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  1. #1

    Am I bisexual or what?

    My first real sexual contact was with a male friend in 7th grade. We were at a sleep over and when the other friend was asleep he felt me up. I enjoyed it but felt bad the next day until he called and told me he was home alone. I went down to his house and we started looking at a girlie mag and soon we were jerking each other off. We kept this up for a year or more then I got a girlfriend that did the same and I stopped with him.

    For the next 3 years I was seeing lots of girls and having sex off and on. I had done nothing gay until a man I worked for kind of seduced me into him sucking me off. A little alcohol was involved and it was the first time I ever came in someone's mouth. It was extremely enjoyable, but it never happened again. I was in 11th grade and very confused about why I let that happen.. Never again I thought.

    Then at 18 I had been dating a new girl and she kept leaving me with blue balls. One night after a shortened date with her I ran into my old friend who I hadn't done anything with since we were 8th grade. He had beer and wanted to go park and drink it, I figured he might make a move but thought at worse I would get a handjob and maybe have to give him one. Well he did make a move and I let him fondle and stroke me a while, my pants around my ankles. After a while I felt bad for him and reached over to reciprocate. He immediately pulled his pants down and when I felt his dick I was surprised at how big he had grown. I kept looking at it in the moon light and his was much larger than me.
    It made me even more excited, I had never been attracted to his penis before I had only done stuff with him for the pleasure I received. I was overcome with the desire to suck his dick out of nowhere. When I did go down on him he was very surprised and excited, he stopped me after a minute wanting to suck mine. While he was sucking me all I wanted was back on his. I told him if I finished first I would lose interest so back on him I went and I finished him. I expected it to taste bad but it didn't so I swallowed. He finished me in like 15 seconds and did the same. Then he started kissing on me and I let him a little but told him it didn't feel right. We continued to do this for the next 5 years without our friends finding out.

    Fast forwarding he found a guy that was fully gay like him and moved on. A couple of years later I married, never having any gay contact after him and never sought it or thought about it. I figured it was over. Then two years into my marriage my wife and I somehow ended up in a MFM, long story. We were high and drinking but not out of control. I found myself again attracted to the guys penis. It was also a lot bigger than mine. That combined with my wife orgasming like I'd never heard her I was more excited than I had ever been in my life. I could touch my penis, it was dripping precum while I watched them fuck. I came immediately as soon as my penis touched her pussy, hardly got inside. The next time I saw him when he came back in town he started talking about that weekend and rubbing his dick through his jeans saying he was going to have to jerk off after talking about it. I told him to go ahead and he pulled out his dick. I got hard looking at it and I guess he could tell asking " do you want it?" Long story short, haha! Sorry I went down on him, three times that weekend at his parents house. Then it never happened again.

    i have met two other guys in the twenty years after this I was attracted to sexually. Nothing ever happened but I did make plans to meet with one of them. The plans feel through.

    So in fifty some odd years I've had sex with three guys and now that my wife doesn't want sex anymore I find myself wanting to revisit that lifestyle. People online are always asking how bi are you? 90% hetro 10% gay, you know, like that. Can anyone help me in determining this?

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    I would say so, sound so simpler in some aspects to me.

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    I guess you mean sounds similar. I curious to hear how people were introduced into trying bi. I was so young I first did it because it felt better than jerking off.

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    It was my ex wifeasking if I would suck a cock for her. We were on the way home from swinging with a couple and she had gotten her pussy eaten buy the other women.

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    Sounds to me your 50% strait, 50% gay, 100% bisexual.

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    So do you think I'm heavy on the woman side due to the stigma? I mean I've been with 60-70 different women and two guys.
    i had lots of opportunities with guys when I was 18-22, they hit on me all the time. I never moved on any, they all couldn't have been not attractive. I wish now I would have explored that side of me more. I think maybe the act of a guy hitting on you was so surprising I didn't know how to act. I had a random memory just now about being in a small club listening to acoustic music with a date. She kept telling me a guy had been staring at me all night. When I made eye contact with him he smiled and I smiled back. She asked me once we were back in the car if I was gay. When I asked why she said " gay people can tell and that guy was way in to you" I just laughed. He did seem gay when I saw him walk by later. Wonder if she would have been into a MMF?
    im going with 80-20 until convinced otherwise..

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    I would not worry about percent but what feels right.

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    Jo---don't worry about trying to quantify "how gay/straight am I/?"--that is the bullshit that both the hetero and fully gay "worlds" try set as something written in stone.

    Just like it that you can appreciate what each gender can offer sexually and don't let anyone else label you or label and restrict yourself---just be thankful that you have had such experiences and enjoy them if and when they happen in the future....

    I can best summarize my view on this: "FUCK THE PARADIGM!!"

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    I am 36 and have in the past 4-5 years seemingly "bi-het" I don't have goth and androgyny on my team though.

    My mom came out after I was outed AND dragged to school. I wish I wasn't

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    look you are bi there is no percent if you like doing it with both sexes just means you are bi

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    Quote Originally Posted by 12voltyV2.0 View Post
    Jo---don't worry about trying to quantify "how gay/straight am I/?"--that is the bullshit that both the hetero and fully gay "worlds" try set as something written in stone.

    Just like it that you can appreciate what each gender can offer sexually and don't let anyone else label you or label and restrict yourself---just be thankful that you have had such experiences and enjoy them if and when they happen in the future....

    I can best summarize my view on this: "FUCK THE PARADIGM!!"
    Spot on!!

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

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    Joboo , Hi there, we too-too often hang heavy LABELS around our necks and it is not given to all to be at ease with the Labels. The main thing is, are you at ease with it? Has it hurt you or someone else? Enjoy your life and remember, you are not the label, you may have given it to yourself or someone else gave it to you. You are a person with feelings that are no one's business but yours. I call myself a bona fide cocksucker, others call me str8, then others call me bi, others call me gay and still others call me evil, my sons call me dad, and the last is the one that I ascribe to the most.


    This is me, Séamus

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    Label dont really mean anything. I say im bi cuz i love doing things with both sex. I really enjoy suckin a dick and reciving the wonderful cum that comes out.

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    I know people say labels don't matter, and between us here it doesn't, but they do to others. If you told a woman you were gay, why would she show any sexual interest in you? If you told her you were bi, she's know you liked both men and women and she could make a decision if she wanted to get involved with you. The same if you say you're straight.

    As for how bi you may be, I've heard guys describe themselves as "one woman short of gay", meaning they are married or otherwise in a relationship with a woman but if they weren't, they'd have no interest in women.

    I guess the best way to judge is to think about what you would do if your wife/girlfriend was no longer in the picture. Would you date only women? Men? Anyone?

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    The PC thing has gone too far, permeating every facet of our society. Enough already. You wanna know what I think? We are bisexual because we like sharing equally. 2 men and a woman, 2 couples, whatever. All involved suck dick, lick pussy, swallow, etc. I always thought that made all concerned feel better, like not being left out at various points? I always thought sex brought people closer together somehow? At least friends of some kind? I'd like you fucking me while I lick wife's pussy...all the while your wife sits on here face getting licked herself. And all enjoy it. Share and share alike always seemed logical to me?
    Never met a dick I didn't like! Got dick? No? Come get some!...

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    women will allways be a part of my desires. whether any would want me is another story :| for me women make more sense to be with more seriously than men. no interest in dating a guy. but it doesn't mean i'm not open to other things
    Quote Originally Posted by Christopher South View Post
    I know people say labels don't matter, and between us here it doesn't, but they do to others. If you told a woman you were gay, why would she show any sexual interest in you? If you told her you were bi, she's know you liked both men and women and she could make a decision if she wanted to get involved with you. The same if you say you're straight.

    As for how bi you may be, I've heard guys describe themselves as "one woman short of gay", meaning they are married or otherwise in a relationship with a woman but if they weren't, they'd have no interest in women.

    I guess the best way to judge is to think about what you would do if your wife/girlfriend was no longer in the picture. Would you date only women? Men? Anyone?

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    I am 60 years old. I am bisexual. For years it was hard to come to terms i liked cock as well as pussy. I finely knew I was a cock sucker and a bottom. With guys its eaw sex. With women its more lovely.

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    Quote Originally Posted by Joboo View Post
    I guess you mean sounds similar. I curious to hear how people were introduced into trying bi. I was so young I first did it because it felt better than jerking off.
    I was in my mid 40's and the internet was just evolving. There were message boards where you could download whatever for free! I'd always been into str8 sex, but while searching this internet thing using dialup AOL, I started searching alternate sex to see what was out there. From that point on str8 sex porn was boring. I gravitated towards bi and gay sex and started lurking around gay chat rooms. Finally one day I felt brave enough to actually engage someone in a chat and told him I was a newbie and he said he was also. We agreed to meet and he came over and it was so weird but I dropped to my knees without hesitation and pulled his shorts and briefs down to his ankles and immediately put his cock in my hands , and on my lips, then took him all the way into my mouth until he came. I've been hooked ever since. I've actually tried to stop, deleting any accounts, saved email addresses and such, but have always come back.

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    Like others here, one day I also felt brave enough, to actually engage with someone, in a chat and told him that I was new at this and he informed me that he was also new to this life, but he knew that he wanted to try, to suck a cock. We exchanges information with each other and we agreed to meet and he came over to my place and soon we were both stripped naked. We both reached out and fondle each others cock and we both were soon rock hard. He suggested that I sit down, in a chair and he said that he wanted to suck my cock. I informed him that he was the first guy that, ever touched my cock and I was not sure, if I could reciprocate, by sucking his cock and he said not a problem, as he dropped to his knees and without hesitation and he quickly reached out and jacked me off, a bit and soon he saw some of my pre-cum, on my cock and he placed the tip of his tongue on my cock and licked it all off. Soon, I felt his warm moist lips, around my cock, as he started to suck is slowly, and before long I felt my whole cock, in his mouth and as he increased, the pace a bit, as I could feel, my juices stirring inside me and I informed him that I was about to cum and he said he wanted me, to fill his mouth, with my warm cum, and said he wanted to swallow my man juices. Soon I was having one of my best organism, as he was able to swallow my warm load, but unknown, to me, he had saved a some of my cum in his mouth, as he stood up and kissed me, I could taste some of my cum, as we both enjoyed, frenched kissing and sharing, my warm cum, with each other. I was spent and exhausted, but I then told him that it was my turn to do him, as I quickly dropped to my knees and soon, I was sucking his cock, much the same way he did mine and yes I did, swallow each and every drop and we became good friends for awhile, before he was transferred, away to a new location. I would have to say that I have been hooked, ever since that first cock. Although, I still enjoy sex with females, I do still crave, sucking a cock, so I would say that I am bisexual!
    Last edited by Fred_Brice; Sep 19, 2017 at 9:19 AM.
    Understand, life is but a short Journey, people must try to experience and enjoy any, and all, of various sexual opportunities that they can, while they are able to! The lasting memories can be great!

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    I had always had husbands suck me, guide me into his wife, etc. Never thought I was bi. Then in my early 30's my girlfriend got me to suck a younger friend during threesomes and I started getting hard. I sucked him even after we broke up and asked him to come in my mouth the last time. That was long ago and I haven't done it since, but I had to call myself bi after that, for sure.

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    Yes you are bisexual.

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    I knew I liked looking at cocks and buy nudist magazines to see them along with the ladies. i could get just as hard looking at the men's cocks as looking at the nude girls. When my sister's bf took my hand and placed it on his crotch, and then asked me if i wanted to play with it. When I nodded yes, he took it out and told me to kiss it. I only kissed it once because the rest of the time i spent feeling that softness in my mouth. I was definitely a bisexual.

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    I knew at 8 or 9 that something was different with me. I jacked off all the time and I fantized about all the bigger, older men’s cocks that I saw in the showers. I dreamed of sucking them. When I finally sucked my first cock, still around 8 or 9, I knew instantly that I was born to suck cock. I loved the way older men would smile at me in the showers, knowing I wanted to suck their cocks. Somewhere around 11 or 12, I started having oral sex with the daughter of one of the guys I was sucking and loved pussy. Neither knew that I was playing with the other.

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    Very similar to my first experience sucking a dick. I had never even imagined and definitely never desired to, but once his thick cock was in my mouth I knew I wasn't stopping till he came.

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    I remember at around the same age when I would swim at the downtown YMCA. Guys would walk around naked and that was very new since I'd never seen a grown man naked. Haha! I would try and sneak a peak at all of them but when I would see a big one it really got my attention. It didn't have a sexual effect, just so curious to see dicks. Especially big ones.

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    Quote Originally Posted by Joboo View Post
    I remember at around the same age when I would swim at the downtown YMCA. Guys would walk around naked and that was very new since I'd never seen a grown man naked. Haha! I would try and sneak a peak at all of them but when I would see a big one it really got my attention. It didn't have a sexual effect, just so curious to see dicks. Especially big ones.
    I think there is no doubt! You are bisexual and luv cock. Welcum to the club.

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    Don't worry about labels. Find people you enjoy spending time with and do what you feel like doing.

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    when I was in my early 30s I began going to a park and let guys give me oral sex I loved it I was married so I would feel guilty but after a few weeks I would do it again after a while I began to give head to guys too I really enjoyed these times as the years have gone by I never stopped . as of the last year I met a man of color we meet go to a vacant room where he works he opens his pants I fall to my knees and pleasure him I have been doing this for 7 months now two times a week and want to suck more than two days he never touches me I think I am more gay than bi now should I be ashamed or enjoy the times while I have them I do not know what to think.

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    Re: Am I bisexual or what?

    Jo, I think you are a Cocksucker, with a scosh of penis envie. I too, am very much like you. I just don't have as much experience. I adore my Wife who would do anything for me. I choose to stay away from my desire to suck a big fat cock cause I know how intoxicating it would be. The bi tag represents (to me) that you may also like all the other "stuff". I noticed you said you didn't want the kissing and you hadn't indicated anal desires. So I think you're a dude that occasionally (or when you see a big cock) likes to suck cock! Welcome to the world of Cocksuckers!

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    Sorry I didn't reply sooner, that was very erotic. I can recall how my playmate and I escalated to oral at 18. I always felt when younger I was only jerking with him because it felt better than doing it yourself. I was very confused at 18 when I saw how big he had become and how I was drawn to suck him. He's the only one I ever sucked but I must have done it 12-15 times a year for 5 years. There were times I would just crave sucking him. Never even though about doing someone else. Now that I'm older I think back to it often.

 

 

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