The Bi-Cycle

[SwingingCasanova]

So I was wondering do you any of you guys feel like your Bi-Cycle fluctuates depending on your mood? I feel like I can channel my, for the lack of a better phrase, inner straight and inner gay if I focus on why I find one gender attractive but I feel like it changes depending on...my anxiety I guess. Like during my religious days when I tried to deny my feelings for guys, the attraction grew. Now as I have struggled with insecurities over being attracted to women due to the fear of just "dong this for attention" my attraction to women grows. Who else feels this way?

[Jazminedress]

oh yeah, but in reality for me..................sometimes I want thai food, sometimes some kentucky fried chicken. Sometimes I want male company, sometimes female. Thats the cool thing, I have choices.

There are times I dress daily, other times once a week. Naturally I have things I like in men when I am focused on them, and things I like in women when I am focused on them

It's great being Bi, I dont really have any rules to worry about, I can seek companionship in anyone that attracts me, or, I can seek simple sexual satisfaction in someone I am attracted too.

[SwingingCasanova]

That's exactly how I describe it the way it does with food!

[SlowNEZ]

Rather than on-off, my bi-cycle is akin to a customized automobile: A masculine chassis and undercarriage with feminine wiring circuitry and sound system.

Although always present, occasionally the volume and intensity of the “female” components of my vehicle become predominant. Then my bi-antennae are way up.

[Neonaught]

That has never been the case with me. I am down to jump with either sex or both on any given day. I guess that is the blessing of be bi with a strong sex drive. At 57 I hope this last until 5 minutes before I die. LOL

[playful808]

When I was younger and inexperienced, I worried about this.
Now, I just the ebb and flow, enjoy it, sometimes surf it.
It all comes around again later on.

Kind of like watching my libido go down in the winter and up in the spring.

[Bi_Dave]

I thought I was the only one. I have a "Bi-cycle" like a woman with her period. It seems that I am just not interested about a week a month. Nothing about a cock turns me on during that time. I am only for the cock. Men don't turn me on. Weird, huh?

[RisingBi]

My bi-cycle definitely fluctuates. Some days, or even stretches of days, I am all about other guys, with my gay desires very strong. I just feel gay. Other days, or stretches of days, I just desire women. I rarely have both desires on the same day, and then they are only consecutive. I've never had them simultaneously. But I also have never had the opportunity for a MMF get-together, so I really don't know if I'm capable of desiring both at the same time. It's weird, right? Either my gay brain is active or my straight brain is active. I don't seem to have a bi brain. Online, either I like to look at naked guys, or naked women; I don't like MF straight porn that much, because my weird unipolar bisexuality gets in the way.

Except for the two times in my life where I've had a girlfriend (5 years on & off and 3 years on & off), when I'm alone it is mostly my gay brain that is active. And then I either do gay sex stuff online or in real life. When I'm out and about, seeing pretty women all over the place, it is mostly my straight brain that is active. Of course, when I've been naked with other guys in the locker room and showers at the gym, or in bathhouses and other gay sex venues, then my gay brain is naturally in mega-overdrive.

[Jazminedress]

My bi-cycle definitely fluctuates. Some days, or even stretches of days, I am all about other guys, with my gay desires very strong. I just feel gay. Other days, or stretches of days, I just desire women. I rarely have both desires on the same day, and then they are only consecutive. I've never had them simultaneously. But I also have never had the opportunity for a MMF get-together, so I really don't know if I'm capable of desiring both at the same time. It's weird, right? Either my gay brain is active or my straight brain is active. I don't seem to have a bi brain. Online, either I like to look at naked guys, or naked women; I don't like MF straight porn that much, because my weird unipolar bisexuality gets in the way.

Except for the two times in my life where I've had a girlfriend (5 years on & off and 3 years on & off), when I'm alone it is mostly my gay brain that is active. And then I either do gay sex stuff online or in real life. When I'm out and about, seeing pretty women all over the place, it is mostly my straight brain that is active. Of course, when I've been naked with other guys in the locker room and showers at the gym, or in bathhouses and other gay sex venues, then my gay brain is naturally in mega-overdrive.

A MMF, you so gotta try, and if the guy is Bi, and she is open...........................its incredible

[bi_data_nerd]

Great way to put it!

[Cum1st]

I always desire women, but being married with a messy history of chasing skirts keeps me at bay.

As for men, there isn't a time when I wouldn't jump at a safe chance, but my longing goes up and down.

[RisingBi]

A MMF, you so gotta try, and if the guy is Bi, and she is open...........................its incredible

Thank you for your response, beautiful! I know, it really is something that I should explore. But it's a little tricky for me, because it has to be with another single man and a single woman, because I don't play with attached people. It's just my thing. For right now, I think I would just like to get together with a single guy, and I'm looking to do that in the next couple of weeks actually, after having been in contact with a few guys. I haven't been with a guy in almost 4 years, because I ended up having a girlfriend for three years. It was a rocky and painful relationship, so I'm just cock and male ass hungry right now. But in time I am open to taking your advice, which of course would be so easy if I didn't have that one rule: there are a bunch of married couples in my area that have contacted me to play with them. Alas....

[Grant_Norman]

I will go weeks not thinking of bi sex at all...then I'l go weeks wanting to suck cock or be fucked almost every day. Seem to be on a 2 month cycle. Right now just coming off a non-bi phase and starting to think and want some M/M action really bad.

[Jazminedress]

Thank you for your response, beautiful! I know, it really is something that I should explore. But it's a little tricky for me, because it has to be with another single man and a single woman, because I don't play with attached people. ....

I can respect that, for me it was the husband who brought up the issue. They decided and were able to give sex and emotion apart. They had done MFF, MMF , and it was something they enjoyed in their relationship. THe nice thing about a couple, the awkward what to do we do thing isnt there. They relax easier as they are a team with the rules.

[KDaddy23]

I've spent pretty much my whole life riding the bi-cycle; some moments it's all I can think about... and some moments it's literally the last thing I might think about. I think because I got on the train early, I had time to figure this out and, at least for me, it's somewhere between whatever mood I happen to be in and my mind/body telling me, "You need sex... and dick is what you need!" Okay... that made sense to me or, even simpler, sometimes I feel like it, sometimes I don't. Then I stopped paying attention to it. Dick opportunities come up... and the whole thing gets simplified in my mind: Do I feel like it? Yes or No? If yes, we're getting naked and doing something; if no, well, thanks for asking - maybe some other time.

That "some other time" could be five minutes later... or days later. I like sex with men so why don't I always feel like it? Because I just don't. I've done my share of having sex with guys when, in truth, I really didn't feel like it but, okay, most of the time, it turned out well anyway; those are the times when I'd say to myself, "I didn't feel like it... but it's sex and I do love sex." Besides, um, I found it difficult to "not be in the mood" when a guy is sucking my dick... or I'm sucking his. Still, I learned that the desire for sex does tend to fluctuate depending on my mood - mostly. Is it something to worry about? Found out that it's nothing to worry about because it's normal. I tell people that I'm bisexual all of the time and I don't have an "off switch" for it... but sometimes I don't think about dicks... because I have other things on my mind, other things to do, you know - everyday kind of stuff. For me, the important thing about the bi-cycle is that I have a good understanding about myself, how my moods do, in fact, flip-flop all over the place and pretty much all of the time. But just because I'm thinking about dick and/or pussy pretty much all of the time doesn't really equate to feeling like having some and like sometimes, I don't want fried chicken for dinner - I want spaghetti or anything other than fried chicken... but if fried chicken is what's readily available, okay - pass the hot sauce.

Then it's all about enjoying the fried chicken and I don't see a reason why I shouldn't enjoy it even if was the last thing I was thinking about.

[foundpuppy]

Mine is monthly. Really hard to care about anything else.