what are people counting as their first sexual experience with the same gender?
I've been masturbating with guys since I was a kid so I counted the first time I did that, as I see it as a sex act.
what are people counting as their first sexual experience with the same gender?
I've been masturbating with guys since I was a kid so I counted the first time I did that, as I see it as a sex act.
So have I. Actually I was giving my best friend oral when I was 12.Originally Posted by DiamondDog
First time I had sex was with a guy, I was 15.
First time with a woman 19.
Me thinks this is a wicked question. Cud'n resist typin' summat.
Like most of yas I wos jus a wee girl. We played docs an nurses an hubs an wifies. Wosnt always wiv girls so spose 1st hetro experience was playin' that 2.
Wos 6 wen me Ist rememba kissin' a boy properly. Bit afta had a 1st snog wiv a girl. Jus fun an don think we had a clue wot we wer doin'. Harmless fun we thought.
Not sayin' wen me 1st proper bi experience wos cos its none of ya biz!!! All me will say it wos a revelation an made me realise that the funny feelins me had 2 ward girls wer more than jus me goin' through a phase. Wot we did is also none of ya biz. Dun me kissin an tellin an am doin no mo. May not sound like it but Fran is all growed up now an' wot we dun in the past an wiv who is summat we should keep 2 ourselves. Tis gr8 fun remembrin' tho an sumtimes we hav regret for yummie past an sumtime cos we hurt folk. Sumtimes a bitta both.
Don' regret nethin an wudn change how its turned out. Cept mayb do regret hurt me caused but thats cos me aint a heartless cow but dun that 2 guys as well. So wud change that.
luvs yas all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Do not think so little of me as to grant me your tolerance. Allow me your acceptance and understanding of who and what I am with the love, respect and dignity with which I do you.
Not afraid to kiss and tell.
Not counting Drs and Nurses, which I actually gave a way at about 5, I was just a few weeks shy of my 34th birthday when i first savoured the nectar of another woman.
never looked back.
Re: How old were you??????
As a child playing house, I always want to be the man and I touched my best friend around the age of 9-10. I was in high school when I got my first taste of the sweet nectar from my cousin's wife and have enjoyed it every since. I have had many opportunities to have sex with women, but I only made love to one at the age of 43 this year, it has been the best yet. Married for 22 years and he knows.
Good question smonique, thanks for the ride down memory lane.
Like so many of you I went through the playing husband and wife games as a kid. I am not sure that can be classed as bi experience however. What I do know is that my first real experience was when I was much too young, under the legal age and long before I was ready for it. However much I wanted it to happen - and I did so much. It caused me a lot of guilt, stress and pain, and that continues to this day. Please don't misunderstand. I am happily bi, but it was both a wonderful experience and a trial to me, and it has personal repercussions that resound to this day.
First time with a guy was I was 13..my friend and I used to sneak nudie mags. We started by j/o together,,then ended up giving each other a hand then before ya know it ,,,lol. We were doing that stuff until we found girls.
I started back up again with guys in college and have been on and off again ever since.Who says you cant have it all
First time with a girl-19
First time with a guy-27
I was 8, and it was with my cousin, also 8. We would hide behind the school for privacy. It was nothing more than dropping our shorts and playing with each other's cocks as we kissed. He was the agressor, but I liked every minute of it.
As I recall, neither of us was old enough to get hard yet.
I was 11 or 12 at a sleep over at a friends house. It was with his older brother. We kept it going on and off for a few years, then stopped.
My first time with a guy was when my best friend and I were about 8 or 9. He slept over one night and we were changing clothes and for some unknown reason started rubbing our cocks together. Then he grabbed mine and I grabbed his and we started jerking each other off. I dont recall it getting really hard but it was a little firm. Then we licked each other. He moved away at age 10 or 11 and we didnt see each other until 9th grade and we stayed the night together again and we were laughing about what we did when we were little and before we knew it we were taking each others clothes off. We really got into it together and that was my first time actually giving and getting head.
My first time with a girl was the day I started driving(16).
First time with a girl was at 16, it took a few tries before anything really happened. In the beginning we just touched and looked and it took a few months before really intimate sex to occur.
Lisa
hugs n kisses
My first male-to-male contact was when I was 45.
I did see my cousin masturbate once as a young teen, but that was not "sexual". I do recall being somewhat amazed, as my equipment didn't do that yet, even though he was only a few months older.
Dave in NJ
I do not feel that pre-pubescent activity counts. Fast forward to age 30 and have a m/m oral experience, well that is my story!
For myself if was when I was about 27 or so. My wife when she was 25
I was 13, had a m/m with my best friend. We were both curious, just learning, didn't know much. Started with show me yours and I'll show you mine. Moved on to touchy feely then you do me and I'll do you. Neither wanted to be first so we did a 69 even tho we didn't know that at the time.I fell in love with doing him and did it every chance I got. We are both married now, 31, and I still see him a couple of times a month.
Re: How old were you??????
I was 10 or 11 My best friend and I were in the bathtub together, she was spending the night. I loved those nights. I haven't since then, that's why I'm bi curious I want to experience it again.
I was 14 and my first mm full-on sex was with a male nurse in a hospital.But was "practice" kissing boys in my neighborhood at 10.
How old was the nurse?
My first with a woman was 12 and she was 16. I'll never forget that!!
I've never had sex with a man (I'm a man) but, I remember at sleepovers with my friends (male) there were masterbating sessions that I was asked to join in (too embarassed to do so) but man did it turn me on to watch! That was from say, 10 to 15 years of age. I'm still waiting for my first time.
well I started experimenting when I was about 11 m/m but really didnt get into it till I was about 13 and then it was kind of sporadic with a select friend at that time I started messing around with girls also occasionally by 15 I was fully into anal and oral and occasionally until completion and was bi all the way till I was 22 and then something else drove me into the closet so to speak for the last decade or so and am desperatley longing to be Bi again
First time m/m at 51
First time with a woman.....long before that
36. And wow!
I was 12 and he was the boy next door. We masturbated each other regularly until one day I ejaculated on his hand and he thought I peed on him!
He joined the Marine Commandos. Don't know if he ever had any more man-on-man action.
After that, nearly all my fantasies revolved around oral sex with another man and it was another 28 years before I actually did it. Since then, I've had a regular set of male buddies and one very long-term totally hot female buddy. Oh, and I'm married too.
At present, my male contacts just outnumber my female ones, but the instances of sex with women far outweigh those with men.
Why cut off half the population from your attentions!
I was 11 when I had my first M/M experience, the first of many!!!!!
I was 22 when I had my first f/f experience, with a woman who was much older than me. It developed into an...interesting relationship.
I realised I was bi when I was about 12, was already getting erections sneaking looks at pics of my dads porn, but a visit to a public toilet covered in gay graffitti made me realise that I liked the idea of men as well.
Didn't actually touch, or get touched, by another man until my early 20's when I got a bj in a public sauna.
First m/f I was 29, and had been getting my relief from cottaging and the like prior to that. Did, at first, find that once I'd cum I wanted it over and to get away, but that urge died over the years.
When I moved in with my gf the urge to see men faded for a few years, I was getting regular sex without worrying about someone walking in on us, but after a while I found myself needing that contact every so often.
When we broke up I spent most of the next 3 yrs on my own, discovering the net, but despite having a place to myself I only had one mm encounter there, a bloke in his 30's who'd never done anything with a man before, and all that happened was we watched each other j.o.
I met my present female partner via the net the best part of a decade ago, she knew from the start that I'm bi but generally prefer women, and we have had sexual experiences with other bi men, and a bi m/f couple.
Just at the moment I'm able to sit down and rationalise my feelings about my bisexuality without it being arousing, but I know that I'm coming up on the phase where I think about it a lot, cybering and camming online with other men, and then in a couple of weeks that will fade and I'll be more interested in women again.
Hmmmmm I recall when I was about 7, me and this gurl I played with got "curious" and touched each other. But the 1st real time was 14!
I lost my virginity at the age of twenty-three....in an incomplete threesome with Tom and Jenn. Didn't get very far due to my dear gay male friend walking in on us.
Awkward...but I knew I was on the right track. I'm 33 now, still figuring my whole sexual palette out and have yet to find a companion...swaying back and forth in my attractions...bi men, MMF or FF.
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