Originally Posted by
douggie77
Basically, the main reason that I'm looking for str8 guys is because I want there to be ZERO chance of someone ending up looking at me with romance in their eyes. After someone blasts a load down my throat, I'd want to see relief, or happiness, or contentment, something like that. I would be horrified to see googly love eyes. I'm also not at all attracted to effeminate guys, and though I've never knowingly met any bi guys, I have met a number of gay guys at work, and most of them seem either slightly to wildly effeminate, or go the other way and try to be some kind of caricature of a lumberjack, or motorcycle gang member, or whatever. I just want to find someone pretty normal, the kind of guys that I've played hockey, with who are just pretty down to earth, "one of the boys", and like getting head more than they're otherwise getting - so much so that they're not too picky about who's doing the sucking.
Yes, yes, I know that some people think that if you're getting blown by a guy that you're not str8, but I think that's BS, and certainly not at all in accordance with the views of modern sex researchers. One's sexual orientation is who you're attracted to, not who or what might get you off. If a guy is getting blown by a guy because he wants to be blown by a guy, well, that's bi or gay, but if he's getting blown by a guy because he likes head and guys are much more easily arranged than women, and he'd prefer a woman if it was possible, well, that's str8 to me. Many guys fuck silicone, watermelons, and warned up liver to get off, and they're not attracted to any of those things. Guys, and I know because I'm a guy, love to cum and can justify some pretty fucked up shit to get that accomplished. From all that I've read elsewhere, this kind of arrangement is far more common than thought, especially at points during guys lives when they're either too pressed for time to have a mistress or even get some random hookup at the bars, or at times when they're in relationships and the sex has died off (or they're just not getting BJs but love them) but don't want to "cheat" because they either love their wives, or don't want to get caught doing something that would lead to divorce. (Getting a blowie once or more a month at some guys home has a lot less risk of getting found out or getting STDs than having a GF on the side or seeing a hooker.)
Cuttin, I'm very much hoping to eventually land one of the very guys that you're talking about. I currently can't host, but am planning a move, as I said, and when I do, I'm planning to buy a house that's fairly secluded (I love peace and quiet, as well as my privacy), so I think that having someplace to go where you probably won;t even be able to be easily observed will make things even better for a lot of guys. I'd think that the temptation to get a BJ whenever you wanted one, from someone who's certainly never going to tell anyone, at a nice home where the neighbors won't even see you pull in would be hard to resist. I'm even thinking about finding myself a cocksucker kind of like that. Blowies on my terms where all I have to worry about is cumming sounds pretty good to me. Sometimes you just want it easy, and not have to worry about returning the favor, or courting, or social graces. I'd think that a ton of men would find that kind of situation, where it's all about them with no encumbrances, pretty fucking hard to turn away from.
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