Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

[lizard-lix]

Being Pansexual is a bloody joke / lie / delusion (take your pick ) ....You are either Bisexual or you are NOT !!!

Like Thacher29 said, Maybe we shouldn't get hung up on labels. But I have no idea what you are going on about. Bisexual is usually defined as having sexual attraction to both men and women while pansexual is defined as have sexual attraction to any gender or identity (I.E. male, female, M-> trans, F-> trans, GF, etc).

I have been attracted to folks in all of those categories, which is why I label myself pansexual. I don't know why must be a lie or delusional... If you don't like pansexual, just call me equal opportunity

[csreef]

Like Thacher29 said, Maybe we shouldn't get hung up on labels. But I have no idea what you are going on about. Bisexual is usually defined as having sexual attraction to both men and women while pansexual is defined as have sexual attraction to any gender or identity (I.E. male, female, M-> trans, F-> trans, GF, etc).

I have been attracted to folks in all of those categories, which is why I label myself pansexual. I don't know why must be a lie or delusional... If you don't like pansexual, just call me equal opportunity

If you are pansexual, why are you posting on Bisexual.com . Why aren't you on pansexual.com, if it exists? If not why don't you start your own web site for that purpose?

[lizard-lix]

If you are pansexual, why are you posting on Bisexual.com . Why aren't you on pansexual.com, if it exists? If not why don't you start your own web site for that purpose?

Sorry, this is simply silly, have a great day!

[cslutt]

I had a twin brother and as early as 4 we played with each other. A simple reason? It felt so fucking good! Thrills and chills fondling each others cocks and balls, then taking them in our mouths and sucking on each other. It made our sexcitement throb and feeling our penises swell was just fantastic! We had an older sister who would tease us but she was bi and had girlfriends. They taught us how to 69, showing us how they did it. But, it was more intense on our knees instead, one concentrating on sucking and the other concentrating on achieving 'the feeling'. Of course, that all changed when we started cumming... the feeling plus shooting hot fucking cum!

[fred derf]

I was the younger of three brothers, we were maybe three yrs apart. as you can imagine j/o was very common. So I found myself checking out neighbors and pals that were also learning about their bodies.

[rajones]

I think I was born Bisexual, from an early age I loved every aspect of sex. My oldest memory was playing with my younger brothers feet, I was 4or5 he was 3 years younger than me, even then I felt something I liked. From there I just loved to hear or talk about sex or getting naked. AS a kid I took swimming lessons I really enjoyed being in the locker room and seeing boys my age and men naked, at the time I thought my feelings were strange and tried to hide them. At age 18 I moved from home and tried everything, found myself at the local rest area many a night. As time went on I got a job in a business that is not gay friendly, I am a mechanic. So I married twice and my current wife is the only straight person that knows I am BI. A month ago I hired a lesbian (unfortunately not at all into men) she has given me the courage to come out as Bi. I am not going to run around and tell everybody but I am not going to put up with the gay hate that fills my business. Long story short, I feel as I have always been BI, but more importantly a pleaser to both sexes.

[borntosuckcock]

I think I was born a bisexual. I can remember being fascinated by older men's cocks in the showers at the mobile home park we lived in and at the showers at the public swimming pool. I wanted to touch them and I wanted to suck them. At about 8, I made my first move in the showers at the pool and scored some interest. I was fearless and craving cock, even at that age.

[12voltyV2.0]

My reason for being bisexual is what Lady Gaga said: "I was born this way" but it does go much deeper than that---suffice to say for me---my bisexuality has more to do with things of a spiritual nature than one purely resting in the physical.

[pole_smoker]

Being Pansexual is a bloody joke / lie / delusion (take your pick ) ....You are either Bisexual or you are NOT !!!

There are people who are pansexual but they are sexually attracted to animals and do other sick, and illegal things sexually.

The whole failed argument of "bi=2 sexes, and only sexually attracted to men and women, but pansexual = attracted to ftm/mtf" is mistaken, and transphobic.

A lot of people who use the term pansexual, or just sexual do this to avoid actually coming out and identifing as bisexual. Or because they think terms like pansexual or just sexual, etc. make them edgy, cool, etc.

[pole_smoker]

I had a twin brother and as early as 4 we played with each other. A simple reason? It felt so fucking good! Thrills and chills fondling each others cocks and balls, then taking them in our mouths and sucking on each other. It made our sexcitement throb and feeling our penises swell was just fantastic! We had an older sister who would tease us but she was bi and had girlfriends. They taught us how to 69, showing us how they did it. But, it was more intense on our knees instead, one concentrating on sucking and the other concentrating on achieving 'the feeling'. Of course, that all changed when we started cumming... the feeling plus shooting hot fucking cum!

Fucking sick. You and your pedo "family" belong in prison. My bad, you would enjoy it too much. You all need to be castrated, and on a sex ofender registry.

[rajones]

I think I was born this way. But will admit I am terrible at sports, and did not want to play sports when I was a kid. That made me think I was different at a real early age. Still to the day enjoy many manly things but sports not at all. I did enjoy wrestling, either watching or actual wrestling. My family was open about sex, never gay sex but sex was talked about a lot. As far back as I can remember I liked seeing all people naked.

[abc123jd]

for me in IMHO , I think it was unresolved childhood sexual abuse was sodomized at 6 or 7 went on a few years, was molested again at 12, And at times have pchycosematic pain hurts bad in my anal area. But feel that I am like a moth to a flame. Having a woman watch me suck cock or get fucked when she gets turned on. Somehow in my mind takes the shame away for me. When woman watch and get off on it. Please no flaming me just truly my honest opinion of what turned me bisexual in my late 40's.

[thatcher29]

for me in IMHO , I think it was unresolved childhood sexual abuse was sodomized at 6 or 7 went on a few years, was molested again at 12, And at times have pchycosematic pain hurts bad in my anal area. But feel that I am like a moth to a flame. Having a woman watch me suck cock or get fucked when she gets turned on. Somehow in my mind takes the shame away for me. When woman watch and get off on it. Please no flaming me just truly my honest opinion of what turned me bisexual in my late 40's.

If you have found a woman who supports and accepts you as you are, then you are a very lucky guy. Flame you? Heck, I think most of the guys here would trade places with you.

[abc123jd]

thanks, I know Im very lucky she loves me enough to accept me as I am, and gets soaking wet seeing mm sucking and fucking. Thought people wouldnt understand or think sex abuse was a copout for being bi.

[Bi_Dave]

I'd like to see those videos!

[Clancy]

I'm just curious but I think more bi because I get off more from gay porn than straight porn. And I come up with different ways and positions for guys to do things. What made me this way could be two reason. Number one....as a baby I was told my aunt used to change my diapers along with her two sons. I was told that she would play with their dicks just to watch them get hard I asked if she ever did that to me but I didn't get an answer people just put their heads down. And 2 when I got older my sister was always calling me gay or you are a fag and this and that... Then I don't know I got the idea to want to suck my own dick so I tried it but can't I even thought about putting my own dick in my ass but can't because my dick is worthless and little that's when I started thinking what it would be like to suck a dick or have one in my ass and it went from there. Thinking about all kinds of things bi and gay guys do.I even gotten to where I like seeing uncut cock and want to play with one! Call me whatever you want I don't care! Just because I like certain kinds of cock only. Some asshole shots.My main interest is women!I like dick might like it more if i get a real one to suck or in my ass but I will always love pussy.! I just and only like cock as long as they are white! Don't let me leave this out! Me and a friend sucked each others dicks a few times a day every day until I moved 3yrs worth of dick in mouth. Then north Carolina me and a different boy my age tried the same thing but hiding place sucked no pun intended! We just finished sucking each other off then tried anal I think I went first being bent over.. I do remember getting caught when he bent over and I was trying to get my dick in my little friends ass. How did we learn that so early and where from?

[delpark]

I don't know. Sucking cock and enjoying being nude with a male friend when I was reaching puberty may have something to do with it. I've dated a lot of women, married three and pretty much enjoyed the sex.

I dated a woman with a doctorate in Psychiatric Nursing and she told me that everyone is born bisexual. I thought that may explain my desire to suck cocks. As it turns out, I feel sexually fulfilled with a man. I still love seeing tits and ass on a woman, but prefer making a man cum.

[oldoralman]

I enjoyed playing with a fiends cock in high school, then took off after pussy and got married. Our sex life dwindled down to almost nothing after the first 20 years. I needed it bad. Not wanting another lady since I loved my wife,, I went after cock as I enjoyed it in my teens. This didn't happen till I was In my 60s. I love sex with aam, but still miss it with my wife.

[joris]

I know what caused to me.. blowing for the first time. It was something that a friend suggest and i said "why not". I enjoy it so much that a start blowing cocks for pleasure.

[kutag]

I think is was my underwear, when I married and moved out of my parents house where I had 5 brothers, I brought new skimpy underwear I could not wear at home. My small G Strings always gave me a hard on and I used to look in the mirror at myself. I wore my G Strings to the beach and started to shave my cock and balls, I soon added a cock ring to keep a hard on, loved showing off my wet and see through G String to everyone. I would visit Swanbourne beach here in Perth a nude one, a trip up into the sand dunes and I came across two guys sucking each others cocks a first for me. From then on I would go into the dunes and play with guys cocks and them mine no sucking just a wank, but it was far to risky for me, did not want to end up in the newspapers or court. So I started to go to a gay bathhouse/sauna where I could relax and touch other men's dicks a have mine played with, loved the steam rooms where you could not see who was pulling or sucking on you. It took me years working up to having the guts to let a guy fuck me. When it did happen it was in the porn theatre room it front of others, doggie at first and then I laid on my back and wanked myself off to a great come while he fucked me. Still only been fucked once but long to do it again.

[csreef]

^^^^ ​Your underwear made you become Bisexual. . . Interesting.

[Joboo]

You tell me, I had no interest even though a friend and I had jerked each other off many times in our youth. He initiated it and I couldn't say no. Once I started seeing lots of girls and they started letting me do sexual stuff I abandoned him. We remained friends and hung out in the same group still. He tried a few times but respected my wishes.
At 18 or so I had been on a frustrating date and ran into him when I drove back into the neighborhood. We drank some beers and I had told him about the girl and he suggested we get some more beer and park. I kind of knew what was coming and didn't care, I felt at worse he would jerk me off and I would return the favor, it had been 4 years or so.
i was correct and when he started feeling me up I let him, he had my jeans around my ankles and was just slow jerking or mostly teasing my hard dick. I felt bad after a while and reached for his and he immediately pulled his jeans and underwear down around his ankles. It was dark but you could see and when I reached for his penis he was very erect and much larger. I mean we used to be about the same size and now he was way bigger than me. I remember measuring way back and being disappointed I wasn't 6 inches, I was about 5.5 and skinny. I was a sports star and tall and lean and muscular and he was a skinny guy that people would call nerdy. As I stroked his dick I was fascinated although he was only a little over an inch longer it was so thick my fingers didn't reach around it. It had a small slow curve downward and was really attractive. I kept complimenting him on it and he didn't seem to think it was so big. I got him to position so we could hold them together, we used to rub our dicks together long ago. His was huge and it felt so warm against mine but he didn't want to stay laying in the seat since we could see if someone came up.
He sat up and we continued stroking each other and I was just staring at it and getting closer to coming from looking at it. That was about the time it hit me that I wanted to taste him, I wanted to suck him. We had never done it when we were young. I had moved right next to him and told him how much I liked his dick and how good it felt. I had moved so close our faces were very close because I didn't want to say very loud what I wanted. As I moved closer to whisper it to him he turned and started kissing me, I didn't want that but I let him. He had slipped his tongue in my mouth several times and while I wasn't on board it wasn't that bad, he was a little fem. I pulled back from him a little and just told him, " I want to suck you so much" and just dropped my head down and started.
i loved it, it was so hard and soft at the same time. He then wanted to lay in the seat so he could suck me and we did for a moment but were afraid of being caught. Plus I was so close to coming I had to stop him. I knew if I came first I would lose interest. He leaned back on the door and I went down between his legs as he held my head in his hands. He was moaning and telling me no one had ever done this to him. He started arching and warning me he was going to come but I just started going faster. I expected it to taste bad and spit but it didn't and I took all of him. Listening to him had me about to come. I kept sucking him for several minutes after he came hoping my dick would calm some but as soon as he took me in his mouth I came as hard as ever.
We must have sucked each other everyday for the next two weeks. It continued until we were 23. About a year after we started up again he informed me he had no interest in women. I on the other hand was constantly getting new women.
He became on of my regular fuck buddies, I usually had two to three regular girls and him. The girls sometimes changed but not him,
he was always there at least once a week.
He found someone at 23 and we parted ways, never looked for another although one opportunity did arise I took advantage of a few years later. I had lots of guys come on to me over the years but never moved on it, just didn't feel right I thought at the time. Years later I wish I would have explored more.

[sysper]

mmmmm that was a pretty hot story. so good u got to have a friend u could play with for awhile. must of blown ur mind when he put his tongue in ur mouth! or maybe not it didn't sound like it was too big of a deal for u. but i know i fantasize about that! still just nice to be able to trade bj's. hope u find another friend soon, sounds like u could really enjoy it

[bw299]

OK this comment should bring up some debate: I am attracted to cock; love sucking cock and cum. That's it. I'm not attracted to men; absolutely no desire to kiss, cuddle, do anal. I don't go all "ga-ga" over a handsome man (by anyone's definition), but I'll swoon should he flash his magnificent cock. Therefore, I don't consider myself to be truly bisexual. I have had some agree with me, while others vehemently disagree. According to Merriam-Webster, I'm bisexual because I am "sexually attracted" to both men and women. But according to the Urban Dictionary, I am not because "...but bisexual means you can be attracted to both genders sexually, physically, and emotionally." I am not emotionally and physically attracted to men, only women.

I've been attracted to cock from the age of 9 or 10. My first m2m sexual encounter was at age 10.

What's the verdict?

[Joboo]

OK this comment should bring up some debate: I am attracted to cock; love sucking cock and cum. That's it. I'm not attracted to men; absolutely no desire to kiss, cuddle, do anal. I don't go all "ga-ga" over a handsome man (by anyone's definition), but I'll swoon should he flash his magnificent cock. Therefore, I don't consider myself to be truly bisexual. I have had some agree with me, while others vehemently disagree. According to Merriam-Webster, I'm bisexual because I am "sexually attracted" to both men and women. But according to the Urban Dictionary, I am not because "...but bisexual means you can be attracted to both genders sexually, physically, and emotionally." I am not emotionally and physically attracted to men, only women.

I've been attracted to cock from the age of 9 or 10. My first m2m sexual encounter was at age 10.

What's the verdict?

i don't use labels in these situations because I don't think there are any. I went along with him kissing me that first night as not to blow, haha, the situation. I was really wanting to suck his dick, way more than I wanted mine sucked. After that it was clear to him I was in it for the head. I have never been attracted to the guy just his dick. I firmly believe had his dick been an average dick like mine he we would just jerked each other and most likely never have had any contact again. The same type thing has happened to me only one other time. I have had about 20 or more MFM's and only been attracted to one other guys cock beside his. I just think it's odd. I'm attracted to a really slim guy with and bigger dick than mine that is just a little feminine. If I was to come into contact with shemales I would probably never come back. Never had one but I've seen some that I might move to Mexico with.

[csreef]

Your Sexuality is your own...YOU define it, for what works for YOU.

OK this comment should bring up some debate: I am attracted to cock; love sucking cock and cum. That's it. I'm not attracted to men; absolutely no desire to kiss, cuddle, do anal. I don't go all "ga-ga" over a handsome man (by anyone's definition), but I'll swoon should he flash his magnificent cock. Therefore, I don't consider myself to be truly bisexual. I have had some agree with me, while others vehemently disagree. According to Merriam-Webster, I'm bisexual because I am "sexually attracted" to both men and women. But according to the Urban Dictionary, I am not because "...but bisexual means you can be attracted to both genders sexually, physically, and emotionally." I am not emotionally and physically attracted to men, only women.

I've been attracted to cock from the age of 9 or 10. My first m2m sexual encounter was at age 10.

What's the verdict?

[acscomps]

I am exactly the same way

[thatcher29]

OK this comment should bring up some debate: I am attracted to cock; love sucking cock and cum. That's it. I'm not attracted to men; absolutely no desire to kiss, cuddle, do anal. I don't go all "ga-ga" over a handsome man (by anyone's definition), but I'll swoon should he flash his magnificent cock. Therefore, I don't consider myself to be truly bisexual. I have had some agree with me, while others vehemently disagree. According to Merriam-Webster, I'm bisexual because I am "sexually attracted" to both men and women. But according to the Urban Dictionary, I am not because "...but bisexual means you can be attracted to both genders sexually, physically, and emotionally." I am not emotionally and physically attracted to men, only women.
I've been attracted to cock from the age of 9 or 10. My first m2m sexual encounter was at age 10.

What's the verdict?

In this case, the Urban Dictionary is full of shit. Do I have to be in love with a man to suck his cock? I would change the quote to "...but bisexual means you can be attracted to both genders sexually, physically,OR emotionally."
Again, it's just labels, which are pretty much meaningless.

[Christopher South]

Both the Klein and Kinsey scales allow for heterosexual emotional attraction and homosexual sexual attraction to end up being bisexual. I plugged in emotional attraction as ONLY heterosexual and it still gave me a bisexual rating.

I've heard this from a lot of guys... absolutely NO emotional/romantic/physical(looks) attraction to guys yet still like sexual interaction with them. If I think about the guys I have been with I can't say any were handsome, very few were in real good shape and socially I wouldn't hang around with most due to differences in politics and outlook of life in general, but I loved their cocks.

[cuttin2dachase]

I think my adventurous nature and open attitude toward sex were the main reasons I explored my bi side. It helped that my 1st wife and I were swingers and she kept coaxing me and encouraging me to try oral sex with our bi male 3some partners. The first time I was ever naked with another man and felt a man's hands and mouth on my cock and then stroked and sucked his cock, I felt quite comfortable and very turned on. The truth is, I would have enjoyed it even if my hot slutwife had not been there to watch and join in. After we split up I was eager to explore my desires and fantasies about 1 on 1 sex and group sex with men and I've never regretted it !