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    regrets about trying bi?

    lately i see alot of talk about how hardly anyone has regretted trying bi & u regret the things u haven't done more than the things u have done & yolo etc. i assume most of u have had experiance with both sexes & wherever u stand now u don't regret u had those experiances. as u probably know i have never been with a guy but i have been very curious. has anyone here ever regretted experementing with the same sex, or i guess if ur more into the same sex, if u tried with the opposite sex? maybe a 1st experiance gone bad? was it because of the gender of the other person or something else? what made u decide to try it again? kinda wanna see what range of things i can expect once i have the chance to try it for the 1st time but, i also wanna understand all of this better, my sexuality & sexuality in general, what to make of the experiance. not that i'm looking for reasons not to try lol. thanks for anything u can share with me!

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    I think "regret" for trying something new is a misplaced emotion. I do have regrets, but they seem to be limited to those times when I failed to try something new when given the opportunity, and those times where for some reason I caused hurt or pain to someone else. Not really about exploring bi issues to me.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    The only regret I have is not trying it sooner. I didn't suck my first cock until my late 30s, with my first wives encouragement.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    never had any regrets Just enjoyment
    I don't suffer from insanity. I enjoy every minute of it!

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    No regrets experimenting with either sex. Experimentation leads to knowing one's self; likes, dislikes, limits, boundaries.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    I have No regrets about becoming Bisexual..... If anything, I feel sorry for the people who, for what ever reason have had Bisexual urges,and never explored them...

    The last 20 years have been better than the first 30, just because I have explored for my true self.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    No I have no regrets at all. Like many I wish I had done more, faster.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    No regrets for me. And what's the worst that can happen--you decide you don't like it? It's only a rumor that a scarlet "B" appears on your forehead the first time a straight guy sucks a dick. I've probably tried hundreds of things that I found out I didn't like. Not much of a problem.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Being a lesbian I am often asked whether I regret my years as a bisexual most of which I spent actively so. A few years married and spent monogamously interrupted those activities. Put simply no.. I have no regret.. not in the least. I had a ball, especially in the years leading up to that marriage. Sure there were both guys and gels that were less than they could have been as human beings and sexually but whatever our sexuality we are likely to have people like that in our life and our bed. That I ceased to enjoy sexually both genders is in some ways regretted for I remember the fun I did have, but if I don't fancy I don't shag... some come to bisexuality as they go through their lives.. some leave it behind. Mine is long gone and my sexuality moved on, but I serpently have no regrets whatsoever for the years spent as a bisexual person.
    Do not think so little of me as to grant me your tolerance. Allow me your acceptance and understanding of who and what I am with the love, respect and dignity with which I do you.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    My only regret is not being more open about my sexuality. Only one straight person knows I am BI, and we are married. There are a lot of BIs or gays that know I am BI. I am not out telling everyone I am BI, but if it comes up I am not going to deny it anymore. If I were more open I am sure I would have had a lot more lovers.

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    my regret is I did not let guys do me when I was younger

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Quote Originally Posted by monaohio View Post
    my regret is I did not let guys do me when I was younger
    LOL why is that? I'm on of those that did start out younger. I don't regret it but would appreciate the other perspective

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Being more open about your Sexuality can be a Double Edged Sword . . . Not too many people that I have come across have been receptive to Male Bisexuality...

    On the other hand, I heard of a story where a woman confided in a co-worker that she was Bisexual, and litterly the next day , female and Male co-workers came up to her asking if they could have sex with her...

    Personally, I am open about my Sexuality to only a very few people that I trust...

    Quote Originally Posted by rajones View Post
    My only regret is not being more open about my sexuality. Only one straight person knows I am BI, and we are married. There are a lot of BIs or gays that know I am BI. I am not out telling everyone I am BI, but if it comes up I am not going to deny it anymore. If I were more open I am sure I would have had a lot more lovers.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Quote Originally Posted by csreef View Post
    Being more open about your Sexuality can be a Double Edged Sword . . . Not too many people that I have come across have been receptive to Male Bisexuality...

    On the other hand, I heard of a story where a woman confided in a co-worker that she was Bisexual, and litterly the next day , female and Male co-workers came up to her asking if they could have sex with her...

    Personally, I am open about my Sexuality to only a very few people that I trust...
    The only people that know I am bi are the people with whom I am involved. If I were to come out it would be devastating to my career. I think my family would handle it, but definitely not my career. An no, I am not clergy.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    nope no regrets about taking the dick.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    some. now it's almost a craving for male/male contact. If i'd never started, I'd still be curious, but would I be so distracted by it, like I am now?

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    I have wondered the same thing; as I always seem to read stories of first-time encounters that were great. Once in a blue moon, I will hear how an encounter did not go well, for whatever reason. That apparently did not stop the person from continuing with their bi activities however.

    I think you have to know the type of person you are. Can you do something, not like it and say "Oh well, at least I tried." or are you the type who would try something, not like it and say "Oh God, I feel miserable for doing that"?

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    No, I don't regret trying bi. In fact, the only regret I have is turning 65 as a widower. Not much happening since then.
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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    thanks so much everyone for ur responses & encouragement!!! i'm so glad i found a website where we can be frank & ask about what kinda things get us off but also, step back & have intelligent conversations. so i get a big "no regrets!!!" from pretty much everyone, that's what i was expecting lol. a way to explore urself & ur sexuality which is good. if any regrets regretting not trying sooner. also something i was expecting. definately fell that myself.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Quote Originally Posted by Fzmr9t View Post
    some. now it's almost a craving for male/male contact. If i'd never started, I'd still be curious, but would I be so distracted by it, like I am now?
    there are times i get pretty distracted by it & i havent' done anything, so my guess is u might still be distracted anyways lol

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Quote Originally Posted by darkeyes View Post
    Being a lesbian I am often asked whether I regret my years as a bisexual most of which I spent actively so. A few years married and spent monogamously interrupted those activities. Put simply no.. I have no regret.. not in the least. I had a ball, especially in the years leading up to that marriage. Sure there were both guys and gels that were less than they could have been as human beings and sexually but whatever our sexuality we are likely to have people like that in our life and our bed. That I ceased to enjoy sexually both genders is in some ways regretted for I remember the fun I did have, but if I don't fancy I don't shag... some come to bisexuality as they go through their lives.. some leave it behind. Mine is long gone and my sexuality moved on, but I serpently have no regrets whatsoever for the years spent as a bisexual person.
    u allways got such thoughtfull responses it's helpfull u showed how u treated bisexuality through ur life to where u are now. also glad to hear a female perspective on it too, i think it's important to hear from both sexes & understand it better.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Quote Originally Posted by whistle1 View Post
    I have wondered the same thing; as I always seem to read stories of first-time encounters that were great. Once in a blue moon, I will hear how an encounter did not go well, for whatever reason. That apparently did not stop the person from continuing with their bi activities however.

    I think you have to know the type of person you are. Can you do something, not like it and say "Oh well, at least I tried." or are you the type who would try something, not like it and say "Oh God, I feel miserable for doing that"?
    u bring up some real important points. i'm sure there are stories when an encounter didn't go well but it made the person realize it isn't for them. it's hard to find though, probably not gonna find them here lol. so it would be interesting to hear stories where a 1st encounter was bad & some stories where they decided to try it again & some where they didnt. i usually say "at least i tried" when i try something new & i don't like it. with gay sex if i tried it & i didn't like it i would feel the same way on some level. but i can't help but feel i might also be grossed out to some extent if i did something that was so against my sexual orientation. but i won't let that stop me from trying

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Now that my wife knows and enjoys my bi side my only regret is not involving her sooner. Our sex life after 30 years of marriage is once again super hot. She loves to participate as well. Seeing her 110 pound body getting pounded by our big cocks is a huge turn on. We enjoy teaming up and she and I love sucking his cock together sharing the reward. It is truly awesome.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Quote Originally Posted by sysper View Post
    u bring up some real important points. i'm sure there are stories when an encounter didn't go well but it made the person realize it isn't for them. it's hard to find though, probably not gonna find them here lol. so it would be interesting to hear stories where a 1st encounter was bad & some stories where they decided to try it again & some where they didnt. i usually say "at least i tried" when i try something new & i don't like it. with gay sex if i tried it & i didn't like it i would feel the same way on some level. but i can't help but feel i might also be grossed out to some extent if i did something that was so against my sexual orientation. but i won't let that stop me from trying
    Anal. Tried it, both ways with male and giving to female, didn't care for it. Don't regret trying it, but it just didn't do anything for me.

    Now my 1st wife use to do me with a small vibrator while she sucked me and I loved that and so did she. She did not care for receiving anal, either.

    No regrets.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    I only have two regrets:
    First one is not returning the favor when a guy sucked my cock when I was 15.
    Second is the last guy I was with smoked and had the nastiest tasting cum I can imagine. I could taste his cigarettes it it. yuck.. Non-smokers only from now on.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Being bisexual is not something that you "try". A person either is bisexual, or they are not and are gay/lesbian, or heterosexual. A person can be a complete virgin to both sexes/genders and yet they are still bisexual. Now if you are wondering if either myself or my husband had regrets having gay/bisexual sex with the same gender/sex or heterosexual sex with the opposite sex/gender the answer is no.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Quote Originally Posted by hung4you View Post
    Now that my wife knows and enjoys my bi side my only regret is not involving her sooner. Our sex life after 30 years of marriage is once again super hot. She loves to participate as well. Seeing her 110 pound body getting pounded by our big cocks is a huge turn on. We enjoy teaming up and she and I love sucking his cock together sharing the reward. It is truly awesome.
    Sounds like the makings for a good Porn Movie. . . Hint, Hint

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Quote Originally Posted by sysper View Post
    u bring up some real important points. i'm sure there are stories when an encounter didn't go well but it made the person realize it isn't for them. it's hard to find though, probably not gonna find them here lol. so it would be interesting to hear stories where a 1st encounter was bad & some stories where they decided to try it again & some where they didnt. i usually say "at least i tried" when i try something new & i don't like it. with gay sex if i tried it & i didn't like it i would feel the same way on some level. but i can't help but feel i might also be grossed out to some extent if i did something that was so against my sexual orientation. but i won't let that stop me from trying
    You obviously know what kind of person you are and know that you would likely have no regrets. That is a great thing.

    I think I might be more the second type of person...

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    Quote Originally Posted by pole_smoker View Post
    Being bisexual is not something that you "try". A person either is bisexual, or they are not and are gay/lesbian, or heterosexual. A person can be a complete virgin to both sexes/genders and yet they are still bisexual. Now if you are wondering if either myself or my husband had regrets having gay/bisexual sex with the same gender/sex or heterosexual sex with the opposite sex/gender the answer is no.
    i understand u can know ur a certain orientation without any experiance. and i think some people here suggest i genuinely like guys, like them more than i let on. more than a passing curiosity. maybe u see more than me. that's fine i can accept that. but i still have some confusion about my feelings & somethings i just won't be sure of untill i have the experiance.

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    Re: regrets about trying bi?

    thanks for the vote of confidence i think a very important thing for u, me too, is to find a guy u can trust. someone who understands where ur coming from & will be helpfull & supportive. so if u dont like it he will accept it & do his best to focus on the fact u dared to try something different & now u r clearer on things, rather than reminding u u played with his weiner lol.
    Quote Originally Posted by whistle1 View Post
    You obviously know what kind of person you are and know that you would likely have no regrets. That is a great thing.

    I think I might be more the second type of person...

 

 

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