I don't mean to be a buzzkill here but as we get older we all have to deal with issues that effect our sexual performance. I'm not just talking about ED, but fast cummers, no cummers, loose vaginas, side effects from medication, age, you name it. I know we would all like to get hard on demand, be 8 inches, last 45 minutes, be ready again after a 10 minute break, have a tight and wet pussy, etc. but we can't always find that in a partner and we can't always live up to those expectations ourselves.
I guess my question is how important is it to you in the real world that all or most things go perfectly? Would you have a repeat encounter with someone you met that didn't, or can't perform optimally?
For example, I met a man and after a quick introduction he proceeded to suck me and it was great. After a few minutes I reached down to stroke him a little to keep him hard until it was my turn to suck him. He continued to suck me as I was gentling fondling him and after about another minute he said he was ready to cum. I hurried to get my lips around his cock and while I did get there in time to catch his load I was a little disappointed that he came mostly on his own, and not from me sucking him. Now he gave me great head and I thoroughly enjoyed it even though I wasn't able to cum in his mouth.
After he came he sort of lost interest in sucking me, but to be honest I have never been able to cum from a blow job. He seemed a little disappointed that he couldn't make me cum.
So here you have two men, one that comes too quickly then loses interest and another that you could never get to cum while you are blowing them. So, how picky are you?
I'm a "glass half full" guy and still call this a successful encounter and would see the guy again. I would accept either condition and would try to compensate.
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