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  1. #1

    Free time

    Finally today i have some long overdue alone time... always someone around and scant privacy in our small home limits my personal fun time. But this morning everyone left so I went to my stash and picked out my sexiest black panties, pulled them in place and slid into my work jeans. I then went to find my nipple chain which I cinched nice and tight on my nips and stood swaying back and forth as the weight of the chain stimulated the sensitive bits. It has been quite some time since I have had any adult interactions so I've been pretty horny of late. I stood there in the doorway feeling the slight pressure on my nips and the feel of my jeans against my skin not covered by my hi cheek panties.. I usually prefer a full panty but today was different.
    I had asked my old project buddy down the road if he would come help me move some stuff around on the property this week... he seemed really glad to hear from me and said he was looking forward to seeing me. Now in my perverted mind I thought for a moment about his rather large cock and wouldn't it be nice if he were so inclined.. how great would that be? We've been friends for probably 30 years or more but have never gone there.
    My cock swelled as I pondered the possibility of him casually mentioning something perhaps from one of personal ads and how he had recently been considering an alternative since he, like me, has been in a sexless marriage for some years now. Then we end up fucking each other silly....
    Alas... kinda doubt it but it was a nice little fantasy though. Just wanted to share and wish you all a great weekend.

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    Without the fantasies, many of us (myself included) would have nothing...

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    Indeed... I ended up playing with a couple of toys and finally rode the stickshift of my car to a rather nice finish. Always wanted to know if i could get the knob to fit and it did, quite nicely once I got stretched out. A nice fat cock would have been better but sometimes we just have to make do with what we've got.

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    I have a friend who's been my closest buddy since the mid-80s. Great guy. We've enjoyed time together watching football, were longtime members in a hobby club, and a couple of other pursuits in areas that we both enjoyed. When either of us needs a hand with something or a favor, we're there for each other.

    He's been divorced and mostly without female companionship since the early 90s. He's got a classic male 'dirty mind', and has made innocent jokes about sex, young women and blowjobs many times over the years. He loves porn, but is very selective and goes for the 'high end', expensively-produced, straight porn. No doubt, he'd love to be sucked - regularly - but by a beautiful woman.

    Although I wouldn't characterize him as a 'hater', he's made enough casual references about gay men, that I know he would be aghast to know that I love to not only wear feminine lingerie, but that I also dress up for other men and gurls, and love to pleasure them by sucking their cocks.

    It would be great to have him as a suck buddy, as well as a dear friend. Our Sunday football games would be much more fun during the fall! And my wife wouldn't mind. Since I'm allowed to play, she'd be completely comfortable knowing that I was enjoying a friend that we've both known for decades. I'd love to give him regular blowjobs.

    But I can't risk it. I'm 99% sure that approaching him about this would destroy our friendship. I don't think he'd hate me, but I think he might be frightened away. This is one I don't even fantasize about, because I seem to work too hard at making fantasies come true. Gotta stay clear of this one.

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    haters sometimes hate to cover up what's deep inside. i have a friend like that. they would probably really like man/man sex ,but would flip afterwards

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    Quote Originally Posted by whistle1 View Post
    Without the fantasies, many of us (myself included) would have nothing...
    You are right, because that about all I can get because it is so tough to find anyone! So many on these sites just like to get on when horny and chat, claiming to be serious but truly have NO real intentions of ever meeting any one, just BS to get off, and once they get off, they are GONE, never hear back until they get horny again, but too late then because they gotten added to the BS list! Bull shitter or Block Sender list!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by silkyhoselover View Post
    I have a friend who's been my closest buddy since the mid-80s. Great guy. We've enjoyed time together watching football, were longtime members in a hobby club, and a couple of other pursuits in areas that we both enjoyed. When either of us needs a hand with something or a favor, we're there for each other.

    He's been divorced and mostly without female companionship since the early 90s. He's got a classic male 'dirty mind', and has made innocent jokes about sex, young women and blowjobs many times over the years. He loves porn, but is very selective and goes for the 'high end', expensively-produced, straight porn. No doubt, he'd love to be sucked - regularly - but by a beautiful woman.

    Although I wouldn't characterize him as a 'hater', he's made enough casual references about gay men, that I know he would be aghast to know that I love to not only wear feminine lingerie, but that I also dress up for other men and gurls, and love to pleasure them by sucking their cocks.

    It would be great to have him as a suck buddy, as well as a dear friend. Our Sunday football games would be much more fun during the fall! And my wife wouldn't mind. Since I'm allowed to play, she'd be completely comfortable knowing that I was enjoying a friend that we've both known for decades. I'd love to give him regular blowjobs.

    But I can't risk it. I'm 99% sure that approaching him about this would destroy our friendship. I don't think he'd hate me, but I think he might be frightened away. This is one I don't even fantasize about, because I seem to work too hard at making fantasies come true. Gotta stay clear of this one.
    probably smart not to try anything with ur friend. even if he would be into it u might risk ur friendship, though based on the guys here it would be a good chance u2 would have the best of both worlds but seriously a good friendship is worth so much. it doesn't seem he's a homophobe so that's very good, just very not into guys. which is fair.

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    probably smart not to try anything with ur friend. even if he would be into it
    Yeah, exactly the conclusion I came to.

    I think the ideal situation is to become friends through a satisfying bisexual connection. I've played with another guy several times, and we get along well -- before, during and after cock time. I'm not looking for a 'new best friend' or a relationship, but I really don't like the way most guys who contact me seem to lack communication skills, or just can't be bothered to expend a little effort in getting to know each other on a minimal level -- especially the 'you must host! guys, who are very prevalent on hookup sites. I'm not about to invite someone into my home without having first having substantive discussions to establish some kind of comfort level.

    I especially hate receiving the equivalent of 'Let's fuck' messages, and canned messages that can be sent at the click of a button. On Squirt, there's one that says "I checked you out. Get back to me and we'll see what happens." How about telling me, briefly, what it was about my profile that caught your attention, and why you think we might be a good match? You don't have to write a book, but sell yourself a little.

    There's one guy there who has written to me several times, always with the same come-on: 'Hey sexy, wanna play today?' Maybe he customized his canned message to read that. I wrote back -- politely -- one of the first times he sent that, explaining that I'd read his profile and the several reasons that I didn't consider us to be especially compatible, but he's tried two more times since then.

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    i have never fantasized about any of my male friends. just can't bring myself to do it. which i know is fine. kinda like u i would like to get to know a guy from the beginning as a bi guy who would be open to doing things with me, but would also have some kinda relationship with me outside of sex. like a fwb but some kinda actual friendship with the benefits. not into the idea of anonymous sex. sometimes i get msg's online from 'let's fuck" guys. so because i have a heartbeat they expect me to drop everything & spread my legs, or them spread there legs for me. i will not feel comfortable getting naked with a guy unless i chat with him 1st see what kinda vibe we got.
    Quote Originally Posted by silkyhoselover View Post
    Yeah, exactly the conclusion I came to.

    I think the ideal situation is to become friends through a satisfying bisexual connection. I've played with another guy several times, and we get along well -- before, during and after cock time. I'm not looking for a 'new best friend' or a relationship, but I really don't like the way most guys who contact me seem to lack communication skills, or just can't be bothered to expend a little effort in getting to know each other on a minimal level -- especially the 'you must host! guys, who are very prevalent on hookup sites. I'm not about to invite someone into my home without having first having substantive discussions to establish some kind of comfort level.

    I especially hate receiving the equivalent of 'Let's fuck' messages, and canned messages that can be sent at the click of a button. On Squirt, there's one that says "I checked you out. Get back to me and we'll see what happens." How about telling me, briefly, what it was about my profile that caught your attention, and why you think we might be a good match? You don't have to write a book, but sell yourself a little.

    There's one guy there who has written to me several times, always with the same come-on: 'Hey sexy, wanna play today?' Maybe he customized his canned message to read that. I wrote back -- politely -- one of the first times he sent that, explaining that I'd read his profile and the several reasons that I didn't consider us to be especially compatible, but he's tried two more times since then.

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    Indeed, finding a partner can be disheartening sometimes. Ideally I'd like to meet a guy with common interests who can actually communicate beyond relaying their desires. It's hard enough maintaining contact till you can work out a meet.. then the question of whether they will show up. Two guys in the last two weeks have contacted me, the first couldn't answer a simple questions with more than one word and the second communicated with me twice before disappearing into web world.
    I guess I'm like most, I just want to find one regular with similar kinks who also just wants one regular.... yeah I know, odds are against me but hey, at least I have a goal.

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    "i have never fantasized about any of my male friends."
    I haven't really fantasized about any of my male friends, either. I only mentioned the one as a result of contemplating the the premise posed by the original poster.

    It also makes me think of another longtime friend, who once told me the story of riding somewhere with another friend, and the two of them were asked by if they wanted blowjobs. My friend was really grossed-out at the thought and probably considered himself lucky to return home safely. This was back around 1970 or so. I wonder if his attitude has changed?

    He never married, didn't date much that I know of, and now lives alone. He remains a good friend, although I don't see him often. I also don't fantasize about him, but, I'd love to blow him!

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    similar experiances with me online, 1 word answers i can barely tell what they want, or just stop answering after awhile at all. sometimes but it's rare. a guy will say he's not interested. at least i respect that & it's kinda relief cause i know.
    Quote Originally Posted by friskyous View Post
    Indeed, finding a partner can be disheartening sometimes. Ideally I'd like to meet a guy with common interests who can actually communicate beyond relaying their desires. It's hard enough maintaining contact till you can work out a meet.. then the question of whether they will show up. Two guys in the last two weeks have contacted me, the first couldn't answer a simple questions with more than one word and the second communicated with me twice before disappearing into web world.
    I guess I'm like most, I just want to find one regular with similar kinks who also just wants one regular.... yeah I know, odds are against me but hey, at least I have a goal.

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    Back when I first started searching the internet for sites like this one, and developed this and a few others as the places I came to talk with other guys--I had really good results in not just meeting online--but doing so in the real world.

    I got with a number of people on here and at other sites--but in the past year or so---things have surely changed and now----it seems damned near impossible to meet anyone for even a casual "hook up," let alone actually developing a friendship and sexual hook ups.

    It is that way at all the sites that have long been my sources of meeting people that are still existing--a few have gone away in the past few years.

    The internet no longer seems to be so good anymore. Seems like all there is on the internet now--is a bunch of nasty, cranky, hatefilled people.

    When it comes to hook ups---you either get those who with their first message to you are messages like "let me come over and drain your dick dry" or "I am going to come over, you be naked and ready for me to fuck you"

    Yeah--like I am really gonna go with either sort of deal. Talk to me first and lets get to know one another.

    The other thing you do get---you do talk some---and make arrangements that they are finally going to come over--BUT THEY NEVER SHOW UP when they say they are coming and you expect them.

    CRAZY!!

 

 

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