Dealing With Age And Erectile Dysfunction

[bw299]

Talk to the doc. You don't knee to reveal you mess with men, he's a pro at dealing with ED and older men. That 50% of urologists business, the other 25% is vasectomies. BTW Have you tried Cialis? If not, you should. That shit works for me! An implant is far off. There is a shot you can take, also.

softheart if you had read all my posts, particularly my most recent, you would know that Cialis hasn't worked for me and that I have been consulting with my urologist.

I recently had a TURP (Trans-Urethral Resection of the Prostate) procedure done and that has improved blood flow to my penis. I am able to get semi-erect with Viagra (it takes a full 100 mg dose) and my erection keeps improving. The implant is off the table so to speak. If, once I have fully healed from the TURP procedure, my erection isn't adequately restored to allow penetration, then we are going to look at directly injecting Tri-Mix into my penis. Time will tell. But there is hope where once there was little.

[carlsachs]

You may want to try those herbal types that will help you with your problem. I heard that Maraton works well. You may also want to try Ginseng or Rhodiola Rosea. They work quite well for mild cases.

[Tight1-4u]

I had the same problem.. but always preferred bottoming to being top.. so total bottom it is and I must say that I love being sub bottom..

[curmwm57]

Sounds like you and I are in very similar situations other than the part where male partners are losing interest. Don't really have any...

I talked to my doctor and he prescribed Viagra on a trial basis (shit is expensive!) That didn't really work so tried Cialis. Although it seemed to work better, really not good enough. I actually bought a hollow strapon in hopes it would suffice, or at very least spark and idea in her head to fuck me with it... That didn't work either...

Right now I am at a loss...

Good luck my friend.

I am 61 and never thought I would ever be in this position. In my younger years I was a sexual dynamo. I loved everything to do with sex. My cock was average but nice; 6" and cut with a nice, mushroom head. I've always been a grower; my cock would shrink to 2" until called to action, then grow to a full-length, rock hard erection. I could get off multiple times a day and could control my orgasms. I would give up nice loads of cum and could do it repeatedly. In the past two years I have had medical problems and now find myself having difficulty performing sexually. Now my cock shrinks back into my pelvis and I'm lucky if I can get a 2", mediocre, firm erection out of it. Orgasms come with a great deal of work and difficulty, if at all, based on my ability to achieve a firm enough erection. If I can climax, my cum load won't amount to a 1/2 teaspoon. I have tried all kinds of stimulation; Viagra, Cialis, pornography...nothing seems to help. I feel doomed to being a sexual misfit and the thought of it is having a seriously detrimental effect on my male psyche.

My wife and I have had to find alternate ways to stimulate and satisfy her sexually. But she is also feeling the adverse effects of my sexual dysfunction. She loves to suck my cock, but my cock no longer responds to her stimulus. She loves to fuck, but I haven't been able to get a substantial enough erection to penetrate her in almost a year. We are both frustrated.

I love sucking cock, and most of my regular male partners would like to reciprocate. But I can't perform for them, either. Some are starting to lose interest in me because they can't fulfill their need to satisfy a man when they're with me.

I am starting to get depressed over this. I am considering going to my Urologist and discussing penile implant surgery.

I'm wondering if any other members have had or are having similar experiences and can relate to my situation. And, of course, I am open to any suggestions that any of you may have.

[TXLonestarTX69]

Okay, from the medical profession...

Diet, exercise and a healthy lifestyle are key. Followed by hormones. Guys go into "pause" as well. Not menopause, but andropause. Ever had your hormone levels checked? Baseline should have been 30 years ago at your age. Are you fat? If so, get active and get thinner. Does your diet suck? Learn to eat to live and not live to eat. Not only ED, but most every modern-day "disease" can be controlled the same way. They are all man made and can be man controlled.

See a physician and you will be a slave to pharmaceuticals. I know because I am a physician. Most of us suck. It's on you.

[BeauKnerr]

If I were Jewish, I would certainly become mohel so that I could perform circumcisions. I hear the pay is great and that you get to keep the tips.

[BeauKnerr]

On a more serious note, failure to launch can be caused by any of many factors, physiological, pshychogenic, or both. When you're young, getting a boner seems simple, but in fact, it is a very complex process with many steps. Break a link in the chain and you've got bone malfunction. The PDE5 inhibitors address one physiological link in the chain, but one which seems to be a problem for many men, because they are effective in a large percentage of men affected by ED. It sounds like you may have another issue, although you might continue to try the drugs while you sort it out. If/when, you are able to sprout wood again, the drugs may give a boost to ensure that it is "good wood". Lol

If you're on meds, do the research on which of those might cause low libido or interfere with sporting bone. One starting point may be to have a comprehensive lab test done to check your various hormone levels. Instead of wasting my time and $ on doctor's visit just to have him order them, I have often ordered my own (for various issues) to determine if I even need to see a doctor, and if so, which specialty. They're not cheap, but probably not much more expensive than the price of an office visit and doctor-ordered labs, depending on your insurance coverage. Also, if you have a flexible spending account, you can purchase these tests with tax free money. Below is a link to the one I've used. In fact, I'm about to have this one done again since I have extra FSA funds. I would probably add prolactin, since elevated levels of that can throw a wrench in your boner gears. There is a lot of good research and information on the web, so do your research and try to eliminate potential causes, so that you can narrow the focus if/when you finally see a doc.

https://www.privatemdlabs.com/lab_te...4&search=#2116

[BeauKnerr]

Oh yea, and in the event that you enjoy a little drinky-poo a lot, that's a good place to start. Men of all ages are familiar with an acute case of whiskey dick, but long-term heavy drinking can sideline your dick even when you're suffering through an episode of sobriety. The good news is that research has shown that this is generally reversible with abstinence, unless of course you've been rallying so hard that you've developed permanent damage to nerves, your testes, etc. Yea, alcohol is toxic to your balls. Hey, I'm a drinker, so I'm not judging. Just sayin'... : )

[mike r]

I can't medically take Viagra, am waiting for new insurance to approve testosterone and waiting on the mail for a penis pump. Nobody can say I'm not talking the issue...

[Spiro]

I have use edex a few times. It is true the hardon lasted four hours the first time, but you can lower the dose to get it to last less than an hour. As to giving myself an injection in my dick, very strange. Also the medicane must be kept in the refrigerator

[mercury69]

I too have found the problem OLD cock. I used Viagra for a while but it wasn’t very consistent so now I’m using Trimix-mix and it seems to be doing the job so far but either of those things needs mental help for the stimulation to of the cock to want to get hard.