None of my cousins were near enough in age for me for there to be mutually interested in each other for anything to happen, which is unfortunate because the thought is exciting and two of them grew up to be pretty hot. That ship has probably sailed though.
I've also been finding my niece pretty attractive since she turned 18. I feel a little guilty about it, but it is what it is.
You can think whatever you want to and that's not a crime that I'm aware of... but what you do is something else. We... are about the relationship aspects which makes anyone not see others as men and women. You shouldn't look at, say, your sister and your mind says, "Damn, she's hot! If she wasn't my sister, I'd fuck her!" and if you do, chances are you'd feel guilty for looking at your sister as... a hot and desirable female and which she most certainly is... because you also know that if you do - or try to do - what you're thinking, going to hell will be like going on a nice vacation if (1) she rats you out for hitting on her like that or (2) you get caught having sex with her.Originally Posted by Huey1N
Having said that - and keeping in mind why the laws are the way they are, do they really apply when the relative you're thinking about having sex with - or are having it with - is male? Technically, it does because sex between men is both immoral and illegal both orally and anally and depending on where you happen to live and all that. But, if your brother fills your ass with hard dick and hot cum, eh, what's the big deal? It's not like you're gonna get pregnant, right? If you look at your brother or cousin or some other male relative and your mind says, "Man, I'd love to get with them!" then all it is... is what you're thinking but there is guilt associated just the same.
If neither person minds, does it really matter? Morality and the law says it has to matter... but human nature can have a different take on this.
I am an only child. It is hard to tell what might have happened if not.
I started sucking off my first cousin when we were 14. His cock was the first I ever sucked. Obviously, since we were a couple of horny teens I spent a lot of time sucking his cock after that lol. I ended up being his regular cocksucker from then on until he experienced some medical issues in his mid-40s that required him to stop sexual activity.
I also dated a female 2nd cousin for about 9 months. We fucked like rabbits. For both of us the fact that we were related was a big turn on. We fucked on the first date. My parents kept reminding me that she was my cousin, but hers seemed fine with it, so we spent most of our time at her house. When we went of to her bedroom to fuck her parents never said a thing.
That's hot that her parents knew she was upstairs fucking. That would be a huge turn on for me as well.
Incest it far more that about the law or blood. Family relationships can be independent of consanguinity.
Incest can be damaging because of the betrayal of trust and taking advantage of the vulnerability of a child to pressures them to keep it secret. Obviously not all incest is damaging as there are many stories here to show that. Yet I have known people that were pressured into sex and the need to keep it quiet turned int deep shame. My FWB was pressured into a MM relationship as teen. He won't tell me much about it but it is obvious that it has damaged his ability to have relationships.
A man that wants his monogamous wife to fuck others. And to swap cock.
When I was 16 my moms brother came and lived with us. I caught him jacking off one day and he asked if I?d like to touch it. Well after a few times it progressed into him fucking my mouth and every once in awhile he would jack me off. I have a small cock and he used to call me his bitch and he wanted to fuck my mouth pussy. He moved away after a few months and I didn?t see him or do anything like it for 30 years. Then out of the blue he called and said he was in town and always wanted to hook up with me again. I was married then but I was game. We got together and same thing. He stroked my cock twice and I blew a load the likes I hadn?t since I was young. There?s way more to this but I don?t want to go on and on.
Let's hear it CoHo
Yeah, coho - tell it all!
And there's that, too. I know guys and gals who were forced into it and it did not go well for them and they continue to carry the shame and guilt and the sense of betrayal and great distrust. But this is why we talk about this because if someone was "forced" in this way, being able to speak about it - and not get their ass kicked - can go a long way to get that monkey off their back and knowing that it wasn't their fault. They'll never forget it but to not be bothered by it? That always works. But any form of sexual abuse is just... some seriously fucked up shit.
In new zealand, in any case of incest, where the male can be blamed for it, the male will be blamed........yet when its two females or the older person is female, people are less likely to be as judgemental
I knew for years that my sister wanted to fuck my brains out, but it was not about sex, it was about security and safety for her. In her eyes, I would never mistreat or abuse her or use her the way many others would......and she was open about it, something that caused many people to look at her sideways and near immediately try and blame it on me because I am 12 years older than her, therefore it must have been me that wanted sex with her, completely ignoring the fact that she was open about the fact that I would not have sex with her........
As a woman, yes my sister was extremely attractive and desirable, and I was attracted to her, as a male....but people would twist that into * OMG, you want to fuck your sister, you sick perv * and that was BS I honestly did not need or want, plus its me that would have ended up in jail simply because I am male......
I have always used the rule of thumb which is most people would be fine fucking a family member or relation if they had no idea they were related, because it would be viewed as MM/MF/FF sex.... thats based on the cases of incest where two consenting adults have been in a relationship and in some cases having kids together, before they found out the truth, they were actually related.....and in NZ the cases of people that have no idea who their family members are ( father unknown / siblings that they did not know about etc), is on the rise......
The two females in my closed group relationship of my partner, another male and two females, are mother and daughter ( daughter is an adult and the sexual contact was started by her as an adult ) and in fact I had no idea for the first 6 months... but their reasoning is they are both tired of other peoples lies, abuse, mistreatment and games, they are two consenting adults that want affection, love, intimacy and sex.....
If things were different, would I have entered into a relationship with my sister if it was legal???? ahhh most likely....we were both pretty much estranged from the rest of the family and only had each other as family, there was mutual feelings....but both of us did need counselling and therapy, her for drug abuse and using sex as a form of self harm and self abuse, and me for a diagnosed neurological disorder, and ironically in a way, we were each others only lifeline, each others rock and safe place........
So yeah for me, its not always about sex when it comes to incest, tho in cases, yes its purely sex and pleasure.......sometimes its more about finding what we seek in another person, that we can not find in anybody else.......
The only thing more painful than a broken heart, is catching yourself in your zip and having very cold hands
Absolutely right. The discussion should always be open and accepting.
A man that wants his monogamous wife to fuck others. And to swap cock.
i have never had sex with a member of my family, but for some reason , i find it one of the hottest fantasies iv'e ever had. i have written to some of the men here ,who have had sex with their mom. it's not as rare as you might think. it all depends on the attitude of the mom while she raises her sons. nudity is always common , and liberal , and that eventually gives way to touching , and then sex. the guys have told me that they were never damaged emotionally , but have only fond memories of the good times they had. i bet a lot of you can relate .
@Long Duck Dong, my sister had similar sentiments about who she could trust and who would treat her right. When she had strongly suggested that we fuck - and a day or so after I ate her for my first time doing that (interesting story that I've shared here) - I was leery because all I could think about was our mom catching us and I might die. What convinced me was her saying that even though we'd often fight like cats and dogs, she trusted me and knew - and hoped - that I wouldn't be like the other boys who she let fuck her. I thought, "Well, okay, if that's how she really feels..." and verbally said okay and off we went to "consummate" our agreement. It felt right and wrong at the same time and, not to sound pornographic, but the way she moaned, groaned, and writhed under me "told" me that we were doing the right thing, well, until, oh, maybe a month or so later, I questioned if we were really doing the right thing and she uttered her "famous" words to me about it. She felt safer with me than any other guy so, yeah, I'd say that while the sex was good and very intimate, as the big brother, I had a duty to keep her safe.
there has been a few but my first time in the 70's i had the fastest car in town. and a guy from out of town came looking for me. didn't find me but when i found out i said screw it and went to his town. and pulled into their drive in and there it was a 70 boss 302 mustang. we raced and i beat him bad. but he spun bad or i think he may have beat me. but thats not why we are here. anyway went back to the drive in got my money. went to the restroom came back out and in my car was one OMG sexy little thing in my car. i kicked my friend out and her and i went and parked and fucked. i went back a few times and we fucked every time. then i met her dad. we laughed and i told him i already got tickets to the football game and i would tell her when we stopped to eat. but we didn't go to the game we went parking. and i was going to tell her. i really was. but she said she wanted to try something she never tried before. she wanted to try anal and she thinks i would take it easy with her. i think i was 16 and she just turned 15 that week. anyways not telling her anything until i get that ass. so i got in her and she was loving it. and i leaned into her neck and licked and kissed it and ask do you like it and said oh yes. then we got in doggie and i started riding her and it seemed the harder i rode her the more she liked it. i leaned over and licked and kissed her neck again and said i got to tell you something. well to somethings. one is i'm about to cum. she said ok and about that time i started unloading in her sexy little ass. she rolled over and i was young and still hard and slid in her pussy and kissed her licked her tits and neck and leaned in and said the 2nd thing is you are my cousin. the next thing i knew my ass was bouncing off the roof of my car. she kicked me off her so fast. we ended up fucking a few more times over the years. but it was never as good the night i told her.
When you are young that's one thing, because you are all growing up, likely curious and you only HAVE access to a limited pool of folks to play doctor with. If you are now a grown adult you have access to literally anyone else in the gene pool who is horny and interested.
It's a pretty popular fantasy judging by the number of videos on the pr0nhubs but it should remain a fantasy. If she's of legal age I can't tell you otherwise but I'll only say that young people deserve to be loved for more than just what their bodies can do.
If I wasn't taken advantage of at 7 I likely wouldn't have had to pick my self esteem up off the floor at 30. I was intensely curious before puberty, and a horny little hamster during .. but I didn't dare act on it because a few insecure, abusive men destroyed my ability to reach out and trust other men. I hated them as much as I loved and fantasized about them. Which is a shitty way to grow up. I am really fortunate in my adult life to finally find some decent male role models that helped me understand all stereotypes we grow up with are not real.
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Had a cousin had a reputation (deserved, but blown out of proportion) for being promiscous that I jacked off thinking about, but I'd never have actually done anything with her. No attraction whatsoever to any of my male relatives, though.
I sucked off a cousin several times
Never have myself, but I found out years ago a friend of mine that I grew up with .
His mother had sex with him and his brother for years and no one knew .
That's kinda crazy.
as I have related many times here my older cousin was first to suck me and me him then fucked me a lot that summer.. I also fucked his sister quite a few times that summer.. have been fucked by a couple other cousins over the years.. still see one ever now and again.. was fucked by my brother in laws and father in law for about 8 years while married to their sister and daughter.. the first time with them we were hunting deer and I was working my way down a ridge and heard noise in a draw.. so I sneaks down and there is my father in law getting a blow from his sons.. so I walk into the clearing and scared the shit out of them.. they were all naked and didn’t know what to do.. I liked what I saw and told them to relax and even went to my father in law and told him that he was going to fuck me.. needless to say they all three took turns and fucked me till it started getting dark so we got dressed and went to the cabin and spent the night getting fucked.. we didn’t get much hunting done after that.. I never left the cabin or even got dressed till we left.. hunting and camping was always very interesting after that..
If my first experience hadn't started out abusive I might have really liked it, but no "adult" ever did anything "inappropriate" with me, it was the kids man
The young girls and boys who would pull down their pants and show me, or have me show them, the horny boys who wanted me to sniff, or lick or touch something. The boy in the high school locker room who used to shower naked in plain view of the entire row, the other boy who up and kissed me right in front of everyone else there too, my best friend we used to dry hump because we had no clue exactly that sex was but we wanted to try it, my teenage uncle who wanted me to suck, the babysitter's kids in the back of the pickup where the boy wanted me to touch and lick him and his sister seemed to like to watch.
And you all crazy people who act like nobody has genitals, making me constantly want to stare at other people's crotches growing up because I was just fascinated by what could be in there .. as if i didn't know, but I was just amazed by all the different sizes and shapes, and the fact that it was so taboo.
And it was painful, having to tear down all of my foundational beliefs and rebuild them all from scratch - but I guess 40 years later I'm finally pretty happy with who I've become.
To start with I no longer believe that people are BORN bad, that's just ridiculous. Nor do I believe that you can ever be separate and apart from that which created you.
For many years I suffered, going around believing I was damaged goods, that nobody would want me. .
After much studying, reading, meditating, praying for healing I was very fortunate to have a tantric experience which I'll only describe as about 200% better than an actual orgasm. I went away on vacation and couldn't touch myself for about two weeks, came home and I denied myself masturbation one more time when I was really horny.
All that energy that would normally flow out during sex instead went inside. It was amazing to feel whole, connected and one with all of creation. To share love and gratitude, to nuzzle the energy, rather than the physical. To finally feel playful joy at my male side rather than the shame of not being able to live up to what I THOUGHT were other people's expectations.
It took every ounce of willpower I had to tame my ego, I certainly wouldn't recommend driving a car or operating heavy machinery while you are a human who feels whole, powerful and connected to all of creation.
Eventually the experience faded and was replaced again by the fuzziness and weight of the physical veil doing the job it was designed to do - but now any time I feel lonely, or stumbling, or unsure of myself I just think back to how it felt to be connected, whole and sharing love.
I suspect we are all a LOT more connected then folks like to admit.
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i know there is a lot of incest going on , but people are tight lipped about it. on this sight i have PMed a few guys who told me their whole story. they are fascinating . i never had any incest personally , but somehow i have always viewed it as one of the hottest things that i read about. i have talked to several men that had full on sex with their mother. that sounds bizarre to most people , but some people are just raised differently. their attitudes are different , not the norm. anyway , i don't know why , but these story are some of the most erotic things i have read. i'm not ashamed to say that i jack-off to them , because i can't help myself. so all you guys that have done it , PLEASE keep writing writing about it .
It's the thing that we, as a society, have always known about but we act like we don't or we hide our heads in the sand about it. It's the thing that gives parents nightmares because it is well known that kids experiment with sex... and not just with their peers and not always in the opposite sex way of things. The only difference between my sister and one of the other girls I'd have sex with was... she's my sister. Otherwise, she's a girl, a seriously horny and lusty one and, importantly, she trusted me to do right by her and I loved her for it. My brother was really just another guy but one I shared a bed and then a room with and not all that different from the many guys I had sex with. I know why the taboo is a taboo and it makes perfectly good sense but I've said it here a lot: My sister said, "As long as you don't get me pregnant, I don't see what the problem is..."
And she was right. All of my horny cousins? Still guys and gals despite being related to them. At the end of any day, it was having sex. For the fun of it or for deeper meanings. Just don't get caught. I got caught doing my brother and I survived it but the thing that stood out to me was... our mother knew all along and chose that moment to make us stop, which we didn't but that's not the point. I also realized that I didn't get the beating I had always expected because... she didn't catch me fucking my sister.
I would learn that it's one of the way a lot of kids wind up becoming bi and even gay; we always assume that it's forced and traumatic and oh, so, evil when that's not always the case but we wave the "very evil flag" at this and in the hopes that our offspring never get it into their heads to check each other out.
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My very sexuality came from my mom. My mom was a stunning woman, and one who I my opinion? had it all. Such big perfect tits, which I was always able to see in all their glory. She would walk through the house in her underwear always. And the best was when she wasn?t wearing her bra. I knew nothing else, I thought it was the thing moms did. I was caught a few times watching her as she got out of the shower. Such a beautiful body. I never thought anything about it as a kid. I enjoyed ever glimpse. That allowed me to be very comfortable with the neighborhood girls, showing themselves off, you know? the innocent things of youth. But also, as boys, we did the same with each other. I never hesitated the first time a friend showed me his cock. We sucked each other without any reservations. In fact, I sucked his younger brothers cock more than anything. I loved it. I was amazed the first time I was with one of their older brothers and he pulled out his huge cock. I can see it right now in my mind. I sucked that cock soooo much. Having him grind into my mouth was? normal. It just seemed right. Having sex with three brothers was something I?ll always love remembering. But later, as a teen, my mom showed a lot of attention to me. We kissed always, not passionately, but she made it a point that kissing was something normal. When I was 16 and was having sex with girls, I came the closest to having sex with my mom. Sitting on the couch one day, she came over and got on top of my lap, straddling me. She started kissing me, telling me how much she loved me. Pushing her perfect tits into my chest, then arching up and I had them in my face. My cock was soooo hard, and I was ready to have my mom fuck me on that couch. Unfortunately? dad came home and we were interrupted. I moved out a while after that, but always wished my mom would have fucked my brains out. I keep that memory with me always. I truly wish she had known so much earlier that I would have done anything with her.
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Judging by the million videos on pr0nhubs it's obviously a very popular fantasy, as a horny little hamster when I was young I absolutely wanted to do things with and to role models who gave me affection, love and support in other ways; my body was FLOODED with hormones, i guess it was a good thing i was introverted and painfully shy. I used to be angry with God for making me male but now that I think about i would have been oh so very young and pregnant as a female, I love attention and affection WAAY too much.
I don't have any problem acting that out with someone when they are mature, they have some sort of defenses to cope with the intense feelings that sex can bring, they have a sense of who THEY are, what THEY like, have some power and control over their own lives
Otherwise, all goes right, could be a wonderful experience, but if it goes wrong and they WEREN'T ready, it's like playing with fire, it could really mess with someone else's sense of self.
Of course it would be awesome to help someone explore if they are ready and willing, but people also deserve to be appreciated for more than just what their bodies can do. At certain times in your life you need to know you can count on people to give you unconditional love and support without any expectation or demand. For a good portion of my life sex was transactional .. you had to do this to get any sort of affection .. it's actually not a great feeling for a young person to deal with.
I would like EVERYBODY'S sexual experience to be as positive and healthy as possible, and I do think we could do a hell of a lot better socializing people if folks were just honest instead of trying to "motivate" people with fear.
Last edited by elian2; Jan 8, 2024 at 8:41 AM.
Talking to a guy on another forum about the fantasy involved in this and I told him that the reality is a lot more fun to experience...
It wasn't all bad, I wish things had been a little bit different growing up, because I really did have a lot of love, affection and hormones to share .. then again I know some guys who faced tougher challenges than i ever did with sex. i can't change the past so there's no sense in dwelling on it. I'm going to abstain from posting more on this thread because I don't want to monopolize the discussion any more.
Last edited by elian2; Jan 8, 2024 at 1:22 PM.
cforme , thanks for your story. i have always known that incest was more common than we think. even mom-son incest.
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She takes a contraceptive. She also really loves anal with a vibe on her clit. She is highly multi-orgasmic that way.
My first time sucking cock was my older cousin which went on for several months before his mom, my aunt caught us and joined which led to my first time eating pussy. I truly believe now that she knew the whole time I was sucking him as I found out she had been playing with him for years. This experience led to many firsts from sucking cock and swallowing cum to eating pussy you including her cum filled pussy from her boyfriend after her went to work or her son after her filled her; up to fucking her myself.
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