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  • Yes, and I hooked up

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Thread: Gay Bars

  1. #1

    Gay Bars

    Have you ever gone to a gay bar?

  2. #2

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    When I was single, I used to frequent the predominantly gay area of where I was Milwaukee. Heading to the gay bars a few times a month. Hookups were pretty regular.

  3. #3

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    no but i would love to go to one and get picked up and a guy or guys take me to his place for a good pounding

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    i've gone to a few gay bars. no intention of hooking up, just went with a group of friends who wanted to go where there was good dance music. no guy ever hit on me not even in the bathroom. i don't really go out to clubs or big bars anymore that's probably the main reason i wouldn't go to a gay bar now. there aren't any corner gay bars around here anyways. in a small way i'm kinda against gay bars. why should hooking up with the same sex be limited to only a few places we should all feel free to go after anyone regardless of gender. i know, a guy hits on a toughguy homophobe he gets the shit beaten out of him. that shouldn't happen. not interested, no thank u, move on. simple!

  5. #5

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    I've been to two gay bars, but both were before I started playing with guys. Both were on business trips. The first was in San Francisco and I had dinner with a customer. He wanted to go bar hopping after dinner and we went to a couple of bars, one decidedly a gay bar.

    The second was in Milwaukee. Another dinner and since it was my first time there I let my customer pick the place. He had already pinged my gaydar and it was pretty much confirmed when we went to this place nearby. Definitely a gay bar/restaurant.

    If I knew then what I know now, I think both nights would have led to something

  6. #6

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    Yes I have, many times. And, yes, I have hooked up from them. The best one was when I was living in California and a guy told me online that he could be found late afternoons in San Francisco's most prominent bar for bears, etc. I went there, and as soon as I stepped into the place I knew who he was, and within minutes knew that he'd be fucking me. We hooked up several times after that and he always pounded the hell out of me with his beautiful powerful thick hairy body and beer-can sized cock.

    But, having said that, I've also always felt that I didn't really belong in gay bars and that most of the guys there weren't really the guys for me (nor me for them). Frankly, even though most places were plenty welcoming, I always felt like I was at someone else's party. Like I was being a fake and messing with people who surely didn't deserve to be messed with. As a primarily hetero-oriented bisexual I've generally felt more comfortable hooking up online or at various sex cruising spots, and have generally felt more attracted to and comfortable with the guys I met that way.

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    one time seven years ago i went a bar but did not know it was a gay bar at the time had 1 drink as i was leaving this well dress man me to meet him outside found out we were staying in the same motel nextdoor to each other he asked me if i was gay i said i was bi and he said want to go to my room and have a few drinks so we unded up doing a 69 and then we fucked each other 1 and only time i was in a gay bar

  8. #8

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    Quote Originally Posted by sysper View Post
    i've gone to a few gay bars. no intention of hooking up, just went with a group of friends who wanted to go where there was good dance music. no guy ever hit on me not even in the bathroom. i don't really go out to clubs or big bars anymore that's probably the main reason i wouldn't go to a gay bar now. there aren't any corner gay bars around here anyways. in a small way i'm kinda against gay bars. why should hooking up with the same sex be limited to only a few places we should all feel free to go after anyone regardless of gender. i know, a guy hits on a toughguy homophobe he gets the shit beaten out of him. that shouldn't happen. not interested, no thank u, move on. simple!
    Much like with you--the only time I ever have gone to a gay bar---was with a group of friends--often to go because they were great places to dance. Back in college when I tended to do it--it was because I worked as a bartender in an upscale steak house and we had a series of places that we would go to party after we got off work in "after hours" places that stayed open all night long.

    One of them was also one of those country western themed bars that opened up, this was after the movie Urban Cowboy came out and places opened up to replicate Gilly's from the movie---so we would either go to a gay night spot, this big country bar or a few hole in the way divey places to drink and such.

    I never got hit on then--at that time I was not interested in that. I was only dating cute little "college coeds" as they used to call college girls then.......I was only interested in pussy then, not cock.

    These days---I hardly if ever go into a bar anymore since I don't drink much. The only reason I go into a place now that is mostly a bar---is because I have gone there to see some musical group or solo performer do a show.

    Not really interested in going into a place to try to hook up with someone---female or male----

  9. #9

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    We started going to gay and lesbian bars with friends after we started doing volunteer work at gay pride events. Everyone there knows we are married, they know we are both bisexual and they totally accept us. You would be amazed at the questions they can ask because they are curious about bisexuals our thoughts, what motivates us, how we might find someone more suitable than another person to have a relationship with. It is a totally different community but once we were accepted (which didn't take long) we preferred our gay and lesbian friends over most of our so called straight friends.

  10. #10

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    I have been to one true Gay Bar in the area, let's put it this way, I was so under prepared that even with my then "GirlFriend" with my at the time, I couldn't get laid to save my life.. I loved it, but looking back, it probably would have only been a few minor changes, but haven't been back since.

  11. #11

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    Back in the day, my swinging ex-wife and I lived in a small city in the deep south. There were no mobile phones or internet or swing clubs then, but there were 2 gay bars downtown. Gay bars were the only game in town not just for gay men and lesbian women, but for swinging couples and bisexual men and women as well. We'd cruise str8 bars hoping to get lucky with another couple or bi man, but when we had no luck, we'd barhop over to the gay bars up the street. We scored quite a few times with other married couples and bisexual men and went home together. The downside was that we weren't always welcomed by the gay men and lesbians there. There was friction at times because they felt we bisexuals were invading their space. But all in all it was fun and exciting to cruise the gay bars

    Now many years later I'm still bi, but I enjoy being with and having sex with gay men as well as bi men and women and couples. It's puzzling and a bit ironic that I live in the suburbs 20 miles from te heart of a huge city (Atlanta GA) and there are no gay bars within 15 miles of me. In my younger days I wouldn't have gone alone to a gay bar, but now I'd love it if there were an openly gay bar in my immediate vicinity. I'd go fairly regularly to hang out and meet likeminded men or mm couples or women or mf couples, although I sort of doubt that I'd meet women or swinging couples at a gay bar these days.

  12. #12

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    interesting how a gay bar became kinda catchall for all lgbt people. guess it makes sense. but i don't see how bi's would be invading a gay bar if there goal is to leave (with someone or 2 or more) anyway lollll. sounds like at 1 time, that was the closest thing available. actually i'm surprised there were gay bars in a small city in the deep south in the past or, ever. was there a stigma with going to a gay bar back then? i guess if ur a mf couple it could be an alibi lol. glad we're getting more relaxed as a society about being involved with the same sex though we still have far to go.
    ur story kinda reminds me of a local m2f trans women who died sometime ago. in the news article it said she subscribed to alot of underground porn magazines because, like u & ur ex wife didnt't have a bi or a swingers club to go too, this was the closest thing she had at the time (70's) for her.

  13. #13

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    Last year I was out with a new (to me) girlfriend. After dinner we went across the street to a bar for a few drinks. The place was rockin', lots of people all having a great time. After 15 minutes in the bar, I realized we were in a gay bar. My GF laughed out loud when I pointed it out to her "Wow! you are quick on the up take!". Everyone was great, we met alot of great people, and I got hit on way more than I would have expected. It was a blast. I went back after I dropped her at her car, and coming in alone I got hit on even more ( why I don't know lol). It was fun, but I left alone. I'm am not into anonymous hookups. Much to risky.

    Going to a gay couple of bars in Philly a few weekends from now with a different girl friend for dancing. Cant wait.

  14. #14

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    Sadly there was a great gay bar in Danbury Ct., which has since closed. It always was a good time...

    To say that the Halloween party was over the top with great costumes is an understatement.

  15. #15

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    There's nothing wrong going out with friends to watch with them in a gay bar but recently me and my friends discover this gay porn sites here http://freesafeporn.com/ and since then we don't have to go out.

  16. #16

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    I always go to bars. But i always prefer into gay bars. If not going into bars, I always watch the best pay gay porn sites http://bestpaypornsites.com/ for my satisfaction.

  17. #17

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    I went into a gay bar one December evening. I had a drink or two at the bar. The place was quiet, a few people that appeared to be regulars by the the barkeep talked to them. I wasn't hit on, didn't hit on anyone either. It was uneventful.

  18. #18

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    Its funny, every time I'd go to a Gay Bar, when I would meet a guy, in the course of the conversation, I would tell them that I'm Bisexual..(just being honest) They would really become
    cold to me. Oh well...

  19. #19

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    I've been to several for a variety of reasons. Some just to hang out, some to hookup(never successfully) and a couple of times for Tans night - Yes, I got dressed up for those.
    I have always had a good time and will go back.

  20. #20

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    Yes I have. Like being around like minded folks.

  21. #21

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    I've been in a couple. Went once with my now ex-wife just to check it out. Went to another one just to see what was there and with the hopes of connecting with someone. Didn't happen. Would I go back? Well, I've had better luck at normal bars and restaurants.

  22. #22

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    One time I was in a Gay bar outside of Danbury Ct. where I used to go to. I turned around and there was one of my co-workers. I thought I was going to die...He walked up to me and said "so you are here to get a Bj, too?" I just said yes, and walked away.

    A few days later we saw each other, and we both acted as if nothing had happened.

  23. #23

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    Never been in a bar, let alone a gay bar, for me the guys there be way too "out" for me for I am extremely discreet

 

 

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