradigm shift' once too often."
    - Candace Pert, "The Body is Your Subconscious Mind"

  11. #41

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    I don't think they advertise due to the fact that there are so many Bi Guys putting out there own ads, All one has to do is cruise the personals in this or any "Bi" publication, and you will find a plethora or Bi Guys on their own.
    JUst to verify this, we checked. In our local area, 6 (six)ads for single gals, vs 2 1/2 pages for single guys !!! LOL
    Last edited by ncbeachgoers; Feb 1, 2007 at 7:20 AM. Reason: additional info

  12. #42

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    I think that a lot of it is supply and demand. Some of it is the pushy people on here that do not read ads. Yesterday in chat I had 6 guys at once Im me. All wanting to talk sex with me. Even though in my ad I state that I am looking for a lady that is Ok with a Bi man or a couple where he is BI. I have no interest in a guy by himself. Though I love the interaction when a lady is in the mix I am not into it when she is not. I do love a lady with a strap on!!!!

  13. #43

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    I have never really thought about someones orientation being an issue. My personal experience had been that I have been with biwomen, straight men, bimen, and never had much issue with any of it. I am more looking for someone who can laugh and play and can interact with me in a way that gets all my senses going. So straight, bi men or bi women or transgendered it doesnt matter to me. I love to laugh, play, and engage the people I am with. And as far as the strap on thing, thats just loads of fun.

  14. #44

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    Who say we arent? I personally Love Bi men, and Would love to find a man in my life that Is Bi. But then again..thats just the perv in me..lol
    Silly Cat
    I'm tryin' my best to leave a loving foot print on the hearts of the folks who's lives I touch..longly, or briefly..:}
    Minx

    Women and cats will do as they please, so men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.
    Robert A. Heinlein

  15. #45

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    You make perv sound like a bad thing Cat......

  16. #46

    Re: Bisexual Women looking for Bisexual Men?

    I wish I could find that woman who was bi and was into me being bi. It is like the unicorn search, always looking but always in vain. I think it would be great if the woman I loved actually liked watching me get fucked and suck cock. Thats something I could share and have fun with, but she would also know its part of me and would not detract from her

 

 

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