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    Lightbulb Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    I had been visiting some LGBT forums and there's almost as many different theories about what causes gay people as there are gay people. Hormones, experiences as a fetus, relationship with parents, imprinting, DNA, etc. etc. etc. So I started thinking about my own situation. I'm 68 years old and comfortable as a mature bisexual male. The easy answer for me might be that it's because my brother and I enjoyed masturbating ourselves and each other when we were teenagers. But that seems a bit simplistic since a whole lot of kids participate in those sort of activities and if they all became practicing bisexuals when they got older, then this site would be a lot more crowded. The youthful fooling around might have introduced me, and it certainly let me know that M2M sex was enjoyable, but there has to be something more. Lately, I have begun to believe that my bisexual lifestyle comes from having a very curious personality. I'm the sort of person who has always wanted to try different things. Growing up, I was always reading books, particularly about things i knew nothing about. Back in the 60's and 70's, I experimented with drugs. I never did a lot of any type for very long but I did try most of them. I've traveled to at least 50 different countries all over the world. Even though I'm an atheist, I combed through various religions and their texts. So I think that's my personal reason--always wanting to try new things, feel new sensations, and have new adventures. So what about you? Why do you think it is that you are a bisexual?

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    I think it is something that you are born to be...Also I think it has to do with the fact that in my family we all have very high sex drives...

    For what it is worth, after my oldest brother died, we all came to the conclusion that he was Bisexual also.

    My personality type is that I enjoy taking risks,(closet Adrenalin junkie) so exploring my sexuality was something that I wanted to try.
    Last edited by csreef; Apr 4, 2017 at 7:54 PM.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    Quote Originally Posted by csreef View Post
    I think it is something that you are born to be...Also I think it has to do with the fact that in my family we all have very high sex drives...
    Thanks for the reply. I hadn't thought of that. Yes, even at my age I think I still have a fairly high sex drive. I guess that's certainly a factor.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    In my opinion, I think that everybody's reasons for choosing bisexuality are different. Speaking for myself, I have always had curiosities ever since I was a teenager, just had been afraid to acknowledge them, let alone act on them.

    The way I think of it, (and I would like to believe that most everyone would have this common) is the one most important thing that we all hold dear is our own personal freedom. We are free to make decisions for ourselves, and we have that right to pursue that happiness if that is what makes us happy. For me, it is all about FREEDOM!

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    What caused me to become bisexual was cock. I loved sucking cock from the first and still do.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    hmmmm a few things i think. if u wanna call me bi, at this point in my life i'm still questioning. and i think that's a big part of it. i've allways tried to question everything in life. never assume, not allways doing what everyone else is doing. or not doing. it took me awhile to affect my sexuality. but i'm so glad it did! it means i'm opening myself up to the possibility of a pleasure i might not of considered if i was more homophobic like most everyone else seems to be lol. also makes me a more wellrounded person to be open to both sexes. which i like. which i also hear could make me a better lover. which i really like! i think it also leads to a certain sense of freedom. i'm not dependant on 1 fixed role in society, my opinion & personality matters too. kinda going along that line i admire bisexual women, they got a certain openess to sexuality so i'd be kinda hypocritical if i didn't at least consider it for myself. of course that can lead to admiring bisexual men too. also to be honest i kinda wanna keep my options open. it hasn't been going so good lately with women for me & it can be frustrating. maybe men can satisfy some of my needs. so kinda out of necessity. also considering guys is a thrill for me. it's definately not wrong but, in my mind it's still kinda against my nature. maybe partly because i haven't done it. i might keep trying if the thrill is there, that would be the reason for it. but what if that feels natural to me? would that mean it would be boring or i would have a new appreciation for it? so many questions lol hopefully answered soon finally i think i'm looking for a certain closeness with people. male & female. i'm wondering what role sexuality has to play with that? definately not with everyone & not to the point we're sharing orgasms lol. but even something like flirting that's not meant to go farther than that, or something like that.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    For me, I think a big part of it is that I've always been pretty open minded. I don't subscribe to or believe in the word "normal"; to me, there is no such thing. At best, it's a relative term. If there is a "normal, then normal for me is different for you and different for someone else. I'd never had a thought about anything other than women until I was 18, and I'm not really sure what changed or why. Did what I could to bury those feelings for a long time, but finally started allowing myself the space to live that open minded philosophy that I had been previously been happy to apply to everyone but me.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    as u can probably tell by the previous post i've also been pretty openminded at least i've tried to be. but it's taken so long to apply that to my sexuality. looking back in my life even in my teens i think i might of felt urges/drives that were homosexual in nature. i don't know why i never recognized them as that, if i was confused or in denial. maybe a little of both. maybe not at all i don't know. also like u i came to an age when i felt those urges for what they were, although for me the age was 22. i was face to face with those feelings. also like u i'm not really sure what changed or why. i felt confused, embarassed, guilty, ashamed. but i couldn't deny i was turned on. but why? at that point in my life there was no way i was gonna admit to myself i like guys in any way other than platonic. the feelings came in phases over alot of years, each time thinking each phase was gonna be the last. but as i got older & maybe more comfortable or mature the time between phases got shorter. over the past several years it has been pretty constant. it's been a rough & interesting journey. i'm still confused & i still go between various phases of heterosexuality & homosexuality. though it's more fluid. i'm still working to understand it, explore it, accept it. but at least now i know there is a journey & i got every right to be on that journey. that is the "normal" as u would say for me. looking for the right guys to go on part of that journey with me holding hands, maybe something else
    Quote Originally Posted by msw645 View Post
    For me, I think a big part of it is that I've always been pretty open minded. I don't subscribe to or believe in the word "normal"; to me, there is no such thing. At best, it's a relative term. If there is a "normal, then normal for me is different for you and different for someone else. I'd never had a thought about anything other than women until I was 18, and I'm not really sure what changed or why. Did what I could to bury those feelings for a long time, but finally started allowing myself the space to live that open minded philosophy that I had been previously been happy to apply to everyone but me.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    It just felt normal. I have always been attracted sexually to both sexes.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    I think I've always been bisexual. I wasn't always sure, but looking back I know I always was.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    I think when I tied up with my gf of 10 years.. she gradually worked me into it.. first watching her suck and fuck other guys then having me touch or feel them or lick and taste her after and during.. One thing led to another and I actually started helping her get her lovers hard and licked and sucked them or her and with her. She loved when her lovers did her doggy and let me lie there under them licking and tasting and making them wilder. I have actual vids of that which are very hot and erotic to watch..Has anyone else been brought into it this way?? Would love to hear !

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    I lean towards "born that way". I had no exposure to homosexuality when I was a kid... no exploring with friends, no sexual abuse, "normal" exposure to heterosexual porn but realized viewing that stuff that I liked both the guys and females.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    When I was 5 my 5 year old neighbor and I sucked each other's dicks.
    Ever since that day I have been drawn to giving and getting oral.
    Even though I'm attracted to women, I've always known that I like dick.
    Not attracted to males as much as women, but show me a stiff prick and
    my mouth starts watering.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    Quote Originally Posted by BeachHound View Post

    The way I think of it, (and I would like to believe that most everyone would have this common) is the one most important thing that we all hold dear is our own personal freedom. We are free to make decisions for ourselves, and we have that right to pursue that happiness if that is what makes us happy. For me, it is all about FREEDOM!
    After I became comfortable being Bisexual, one day I thought to myself, You are living life on YOUR TERMS. Basically I am a Free Spirit, in that I choose who I want to be with at the time. Yes sexually I am !

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    I do not believe in born with it. It is all situational in your life. I would never had considered my self bi in the least. I was the he man football player in high school and college. In my case it was my ex wife asking if I would suck a cock for her. We were on the way home from swinging with a couple were the ladies got it on together. I tell that moment I never thought about it but has never stoped sense then.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    I think it is something I was born with. As a 12 year old boy, I loved porn just as much as my friends, fascinated by any (cock or pussy) genitals. My friends and I would masturbate as a group together. One day, Tom asked about sucking, what we thought about it. It did not take more than a few minutes before we were sucking each others cocks. When it was my turn to suck, I just dove right in and enjoyed it from the start. It seemed very natural to me, as natural as masturbating. i enjoyed it regardless of whether I was giving or receiving, I just knew that I wanted to do it even more than masturbating. And when we were done, I could not wait until the next time we were together. I wanted another chance to suck and be sucked. All during this time, I was still VERY turned on by anything to do with girls. So, yes I was BI. There was no thoughts about sucking being just a release or girls not being good enough or anything of the sort. It was all just sex to me, anything regarding cocks or tits or pussys got me hard instantly and I would masturbate if alone or have sex with who ever I was with, girl or guy.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    For me I think it was just an evolution. I remember always being horny. I got my first hard on in church as a kid! Later i remember trying to get other kids naked. I didn't know what to do after.
    I wasn't sexually active until I was out of school, not for a lack of trying. But it was the 60's. Everybody fucked!
    I think the first time I thought about sex with other guys was in the late 70's and early 80's. the cocaine years and often I would be alone with my coke and copies of Penthouse Letters & Forum and all the stories with bisexual play among men were all dogeared from multiple readings.
    Thankfully quit coke but my bisexual fantasies continued unfulfilled.
    After years of personal growth I was far removed from the yoke of religion and at peace with myself and I started writing sex stories to explore my sexual awakenings and desires.
    Over my entire I have been a big fan of masturbation. Even after a date where I got laid, I would go home to jerk off, often thinking about what would the sex I just had be like with another man.
    Around the summer of 2015 a fan of my stories contacted me to say how much he liked the story. Long story short I decided that I was hornier than I was afraid and we ended up hooking up and it was life altering. When that first cock touched my lips I knew that it was natural and there was no reason people of the same sex couldn't be bad or wrong.
    Sex is for our pleasure and anything willing adults do together is natural and should be explored and celebrated.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    This is the way sex should be looked at. I wish just more people so open in their thinking and outlook.
    Quote Originally Posted by 69plus1 View Post
    Sex is for our pleasure and anything willing adults do together is natural and should be explored and celebrated.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    For me...I never would have dreamed I'd enjoy sucking cocks, but one evening my girl introduced one of her vibrators to my ass. At first I squirmed as if I didn't want her to insert it, but really I realized I not only would LET her insert it...I craved it! We broke up not too long afterwards, so my bisexual desires died down. I was afraid to even mention them to new girlfriends.
    But the desire persisted...so I began to watch bi porn, and bought a dildo to use on myself. I actually learned to deep-throat with it. after several years, I finally found courage to meet a guy I found on a bisexual site and sucked my first cock. I must admit, I was hooked on sucking from then on. The ONLY thing that keeps me from sucking a cock every day is the fear of AIDS. Otherwise, I love cocks.
    I'm training my butt to accept various sizes so when the time comes and opportunity arrives, I will hopefully be able to accept a real cock with much pleasure and no pain.
    I don't think I was born bi...it was something introduced to me by an adventurous woman!

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    I don't know if this would be considered being bi but when I was just five years old me and a friend the same age would find a place nobody could see us and we would give each other bj's. Sometimes he would start first and sometimes I would start. But mostly I would start,one day I remember I got on my knees and pulled his red swimming trunks down just enough to expose his dick.I put it in my mouth and rolled my tounge around it a few times and started sucking it I remember it being limp and can't remember if we got hard or not but we did this everyday a few times for three years until I moved to North Carolina. By this time I was like six or seven..I met another friend and we did the same thing as my last friend. But this time we tried anal sex. I was the first one to bend over and speed my ass open. He couldn't get his dick in me and so I tried. I still can see him bent over and spreading his ass. I has my dick in my hand and the head was at his hole but couldn't get it in..then we got caught. Shortly we had to move again... Moved to Orlando Florida and met an older friend...we were talking about sexual stuff and I asked him if he can cum,he said that he could and asked if I can see him do it, he told me no . After that I dated girls. Years later I started using a computer. I was in my late 20’s now...I would look at all different porn. Straight porn mostly, then I thought about watching bisexual porn, I was interested in it and it got me hard. I then started looking up gay porn.. I really didn't like gay people until I started watching gay porn. I thought if I watch bi porn with two guys and a girl then gay porn is basically the same thing but no girl..now I don't mind gay people. I could definitely be friends with either bi guys or gay guys don't matter now I like both but I'm not attracted to guys at all. If one or the other comes around me and asks about being friends...no problem. If they ask to suck my dick I would gladly pull it out and tell them to GI for it and ask if they spit or swallow. If they want to fuck me or me fuck them, I would go for it! But if they cum in me I want to do the same to them. If they pull out and cum on my ass or on my dick I'm doing the same thing. If they cum in me then lick it out then I guess I would do it too. I just can't see myself kissing a guy. I don't know if I'm just curious or if I'm bi,but like I said.. If one or the other asks me if they can suck my dick I would not turn them down..only thing is, is I better get to return the favor... I really want to try to 69 with another guy either on our sides or directly on top of each other that way the cum can go into our mouths. I love anal play and watching it done. The only thing I don't like about guys having sex is the one receiving is his dick is flopping around. If I was the one giving I would jerk the one off I'm fuckin.I like watching cock docking and frotting I think that's how it's spelled. Where guys put their cocks together and jerk off. I don't like facials or guys that cum on someone. Or someone that spits cum out after the guy cums in someone's mouth. I would swallow it. I like watching a guy and a girl share a dick too! I would do it! I also look at both man and women asses in porn. They look the same but one has balls below it and the other has a pussy. I would gladly put my dick in a guys ass. again I said before. I'm not in any way attracted to guys I'm attracted to cocks,pussy,and ass. People that I know don't know that I like cock and ass. They think I'm all about women. I'm mostly into women but if it came to it..yeah I would go the whole nine yards! People can call me whatever they want I don't care! Another thing I like is watching a guy suck two cocks at once! I want to do that but I want them both in my mouth at the same time and for them to cum in my mouth either the same time or one then the other. So people,can you tell me. Am I just curious or am I bi? I have sucked cock before and asked my friend if I can watch him cum... Tell me what you think. I don't care who says what call me weird if you want but I like women and only male cock and ass if shaved. Call me gay curious call me bi curious or like I said... You guys call it and me what you want. I can take it! So was I born bi or what am I? Please help because I don't know!
    Last edited by Clancy; Apr 7, 2017 at 3:23 AM.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    hey u sound like ur clear on what u like. u might be too concerned about what to call it. since u would like some kinda sexual experiance with men & women i guess it technically in some sense makes u bisexual. but i wouldn't worry too much about the label. just be open to meeting the right people & doing things with them. the right people will just enjoy being with u. take a cock in ur mouth if u wanna, don't kiss a guy if u don't wanna. things will become clearer the more experiance u have in the real world. ur not weird at all or if u are ur no weirder than me lol. i'm also pretty confused about my feelings for guys but i know i have got them. so u & me are kinda in the same boat. might take sometime for both of us to feel comfortable but time & experiance will make things ok.
    Quote Originally Posted by Clancy View Post
    I don't know if this would be considered being bi but when I was just five years old me and a friend the same age would find a place nobody could see us and we would give each other bj's. Sometimes he would start first and sometimes I would start. But mostly I would start,one day I remember I got on my knees and pulled his red swimming trunks down just enough to expose his dick.I put it in my mouth and rolled my tounge around it a few times and started sucking it I remember it being limp and can't remember if we got hard or not but we did this everyday a few times for three years until I moved to North Carolina. By this time I was like six or seven..I met another friend and we did the same thing as my last friend. But this time we tried anal sex. I was the first one to bend over and speed my ass open. He couldn't get his dick in me and so I tried. I still can see him bent over and spreading his ass. I has my dick in my hand and the head was at his hole but couldn't get it in..then we got caught. Shortly we had to move again... Moved to Orlando Florida and met an older friend...we were talking about sexual stuff and I asked him if he can cum,he said that he could and asked if I can see him do it, he told me no . After that I dated girls. Years later I started using a computer. I was in my late 20’s now...I would look at all different porn. Straight porn mostly, then I thought about watching bisexual porn, I was interested in it and it got me hard. I then started looking up gay porn.. I really didn't like gay people until I started watching gay porn. I thought if I watch bi porn with two guys and a girl then gay porn is basically the same thing but no girl..now I don't mind gay people. I could definitely be friends with either bi guys or gay guys don't matter now I like both but I'm not attracted to guys at all. If one or the other comes around me and asks about being friends...no problem. If they ask to suck my dick I would gladly pull it out and tell them to GI for it and ask if they spit or swallow. If they want to fuck me or me fuck them, I would go for it! But if they cum in me I want to do the same to them. If they pull out and cum on my ass or on my dick I'm doing the same thing. If they cum in me then lick it out then I guess I would do it too. I just can't see myself kissing a guy. I don't know if I'm just curious or if I'm bi,but like I said.. If one or the other asks me if they can suck my dick I would not turn them down..only thing is, is I better get to return the favor... I really want to try to 69 with another guy either on our sides or directly on top of each other that way the cum can go into our mouths. I love anal play and watching it done. The only thing I don't like about guys having sex is the one receiving is his dick is flopping around. If I was the one giving I would jerk the one off I'm fuckin.I like watching cock docking and frotting I think that's how it's spelled. Where guys put their cocks together and jerk off. I don't like facials or guys that cum on someone. Or someone that spits cum out after the guy cums in someone's mouth. I would swallow it. I like watching a guy and a girl share a dick too! I would do it! I also look at both man and women asses in porn. They look the same but one has balls below it and the other has a pussy. I would gladly put my dick in a guys ass. again I said before. I'm not in any way attracted to guys I'm attracted to cocks,pussy,and ass. People that I know don't know that I like cock and ass. They think I'm all about women. I'm mostly into women but if it came to it..yeah I would go the whole nine yards! People can call me whatever they want I don't care! Another thing I like is watching a guy suck two cocks at once! I want to do that but I want them both in my mouth at the same time and for them to cum in my mouth either the same time or one then the other. So people,can you tell me. Am I just curious or am I bi? I have sucked cock before and asked my friend if I can watch him cum... Tell me what you think. I don't care who says what call me weird if you want but I like women and only male cock and ass if shaved. Call me gay curious call me bi curious or like I said... You guys call it and me what you want. I can take it! So was I born bi or what am I? Please help because I don't know!

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    The thing is I haven't done anything with another guy yet. I am really wanting to but I'm really shy and nervous about it since I'm grown up now. I don't have an attraction to guys it's just the cock I like and have grown to love looking at,plus getting into being interested in looking at asses too but as long as they are shaved! I'm pretty sure that if I was approached by a guy that asked me to suck my cock I would probably go for it...or if I could encounter a male and female couple and they both wanted to suck my dick I would be blind folded for a min and take it off if the guy was sucking my dick I would probably watch him do it and ask if I can blow my load in his mouth.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    To quote Lady Gaga: Baby, I was born this way!

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    Quote Originally Posted by lizard-lix View Post
    To quote Lady Gaga: Baby, I was born this way!
    I think you may be onto something, but It also depends on society, and the area that you grow up in, and a few other factors, too.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    Quote Originally Posted by csreef View Post
    I think you may be onto something, but It also depends on society, and the area that you grow up in, and a few other factors, too.
    Not really, I knew at about 10 that I liked both boys and girls and that I was not going to be universally accepted. I knew that my parents wouldn't like it (and when I got caught with a BF, that got proven true!) and a lot of other wouldn't like it either, but I was who I was and I had sex with like minded people. I was sexually attracted to both boys/girls, men/women as soon as I realized what attraction was. When I found out about other genders and identities, they were the same.

    So I really was born this way, and nothing society or others think or do will change me. They might change my actions (getting married changed my actions, we discussed it, she wanted traditional, so I went back to straight and was monogamous for 35 years, until my wife and I agreed to change the rules and let me go out to play with others), but they won't change who I am, how I think or what I'd like to do.

    I'm bisexual, well really pansexual, through and through.
    Last edited by lizard-lix; Apr 7, 2017 at 5:30 PM.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    Being Pansexual is a bloody joke / lie / delusion (take your pick ) ....You are either Bisexual or you are NOT !!!

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    Quote Originally Posted by csreef View Post
    Being Pansexual is a bloody joke / lie / delusion (take your pick ) ....You are either Bisexual or you are NOT !!!
    Maybe we shouldn't get too hung up on labels. They are more often used against us than for us. We live in times where even if a guy has sex with his wife three times a day, and has two mistresses on the side. if he gets caught sucking some guy's cock in a bathrrom, it will appear in the paper the next day that he is gay. Bisexual, pansexual, trisexual,--I don't care. Hopefully some day we can all live in a world where we can just be sexual.

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    Quote Originally Posted by thatcher29 View Post
    Hopefully some day we can all live in a world where we can just be sexual.
    I can live with this .

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    Re: Question: What do you think caused you to become bisexual?

    Not being mean or anything but I don't care what people call me. Before I used to not like gay people at all and within the past several years as a matter of fact it was when I met my now ex girlfriend. She had no idea that I would be looking at bi and gay porn sites.. I knew something wasn't rite with me! I'm a freak and I concider myself as a living nightmare. But it's whatever. It really came out in the open about how I was and wanting to try. She was put off by it. Oh well,I'm not attracted to guys or kissing that's a turn off for me. But I started to realize everything when I lost my son and nobody wanted to be around me...I would also try to suck my own dick but can't that's bullshit! I have really low self esteem. I was already into eating my own cum and anal play by myself. I used to look at bisexual and gay porn on the computer all the time. I his it from her told her it was a friend we knew....but I got to the point of where gay people are great. I just don't like kissing or anything like that. I told my ex girl I want to experience what a woman or man would experience like the pulsating when a guy cums in your mouth. I want to see what the difference is between a dildo and a real cock. It's gotten to the point to where I love watching guys fuck and suck each other. I love it all! I really like seeing cum fly from a dick. I don't care what people call me.. Call me bi. So! Call me gay. So! I will always love pussy more than anything! But I also like certain cocks. Ones I don't really care for is hairy,veiny,or curvy. But it is what it is.. If a dick is too big it won't be going in my ass! I will suck the guy off twice and swallow both loads and want him to jerk off and cum on my ass!

 

 

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