Originally Posted by
Realist
TT, my very first intimate relationship was with an older neighbor. It took me a year to convince him to start me on my sexual journey. He was at least 50 years older than me, but was absolutely the best mentor to help me understand who I was.
No one ever knew to what extend we were involved, though. So, we were never confronted with anyone else's opinions.
The next experience wasn't as easy.
A few years later, I rented an apartment, run by an older retired nurse. I was invited to her birthday party and afterwards we began to be intimate. She was 62, when I was 23, but again, I could not have chosen a more interesting and sensual person to be with. She was an amazing lady, remarkably virile and taught me things I never knew existed!
If you're touchy about people's snide and uncouth comments, you might not be able to handle it. People are often very opinionated and even cruel towards anyone dating older/younger folks.
Some guys from work saw me with her one Saturday night, waiting in line to see a movie and, Monday morning, I had to endure some crass comments! Things like, "Did you and GRANNY enjoy the movie?" to "Where did you find that Cradle-Robber?" to, "How dry is a 90 year-old pussy?" to, "Did them big ol' titties hit the floor, when she took her bra off?"
Really stupid, insensitive, things to say about/to anyone!
I had learned by then, if you ignore assholes like that, they will usually get tired of bugging you and lose interest. I don't care what they thought; I wouldn't trade either of those experiences for anything.
I promise you, I learned more good from them, that has helped me for the rest of my life!
Don't worry about what anyone else thinks, just do what you feel is right for you and her!
Good luck!
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