There is another thread going where someone commented "I like married men, safer." The discussion was regarding STD's (so not really commenting on the "guys who have as much to lose as you" discussion).
I'm curious as to how many of you believe this to be true. For my part, when I started exploring, I thought the same thing. But as time went on and the issue of hosting and availability reduced the number of guys I could meet, I became more inclined to meet with single gay/bi guys. In fact, probably half the guys I have had sex with were single guys.
Now, you may say that was my choice, but what about the guy who contacts me, learns I'm married and assumes I'm "safer" because I'm married? Am I any "safer" than a single guy?
What are your thoughts?