After all there are so many male celebrities that men who claim to be straight say "turned them gay" or "they find more sexually attractive than girls". One example is Ricardo Milos.
Also you often talk about the Kinsey scale or sexual fluidity so it would theoretically be possible to at least notice you're bisexual, maybe not gay, but bisexual. Many bisexuals have discovered their sexuality in their 30s or even later
Of course it's possible even though many don't really believe that it is. At the end of any day, it's all about discovering and deciding what works best for you and some straight guys discover dick and decide that women, while nice and all that, don't hold a candle to what a man can bring to the table. I can't even count the number of times I've been with a formerly straight guy and he's wondering if what we just did has made him gay or the number of guys who wanted to do something but couldn't - because they were worried about being made gay. It's my position that you can't really make someone gay - it's a decision they make for themselves and just maybe they've been leaning toward homosexuality and whatever they experienced with me just gave them the "push" they needed to decide that they'd rather be gay than straight or bi.
We understand, to some extent, that sexuality is, indeed, fluid and that anyone can, if it suits their purposes and needs, slide all up and down the scale and as needed. But we're also of a mind that once we get to a place - say, from being straight to being bi - we're just stuck there and wherever you are can't be changed, like the many gay men who just do not believe that they could have sex with a woman - even thought their minds and bodies are telling them to get some pussy. What is to note is that while you often read or hear about celebrities saying stuff like this, anyone can decide that they're gay... or bi... or whatever they think is gonna work for them. Many people do not believe that choice has anything to do with their sexuality and to that, I say that while you can't do too much about the way you feel, you can do something about your actions and one does choose to act... or not... and in the way they want to act. So, yeah, a guy can "turn from straight to gay" if that's what he feels he needs in his life.
Finally, anyone - and at any age - can discover their sexuality and at any time. It's not unusual for anyone to be straight for portions of their life - then not be so straight. It tends to shock the living daylights out of those who are, as I say, late to the party - where did this come from? Why am I feeling this way when I've never felt this way before? Stuff like that. And everyone, at some point, decides what, if anything, they're gonna do about it, from nothing at all, to being bisexual, or to being homosexual - still depends on what they think, feel, and believe is the best course of action for themselves. I've seen and known guys to go from being straight to gay - because they thought this was what works - then back up and be bisexual... or go back to being straight. Sexuality is a hell of a lot more fluid than, perhaps, we really want to believe: Anyone, at any time, can change their minds about this and for whatever reason makes sense to them. What do you want to do? What do you need to do? What aspect of sexuality is going to work out the best for you? And, importantly - again - you can change your mind about your sexuality; we just don't think that's possible but it really is.
I think part of it, the "straight community" thinks bisexuals just havent come out, the "gay community" thinks bisexuals havent come out, each side wants you to pick a team.
I think, dont know, there are more people bisexual or bi-curious than there are in the other two camps, they just either have a hard time dealing with it, which I get and never act on it, or, because of societal norms they dont. So they end up chosing one or the other, but eventually want to explore the other side and come out
Its funny, girls being with other girls, then with a guy, fully accepted and applauded, in reverse, not so much in single people.
Couples, seems a different thing, I get couples that want to mess around all the time, and the wives are good with me being with their man, and the guy is okay with me being with their lady,but they both identify as straight
Is it actually possible to "turn" from straight to gay?
Well, yes, of course. Human sexuality is fluid across a lifetime. People change.
I doubt it. I don't think it is possible to lose one's attraction to the female form, or taste, for that matter.I Do believe it is possible to develop a taste for cock, though.
That's it right there. The female body is a thing of beauty, if taken care of properly. Men, not so much. But oh, I do love a nice cock in front of me. ;-)Originally Posted by colfax129
I doubt it. I don't think it is possible to lose one's attraction to the female form, or taste, for that matter.
One of the last times this subject came up, it created a massive forum war... lol..... a
my own personal opinion is that anything is possible, its just less likely that people will accept anything outside of what they want to believe aka sexual orientation can not change, only sexual attraction, ergo no male can go from straight to gay, they can only be bisexual while not attracted to females in any way and now fully attracted to and desiring males and they are clearly using the wrong label.......
I believe its fully possible for sexual orientation to change but its an individual aspect for individual people....now the kinsey is 70 years old, we have had some mindblowing advances in understanding the neuro make up of people, its how we went from the human brain to the male / female brain, to the male / female / trans brain to the male/ female/trans/ non binary / intersex brain etc........
The only thing more painful than a broken heart, is catching yourself in your zip and having very cold hands
I think thats tougher today with the internet and morenfluid porn, but when it was less accessible, you could have wandered through life without it interesting you and then become intrigued.
I guess my thought process is are we really turning from straight to gay, or are we more accepting that we are open to trying a different sexual experience?
My own experience is enjoying sex with a man was just an addition to my sexuality rather than a change. I don't feel any different in my interest in a woman. It's just that sex with a man adds additional experiences that I feel are just as pleasurable. It's an apples and oranges thing for me. You can't compare, just enjoy both.
Screw these so-called "communities" and their attempts to impose their sexual politics on others. I am going to be who I am and do what I want!
Fuckin' A! Life's hard enough without having to live up to the opinions and expectations of a bunch of dipshits. Gay men especially all think they're experts on sexuality. Everybody is different and we don't all respond the same way. For me, I have always been fascinated by women's bodies--breasts and pussies are marvelous things and a clitoris is magical. But having a cock in my hand or mouth is something I hope to always enjoy.
You're right. I went from absolutely straight to bi and now, after a prostate operation, I focus entirely on men---sucking cock, swallowing, and getting a good ass fucking. Where are you in Indiana? I'm just southwest of Indy and south of the small town of Monrovia.
I doubt I could ever become "gay" because women REALLY turn me on....when I was a little kid sucking cock was all I had, but when I found pussy I was an immediate convert. Not that cock is bad..but in many ways it can't compare to pussy.
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Yeah, well, sure - even before LGBTQ+ was ever heard of, I've had many gay men go out of their way to insist that I just be gay, that I'm really gay and I should stop denying it - other crap like that. There's still that push for bisexuals to all come out and to admit that they're really gay which, in my opinion, is utter nonsense. People are still gonna be the way they feel they need to be and no matter what anyone else has to say about it. And if a guy - or even a gal - goes from straight to gay, well, what's the big deal? Why is it being presented as a problem? I maintain that anyone, for any reason that makes sense to them, can go from straight to bi to gay - and back - because that's what they want to do. And if that's what they've decided and chosen to do, fine - whatever work and floats your boat. Is this some... agenda being pushed by some faction? Probably... and why do we, as bisexuals, even give a fuck about such an agenda? We are the way we are for the reasons we are and if we - any of us - wanted to change, we can.
I think it is more harder to go from Bi or gay to strait! Once you gotten into man to man love making, it is impossible to give it up!
No lol. Straight guys can have 'sudden' urges to bottom but that doesn't mean he'll go through with it nor does it mean he will automatically like it and do it for the rest of his life. Straight guys who top typically go for feminine sissies and passable tgirls and no so much 'masculine' guys
Sexuality is fluid but I would've thought straight individuals turning gay would've had suppressed homosexual tendencies and were living in denial prior to switching "sides". There's a common saying "the one you'd turn gay for", but it's just meant as a joke.... or is it?
I keep hearing these guys say: “I was completely straight until I was 45, then I had a hookup with a guy, and I was completely surprised how much I liked it …”.
I honestly think many straight guys just never imagine it.
They are not hiding, or in denial, they are just totally unaware of the ice cream on the menu.
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