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    Craigslist?

    I am new to all of this but extremely curious.i am married and woukd like who ever i meet to be top so i know it will stay discrete. I have been looking on Craigslist for awhile but never pulled the trigger has anyone ever had luck and if so can some of you give a few tips for a first timer. I am really not sure what i am into yet either will that be a problem?

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    Hi , welcome . I was in your situation less then a year ago. Married 40 years but under 60 and I became curious on what it would be like to suck cock. I had to be very discreet , what I did was talked to various people like we are doing now and they directed me to a local ABS adult book store or theater. Where I live if you go in the morning or around lunch time you have mostly married guys wanting the same thing , you go in you can do almost anything it is very dimly lit discreet no one knows who you are or cares. Craig's list is not the way I would go but that's me. Check out if you have any or these in your area, you can go in the first few times and just watch and see if that's what you want , good luck let us know how you make out I'm sure you will get some good advice here

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    Thank you. But i always thought those back rooms were just to watch videos?

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    The videos are there and might help setting the mood but trust me no one is there to watch videos ! Go for it but once you start it's addicting! Have fun

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    Ok but how do i know that they are really there for some action or to just watch the video?i am sorry for all the questions i just don't want to get embarrassed or offend anyone. Would it be best if i went and for a room alone?and maybe someone comes in. Again sorry for all the questions.

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    No problem , I was like you in November, I met a guy I was corresponding with on another site Zoig. I was asking about glory holes , after a few weeks I met at this place which features an adult store and what they call theatres . You pay $10 for the theater and go in , it is about five rooms with TVs on the walls playing all kinds of porn. Some rooms are straight some feature gay and about 5 glory hole booths. When I walked in the first sight I see is a guy sitting on a leather couch and some guy is on his knees sucking him . I thought are you kidding me but that's how it is . Depending on what you want to do is how you act. If I want to suck cock I'll sit on one of the many couches and sit on the edge , guys will come over and if you don't wave them off they'll take out there cock , at that point the rest is up to you. Remember it is dimly lit. Another option is the glory hole booth , go in close the door and at some point a cock will come through a hole in the wall ,it is yours to suck or not. The best way is to go and just watch ,you won't be alone.
    I have sucked over 85 cocks since November , like I said it's addicting

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    That sounds so nerve recking. It took me forever just to join and post something on here lol. I wish i could meet a cool guy have some drinks and see what happends then maybe venture off to something like that. But it seems like trust and the discrete thing really holds me back. Do u know or does anyone know a good spot is to meet even on here since obviously some are in the same boat as me. I want to try things but i guess just dont know what action to take to get there. I thought Craigslist was the answer but from talking to u i see thats not it.

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    Re: Craigslist?

    Well Hi ItsmeJJ,
    For one thing you might post a profile here. For another, you might respond to any inquiries you receive on this site. No profile makes it difficult for one to want to make contact. And if and when they do, please reply. After all, at that point your still not committed to doing anything and the correspondence you might establish might be enlightening. Please reply thank you

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    Re: Craigslist?

    My advice is to take it slow and steady. Dont feel bad about taking your time. You want your first experience (and all the subsequent ones of course) to be a positive one.


    It took years for me to navigate to my first experience. Paramount for me was to be able to trust and be comfortable with the person. I was fortunate to have a close friend as a mentor.


    As for adult book stores and theaters, not my thing. I think they are too risky, especially when it comes to STD's

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    Ugh I'm going through this right now .

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    It's nice to know i am not alone.are there any tips you guys could give for a first timer? It may help more people then just me

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    I've met some very nice guys on CR and on other sites, but for me safety and discretion are my two main concerns. if i look at CR i use an email address that is not my usual email address (use that for most sites that i visit BTW). also I don't give out name or phone # until I'm very comfortable with that person. basically i try to chat it up a bit to see what their likes/dislikes are and if they correspond with mine I try to meet for the 1st time in a public place for a drink or just to chat. a person on the 'up and up' won't have an issue with that. pictures are often requested, but i rarely just send someone a pic of me (for obvious reasons) but what you're comfortable with is up to you.
    i also put out profiles on some of the sites i visit and like. that way you can hopefully attempt to attract someone that has/wants what you're looking for, which will cut down on the amount of to and fro chit chat.

    i've also gone the ABS route, and when i did, i usually went in with plenty of tokens and left the door unlocked and flipped on a video (I know not the safest thing to do, which is why i haven't been there in a long while). anyway, if you're in a booth watching the vids and someone comes in and sees what they like you can usually get some sort of action.

    good luck with your search, and be comfortable with whatever surroundings you find yourself in. If you're not sure, don't do it.

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    Are they any other sites that younwould recommend? Or is that against the rules? And can u trade pics on here with people? Maybe that will help to break some ice and nerves or is that usally a thing u do after you chit chat a bit? Like i said i am new to this whole thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Itsmejj View Post
    Are they any other sites that younwould recommend? Or is that against the rules? And can u trade pics on here with people? Maybe that will help to break some ice and nerves or is that usally a thing u do after you chit chat a bit? Like i said i am new to this whole thing.
    I believe that there are A LOT of members on here who've shared photos. Since I'm older, also go to silver daddies and have the same profile name on there as well

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    Ok well a couple people private messaged me so i am also doing that. Butni juat want to make sure i dont offend anyone and i think i will do a little more with profile not sure about pics but who knows. I know i asked but any pointers once i do meet a person. And if any one want to provate message mw some pointers i am all ears. And i appreciate all of you so far helping out hopefully we get more reaponses i am loving it so far

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    Quote Originally Posted by Itsmejj View Post
    Ok well a couple people private messaged me so i am also doing that. Butni juat want to make sure i dont offend anyone and i think i will do a little more with profile not sure about pics but who knows. I know i asked but any pointers once i do meet a person. And if any one want to provate message mw some pointers i am all ears. And i appreciate all of you so far helping out hopefully we get more reaponses i am loving it so far
    The only pointer that I could offer is relax. If you an relax everything else will all into place. If you aren't relaxed, you won't be comfortable and if you aren't comfortable neither you nor your will be able enjoy the experience

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    Re: Craigslist?

    wow you are very lucky we don't have anyplace like this where I live wish we did as I would be sucking many guys too but I do love to suck guys so much...........

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    as for as craigslist I have tried but you may be able to meet one out of 30 guys then you are taking a chance just be careful just does not work very well............

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    I suggest meeting for lunch first. You never know who is out there and why. And is always cool if the can entertain, but remember, at their place they may be recording your fun and frolic and you might find on a porn site, or worse!

    Lunch & hotel until you get comfortable with them.

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    i've never had any luck with craigslist. i've answered tons of add's but rarely get a reply, even then it never goes anywhere. i think most of them are collecting pix or emails. the only guy who responded to me that was real & wasn't creepy was just not for me. but he was cool about it. allmost as bad as the w4m add's. but i heard it might be different in different cities & people have actually hooked up from craigslist. it doesn't hurt to reply to alot of adds if u got the time. but don't expect anything. take some pix of u to share for this but avoid face at least untill u trust a guy. doesn't hurt to put up an add either. but i'd put more effort on other webistes.

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    Craigslist is a real crap shoot. I'd say 1 in 20 are actually going to answer when you reply to a post and about half of them are looking for something else. The last time I connected with a guy he did give a nice BJ tho. He took my cum and kept on sucking for quite some time.

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    I've had lots of hookups from craigslist mmm,mfm, 3sums and one orgy and one gang bang which she turned out ending up as a fwb you just got to keep trying

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    Re: Craigslist?

    One way to meet possibly like minded person(s) is be a good citizen and volunteer at your local Pride center. At least you know the environment is with people of same sex thinking and they all have had to face difficulties coming out.
    I got lucky when told a friend I could keep a secret.. its been 8 years of FWB. If I was to start over I'd go to the Pride Center.. they want to help & they are fun. Relax, enjoy the journey of discovery.
    Don't worry, be happy!

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    I have good results with Craigslist by posting a add that is detailed with your stats age etc. And what you're looking for it seems to me the more details you include will get you good quality response.

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    Just for "the hell of it" I have both posted up ads on Craigslist and replied to those posted by others----with absolutely ZERO positive results. Now, that probably has to do with the area I currently live----but as far as I am concerned---if my results are any indication----I'd say that CL is not worth doing.

    Better to go to other gay/bi male sites like Squirt.org, Men4SexNow.com and many others. I have had pretty good results with both of those sites. Another one--sad to say went away when its owner/creator committed suicide a year or so ago, Dick.net. It was a great site, but like it's master---the site went away.

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    I've had luck on CL. I met three different guys. I just make my intentions clear if I'm nervous and looking to be discreet so the guys who are pushy and in a hurry avoid the ad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Itsmejj View Post
    Are they any other sites that younwould recommend? Or is that against the rules? And can u trade pics on here with people? Maybe that will help to break some ice and nerves or is that usally a thing u do after you chit chat a bit? Like i said i am new to this whole thing.
    Sounds like you've been to BiSexual Playground where they enforce all kinds of nazi tactics to intimidate their members of mentioning ANY other site....Here you needn't worry about helpful hints and other sites recommended...Welcome to site and Lifestyle

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    I've answered several ads but haven't had much luck either. I did have one that responded and came to my hotel. He was a very nice gentleman, a bit older and heavier, married, waned to be discrete. He came in the room, took off my clothes and started sucking me. Then he got undressed and wanted us to take a shower, so we did. Then we dried off, crawled in bed and we sucked each other for a bit. He was a bottom so I out on a condom and fucked him doggies style as I reached around and stroked his cock. He came very quickly. Then he got dressed and left me with a hard dick in my hand. I still have his contact info but doubt I'll contact him again.

    ive also tried swing lifestyle.com for couples and guys. I've had a few encounters with some couples there but that can also be difficult because swingers seem to get caught up on a bunch of rules and requirements...when All I want is for everyone to get off. Sex doesn't have to be so damn complicated does it?
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    Re: Craigslist?

    I've found CL to be hit or miss to the extreme. In the past five years, one of the best sexual experiences I've had was off a Craigslist ad for a hotel meetup that ended up being 4 guys, one of which I traded numbers with and got together with at least a couple dozen times, more than half of those involved his girlfriend.

    On the flip side, answered one from a guy who wanted a blow-n-go, and I wanted to get off. Showed up at a very nice house, knocked on the door, he invited me in, asked me to back up against the door while he did his thing. I didn't know you could suck a dick without using your tongue...worst blowjob of my life.

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    Re: Craigslist?

    I've used Craigs List a couple of times when I was traveling and was very pleased. Stated clearly what I was looking for and stats. Three days, three different cities and three different cocks. I'm mostly a cock sucker for married men with no favor needed in return.

    I've also done the adult bookstore glory holes and the theater which I also enjoyed glory hole is nice to see what you are going to suck if you don't like the way things look don't proceed no harm no foul. Like someone said earlier in the theater on the edge of my couch someone walks over and a cock is front of you I sucked him off sometimes you may end up with several. A theater can be real fun if someone is watching you perform.

    Relax, enjoy yourself and have fun

 

 

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