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    Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I'm 38, male, and love to travel, party, hike, go on adventures, EDM festivals, and I'm really looking for a male FWB. Maybe even a real relationship (instead of just hooking up) So I'd love to find a younger guy maybe late 20's who can keep up with my lifestyle and be a companion AND a sex partner. Is that weird or very common? Will I find what I'm looking for? Just now starting to explore this side of myself so I am a little shy about getting out there.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I know plenty of men who probably fantasize about different ages and I'm sure those relationships can happen but bear in mind that a guy as young as 18-24 is still defining who he is as a person. Hopefully by 29 he's started to work that out - it really depends on the people involved and the circumstances.

    If you mean do real relationships exist between two men the same way straight people have relationships? Yes. Hopefully, otherwise I might as well not even date. I know some male partners who have been together for a long time.

    Age does make a difference to some degree, one of the first people I dated was an older man who believed that women were the cause of a lot of the problems in this world. I suggested to him that just like he didn't ask to be born gay, they didn't ask to be born female, and he agreed, but then kept on complaining. We are still good friends now, but a relationship just isn't going to happen.

    I also had one guy tell me that although we had some common interests he was old enough that he wouldn't want to start a relationship where he would pass away first and leave me alone in the latter years of my life.
    Last edited by elian; Oct 29, 2016 at 10:23 AM.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    You will find a great number of May/December gay/bi relationships on Silverdaddies.com Some are looking to hook up, but some are seeking long lasting relationships.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    Yes I'm on a website silverdaddies lots of young men into older men gays bi's as older into younger

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    Yes I was always into older guys still am though the target age for older is always creeping up ;o)

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    I'm 63 and get a lot of interest from very young men 18-21. They practically beg to suck my cock, but I'm leery that they're looking to try to overpower & rob an older man. I tell all of them I'll need to see proof of age because I don't play with jailbait and find that many of them are underage because they make excuses that they lost their ID's or don't have a drivers licence. A few times I've agreed to a hookup then they tell me they'll need 10 or 20 bucks for gas money LOL So as far as young men go, I don't trust the 18-21 year olds and much prefer married men 30 or over. I'd still meet a young guy if he is mature and can produce ID and doesn't want to get paid. I meet a few men who are 30-50, but the great majority of my meetups are with married men who are 50 or older. All of my semi-regular FWBs are 48-60.
    Last edited by cuttin2dachase; Oct 30, 2016 at 12:59 PM.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I am in my mid 30's and love to play with guys 50 and up. My first time being fucked was a much older guy when I was a teen, so older guys make me so hot. they suck better and fuck better and are less nervous and more into it. Got me hard just thinking about it

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    When I was younger I was always into guys in their 40s. They were experienced, mostly not timid and at ease with their attraction to people of the same sex, and still very virile, masculine, and good to go. And I love hairy male bodies, and they had usually "grown in" well by that age.

    Now that I'm older I'm still into men in their 40s! But they are not so into me any more. However, I do get a lot of interest from younger guys in their 20s, which ain't all that bad...

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    My first time being fucked and sucking cock was in my mid teens and with a guy in his 40's. It wasn't planned but I was turned on by the age difference as it made it feel even more taboo.

    I was young, drunk and ended up being fucked bareback several times over the course of a night. Not sensible but hot as hell and still gets me rigid many years later

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    This string raises two points about older/younger with which I agree -- there are a lot of younger guys seeking 'daddy,' and, like cheeks, I see them on silverdaddies all the time and have been hit on by a few. But cuttin' raises another issue -- young hustlers looking to score money off an older guy they see as an easy mark or sugar daddy. I've been with a few younger guys, none of them hustlers, thank god. And lots of fun. However, they aren't as stable as older guys and, in my limited experience, are focused on that daddy/son thing. Don't mind the role play between the sheets, but outside of the bedroom, let's be equals -- guy to guy, ok? Just not into extended role playing. And not into drama, which is why I prefer guys my own age -- within ten years north or south. Older guys get it about playing safe, discretion and just getting down to getting each other off.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    u bring up alot of good points. as far as guys go i'm definately sexually attracted to younger guys. but like u i'd rather just be hanging out with another regular guy outside of the bedroom. even between the sheets the idea of being someone's "daddy" is a bit creepy for me. i'd rather be with just another guy, who happens to be younger & nothing more. though i am openminded & i guess i would consider at least trying it for the right guy. i never really considered there are young guys out there looking to hustle older guys. definately something to consider. i do not want to be with anyone m or f who doesn't wanna be with me just for me. otherwise it's a waste of money for me, also time & it's a lie. also gotta keep in mind older guys are stabler. general rule but that's the advantage of being with someone older. but then that someone older is being with someone younger lol. so someone around my age might be good. i'm not attracted to older guys but i'd be open to a guy around my age. also a very good point about playing safe. the older a guy is, the more he tends to take safe sex more seriously. if i ever get a younger guy in bed with me i really hope he does too, well any guy for that matter.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    You expressed it a lot better than I did, particularly on the 'daddy' thing -- not quite a creep-out for me, but it is off-putting when it goes on and on outside of the bedroom. Prefer to be equals, no matter the age difference. And if that happens with a younger guy, so much the better. What matters to me is maturity -- which isn't necessarily an age thing -- being comfortable with your sexuality, discretion and a respect for boundaries and safe play. And a great cock I can play with.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    My Gay Lover is 13 years older then I. I prefer it that way

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    The oldest guy I have sucked was 89! I love older! My friend is 74, haso a lovely cock... that I service every chance I get.. .. my preference is older men... younger women lol... figure that one out!

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    my preference is: do them all! Age is a number. My favorite number is : 69 I have met some delicious young guys that are very much into it. I have met older guys who are barely into it any longer. So instead of limiting myself I just do who I want, when I want, where I want.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    Try Silver Daddies .com

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    It started when I was a kid sucking older men I could lure, it still feels good to get older cock to suck.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I am now at that age that I have younger guys hit on me, and so often, they talk about that "daddy/son" thing. It is kind of a turn off to be sure. I have gotten with some younger guys and it was fun, but thankfully with those guys--they didn't fixate on the daddy son dynamic---they just liked to be with me and I liked to be with them.

    It really is kind of crazy----there are all these odd things out there with people like the daddy/son thing, same for BDSM, dominate/sub and such--all that turns me off and makes me uncomfortable.

    Just take me for what I am, and I will take a person for what they are--no fixating on or fetishizing such things as far as I am concerned.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I like gay/bi guys aged from 45-75 and in decent shape and endowement.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I recently met a 45 year old who likes older guys. It turns him on to suck my cock and of course I get turned on by returning the favor. Who would think at 60 I would be approached by a younger person who craved my cock.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I had my first experience was at 8 or 9 and it was with a man in his 30’s. I’d been jerking off every chance I got as a kid and thinking about the men’s larger cocks I saw in the public showers at the trailer park we lived in and in the changing room at the public swimming pool. I wanted to suck them all, I was totally fascinated by there size compared to mine. My first time I was invited and he was wearing baggy shorts, just like me. I’d played with his daughter, so we knew each other. They were gone shopping for the day. To make a long story short. He thought he seduced me, but I knew exactly what I wanted. I sucked him off and it was like a sense of everything being as it should. I started to blow older guys from the public showers in their cars. Since I started with much older men, I just stayed with sucking guys that were always much older. Never much in to sucking guys my age when they were young, why suck little cocks when I could suck big, older men’s cocks and they cum. Plus, I knew they would never tell anyone, like guys my age might.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I'm so so so attracted to older men. Even when I was younger in my early teens for some reason I liked older men. I'm not sure why. I did have my first experience with a 51 year old when I was about 14. It was nice he was very delicate with me in really taught me about pleasing a man.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I would love to find one. I had an experience with an older guy, it was several firsts for me. First time a guy sucked my dick and first time I ever came in someone's mouth. He was about 40 and I was 16. He had skills that none of the girls had that had blown me. I had been sucked by several girls and never ejaculted, I always ended up fucking them. He spent 15 minutes convincing me to let him and I came in about a minute. Oh yeah, first time I had my balls sucked on.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    Not just some men, but lots of men are into older men, especially bi married men who love to suck cock or are very curious to try. I am 64 and meet lots of married men who seek and prefer older men to suck off. The great majority of younger men I meet are 45 or over, married, not getting sex from wife at home. Not surprisingly, the great majority of those married men either had sex with older men when they were young and unmarried or they had always been curious about sucking cocks and became excited to try it when their wives were no longer interested in giving or getting oral sex. I occasionally meet very young men but only if they demonstrate maturity. But it's rare for me to meet one who is truly sincere and hot to play. They all say they adore being with older men because we are experienced and can teach them things about mm sex. But most young guys 21-25 who contact me are very immature and have ulterior motives. They will ask upfront for "gas money" or if they can stay with me all night or longer. That's a huge red flag. Naturally I decline the meet because they probably are the type of guys who see older men as being more willing to be sugar daddies as well as being weak and easier to rob, extort, or otherwise harm.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    Im 73 and the friday after thanks giving i meet up with a 33year old who fucked me good he likes older guys

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I am now 66, and at the age of 63, I had a session with a guy who was 23 at the time. I currently have a guy of 28 who is very interested in meeting me, and we'll probably see each other this weekend. He recently ended a 5 yr relationship with a guy who is 71. I am just grateful that there are younger guys out there who like older men.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I myself have my regulars who are all either the same age or older. We are all married and very clean and love mutual encounters. 2 of them are in sexless marriages so between my wife and myself we tend to their needs. The oldest of the group is 64 9 yrs my senior and is the horny one of our group of friends. Older guys comes with no baggage and we all know what each other wants. They also tend to be more Disease free and are not normally trolling craigslist for hookups. I love that we all can get together and are comfortable with each other.

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    Re: Are some gay/bi men into older men?

    I'm 25 Years Old, & The First Thing I Look For In Any Person Is How Old They Are I Expect Them To Be 21 Years Old To 35 Years Old.

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