Originally Posted by
cuttin2dachase
To me cheating is not about who you cheat with, but about why you cheat. In most cases one spouse or bf/gf simply wants more sex and/or different sex than his/her mate wants or would be willing to try. In the case of bisexual men and women, their mates can't satisfy same sex desires simply because of their physiology. Women don't have the dicks that bi and gay men want and crave. Men don't have soft bodies, breasts and vaginas that bi or lesbian women want and crave. I've always thought it was justifiable if a person is in a committed but less than sexually fulfilling relationship and seeks casual or kinky or same gender sex from others with no desire to fall in love or dump a spouse or gf/bf. If outside sex makes a person happy and fulfills sexual desires and does not affect an otherwise loving relationship, it's better than being miserable and unfulfilled and causing arguments and actually adversely affecting the relationship.
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