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  1. #61

    Re: how do women see bisexual men?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lisa (va) View Post
    The best reply would be it is all dependent on the man and the nature of interaction with them, relationship? friends?
    I believe it would be much easier for a woman (of any sexuality) to be friends with a bi man than to have a romantic/physical relationship with the same individual.
    On average, a woman does not want anyone infringing on their territory, man or woman. Right or wrong bi men (in general) have stereotypical rap of promiscuity and lack of trustfulness. Some have mentioned the possibility a person may wish to have same sex encounters in a private setting with out an audience. Some may find certain things enticing and intriguing, but not all fantasies transfer over to reality
    Lisa, hugs n kisses
    I do believe, that you are right on point that most women, especially, the younger and less experienced woman, involving most relationships, does not want anyone, infringing on their territory, either a man or woman!
    Understand, life is but a short Journey, people must try to experience and enjoy any, and all, of various sexual opportunities that they can, while they are able to! The lasting memories can be great!

  2. #62

    Re: how do women see bisexual men?

    Many years ago, I had a long term relationship with a married bisexual woman. She was married to a bisexual guy and they had an open marriage. She had a smokingly hot body and beautiful blue eyes. She loved to suck and swallow and she had the wettest, sweet tasting pussy I ever ate. We had intercourse ocassionally, but we both preferred oral sex. She was fine with her husband having sex with other guys, kind of fit with her liking to eat pussy sometimes. She didn't know I was bisexual until she invited me to her house the first time. She met me at the door and I entered to find her husband and another gal. What followed was one amazing evening of sex. Bisexuals are the best!

  3. #63

    Re: how do women see bisexual men?

    i'm willing to give any notion of any other person, male or female, for the right women. but yeah that's not gonna happen so feel free to bend me over boys & have fun with me
    Quote Originally Posted by Fred_Brice View Post
    I do believe, that you are right on point that most women, especially, the younger and less experienced woman, involving most relationships, does not want anyone, infringing on their territory, either a man or woman!

  4. #64

    Re: how do women see bisexual men?

    Hey Sysper,

    I've not been around in what feels like forever, but I saw this and thought I'd respond with my own two cents.

    I think a lot of it depends on what a woman is looking for in a relationship. If she is just looking for sex or for a good time, then yes, I can totally believe she may be open to appreciating the general openness to sexuality that a bisexual man can represent. Of course that isn't universal, and bigotry works at lots of levels, but I suspect a woman, regardless of her sexuality, may be more appreciative of bisexual men if she is just looking for fun.

    On the other hand (and again, I think probably regardless of sexuality), if she is looking for a committed relationship, then I suspect she'll be much less likely to be open to the positive aspects of male bisexuality. The stereotypes are that bisexuals lie and cheat, that they are actually gay but in denial, or that they "switch sides"...and all of these (though destructive and baseless as descriptors of bisexuals in general, of course) are destructive to a long term relationship.

    Why the double standard in women vs. men, then? Women in this society are comparatively vulnerable. We have this tendency (sometimes wanted, sometimes unintentionally) to get pregnant...and then there is this baby to provide for, and it's harder to do that alone or with constantly rotating life partners. So when women are looking for a stable partner, the stakes are much higher than they are for men...and so even if they find the idea of two men together exciting (and I have no idea how many do), they may find it difficult to want to flirt too closely with those fantasies. Men, by contrast, have the luxury of being able to be less threatened by the idea of two women together, and so they can be more likely to indulge those fantasies, and even pursue them actively.
    I hope my achievements in life shall be these: that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need...that I will have left the earth a better place for what I've done and who I've been. (C. Hoppe)

  5. #65

    Re: how do women see bisexual men?

    I dated a girl when I was 17 - 19 and the sex was amazing. She sucked cock so good despite being a teenager. Reason for it; a very high sex-drive and she absolutely loves cock.

    Around 22 I realised that I had feelings for guys beyond that of just being best mates. I carried on seeing girls and guys too for a few years.
    One summer aged 25 I bumped into the girl. Still very attractive and after chatting for a little while was evident that she still had a high sex-drive, constant innuendo.

    I told her that I was bisexual and that I had met a guy, talked about him and turns out she knew him. Exchanged numbers to keep in touch and off we went our own way.
    Got home later that night and spoke to the guy I was seeing and mentioned I'd bumped into this girl and he was like "oh, ah yes... I know her".

    Few days later she texts us both asking if we would go for dinner with her. We said yes and two nights later had dinner with her in a local restaurant.
    Food was lovely and drinks were flowing... Soon enough conversation turned sexual. She asked me "who sucks cock best, me or him". The answer was her but I was going home with him so I said "He does". This was like setting her a challenge. Not sure how we got there but she had invited herself back to our place. More drinks and a few hours later, both he and she are sucking my cock. They were almost competing. The night was insane and we all had a great time. She sucked us both off at one point with both cocks in her mouth at once. We did DV, DA and DP. he was fucking me doggy style whilst I was fucking her. She (and we) loved it.

    In the cold sober light of day few weeks later, I ask her what that was all about and how did we get there. Basically wanting to know why a straight female would be entertained by two gay (albeit bisexual) guys.

    She simply said, and I love it still. "I love cock and whats better than one? Two!"

    In conversation she had said it'd been a fantasy of hers to have gay guys fuck her and her watch them fuck each other. She said that when she masturbates with porn that is mostly male gay porn.

    We continued to see each other, all three of us, for about 2 years. It was real, safe and clean fun.
    Last edited by NeilThomas; Sep 28, 2017 at 6:25 PM.

  6. #66

    Re: how do women see bisexual men?

    annika thanks for ur response! u brought up some good points. if people go by the assumption bi's are not stable partners i agree, bi guys do not look good to be in longterm relationships/marriage. i'm sure there are bi guys who wouldn't wanna give up both sexes but, i'm sure there are also guy who would be with just the 1 right person too. i think women should take that into consideration, but also be open to trust a guy if he says i do regardless of his sexuality. unless he's totally gay i guess but then why would he be saying i do to a women lol! this is something i didn't really ask but i'm glad u brought it up it kinda goes with what i'm asking anyway. anything i can learn i'm open! my original question was closer to ur 1st point. i was wondering if women were really unattracted to bi guys. like how many think they are less attractive or less manly because they like guys too. u seem to think it's not a bad idea & i know ur opinion isn't necessarily every women's opinion but it's good to hear from actual women cause i wanna understand how they think or at least know how to behave with them. or not behave lol

  7. #67

    Re: how do women see bisexual men?

    neil so glad u were with a women who had a high sexdrive & she appreciated male bisexuality! sounds like a unicorn. sounded like a great time! but it doesn't sound like the fun was very clean

  8. #68

    Re: how do women see bisexual men?

    Quote Originally Posted by sysper View Post
    ...doesn't sound like the fun was very clean
    Clean bodies, filthy minds

  9. #69

    Re: how do women see bisexual men?

    As competition!

 

 

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