Is there any ways any one knows of for straight guys to try stuff without any one finding out?
Is there any ways any one knows of for straight guys to try stuff without any one finding out?
If you are having sex with men or want to you're not hetero/straight at all.
there you are pole-smoker putting in your 2 cents
What you may want to do is approach someone you know is Gay, and to explain to them how you are exploring your sexuality...They may get the hint and well...
What csreef said. It makes a lot of sense. I'm sure you know a guy who is gay. If not, ask a lady who you know is gay - she knows gay guys for sure.
To the point.
Yep, try sucking/fucking a dildo or vibrator. :-)
If you're finding yourself trying ways to work the dildo/vibe?
What kind of porn do you enjoy and what do you think about when watching?
Galion is a brand name of a company that builds machines AND a type of sailing vessel. Not a gay lion.
My suggestion is to seek out gay guys. I hadn't sucked a cock for a long time (since I was about 10)...and denied to myself that I was Bi. The urge was always overwhelming, though. Finally, a few years ago, I succumbed to temptation. I blew a gay guy, who introduced me to his friends....who, in turn, introduced me to others.
I now have a network of cocks to suck. Some even "straight". I can't get enough. Fortunately for me, a load of cum is usually now only a phone call away.
If you really want to suck cock....you need to get out there and just do it. You might find you really like it, like I do. I still date women, but a hard cock to suck is my real favorite. Especially if I can arrange a three-way with a good cock and a women. I love to suck cock in front of a women. So hot.
Um, well, first you never experiment with anyone who is close to your friends or family lmao!! I've had a lot of encounters with random men, and none of my friends or family have ever found out that I have M2M sex! Its my own little kinky secret!
If you want to be secretive, live and cruise around in a different city that's at least 3-4 hours away! Find your type of guy in either random 'cruise' areas (ie adult theaters), classified ads, or on here and never give your real name if they ask!
And be committed to what you're going to do! Nothing is worse than a top or bottom that seems legit, but end up having second thoughts right in the beginning of sex!
I've had several encounters, with random men, over the last few years. As far as I know, none of my friends have ever found out that I enjoy man to man sex, including receiving a blow job, or that I enjoy being a cocksucker, or that I enjoy sex with other men or women! It is my own, sexual preference and my own secret! If you want to be remain secretive, you might want to find a different city, that is a good distance away! There are many people out there who are seeking the same!
It is good, to keep your identity a secret and if you are emailing a person, use a different email ID, rather than the one, that you use for family and friends! After awhile, if you are able to find a good friend, you should be able to establish some trust with each other! Also you must be committed and to have an open mine, to what you are going to do!
I just believe that the human body was meant to be pleasured and enjoy all genders! There is nothing worse than having second thoughts right in the beginning of any new sexual experience!
I do enjoy chatting with others in the nudist lifestyle and like chatting with other Cross Dressers or those that enjoy being with a Cross Dresser!
Try an adult book store with glory hole booths or an adult cinema. Just be careful. I try to find other guys with a wedding ring, so they have as much to lose as I do. Have fun
Find another guy who is predominantly hetero like you are. They are all over.
Maybe try a gay sauna?
Yelp will guide you to gay bars/clubs in Your area
Write me and let's see what happens - i won't tell anybody!
found something on the subject might be cool, probably geared more towards women but think most of it could apply to guys too http://www.thetalko.com/15-rules-for...r-bicuriosity/
Somebody in the closet wants to know how to contact someone with the same interests and still remain in the closet. Sorry, that would be a magic trick. You will have to meet someone somewhere who will know about your wants. It will probably take more than one person. They'll want to know if you are a top or bottom, oral and/or anal, what you look like and what you are packing. You will be sharing more personal information with a stranger than you have ever shared with anyone before you even know what they look like, their name, where they are from, and all sorts of things.
I'm trying to get a group of senior men together where I live for social meetings and a support group. So far I've had 12 men share their email addresses with me. Some have given me their names, phone numbers, where they live, and other assorted information, and they don't know me. One guy wanted to get together with me and just gave me his email address, which was a pseudonym, to start off and wanted me to meet him at his house. When he gave me his address I was able to find out who owned the home (it was him), his real name, his job, his picture, that he was divorced, the names of his children and pictures of him with his children. I was even able to find out his phone number. When I shared this information with him he was at a total loss. He could not believe that with a little information I knew decades of his history. And he is in the closet. If the information I gathered about him was released he would lose his job and probably be disowned by his children.
If you are going to meet someone, do not use your real name, email address, your location to meet, or any other identifying information. All it takes is for the person to be dissatisfied with any rejection from you and that information can be used against you. Create a new email address from your ISP, Yahoo, GMail, Outlook, or some other source. Do not meet them at your home. You are probably better off to meet them in an adjacent town and definitely at a neutral place where you can walk away without any consequences if the attraction is not there. You'll be all cool about it, hop in your car and drive away, not realizing that he captured your license plate number. What information can he gather when he calls the police or DMV to report a hit and run? I really don't know the answer to that, but wouldn't be surprised if there is information available.
Have fun exploring while you remain in your closet. I'm out. My wife knows it. She knows when I go to meet someone. She knows when to expect my return.
What part of Illinois, I am in St. Louis county
I'm just outside of Marion, Illinois, about 100 miles south-southeast of St. Louis.
I live in Pekin,IL
I think you will enjoy it,I know i did
You may wish to find an LGBT center in your area and hopefully sit in on a Bisexual Support group meeting.
These groups, and LGBT centers in general, are very helpful in a lot of different ways.
I find guys online and out of town. Discretion is a must for me, if someone is to close no matter how hot I think he is I decline. Good Luck!
If meeting online, no matter what, never ever ever send the face pic so many want you to. If the guy you meet online is genuine, they won't expect you to do that. You can arrange to meet at a neutral place once you have had some interaction online. Another person here made note of the license plate...very good call. Meet in a mall, or a busy downtown area, or a museum...something where he can't see you pull up and park and/or leave. I may sound over cautious, but when it comes to potentially ruining your life by meeting someone you don't know who then holds a massive secret of yours, you can never be over cautious. Read up on STDs...most guys thing a BJ is harmless. Guess what, you can get some STDs from receiving a BJ, not just giving one. SAFE SEX always.
Post an ad on Cl that is specific to what you are looking for.
Include a hobby that you wish to center the relationship around. For example, I am a motorcyclist - camper guy. My ad includes this for the purpose of meeting another guy who rides motorcycles. My girl friend does ride with me, but not for the majority of the time. If I am riding with a buddy.... that is perfectly natural. If it is your goal to have an on going situation, this strategy has worked for me and it would for you too. Here is an ad I have used in the past and just posted it for this purpose:
Take your time. You have been in the closet for a long time. Be careful, discuss these things in detail with your prospects. Once you get to the point of wanting to meet in person, don't flake out. Show up. Be honest in your desire of a one time thing or an on going thing. Or perhaps you don't know.
Just do it. It is easier than changing banks. Satisfying your curiosity in private is ok. There are naysayers here that will tell you that having some MM fun is cheating. That is their opinion. There are plenty of other reasons to keep this in the closet. (20 years in the closet and very comfortable in here along with millions of other married guys.)
Just be careful and go have fun.
Another ad that has produced good prospects is seeking a "strip club wing man" who is curious. Who doesn't get horny watching women take their clothes off in front of horny men?
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You are close enough to Gunnison Beach, try going there for a day. If you want more info send private message.